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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had my first all night meet the other week..
and just wondered what you thought about cuddling through the night etc... do you like too or is it that when Harry Met Sally scenario of do you have to hold her and how long for??!
For me as a single woman i do miss having that contact.. but wouldn’t want to make anyone feel uncomfortable by flinging myself around them so would ask first!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had my first all night meet the other week..
and just wondered what you thought about cuddling through the night etc... do you like too or is it that when Harry Met Sally scenario of do you have to hold her and how long for??!
For me as a single woman i do miss having that contact.. but wouldn’t want to make anyone feel uncomfortable by flinging myself around them so would ask first!!"
Love cuddling. Not what I'm really here for. But would be weird not too when staying the night? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cant cuddle all night id get too hot"
I don’t like cuddling all night haha for that reason... but If you’ve met someone to fuck would you be happy to cuddle?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmm well to let someone cuddle me I need to really know them and feel a connection .
I love cuddles but only above would be acceptable for me .
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I agree.. as it is quite intimate!! |
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"Cant cuddle all night id get too hot
I don’t like cuddling all night haha for that reason... but If you’ve met someone to fuck would you be happy to cuddle? "
well said but nothing wrong with a surprise in the night to go again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love cuddling and spooning, with the right person.
An overnight meet with someone you have a connection with, and falling asleep in their arms is really nice."
I love that. Until you (the man) realises that you can't sleep with her hair in your face and her boobs pressing down into your diaphragm. Also your arms now gone to sleep and she's out cold for the evening.
That's why they teach the roll-and-escape techniques at Man School. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cant cuddle all night id get too hot
I don’t like cuddling all night haha for that reason... but If you’ve met someone to fuck would you be happy to cuddle? "
Yes too right legs wrapped in avice like bear hug with a cheeky boob cupping |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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If I’m spending the whole night with someone it will only be someone that I want to cuddle with. I like feeling someone’s arms around me and the stroking and cuddling as you fall asleep, or get aroused so much you have to go again  . Waking up being spooned is also rather lovely  |
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"I love cuddling and spooning, with the right person.
An overnight meet with someone you have a connection with, and falling asleep in their arms is really nice.
I love that. Until you (the man) realises that you can't sleep with her hair in your face and her boobs pressing down into your diaphragm. Also your arms now gone to sleep and she's out cold for the evening.
That's why they teach the roll-and-escape techniques at Man School."
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"I love cuddling a lady holding her tight from behind in my arms in bed especially after sex mmmmm lovely "
This ... for about 5 minutes, then I get too hot!! Can’t sleep cuddled up, even with G & wouldn’t ever spend the night with a play partner anyway. That seems too odd. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love cuddling a lady holding her tight from behind in my arms in bed especially after sex mmmmm lovely
This ... for about 5 minutes, then I get too hot!! Can’t sleep cuddled up, even with G & wouldn’t ever spend the night with a play partner anyway. That seems too odd."
We stayed away as neither of us could accommodate.. so do you only meet and then go home? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love cuddles but I sometimes think fab isn’t necessarily the place to get that haha  "
Some girlfriends of mine said there should be cuddle brothels for women. Places you go and pick a guy with big arms and go off and cuddle for a bit.
Sure it's not what all women are looking for, but I bet that would be a viable business.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love cuddles but I sometimes think fab isn’t necessarily the place to get that haha
Some girlfriends of mine said there should be cuddle brothels for women. Places you go and pick a guy with big arms and go off and cuddle for a bit.
Sure it's not what all women are looking for, but I bet that would be a viable business. "
Yes indeed.. I would never expect anyone I met to cuddle me unless they wanted too and I felt comfortable too!! It’s not until you can’t have them though that you realise how much you miss them!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A cuddle after sex before sleeping, maybe a arm around my waist and spooning but can't stand people holding me all night, I sleep on my front at the edge of the bed even if I'm alone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A cuddle after sex before sleeping, maybe a arm around my waist and spooning but can't stand people holding me all night, I sleep on my front at the edge of the bed even if I'm alone "
Yes totally agree... I sleep on right side at the edge and love cold spots x  |
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"** goes and sits in a corner as it suddenly hits her she misses having a cuddle...  "
This is me right now too. I’d give anything for some spooning, maybe getting my hair stroked and a wee kiss on my neck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always cuddling. I could never spend all night with someone and not cuddle.
