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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hands up if you have or would swap facebook accounts, iv done it once with the lady I had my 1st meet with of here (and my 2nd, 3rd 4th and 5th lol)
But it felt like I was taking a risk, basically giving her access to my life in a way (not many people not on my friends list, maybe my mum and dad thats about it lol) So didnt take it lightly.
Luckily we're real friends as well now and it all worked out.
Anyone else cross pollinated?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep the two completely seperate as my family an close friends are on facebook.
Nobody knows I swing and I think it would be a little bit too close to home!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few on mine, all off another (much smaller) site, all are people that I know well and consider good friends but I would be cautious. Interestingly 1 or 2 people from here occassionally come up as a recomended friends just from those few mutual ones.
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I have what i class as good friends on my facebook and i trust them not to say anything about this part of my life. These people have become my friends and we chat about non sexy things too.
Also fun to have little jokes and innuendo's at time's after a social, meet or party.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah there are one or two I would probably add now, but its only after a while of getting to know em!
But wouldnt push for it cos wouldnt want people to do anything there not confy with!
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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A few people that I have become good friend with know I swing and have met them in that world and are friends on fb with.
Mind you they know my family are on there and work contacts. My family know I swing but obviously not work contacts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But it felt like I was taking a risk, basically giving her access to my life ..."
You're taking exactly the same risk just by being on Facebook in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually did it the other way around and recommended someone from Facebook about Fab lol! She's just joined and appears to be shagging like crazy lol. Wasn't really a friend just someone I chatted with via Facebooks gaming sites but we have cammed and had sexy phone chats. Have also chatted with a couple of other ladies and found out they are also on here.
Anyone else had a fab friend pop up somewhere else by coincedence???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep the two completely seperate as my family an close friends are on facebook.
Nobody knows I swing and I think it would be a little bit too close to home!! xx"
What ^^ he said. 1000%  |
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Me and face book arent friends ,, they took my second account with my 2nd farm at level bloody 95 and just closed it.. It was the account I kept just for my internet mates. No I wouldnt let anyone from here into my private life Facebook.. Yikes NO..  |
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I dont really "do" facebook, i just go on to put updates on and check friends updates ect. Ive got about 60 friends but i know all of them in person not just online people except two who live in america. I have a couple of people from here but they are people that i would be more than happy to interact with my non swinging life |
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yes...friends are friends however you meet...the ones on my f/book who i have met via bdsm or swinging are ones who have met my family and we all respect the fact we have nilla friends and family on our friends list. |
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"I have what i class as good friends on my and i trust them not to say anything about this part of my life. These people have become my friends and we chat about non sexy things too.
Also fun to have little jokes and innuendo's at time's after a social, meet or party.
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Yup that is fun! Once got a desperate phone call from a friend who was reading a conversation between me and Sir that looked totally innocent unless you knew i was his sub...she phoned to ask me to stop as she was crying with laughter and couldnt explain to her kids why  |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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We've become good friends with a couple we met here, and socialise with them regularly. Scarily, it turned out we had close, mutual (non swinging) friends. Anyway, we are good mates now, and Facebook buddies. Our swinging activities are kept completely separate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do have Facebook but the only reason I use it is to keep in contact with my 15 year old sister, according to her "if you're not on facebook you don't exist" she may be a cocky little madam but no way would I want to expose her to this! If anyone ever asks the answer is I don't do Facebook, as a rule, I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"god no
my life is like a series of tupperware boxes everything in seperate boxes with the lids firmly on to stop contamination of each bit.
compartmentalisation great eh "
You really do drive me insane!! Love your pics!
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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago
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"god no
my life is like a series of tupperware boxes everything in seperate boxes with the lids firmly on to stop contamination of each bit.
compartmentalisation great eh
You really do drive me insane!! Love your pics!
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why thank you kind sir x |
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"Nope I dont even give out my e-mail address cause you can find my facebook with that info.
Facebook is for family and friends.
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Can't believe you only have one email account... you need a few... one for signing into porn... one for online shopping (let those fill with spam) and then just one you keep to minimal access for family and close friends and certainly have others for facebook and fab...
And have found fabsters on Badoo on occasions and pointed Badoosters to fab once or twice...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well talking of facebook I have a meet set up with a sexy brunnette that I used to know years ago at 12. All from ine innicent hello, how you doing haha!!#
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very much doubt i would let anyone have access to any amount. There are too many problems documented with people getting personal details and it biting you later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes i have a select few fab friends on facebook, but they are people i consider "real life" friends as well and i trust them not to spill the beans...and anyway i'm a maverick, i live on the edge...  |
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"I very much doubt i would let anyone have access to any amount. There are too many problems documented with people getting personal details and it biting you later."
Thats exactly why I would not go on farcebook, too many bloody noses on there!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. "
What happens if you fall out with online friends..arent you concerned they could drop you in it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. What happens if you fall out with online friends..arent you concerned they could drop you in it?"
nah id have blocked them. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. What happens if you fall out with online friends..arent you concerned they could drop you in it?
nah id have blocked them. "
I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. What happens if you fall out with online friends..arent you concerned they could drop you in it?
nah id have blocked them. I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?"
if i was so paranoid about stuff id not have a fabs account or facebook one, id never give out any details or take any pictures and id stay in all day.. until shit hits the fan i wont worry about stuff like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. What happens if you fall out with online friends..arent you concerned they could drop you in it?
nah id have blocked them. I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?
if i was so paranoid about stuff id not have a fabs account or facebook one, id never give out any details or take any pictures and id stay in all day.. until shit hits the fan i wont worry about stuff like that. "
its a risk you take...personally i'm quite happy that the swinging friends i have on facebook won't say anything, but i can understand that for some people, they're not prepared to take that risk, or want to keep the two worlds entirely seperate, and i can appreciate that too. |
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I don't use facebook.... call me old fashioned but I like a more traditional approach to keeping in touch with friends.... we go out places and talk: along with getting pissed, laughing, dancing, shopping, eating.... |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family
ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person. What happens if you fall out with online friends..arent you concerned they could drop you in it?
nah id have blocked them. I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?
if i was so paranoid about stuff id not have a fabs account or facebook one, id never give out any details or take any pictures and id stay in all day.. until shit hits the fan i wont worry about stuff like that. "
I wouldnt call it being paranoid myself , very interesting that you do...you didnt answer my question though... |
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