Right guys....
It looks like I may be heading into a relationship again, it's only early days but I genuinely like this girl. Do I tell her about the whole swing thing and risk putting her off or do I keep it a secret?
How would I put it to her?
Before you say that she might be into swinging....she deffo isn't as I made the old keys in a hat joke and she wasn't impressed haha |
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"I would never be unfaithful and sneak on here behind her back, I just don't know whether to tell her or not lol "
If you’re not going to swing whilst in a relationship with her, I can’t see the point. If she was that put off by a joke I can’t see that conversation ending well.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don’t say a word to her...
Some women will look at you like you’re crazy if you tell them about swinging...
Just hide your profile and enjoy vanilla life..
Swinging will always be here |
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"Right guys....
It looks like I may be heading into a relationship again, it's only early days but I genuinely like this girl. Do I tell her about the whole swing thing and risk putting her off or do I keep it a secret?
How would I put it to her?
Before you say that she might be into swinging....she deffo isn't as I made the old keys in a hat joke and she wasn't impressed haha "
Then I'd keep it to yourself. |
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"Right guys....
It looks like I may be heading into a relationship again, it's only early days but I genuinely like this girl. Do I tell her about the whole swing thing and risk putting her off or do I keep it a secret?
How would I put it to her?
Before you say that she might be into swinging....she deffo isn't as I made the old keys in a hat joke and she wasn't impressed haha "
So you have been sleeping together and she is impressed but you cannot tell her the truth?
Do you think it will last? |
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"Right guys....
It looks like I may be heading into a relationship again, it's only early days but I genuinely like this girl. Do I tell her about the whole swing thing and risk putting her off or do I keep it a secret?
How would I put it to her?
Before you say that she might be into swinging....she deffo isn't as I made the old keys in a hat joke and she wasn't impressed haha "
Don't say anything, hide your profile and see what happens. Keep your options open. If you tell her she will very likely ditch you. XXX |
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"I would never be unfaithful and sneak on here behind her back, I just don't know whether to tell her or not lol "
Tell her.
She will hate it if you don't tell her and it comes out later x |
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"Right guys....
It looks like I may be heading into a relationship again, it's only early days but I genuinely like this girl. Do I tell her about the whole swing thing and risk putting her off or do I keep it a secret?
How would I put it to her?
Before you say that she might be into swinging....she deffo isn't as I made the old keys in a hat joke and she wasn't impressed haha
So you have been sleeping together and she is impressed but you cannot tell her the truth?
Do you think it will last?"
Don't know if she is impressed lol haven't asked for feedback yet haha
Who knows if it will last it's only early days |
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I'd guess you've known her seconds if not minutes.
At this stage in your relationship there is no need for her to know that you once shagged someone else because that is all it is.
I'm not sure that 'entering a relationship' constitutes marriage vows, the complete and utter baring of souls , various legalities and cutting veins to be blood partners.
When your relationship is as steadfast as a rock and you actually have firm commitment to each other ..... if it should come out then it won't cause a problem
Why DO people look for huge problems where there aren't any ? |
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By *ynecplCouple
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We all have a past so if you like her and are going to leave here then tell her, be open and honest.
If she doesn't break up with you immediately and accepts it as being part of your past then I would suggest you delete your account afterwards, maybe do it with her present so that you can see how much she means to you. |
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