My fwb gives the best cuddles, he cuddles me so tightly, and strokes me hair mmmm never want to fall asleep though |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"** goes and sits in a corner as it suddenly hits her she misses having a cuddle...
This is me right now too. I’d give anything for some spooning, maybe getting my hair stroked and a wee kiss on my neck "
Me too especially from one person in particular |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"** goes and sits in a corner as it suddenly hits her she misses having a cuddle...
This is me right now too. I’d give anything for some spooning, maybe getting my hair stroked and a wee kiss on my neck "
I am still in my bed, you like to join |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A cuddle after sex before sleeping, maybe a arm around my waist and spooning but can't stand people holding me all night, I sleep on my front at the edge of the bed even if I'm alone "
LOL. Me too, I like a large bed in hotels becouse I'm tall. But I only ever use the edge. Have quite happily slept a good night's sleep with a suitcase and clothes neatly undisturbed on most of the bed.
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"** goes and sits in a corner as it suddenly hits her she misses having a cuddle...
This is me right now too. I’d give anything for some spooning, maybe getting my hair stroked and a wee kiss on my neck
Me too especially from one person in particular "
Same. Me and you will just have to spoon instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being cuddled to sleep is something I can only dream of"
If you dressed as Super girl, I would genuinely be powerless to resist your demands.
It's like Kryptonite to me. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"** goes and sits in a corner as it suddenly hits her she misses having a cuddle...
This is me right now too. I’d give anything for some spooning, maybe getting my hair stroked and a wee kiss on my neck
Me too especially from one person in particular
Same. Me and you will just have to spoon instead "
Good idea |
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I love cuddles in bed!
However - after we’ve shagged, cuddled, chatted, shagged, giggled and cuddled some more - when I’m actually ready to sleep I tend to turn away and make my own space!
When I wake up during the night, though, I might cuddle up to them again for a few minutes! This usually results in sleepy sex - which I love!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When asked, How did you sleep, my fiends Dad used to say ‘a lap full of bum, and a handful of tit’.
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Haha love this! It's how me and my husband fall asleep every night, with him wrapped around me, his hand cupping my boob, and my bum pushed back into his lap...it's the best feeling, makes me feel loved, safe and secure.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I love cuddles in bed!
However - after we’ve shagged, cuddled, chatted, shagged, giggled and cuddled some more - when I’m actually ready to sleep I tend to turn away and make my own space!
When I wake up during the night, though, I might cuddle up to them again for a few minutes! This usually results in sleepy sex - which I love! "
Totally agree with you there on all points |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't like to meet a single women for sex if I can't sleep with her and hold her in my arms.
Aw - come and hold me sexy - but keep that gag we’ll away from me!  "
I'd like to come to you but you live a bit far away x) |
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"I love cuddling a lady holding her tight from behind in my arms in bed especially after sex mmmmm lovely
This ... for about 5 minutes, then I get too hot!! Can’t sleep cuddled up, even with G & wouldn’t ever spend the night with a play partner anyway. That seems too odd.
We stayed away as neither of us could accommodate.. so do you only meet and then go home? X"
I generally only play in clubs, so yes. I occasionally have a private meet, but will always go home afterwards. I do stay & snuggle up, chat, chill out, have a drink, have a shower etc - I don’t do ‘fuck & go’, but it’s never even crossed my mind to spend the night with them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love cuddles. The intimacy of skin to skin contact is comforting and arousing in equal measure. Spooning may make your arm go numb, guys, but the psychological benefits you're giving are enormous! |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve had some lovely sleepovers and definitely enjoy the spooning and feeling that little nudge twitching. A little wiggle to show I’m awake and the next round begins.
Even if the night is spent lightly touching each other it’s lovely to have that intimacy and trust with a close friend.
I can be comfortable to spend the night with someone without it being about love and romance. I think as humans we often confuse the importance of touch and skin on skin contact with emotions. Maybe we grow older and jaded and just enjoy the moment for what it is.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A cuddle after sex before sleeping, maybe a arm around my waist and spooning but can't stand people holding me all night, I sleep on my front at the edge of the bed even if I'm alone
LOL. Me too, I like a large bed in hotels becouse I'm tall. But I only ever use the edge. Have quite happily slept a good night's sleep with a suitcase and clothes neatly undisturbed on most of the bed.
