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How do you prove that you're not a fake?
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"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy. "Me too | |||
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"I don't think I even try to. If they don't think I'm real then there is no point. " This. I’m not hot enough to be ‘faked’. Had a guy tell me I wasn’t real and he was reporting me (this was on k ik) and I even sent him a video of me saying his name, and nope. Still fake! I eventually went on cam and told him to fuck off. Weird how he then wanted to meet up with me! No chance  | |||
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"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy.
Me too "You'd use pics of a guy?! | |||
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"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy. "Exactly, why would I fake being old fat and grumpy? 
Still get the accusation though OR your pictures are Photoshopped! Yes, I Photoshopped them I'm really a size 10! (No offense to anyone that is a size 10)
Cockwombles everywhere! | |||
"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy. " | |||
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"i’d say go with your own gut feeling, if they’re verified by meeting in person then that’s a good start, but not a guarantee of course, profiles with no veris, no pics and no info on the description are obvious fakes to me." I met a couple twice near to me that have blank profile and shadow picture no verifications , because they don’t want any trace of them on the internet but still want to play. Sometimes if worth taking a chance I got cat fished by a couple with pictures and verifications. Arranged a meet twice and even rang them but turns out it was just the male of this broken couple even then it was all talk no action Sx | |||
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"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" I've never been asked to prove i'm real, although i suspect the chances of a male profile being fake are a lot less than that of a female profile. Verification's are a pretty good indicator, yes they can be faked too; i'd suggest someone with one or two could possibly be a fake, but 20+, more likley to be genuine. I dont think theres a hard and fast was. People will believe what they want to believe. I'm not in the habit of bending over backwards to convince anyone of anything. If they dont believe im genuine not much I can do or say. | |||
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"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" The can check our pics under a UV Light | |||
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""Who in the world am I? Ah, that's the great puzzle!' And she began thinking over all the children she knew that were of the same age as herself, to see if she could have been changed for any of them. 'I'm sure I'm not Ada,' she said, 'for her hair goes in such long ringlets, and mine doesn't go in ringlets at all; and I'm sure I can't be Mabel, for I know all sorts of things, and she, oh! she knows such a very little! Besides, she's she, and I'm I, and—oh dear, how puzzling it all is! I'll try if I know all the things I used to know. Let me see: four times five is twelve, and four times six is thirteen, and four times seven is—oh dear! I shall never get to twenty at that rate! However, the Multiplication Table doesn't signify: let's try Geography. London is the capital of Paris, and Paris is the capital of Rome, and Rome—no, that's all wrong, I'm certain! I must have been changed for Mabel! I'll try and say "How doth the little—"' and she crossed her hands on her lap as if she were saying lessons, and began to repeat it, but her voice sounded hoarse and strange, and the words did not come the same as they used to do:— 'How doth the little crocodile Improve his shining tail, And pour the waters of the Nile On every golden scale! 'How cheerfully he seems to grin, How neatly spread his claws, And welcome little fishes in With gently smiling jaws!' 'I'm sure those are not the right words,' said poor Alice, and her eyes filled with tears again as she went on, 'I must be Mabel after all, and I shall have to go and live in that poky little house, and have next to no toys to play with, and oh! ever so many lessons to learn! No, I've made up my mind about it; if I'm Mabel, I'll stay down here! It'll be no use their putting their heads down and saying "Come up again, dear!" I shall only look up and say "Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up: if not, I'll stay down here till I'm somebody else" Who are you?" *****WARNING***** ^^^^^^^^Clearly a cut and paste job ^^^^^^^^ | |||
"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" I spent a weeks wages just to go to a stp
And id happily do it agen | |||
