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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate."
That can be true sometimes too, yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not I , I’m a very secure & confident lady it just doesn’t bother me what so ever, so answer to your question I never feel intimidated nor have I but I dare say some do but it’s down to the individual & why they do so  |
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over a year ago
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Mixed reviews so far. I genuinely think my looks are only 1% of who am and there’s way more to me that the way I look. I wouldn’t want any1 do feel intimated by me. I’m not on here to be in competition with anybody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
well the avatar looks hot...
but then..there is no real indication of the male half........for all you know, a female sits and wanks at the avatar then goes dry...she might not be interested in a man she cannot see, regardless of the woman she fancies.
so far..your profile only promotes a female half..
do you FF requirements need an M? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't play with women but am well aware that 99% on here are sexier/more attractive than me but frankly I don't care...one of my best friends has model looks and she is swamped by attention from men and women and she says that frankly it gets on her nerves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes."
I'm sure no one would be intimidated by me, but if they were, I would be bending over backwards to reassure them. I believe not many women would |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx
well the avatar looks hot...
but then..there is no real indication of the male half........for all you know, a female sits and wanks at the avatar then goes dry...she might not be interested in a man she cannot see, regardless of the woman she fancies.
so far..your profile only promotes a female half..
do you FF requirements need an M? "
We spoke to this women jointly on a group chat during WhatsApp she in fact just wanted the male as I was “to hot”
My profile is pretty limited by choice. Male is always around when sombody becomes interested ethier with group chats phone calls etc. This woman in question had spoken to us both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither of us have felt intimidated by someone who is obviously very attractive.
What we have come across many times though is such people have completely cuntish attitude because they believe their own self perceived hype.
These do tend to be a minority though.
We’ve met some ridiculously hot people over the years and most have been really down to earth.
Attitude is far more off putting than appearance. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"No I don't 
You have no need to, my guess is it's the other way around with you "
Thank you for the compliment We have met some beautiful women, but I've never felt intimidated, I think that's because of the way my husband always compliments me and I would hope no one has felt intimidated by me. Looks are just a small part of attraction |
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
Some people in life make a judgment on how good looking they are and never approach members of the opposite sex if they think they are "out of there league"
I'm of the opinion "what's the worse that can happen" if I do approach a hottie ?
She might say no or I might get a date night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
As a bigger girl who has chatted to couples occasionally i must admit ive felt like that once or twice. In my mind a beautiful slim girl wouldnt be interested playing with a bigger girl but we are all different i guess and all bring our own charms to the table |
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I don't take myself seriously enough to be intimitated by things like that. I am 51 have wobbly bits younger women have firmer bodies. It is all down to connection for me.
It would have been a concern for me when I was younger though so maybe it is their age that was making them feel this way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes."
In what way do they intimidate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know about intimidated but there are some women I wouldn’t feel comfortable playing with. I know that’s more to do with how I feel about myself than them. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes.
In what way do they intimidate? "
They don't, but clearly try to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How I see it is, if I can undress in front of a man I consider to be hot, I'm not going to be worried about undressing in front of a better looking woman than myself.
I'd be too busy enjoying her to worry about my fat body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes.
In what way do they intimidate?
They don't, but clearly try to "
By the way they act, or what they say? I don't feel intimidated by what people say or look like. I'm not sure if I miss the signs. |
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I do feel like that sometimes because I'm a bigger lady with a baggy belly & lumps & bumps when I see a slim attractive female with a gym fit body it makes me feel inadequate & that she's what every one wants,ive always wanted to go to liberty elite but always been put off for this reason as ive been told on numerous occasions that all the females that attend are very slim & attractive,so no point in me going just to feel out of place & uncomfortable  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've felt a bit like this when an attractive, younger female has approached me. And I'm often told that I come across as a strong a confident woman.
The insecurities are my issue though. No other female on here has ever intentionally made me feel this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes.
In what way do they intimidate?
They don't, but clearly try to
By the way they act, or what they say? I don't feel intimidated by what people say or look like. I'm not sure if I miss the signs. "
Both. I'm not intimidated, but I see the signs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
I think some people have had or witnessed narcissistic behaviour from people who are good looking and feel they can’t or won’t live up to certain expectations when they see other good looking individuals
Common misconception is narcissistic people generally see themselves as better than others so people think it must only be good looking people who are like this, in fact it can often be quite the opposite, it’s all about other people’s insecurities unfortunately and there’s not much you can do about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes.
In what way do they intimidate?
They don't, but clearly try to
By the way they act, or what they say? I don't feel intimidated by what people say or look like. I'm not sure if I miss the signs.