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Mine would be disturbed I sleep on the edge but kick my legs around, I must have some very violent dreams  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to find yourself a cuddle buddy then.. from my experience there are more men than you would think who like a good cuddle "
Really!!!!!??? Oooh I might look!!! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"** goes and sits in a corner as it suddenly hits her she misses having a cuddle...
This is me right now too. I’d give anything for some spooning, maybe getting my hair stroked and a wee kiss on my neck
Me too especially from one person in particular
Same. Me and you will just have to spoon instead "
Can I join you too and have group snuggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yr right there , Evan after sex if I cuddle / spoon with someone who dose it for me it’s hard to keep the Sargent major down I’m ready again, with s little wiggle of her arse I’m in love the naughty ness of it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yr right there , Evan after sex if I cuddle / spoon with someone who dose it for me it’s hard to keep the Sargent major down I’m ready again, with s little wiggle of her arse I’m in love the naughty ness of it "
Yes I love been spooned and just wiggling my bum... feeling a cock get hard against me is so sexy... but anyway enough of that this is about cuddling not what it might end up with.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yr right there , Evan after sex if I cuddle / spoon with someone who dose it for me it’s hard to keep the Sargent major down I’m ready again, with s little wiggle of her arse I’m in love the naughty ness of it "
That would be all night fuck not all night cuddle hmm hot |
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"If I’m spending the whole night with someone it will only be someone that I want to cuddle with. I like feeling someone’s arms around me and the stroking and cuddling as you fall asleep, or get aroused so much you have to go again . Waking up being spooned is also rather lovely "
Yessssssss! This, simple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cuddling's one of the best bits, right? It's all about human contact, having someone else in your bed through the night to hold is wonderful."
Aww you sound like you give great cuddles!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that's where I've gone wrong in the past because I've always had all night meets where the guy sleeps over. It's the spooning and the cuddling that creates different kinds of feelings and can make you get all soppy for the guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When asked, How did you sleep, my fiends Dad used to say ‘a lap full of bum, and a handful of tit’.
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as it should be.
My fave way to sleep is either bum cheek to bum cheek or with my bum pressed up against their crotch so if i want it i just need to wiggle my bum and they get aroused. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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Love spooning and cuddling after a all night session of hot debauchery, were you can just hear each other deep breath as you calm down the feeling of your lovers heart beat pounding away as you are so close together
Damn it, its been a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Love spooning and cuddling after a all night session of hot debauchery, were you can just hear each other deep breath as you calm down the feeling of your lovers heart beat pounding away as you are so close together
Damn it, its been a while "
It’s a mixed big discussing this cuddling thing because then it hits you how much you miss it when you haven’t had it for a looonggg time!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't have an all night meet with out cuddles it's just criminal!
You need the passion and chemistry and after a horny session you have to have cuddles.
It's the precursor to starting all over again hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuddling a woman all night? That would be like hugging a radiator on full.
His and spooning is gorgeous, I like to be big spoon. I’m afraid to think what would happen if I turned the other way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wanders in....
Cuddles...her head on my chest arm around her fingers tracing patterns softly down her spine while she sleeps legs across mine feeling that slow contented heartbeat against me as I smile and watch her sleep...
Wanders out watches the waves lapping the beach....
And smiles ... maybe one day...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanders in....
Cuddles...her head on my chest arm around her fingers tracing patterns softly down her spine while she sleeps legs across mine feeling that slow contented heartbeat against me as I smile and watch her sleep...
Wanders out watches the waves lapping the beach....
And smiles ... maybe one day...
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Swoon.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wanders in....
Cuddles...her head on my chest arm around her fingers tracing patterns softly down her spine while she sleeps legs across mine feeling that slow contented heartbeat against me as I smile and watch her sleep...
Wanders out watches the waves lapping the beach....
And smiles ... maybe one day...
Swoon...."
** stands and swoons with you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can't have an all night meet with out cuddles it's just criminal!
You need the passion and chemistry and after a horny session you have to have cuddles.
It's the precursor to starting all over again hehe "
Yummy!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not much of a cuddler. When I stay the night with someone they usually drop off as I'm making myself a cup of tea.