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""Who in the world am I? Ah, that's the great puzzle!' And she began thinking over all the children she knew that were of the same age as herself, to see if she could have been changed for any of them. 'I'm sure I'm not Ada,' she said, 'for her hair goes in such long ringlets, and mine doesn't go in ringlets at all; and I'm sure I can't be Mabel, for I know all sorts of things, and she, oh! she knows such a very little! Besides, she's she, and I'm I, and—oh dear, how puzzling it all is! I'll try if I know all the things I used to know. Let me see: four times five is twelve, and four times six is thirteen, and four times seven is—oh dear! I shall never get to twenty at that rate! However, the Multiplication Table doesn't signify: let's try Geography. London is the capital of Paris, and Paris is the capital of Rome, and Rome—no, that's all wrong, I'm certain! I must have been changed for Mabel! I'll try and say "How doth the little—"' and she crossed her hands on her lap as if she were saying lessons, and began to repeat it, but her voice sounded hoarse and strange, and the words did not come the same as they used to do:— 'How doth the little crocodile Improve his shining tail, And pour the waters of the Nile On every golden scale! 'How cheerfully he seems to grin, How neatly spread his claws, And welcome little fishes in With gently smiling jaws!' 'I'm sure those are not the right words,' said poor Alice, and her eyes filled with tears again as she went on, 'I must be Mabel after all, and I shall have to go and live in that poky little house, and have next to no toys to play with, and oh! ever so many lessons to learn! No, I've made up my mind about it; if I'm Mabel, I'll stay down here! It'll be no use their putting their heads down and saying "Come up again, dear!" I shall only look up and say "Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up: if not, I'll stay down here till I'm somebody else" Who are you? *****WARNING***** ^^^^^^^^Clearly a cut and paste job ^^^^^^^^ "No really... I am Lewis Carroll | |||
"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" If you’re not sure, try pinching yourself. If it hurts, it’s ok; you’re real. You’re welcome | |||
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"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" Socials. Surely the most reliable way. | |||
"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy. "Exactly | |||
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"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy.
Exactly "That too, I'd be photoshopping my head onto Laura Prestin's body! | |||
"I’d happily take a pic holding something they suggest (within reason!!). I don’t vid chat or phone chat as too shy." I would also a cam chat or phone chat | |||
"I’d happily take a pic holding something they suggest (within reason!!). I don’t vid chat or phone chat as too shy. I would also a cam chat or phone chat " Phone chat proves nothing in my experience. I've had some timewasters who just love chatting on the phone but always manage to find a last-minute pathetic excuse not to meet | |||
"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy.
Exactly
That too, I'd be photoshopping my head onto Laura Prestin's body!"Oh behave!! | |||
"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" A simple phone call goes a long way | |||
"I’d happily take a pic holding something they suggest (within reason!!). I don’t vid chat or phone chat as too shy. I would also a cam chat or phone chat Phone chat proves nothing in my experience. I've had some timewasters who just love chatting on the phone but always manage to find a last-minute pathetic excuse not to meet " They aren't fake though. They still might not be the person in their pics though. | |||
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"I’d happily take a pic holding something they suggest (within reason!!). I don’t vid chat or phone chat as too shy. I would also a cam chat or phone chat Phone chat proves nothing in my experience. I've had some timewasters who just love chatting on the phone but always manage to find a last-minute pathetic excuse not to meet They aren't fake though. They still might not be the person in their pics though. " It all depends on your definition of fake... I'm pretty sure such people are not the people shown in their pics, which I would call fake | |||
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"It's not proving you aren't a fake that's needed. Most fakes are so blatant with porn site pics or stuff like "18 year old bisexual new mummy who can accom seeks real man" type blurbs they just are so glaringly obvious. " So I should change my blurb... Damn it!! | |||
"It's not proving you aren't a fake that's needed. Most fakes are so blatant with porn site pics or stuff like "18 year old bisexual new mummy who can accom seeks real man" type blurbs they just are so glaringly obvious. " Its quite shocking the amount of porn star / fitness models pics used in profiles. There the ones asking to send a pic with you wearing a red tie holding up 3 fingers whilst doing a headstand! | |||
"It's not proving you aren't a fake that's needed. Most fakes are so blatant with porn site pics or stuff like "18 year old bisexual new mummy who can accom seeks real man" type blurbs they just are so glaringly obvious. " Good point! It's crazy how many men fall for those profile though. | |||
