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Am I being too polite?

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside

I try to message and respond in a polite manner but I wonder if I am not being clear enough about looking for sex? Any opinions? Ideally from women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can you give us an example of a message you’ve sent?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The fact you are on here indicates you are most likely looking for sex.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I try to message and respond in a polite manner but I wonder if I am not being clear enough about looking for sex? Any opinions? Ideally from women"

Difficult to say without seeing the kind of message you send but if you're being true to yourself and the type of person you are, why change it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok... as someone that has received a message from you. You sent me a compliment so I replied thanks. I tend to try and reply where I can. But there wasn't anywhere I could really take the conversation other than to thank you for your compliment

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside

Agreed! By the way you have the most articulate and intriguing profile I have ever read! I would message you but I am too old!

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull


"I try to message and respond in a polite manner but I wonder if I am not being clear enough about looking for sex? Any opinions? Ideally from women"

Try sending the same amount of clear messages as you have sent polite ones and see if it makes a difference

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside

Good point well made!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Agreed! By the way you have the most articulate and intriguing profile I have ever read! I would message you but I am too old!"

Use the reply and quote button so we know who you are responding to x

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside


"Agreed! By the way you have the most articulate and intriguing profile I have ever read! I would message you but I am too old!

Use the reply and quote button so we know who you are responding to x"

Like this?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton


"I try to message and respond in a polite manner but I wonder if I am not being clear enough about looking for sex? Any opinions? Ideally from women

Try sending the same amount of clear messages as you have sent polite ones and see if it makes a difference"

For me I'd only send a message I'd be happy to receive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is this a sex shop? Good I'll have five pounds worth please.

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside


"Is this a sex shop? Good I'll have five pounds worth please. "

Love it! I remember when you could have a tit wank and still get change from a shilling;-)

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

We assume that almost every message we receive will ultimately lead to asking for sex.

There are a few which for obvious reasons like distance, gender etc are obviously purely friendly. .

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside


"We assume that almost every message we receive will ultimately lead to asking for sex.

There are a few which for obvious reasons like distance, gender etc are obviously purely friendly. ."

I get that. And obviously sex is never far from the agenda, but a spark is so important too that’s why I like to be friendly. You guys are amazing by the way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is this a sex shop? Good I'll have five pounds worth please. "

You are aware I charge 1p per hour right?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We assume that almost every message we receive will ultimately lead to asking for sex.

There are a few which for obvious reasons like distance, gender etc are obviously purely friendly. .

I get that. And obviously sex is never far from the agenda, but a spark is so important too that’s why I like to be friendly. You guys are amazing by the way"

thank you

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales


"I try to message and respond in a polite manner but I wonder if I am not being clear enough about looking for sex? Any opinions? Ideally from women"

Don't change.

If you suspect the one-line 'fancy a shag' mob are doing better, you're mistaken.

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By *orningtonCroissant OP   Man  over a year ago

notts and humberside


"I try to message and respond in a polite manner but I wonder if I am not being clear enough about looking for sex? Any opinions? Ideally from women

Don't change.

If you suspect the one-line 'fancy a shag' mob are doing better, you're mistaken."

Bless you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your not verified and have one pic, not many will reply

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By *ookornotMan  over a year ago

fife


"Your not verified and have one pic, not many will reply "

mate im coming down to yours one weekend for a master class in all this singular guy stuff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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By *entleman Caller GlasgowMan  over a year ago

Bellshill

I think it will always be a struggle for single guys. You can only be yourself. Don’t drop your standards and preserve.

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