I do like being woken in the night and morning for sex though. |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
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Can’t beat a good spooning. Be it sexually or not. And after you have just been intimate with someone there’s nothing worse than feeling like a spare part if there isn’t the post coital closeness |
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"Wanders in....
Cuddles...her head on my chest arm around her fingers tracing patterns softly down her spine while she sleeps legs across mine feeling that slow contented heartbeat against me as I smile and watch her sleep...
Wanders out watches the waves lapping the beach....
And smiles ... maybe one day...
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Awe .... maybe one day .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to fall asleep as the big spoon. Easy to peel away when you inevitably get too hot. Spend the night like a starfish in my own space,then wake as a little spoon with a bit of friskiness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I’m having sex with someone, I want cuddles after! I always ask when first chatting to guys if they like cuddles, if they say it’s not really for them, we aren’t going to meet lol
Cuddles can be intimate, but they can also just be a way of not being awkward and uncomfortable after having sex with ultimately a stranger. Love a good chat and giggle while cuddling. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I’m having sex with someone, I want cuddles after! I always ask when first chatting to guys if they like cuddles, if they say it’s not really for them, we aren’t going to meet lol
Cuddles can be intimate, but they can also just be a way of not being awkward and uncomfortable after having sex with ultimately a stranger. Love a good chat and giggle while cuddling. "
Exactly!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im always upfront about being very tactile and cuddlable (is that even a word? )
If a guy isnt the same he woukdnt be for me.. overnights are intimate to me so i would expect cuddles etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now my partner is no longer here I miss the closeness we had, cuddles in bed and while watching tv, it’s a hard thing to let go once you have genuinely experienced it "
It is very hard.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is it possible snow white could i get more than a cuddle as I've had proper look at your profile and wow bit my poison apple anytime err that doesn't work does it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it possible snow white could i get more than a cuddle as I've had proper look at your profile and wow bit my poison apple anytime err that doesn't work does it "
Well it does if you want me to fall straight asleep?? |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
A box at end of your bed |
I honestly can't remember the last time I had a proper cuddle.
Yes I get a cuddle from my 9 year old son every night when I put him to bed which is nice.
It's not the same as from a woman or the one you love be it wife/girlfriend, boyfriend or FB. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I honestly can't remember the last time I had a proper cuddle.
Yes I get a cuddle from my 9 year old son every night when I put him to bed which is nice.
It's not the same as from a woman or the one you love be it wife/girlfriend, boyfriend or FB."
I do from my son and my mum... but it really is not the same as lovely as they are!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it possible snow white could i get more than a cuddle as I've had proper look at your profile and wow bit my poison apple anytime err that doesn't work does it
Well it does if you want me to fall straight asleep?? you won't be sleeping banter a side you do look lovely "
Thank you...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it possible snow white could i get more than a cuddle as I've had proper look at your profile and wow bit my poison apple anytime err that doesn't work does it
Well it does if you want me to fall straight asleep?? you won't be sleeping banter a side you do look lovely
Thank you... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a good cuddle, especially the type that leads to round 2 when you thought there was no more in the tank. Can't cuddle all night though...can't sleep in a cuddle!"
Could not have put it better myself! |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
A box at end of your bed |
One real cuddle is all I ask for at this moment in time just to remind me what it feels like. snowwhitexx1 anytime you want a cuddle just let me know would be happy to oblige. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One real cuddle is all I ask for at this moment in time just to remind me what it feels like. snowwhitexx1 anytime you want a cuddle just let me know would be happy to oblige. "
Awww Sending you a big squidgy huggle to you!!! Mwah... mwah xxxx |
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"I wouldn't like to meet a single women for sex if I can't sleep with her and hold her in my arms.
Aw - come and hold me sexy - but keep that gag we’ll away from me!
I'd like to come to you but you live a bit far away x)"
Never too far for the right person! |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"You need to find yourself a cuddle buddy then.. from my experience there are more men than you would think who like a good cuddle
Really!!!!!??? Oooh I might look!!! X"
Yes really !
In my experience guys love cuddles
I myself love cuddles all night.
I only usually play in clubs
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On the rare occasion that I’ve stayed in a hotel with a guy!
( There has to be complete trust him. )
We’ve cuddled and spooned most of the night it’s so intimate and sexy
Makes you feel safe secure and actually wanted !
It’s really just a very nice warming feeling
I’m sure most love cuddles ! |
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