""Who in the world am I? Ah, that's the great puzzle!' And she began thinking over all the children she knew that were of the same age as herself, to see if she could have been changed for any of them. 'I'm sure I'm not Ada,' she said, 'for her hair goes in such long ringlets, and mine doesn't go in ringlets at all; and I'm sure I can't be Mabel, for I know all sorts of things, and she, oh! she knows such a very little! Besides, she's she, and I'm I, and—oh dear, how puzzling it all is! I'll try if I know all the things I used to know. Let me see: four times five is twelve, and four times six is thirteen, and four times seven is—oh dear! I shall never get to twenty at that rate! However, the Multiplication Table doesn't signify: let's try Geography. London is the capital of Paris, and Paris is the capital of Rome, and Rome—no, that's all wrong, I'm certain! I must have been changed for Mabel! I'll try and say "How doth the little—"' and she crossed her hands on her lap as if she were saying lessons, and began to repeat it, but her voice sounded hoarse and strange, and the words did not come the same as they used to do:— 'How doth the little crocodile Improve his shining tail, And pour the waters of the Nile On every golden scale! 'How cheerfully he seems to grin, How neatly spread his claws, And welcome little fishes in With gently smiling jaws!' 'I'm sure those are not the right words,' said poor Alice, and her eyes filled with tears again as she went on, 'I must be Mabel after all, and I shall have to go and live in that poky little house, and have next to no toys to play with, and oh! ever so many lessons to learn! No, I've made up my mind about it; if I'm Mabel, I'll stay down here! It'll be no use their putting their heads down and saying "Come up again, dear!" I shall only look up and say "Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up: if not, I'll stay down here till I'm somebody else" Who are you? *****WARNING***** ^^^^^^^^Clearly a cut and paste job ^^^^^^^^
No really... I am Lewis Carroll "I was told you were Carol from Lewis | |||
"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem? Socials. Surely the most reliable way." I do this. I like to prove I'm real before that though. Seems to make it more likely they'll turn up. | |||
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"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" Short answer, I dont. If someone approaches me I'd suggest that they must think i'm real or they wouldnt have reached out in the first place. If I approach someone and they asked me to prove I'm real i'd point them in the direction of my veris and suggest they ask a few people ive met if im flesh and blood. If thats not enough, fuck 'em. Or not fuck 'em as the case may be..... | |||
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"Do you really think I would use this face if I was fake " yipits a beautiful face! | |||
"If I wasn't real I'd use pics of a hotter guy. "Is that possibile?  | |||
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Seriously though if anyone looks at our profile and doubts it they must be a bit strange as we have a hundred or so club social verifications haha | |||
"I think it’s usually pretty obvious. A chat on the phone pretty much proves it. I would be concerned that anyone who says they can’t for whatever reason is either fake, or unlikely enough to be able to relax enough to make whatever happens next as brilliant as it could be. I simply cannot believe the accepted reluctance to chatting to people in this manner, and then the continually whining about fakes and no shows. Above all I’m looking for consistency in the style of the profile, the content of any messages and a similar snappy phone conversation. Inconsistency between any of these communication styles indicates a greater probablility of a dreamer or schizo." We have never communicated by phone , cam , Kik or anything other than messages on here . This is our third stint on fab in seven years , and we certainly aren’t dreamers , schizo or fake . If people think we are fake it’s their choice . Like we are bothered ? | |||
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"If we were thinking of meeting someone we would prove there is a female here yes. " When I was on here as a couple I think I was even more aware of proving I exist. We never had a no show so it must have worked. | |||
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"If we were thinking of meeting someone we would prove there is a female here yes. When I was on here as a couple I think I was even more aware of proving I exist. We never had a no show so it must have worked. "
If I was a single male looking to play with a couple I would want to prove there is a female about to turn up too so we were happy to prove we were who we said we were, plus we didn't send or ask for pics so showing face on cam killed two birds with one stone.
I personally don't think it is too much to ask to prove yourself.
