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I know it’s not just me

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just ignore them and shag whoever you like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just ignore them and shag whoever you like

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just ignore them and shag whoever you like

Who needs the drama though?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just ignore them and shag whoever you like

sadly.. get used to it..

narrow-mindedness quite prevalent on the site.

wish you luck - suffered similarly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do your own thing and don't mind anyone else.... If someone is jealous then it's their problem not yours. So don't make it a problem for you. Just have your fun and sod 'em!!!

BTW... You is sexy!!

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

I think it happens a fair bit on here, or you see it happening on the forums. People can get weirdly possessive. I say crack on and ignore the dramas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just ignore them and shag whoever you like

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Cut the jealous people out of your life. It's NSA so you don't have to deal with their drama.

Do this on your terms, with respect for others, and enjoy yourself.

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

To be jealous on this site is absurd. But jealousy is natural. The trouble is people allow it to become a green eyed monster.

No one owns me. I don't own anyone. Let's all enjoy each other the best we can.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s called lamp post pissing. Have sex with who ever - who cares what other people think on here? We are all pixel-people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cut the jealous people out of your life. It's NSA so you don't have to deal with their drama.

Do this on your terms, with respect for others, and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s called lamp post pissing. Have sex with who ever - who cares what other people think on here? We are all pixel-people. "

I wondered what lamp post pissing meant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s called lamp post pissing. Have sex with who ever - who cares what other people think on here? We are all pixel-people.

I wondered what lamp post pissing meant

Knock around the forums long enough and you’ll smell it everywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out"

I was chatting to someone who was being really friendly with me and made me feel welcome and I made the mistake of telling them I was chatting to a couple of guys who she has met before and now she’s gone quiet on me.

Won’t happen again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out

Won’t happen again

Just keep it to yourself..

Best way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out

Won’t happen again

FYI

I didn’t know she met them until I told her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

How do people know who you're talking to and plan on meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?

How do people know who you're talking to and plan on meeting? "

See above, but basically, I can’t keep my mouth shut

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

Do you tell people who you're hoping to meet then?

I never do and never would

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

Use it as a filter.

I've had a similar experience a few month back from someone I was chatting to but had never met. Bemused me at the time but I view it as a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?

Do you tell people who you're hoping to meet then?

I never do and never would

Lesson learnt

I’m new and the etiquette and brain cells have been lost on me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?

Do you tell people who you're hoping to meet then?

I never do and never would

Lesson learnt

I’m new and the etiquette and brain cells have been lost on me"

Best thing to do though, trust no-one lol

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Well if chemistry is unreciprocated for anything outside of sex, Then I think its important to make yourself clear.

If not getting it .. best to move on

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Its the main reason we rarely meet anyone from the site.

We find the clubs are a far better hunting ground TBH

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

When I first joined I had women befriend me and be nice, all with the intention of finding out who I was talking to or intending to meet! You soon learn so don't beat yourself up about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out

Won’t happen again

FYI

I didn’t know she met them until I told her"

Ahh just read the rest of the thread.

Listen you probably have enough female friends in the real world, you don't need them on here. Just speak to the guys you're interested in and keep them under your hat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When I first joined I had women befriend me and be nice, all with the intention of finding out who I was talking to or intending to meet! You soon learn so don't beat yourself up about it

Wonder if it was the same woman

But thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Its the main reason we rarely meet anyone from the site.

We find the clubs are a far better hunting ground TBH

I do like clubs

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Its the main reason we rarely meet anyone from the site.

We find the clubs are a far better hunting ground TBH

I do like clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

Your, your own lady. If they can't handle nsa. They should be in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out

Won’t happen again

FYI

I didn’t know she met them until I told her

Ahh just read the rest of the thread.

Listen you probably have enough female friends in the real world, you don't need them on here. Just speak to the guys you're interested in and keep them under your hat.

I do have female friends, but I’m new to the area so none around me unfortunately. Would have been nice to have a friend who was also on here

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I introduce my female and male Fab friends to each other. I like people to enjoy themselves.

The pool is relatively small so just assume you're meeting someone who has met someone else here that you may have met or are chatting to.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

You’re mine too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

You’re mine too.

Fair enough. You know I don't mind who feasts on me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

you are stunning like x

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

That's becoming a nasty habit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

Might start a stitch and bitch group to talk about the good ol’ days when sex was freely available and my cup runneth over. By cup, I mean my vag and by runneth over I mean, well is it piss or is gush - have we decided yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

That's becoming a nasty habit.

Boom!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

I like you.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"I introduce my female and male Fab friends to each other. I like people to enjoy themselves"

I love doing that too. As to the question, I've only encountered jealousy once and it wasn't personal; anyone meeting someone I met would have probably encountered it from the same person he'd previously met. And it wasn't anywhere near the horrendous stories you sometimes hear on here. More of a lamppost having a try than a full on lamppost pissing. So I wouldn't say it was necessarily the norm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

I like you.

I squirt like a fountain, would be hypocritical of me to say otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

Be yourself and fuck the begrudgers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

Be yourself and fuck the begrudgers "

That’s the plan from now on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

Be yourself and fuck the begrudgers "

Leave the budgerigars out of it!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has Fab turned into Mean girls?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab drama at its finest!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm prone to jealousy. If anyone ever spots it they have to say yazoo and then I have a strong word with myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

I ain't! You wasn't fucking interested!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

Be yourself and fuck the begrudgers "

Don't reward them with a fuck!

Block them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

And you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

I ain't! You wasn't fucking interested!!!

Beg your pardon Rhys. OP, I gift you this man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands off, they’re *all* mine!!!

It's true. I can't get a look in since Blanche joined the site.

I’m not surprised

And yet the reality is I’m a sworn-again nun.

Aren’t we all

I don’t care, it’s sexy

Be yourself and fuck the begrudgers

Don't reward them with a fuck!

Block them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

Not just your bad luck but all of ours. This site is called fab swingers not matchmaker.com yet people want to be possesive

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

The problem is; these jealous people don't actually 'get' what swinging is and treat Fab as a dating site.

They should fuck off to Plenty of eHarmony where they belong.

This is a swinging site, not a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

Wait until you come across the shit stirrers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out"

Exactly.

That's why I do not display the lovely verifications and and ask the women I have met to not to display my lovely verifications

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my case no one knows who im chatting to unless the other person says something..

Otherwise how would anyone find out

Exactly.

That's why I do not display the lovely verifications and and ask the women I have met to not to display my lovely verifications"

How lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's nobody's business who you meet , if they don't like it , then it shows they're not ones to be meeting ...simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve not been on here long. But it seems when I start talking to somebody about getting together, someone gets jealous.

I’m on here to make friends and hopefully meet people regularly for no strings sex. But I feel like I’m stepping on people’s toes.

Is this just bad luck on my behalf? Or is this a regular thing?"

Not bad luck. Just lack of discretion. I've never had this problem because I know how to keep my mouth shut... on certain things

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