Both. I'm not intimidated, but I see the signs "
I have no idea what those signs may be, unless it was some one in a higher position at work than me who was on a power trip. If it was a woman who thought she was better than me physically, I'd find it amusing, I think. |
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Yes. I’m very conscious of my curves and my cake shelf so when I’m looking I tend to look for ladies the same sort of size and shape as me. I don’t know why, I also try to look at the same age range as well. Maybe it’s a comfort thing, if you know that the other person is the same shape as you then you’re quite confident that they won’t be judgmental about your body? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
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How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that... "
It would be by her standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes.
In what way do they intimidate?
They don't, but clearly try to
By the way they act, or what they say? I don't feel intimidated by what people say or look like. I'm not sure if I miss the signs.
Both. I'm not intimidated, but I see the signs
I have no idea what those signs may be, unless it was some one in a higher position at work than me who was on a power trip. If it was a woman who thought she was better than me physically, I'd find it amusing, I think. "
I think it's the attempts at put downs, the bigging up of herself.
And yes, I find it funny too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a lot of difficulty believing anyone who says they are attracted to me! It's not so much intimidation that holds me back but distrust that their interest is genuine.
And I know, I know that's pathetic ha! Working on it! I like being surrounded by all the confident, diverse women on here as its inspirational. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, as if someone is athletic as you're listed, I'd be very aware of any wobbly bits I have and be too busy trying to suck in or hide them to be able to enjoy the evening.
Yes probably daft, but when you're very aware you have extra baggage, being next to the body beautiful seriously increases that awareness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not by their looks, but their attitude can be off putting. Sometimes women who think they're good looking will try to intimidate.
That can be true sometimes too, yes.
In what way do they intimidate?
They don't, but clearly try to
By the way they act, or what they say? I don't feel intimidated by what people say or look like. I'm not sure if I miss the signs.
Both. I'm not intimidated, but I see the signs
I have no idea what those signs may be, unless it was some one in a higher position at work than me who was on a power trip. If it was a woman who thought she was better than me physically, I'd find it amusing, I think.
I think it's the attempts at put downs, the bigging up of herself.
And yes, I find it funny too. "
Oh right. They go right over my head or make me laugh. I've never felt the urge to get into a female pissing contest over attractiveness.
As I said to a regular partner of mine, I know exactly what I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
Intimidated? No. However, I do have an entirely realistic understanding of how I look and my flaws and this would lead me to the conclusion that I’m so far out of sone peoples’ “leagues” in attractiveness that even my fantasies laugh at me for considering it. I have never been cool enough to sashay with the Uber cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that... "
Good question, I couldn't get inside the guys mind to know which of us he found more attractive. I suppose I'd have to just compare bodies and face and make the decision myself. Id have to make sure I was the one in better shape and better boobs or whatever. Suppose it comes down to my own confidence. I think if I feel I look better I'd feel more confident, if I thought the other woman was better looking I'd feel inadequate. |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that...
Good question, I couldn't get inside the guys mind to know which of us he found more attractive. I suppose I'd have to just compare bodies and face and make the decision myself. Id have to make sure I was the one in better shape and better boobs or whatever. Suppose it comes down to my own confidence. I think if I feel I look better I'd feel more confident, if I thought the other woman was better looking I'd feel inadequate. "
Read back my post and it sounded a bit abrupt! Glad you didn't read it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not intimated exactly but if the female is really attractive then it makes me wonder if they would find me attractive and then I over think things and think it’s best just not reply!"
This is my case too.
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
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The fact you want to be the prettier one speaks volumes.... |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
The fact you want to be the prettier one speaks volumes.... "
Does it, what does it say then? |
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
Obviously it’s hard to comment directly on your looks as there’s is only the avatar to go by .
But I don’t get intimidated by other women’s looks as it’s all about the true attraction when it comes to a meet . A few lumps and bumps , and extra curves will never put others off if they are into you as a person . And as a person I’d like to think I’m ok and easy to get along with .
Others have said they are intimidated by us as we are very experienced , but that’s a different topic . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
The fact you want to be the prettier one speaks volumes.... "
It implies that you don't want to feel second best, but its ok for the other woman to be.... |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that...