Having said that, it would only be proved to people we were thinking of meeting and not just because some random asked us to prove who we were | |||
"I don't think I even try to. If they don't think I'm real then there is no point. This. I’m not hot enough to be ‘faked’. Had a guy tell me I wasn’t real and he was reporting me (this was on k ik) and I even sent him a video of me saying his name, and nope. Still fake! I eventually went on cam and told him to fuck off. Weird how he then wanted to meet up with me! No chance "?? Well that taught him a lesson for being an idiot. | |||
"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" *I* don’t even know if I’m real anymore. | |||
""Who in the world am I? Ah, that's the great puzzle!' And she began thinking over all the children she knew that were of the same age as herself, to see if she could have been changed for any of them. 'I'm sure I'm not Ada,' she said, 'for her hair goes in such long ringlets, and mine doesn't go in ringlets at all; and I'm sure I can't be Mabel, for I know all sorts of things, and she, oh! she knows such a very little! Besides, she's she, and I'm I, and—oh dear, how puzzling it all is! I'll try if I know all the things I used to know. Let me see: four times five is twelve, and four times six is thirteen, and four times seven is—oh dear! I shall never get to twenty at that rate! However, the Multiplication Table doesn't signify: let's try Geography. London is the capital of Paris, and Paris is the capital of Rome, and Rome—no, that's all wrong, I'm certain! I must have been changed for Mabel! I'll try and say "How doth the little—"' and she crossed her hands on her lap as if she were saying lessons, and began to repeat it, but her voice sounded hoarse and strange, and the words did not come the same as they used to do:— 'How doth the little crocodile Improve his shining tail, And pour the waters of the Nile On every golden scale! 'How cheerfully he seems to grin, How neatly spread his claws, And welcome little fishes in With gently smiling jaws!' 'I'm sure those are not the right words,' said poor Alice, and her eyes filled with tears again as she went on, 'I must be Mabel after all, and I shall have to go and live in that poky little house, and have next to no toys to play with, and oh! ever so many lessons to learn! No, I've made up my mind about it; if I'm Mabel, I'll stay down here! It'll be no use their putting their heads down and saying "Come up again, dear!" I shall only look up and say "Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up: if not, I'll stay down here till I'm somebody else" Who are you? *****WARNING***** ^^^^^^^^Clearly a cut and paste job ^^^^^^^^
No really... I am Lewis Carroll
I was told you were Carol from Lewis "No, That's my 25 year old hot bod female profile... check it out! If you message me,Don't forget to include your bank details so I know you've read it properly | |||
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"Fab could do more to stop fakes but if they did then they would loose half there members." ..Best response of the day .... | |||
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"I’d happily take a pic holding something they suggest (within reason!!). I don’t vid chat or phone chat as too shy. I would also a cam chat or phone chat Phone chat proves nothing in my experience. I've had some timewasters who just love chatting on the phone but always manage to find a last-minute pathetic excuse not to meet " NEVer had a timewaster or a no show | |||
veri's to be faked.
Most of all though we turn up to a club. People know we're real 'cause we're there! | |||
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"People are clever at making fake profiles - Pics veris promises can all be faked. How do you prove that you're real? Do you make an effort to prove you're not a fake, or do you think that fakes are everyone else's problem?" kik offers video chat. You can confirm they’re real through it and look like the pictures they sent you. | |||
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"I usually post them a lock of my hair and some toe nail clippings" Oooooh... Very dodgy. They could do some black magic voodoo love doll type thingummie with that don'cha know?! | |||
"I usually post them a lock of my hair and some toe nail clippings" Yeah. Please stop. | |||
"I've just sent a message to a fake profile. I knew they were fake as they were using a photo that's of me! "Did you report them? | |||
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"I've just sent a message to a fake profile. I knew they were fake as they were using a photo that's of me!
Did you report them?"Yes I reported them. I also messaged them and told them they had nice tits! | |||
"I've just sent a message to a fake profile. I knew they were fake as they were using a photo that's of me!
Did you report them?
Yes I reported them. I also messaged them and told them they had nice tits! "Brilliant!! | |||
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"I dont think I do really. I'll call you if that helps if I must . Otherwise you take your chances on me being Big Sweaty Bob instead. " I'd take that chance. | |||
"I dont think I do really. I'll call you if that helps if I must . Otherwise you take your chances on me being Big Sweaty Bob instead. " Is Big Sweaty Bob the little spoon or the big spoon?  | |||
"I dont think I do really. I'll call you if that helps if I must . Otherwise you take your chances on me being Big Sweaty Bob instead. Is Big Sweaty Bob the little spoon or the big spoon? "Call Me lol | |||
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"I dont think I do really. I'll call you if that helps if I must . Otherwise you take your chances on me being Big Sweaty Bob instead. Is Big Sweaty Bob the little spoon or the big spoon?
Call
Me lol "Only to shine your latex | |||
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"I dont think I do really. I'll call you if that helps if I must . Otherwise you take your chances on me being Big Sweaty Bob instead. I'd take that chance. "Just bring the talc | |||
"I dont think I do really. I'll call you if that helps if I must . Otherwise you take your chances on me being Big Sweaty Bob instead. Is Big Sweaty Bob the little spoon or the big spoon? "Im thinking small  | |||
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"If someone thinks i am fake, thats their problem not mine "Well said xx | |||
