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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're only on to chat, so that will eliminate a lot of people who want to meet or cam.
Can you find anywhere else to chat?
A non sexual place?
Just an idea.... It might make you happier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why  "
It's probably because you have been let down too many times in the past and now you have cast iron barriers in place XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why
It's probably because you have been let down too many times in the past and now you have cast iron barriers in place XXX"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why "
I think you are the only one who can work that out. If you mean just on here, well the forums have moments of brilliance. More in depth messaging is mainly for those looking to meet really. |
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Without knowing more about you it's not possible to answer your question. Do you have trust issues?
I have a friend who pushes men away as soon as they start to get close. She has many issues mainly due to her upbringing and the influence of her father. |
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why "
Welcome to my world... I do the same thing. I mess everything up somehow and end up in the same place... I'm in a situation now from making stupid mistakes. I'm not embarrassed to say I've just left prison and currently sleeping in a tent as I lost my property..
I'm a gift healthy male so got no priority. Lost my job too... I'm on the streets but stay clean and fresh. Like camping really. I tend to alienate people. People tend to like me etc but I think I'm a loner? Prefer my own company... So please. If you ever feel down about your life PM me and I'll make you feel better... Jeremy Kyle should do a show about my life lol....  |
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why
Welcome to my world... I do the same thing. I mess everything up somehow and end up in the same place... I'm in a situation now from making stupid mistakes. I'm not embarrassed to say I've just left prison and currently sleeping in a tent as I lost my property..
I'm a gift healthy male so got no priority. Lost my job too... I'm on the streets but stay clean and fresh. Like camping really. I tend to alienate people. People tend to like me etc but I think I'm a loner? Prefer my own company... So please. If you ever feel down about your life PM me and I'll make you feel better... Jeremy Kyle should do a show about my life lol.... "
You got 4G in your tent? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why
Welcome to my world... I do the same thing. I mess everything up somehow and end up in the same place... I'm in a situation now from making stupid mistakes. I'm not embarrassed to say I've just left prison and currently sleeping in a tent as I lost my property..
I'm a gift healthy male so got no priority. Lost my job too... I'm on the streets but stay clean and fresh. Like camping really. I tend to alienate people. People tend to like me etc but I think I'm a loner? Prefer my own company... So please. If you ever feel down about your life PM me and I'll make you feel better... Jeremy Kyle should do a show about my life lol....
You got 4G in your tent?"
Yeah lol. No thick walls to block signal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why
Welcome to my world... I do the same thing. I mess everything up somehow and end up in the same place... I'm in a situation now from making stupid mistakes. I'm not embarrassed to say I've just left prison and currently sleeping in a tent as I lost my property..
I'm a gift healthy male so got no priority. Lost my job too... I'm on the streets but stay clean and fresh. Like camping really. I tend to alienate people. People tend to like me etc but I think I'm a loner? Prefer my own company... So please. If you ever feel down about your life PM me and I'll make you feel better... Jeremy Kyle should do a show about my life lol....
You got 4G in your tent?
Yeah lol. No thick walls to block signal "
Every cloud! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why
Welcome to my world... I do the same thing. I mess everything up somehow and end up in the same place... I'm in a situation now from making stupid mistakes. I'm not embarrassed to say I've just left prison and currently sleeping in a tent as I lost my property..
I'm a gift healthy male so got no priority. Lost my job too... I'm on the streets but stay clean and fresh. Like camping really. I tend to alienate people. People tend to like me etc but I think I'm a loner? Prefer my own company... So please. If you ever feel down about your life PM me and I'll make you feel better... Jeremy Kyle should do a show about my life lol....
You got 4G in your tent?
Yeah lol. No thick walls to block signal
Every cloud! "
Yeah only temporary... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why "
Are you okay, OP? It can be a bit of a vicious cycle to feel lonely/isolated and then it can become/feel harder to break out of the cycle. If you’ve had some bad experiences again, these can taint our perception of intent with future interactions which in turn can influence how you behave and have a knock on impact, often negative.
First and foremost, look at what your support structures are, and what helps you feel good about yourself and feeling well. Concentrate on you. Seek professional help and talking therapy if a further intervention could be useful. Know that it’s incredibly common to react to situations through coping strategies that then become unhelpful strategies later on, and sometimes some help to develop new healthier habits is needed.
This too shall pass. Invest in yourself and work on how to fulfil your own needs first.
Hugs and well wishes.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I push everyone away and I don't know why
Are you okay, OP? It can be a bit of a vicious cycle to feel lonely/isolated and then it can become/feel harder to break out of the cycle. If you’ve had some bad experiences again, these can taint our perception of intent with future interactions which in turn can influence how you behave and have a knock on impact, often negative.
First and foremost, look at what your support structures are, and what helps you feel good about yourself and feeling well. Concentrate on you. Seek professional help and talking therapy if a further intervention could be useful. Know that it’s incredibly common to react to situations through coping strategies that then become unhelpful strategies later on, and sometimes some help to develop new healthier habits is needed.
This too shall pass. Invest in yourself and work on how to fulfil your own needs first.
Hugs and well wishes.
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Very well said |
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