Good question, I couldn't get inside the guys mind to know which of us he found more attractive. I suppose I'd have to just compare bodies and face and make the decision myself. Id have to make sure I was the one in better shape and better boobs or whatever. Suppose it comes down to my own confidence. I think if I feel I look better I'd feel more confident, if I thought the other woman was better looking I'd feel inadequate. "
So you'd be okay with the other woman feeling inadequate 
Just cause you might think you have the better body or nicer face doesn't mean you'd be any better in bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do feel like that sometimes because I'm a bigger lady with a baggy belly & lumps & bumps when I see a slim attractive female with a gym fit body it makes me feel inadequate & that she's what every one wants,ive always wanted to go to liberty elite but always been put off for this reason as ive been told on numerous occasions that all the females that attend are very slim & attractive,so no point in me going just to feel out of place & uncomfortable ."
But you go to parties and other clubs, wish I had that much self confidence. Good on you is all I say! |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that...
Good question, I couldn't get inside the guys mind to know which of us he found more attractive. I suppose I'd have to just compare bodies and face and make the decision myself. Id have to make sure I was the one in better shape and better boobs or whatever. Suppose it comes down to my own confidence. I think if I feel I look better I'd feel more confident, if I thought the other woman was better looking I'd feel inadequate.
So you'd be okay with the other woman feeling inadequate
Just cause you might think you have the better body or nicer face doesn't mean you'd be any better in bed "
Or fancied more by the bloke.
But anyway, this whole thread shows mehow competitive women are with one another. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Yes ~ I'd be intimidated by a woman who I considered to be extremely attractive. Not the face, the body. I lack confidence when it comes to my body so I'd be highly unlikely to put myself in a situation that made me feel like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
The fact you want to be the prettier one speaks volumes....
It implies that you don't want to feel second best, but its ok for the other woman to be...."
Well I'm not going to want to feel second best am I and maybe the other woman wouldn't give a shit.
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It's weird- I'm a big girl but have become more confident in myself from being on here but would feel more uncomfortable naked in front of women and I'm not sure why other than the fear of judgement. |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that...
Good question, I couldn't get inside the guys mind to know which of us he found more attractive. I suppose I'd have to just compare bodies and face and make the decision myself. Id have to make sure I was the one in better shape and better boobs or whatever. Suppose it comes down to my own confidence. I think if I feel I look better I'd feel more confident, if I thought the other woman was better looking I'd feel inadequate.
So you'd be okay with the other woman feeling inadequate
Just cause you might think you have the better body or nicer face doesn't mean you'd be any better in bed "
I'd be worse if I felt inadequate next to another woman. I'd be better if I felt I was the better looking one. |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
The fact you want to be the prettier one speaks volumes....
It implies that you don't want to feel second best, but its ok for the other woman to be...."
It may imply that to you but not to me. I just read that from her comment she would be better matched with someone who is confident regardless of whether she is considered the prettiest. If looks are not as much of an issue for the other woman it could work OK. It doesn't mean the other woman has to feel second best just because the poster felt more confident. |
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"I'm only looking for men but IF I was ever to tag team a guy with another female I'd have to know that I was the better looking one so I suppose to a degree yes I would be intimidated by a female that was much better looking than me.
How could you ever know 100% though? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that...
Good question, I couldn't get inside the guys mind to know which of us he found more attractive. I suppose I'd have to just compare bodies and face and make the decision myself. Id have to make sure I was the one in better shape and better boobs or whatever. Suppose it comes down to my own confidence. I think if I feel I look better I'd feel more confident, if I thought the other woman was better looking I'd feel inadequate.
So you'd be okay with the other woman feeling inadequate
Just cause you might think you have the better body or nicer face doesn't mean you'd be any better in bed "
I agree. It also shouldn’t be a competition, it should be equal fun for all involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is exactly why I have absolutely zero interest in group fun or joining a couple or having any kind of ffm kind of set up. No interest at all, not in a million years. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Overall it really is mixed response and rightly so we all have our reasons and it does come down to what we want.
Me personally just look to see if we have a sexually connection, I most certainly lu wouldn’t dismiss somebody’s message because “there photos look better then mine”
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx
Intimidated? No. However, I do have an entirely realistic understanding of how I look and my flaws and this would lead me to the conclusion that I’m so far out of sone peoples’ “leagues” in attractiveness that even my fantasies laugh at me for considering it. I have never been cool enough to sashay with the Uber cool. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm happy with how I look , yes I have wobbly bits , and some I'd like to change but it's all me . If some on this site don't like it that's their problem not mine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx
Intimidated? No. However, I do have an entirely realistic understanding of how I look and my flaws and this would lead me to the conclusion that I’m so far out of sone peoples’ “leagues” in attractiveness that even my fantasies laugh at me for considering it. I have never been cool enough to sashay with the Uber cool.
You looked pretty damn cool to me last Saturday "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nikki has never said that. But to be honest when she is in a club she is one of the best lookers in there,even if I say it myself "
Off topic but your pics are beautiful. |
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From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too. |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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"Overall it really is mixed response and rightly so we all have our reasons and it does come down to what we want.
Me personally just look to see if we have a sexually connection, I most certainly lu wouldn’t dismiss somebody’s message because “there photos look better then mine”
Again it’s all down to ones choose."
It’s not really a case of dismissing, for example I got a mail off a very hot looking couple, you could tell they both kept active etc and checked there verifications all from others like themselves. So that tells me that’s what they find attractive. I don’t have confidence issues I’m a realist. There is no point wasting there time and mine |
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"From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too. "
I can relate to this. Now before anyone starts I know I always go on about this guy but novemeber I him for a coffee social and as soon a second I saw him in the flesh (he looked handsome in his pics) but in the flesh I was like wow, oh my god, he's beautiful. He made me feel intimidated but he probably didn't give a shit, it was my own problem and every time we met I just felt really goofy around him. |
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"Overall it really is mixed response and rightly so we all have our reasons and it does come down to what we want.
Me personally just look to see if we have a sexually connection, I most certainly lu wouldn’t dismiss somebody’s message because “there photos look better then mine”
Again it’s all down to ones choose.
It’s not really a case of dismissing, for example I got a mail off a very hot looking couple, you could tell they both kept active etc and checked there verifications all from others like themselves. So that tells me that’s what they find attractive. I don’t have confidence issues I’m a realist. There is no point wasting there time and mine "
They'd be an idiot to turn you down. |
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"From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too.
I can relate to this. Now before anyone starts I know I always go on about this guy but novemeber I him for a coffee social and as soon a second I saw him in the flesh (he looked handsome in his pics) but in the flesh I was like wow, oh my god, he's beautiful. He made me feel intimidated but he probably didn't give a shit, it was my own problem and every time we met I just felt really goofy around him. "
Thats probably due to an insecurity of yours. |
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"Hey y’all
My question is, do women feel imtimidated by the way other women look? Its a couples account and FF or MFF is genuinely what we are looking for. I am biesexual and fully love female play. Just recently we spoke to a woman who pretty much said that the way I look imitates her! I was u sure how to take this comment. Surly if you are a biesexual woman then it comes down to attraction and not which woman is better looking? Or am I missing the point?
Would love to hear your feedback on this guys and girls.
Jojo xx"
I would take it as a backhanded compliment. She obviously thinks that you are stunning, but is maybe not confident in her own skin.
Without being judgemental, you look like a woman who likes hair and makeup, nice clothes, works on her body. I would feel a bit frumpy next to you because I don't style my hair, wear makeup and still has a stubborn stomach that won't disappear! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Op you look amazing and I would feel too self conscious .. that’s my issue
It’s the same reason I don’t go with ripped guys
I need a therapist "
And you...are very pretty, that alone would attract people! |
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"From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too.
I can relate to this. Now before anyone starts I know I always go on about this guy but novemeber I him for a coffee social and as soon a second I saw him in the flesh (he looked handsome in his pics) but in the flesh I was like wow, oh my god, he's beautiful. He made me feel intimidated but he probably didn't give a shit, it was my own problem and every time we met I just felt really goofy around him.
Thats probably due to an insecurity of yours. "
Probably, I have a few. |
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"From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too.
I can relate to this. Now before anyone starts I know I always go on about this guy but novemeber I him for a coffee social and as soon a second I saw him in the flesh (he looked handsome in his pics) but in the flesh I was like wow, oh my god, he's beautiful. He made me feel intimidated but he probably didn't give a shit, it was my own problem and every time we met I just felt really goofy around him.
Thats probably due to an insecurity of yours.
Probably, I have a few. "
You shouldn't. You're stunning, without a doubt you could get any guy you wanted. |
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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago
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I'm not sure intimidated is quite the right word but unless a woman is of a similar build and hotness as I see myself I wouldn't think they could be interested in me at all. I don't even try because I'm already expecting the rejection. But I'm the same with guys too. My issues and so far I've not come across anyone who's knowingly made me feel intimidated or inadequate, most people are lovely and complimentary. Something I need to get over myself
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I do get intimidated a bit by other women, particularly by their bodies.
Being more substantial in stature, I do on occasion wonder why some guys message me, when I see on their veris that they have met very slim, pert, beautiful ladies.
However I am fully aware that the issue lies with me, rather than the other women.  |
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"From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too.
I can relate to this. Now before anyone starts I know I always go on about this guy but novemeber I him for a coffee social and as soon a second I saw him in the flesh (he looked handsome in his pics) but in the flesh I was like wow, oh my god, he's beautiful. He made me feel intimidated but he probably didn't give a shit, it was my own problem and every time we met I just felt really goofy around him.
Thats probably due to an insecurity of yours.
Probably, I have a few.
You shouldn't. You're stunning, without a doubt you could get any guy you wanted. "
that's sweet, thanks |
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"From talking to lasses I've found that if you are great looking and, they aren't so good looking it can become intimidating to them. Attitude can be a big decider on that front too.
I can relate to this. Now before anyone starts I know I always go on about this guy but novemeber I him for a coffee social and as soon a second I saw him in the flesh (he looked handsome in his pics) but in the flesh I was like wow, oh my god, he's beautiful. He made me feel intimidated but he probably didn't give a shit, it was my own problem and every time we met I just felt really goofy around him.
Thats probably due to an insecurity of yours.
Probably, I have a few.
You shouldn't. You're stunning, without a doubt you could get any guy you wanted.
that's sweet, thanks "
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Iv got intimidated in the past on here.
That’s when I see who others have met who want to meet me.
I wouldn’t be intimidated when comes to me meeting another women. |
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OP I'm not sure if you mean women actively intimidating other women or just feeling less attractive than another?
There's a big difference between the two. If it's the former then this is unacceptable behaviour. If the latter then I'm not sure could call it intimidation as there's nothing active about it? |
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"OP I'm not sure if you mean women actively intimidating other women or just feeling less attractive than another?
There's a big difference between the two. If it's the former then this is unacceptable behaviour. If the latter then I'm not sure could call it intimidation as there's nothing active about it? "
In awe of , in an unsettling way ... overawed by the way another woman looks .
The op did specifically say by the way another woman looks , and it doesn’t have to have any action . |
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I think it's inevitable that those of us who don't have much self confidence about our looks feel 'intimidated' by other women we perceive as better looking than ourselves. That doesn't necessarily mean that these women deliberately set out to make us feel inferior or nervous - how could they unless we actually met them? - but speaking personally, and in spite of any attraction I feel towards them, I talk myself out of approaching them on the basis they couldn't/wouldn't be attracted to me in a month of Sundays. It's *absolutely* my problem, and I could kick myself sometimes, because nothing ventured, nothing gained, but I don't see myself as typically attractive and therefore kind of automatically think that the kind of women who turn heads (i.e. the opposite to me) would be very unlikely to be interested in me. And of course I also recognise that regardless of looks, a lack of confidence isn't terribly attractive anyway - and that's a hard thing to acquire. So, OP, it's really nothing you've done wrong and almost certainly about how comfortable other women feel in their own skin ... |
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"I think it's inevitable that those of us who don't have much self confidence about our looks feel 'intimidated' by other women we perceive as better looking than ourselves. That doesn't necessarily mean that these women deliberately set out to make us feel inferior or nervous - how could they unless we actually met them? - but speaking personally, and in spite of any attraction I feel towards them, I talk myself out of approaching them on the basis they couldn't/wouldn't be attracted to me in a month of Sundays. It's *absolutely* my problem, and I could kick myself sometimes, because nothing ventured, nothing gained, but I don't see myself as typically attractive and therefore kind of automatically think that the kind of women who turn heads (i.e. the opposite to me) would be very unlikely to be interested in me. And of course I also recognise that regardless of looks, a lack of confidence isn't terribly attractive anyway - and that's a hard thing to acquire. So, OP, it's really nothing you've done wrong and almost certainly about how comfortable other women feel in their own skin ..."
Absolutely agree with this |
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I totally understand it's about self-image and self-esteem however good we look and come across to others. It's about being comfortable with ourselves.
For what it's worth I've looked at galleries of some posters above and left some Fabs ... I find ladies of all shapes, sizes etc. attractive. We are who we are and beauty comes in many forms.
If we can just persuade ourselves that it's the other person's responsibility to decide and not ours ... |
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"OP I'm not sure if you mean women actively intimidating other women or just feeling less attractive than another?
There's a big difference between the two. If it's the former then this is unacceptable behaviour. If the latter then I'm not sure could call it intimidation as there's nothing active about it?
In awe of , in an unsettling way ... overawed by the way another woman looks .
The op did specifically say by the way another woman looks , and it doesn’t have to have any action ."
I don't think it's even necessarily about looks, some seem to be intimidated by any woman who has confidence in herself and is able to love her body whatever its shape. A great shame, whatever the reason |
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