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over a year ago
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Women can you, do you often orgasm without penetration or genital stimulation?
I’ve always enjoyed very vigorous sex but lately I’ve been meeting a guy who has a totally different approach. He had me orgasming for two hours just by touching and kissing me and sometimes even just looking at where he was going to touch made me orgasm.... it was like some bloody Jedi mind control, absolutely amazing though.
Anyone else had similar experiences?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute  |
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"Women can you, do you often orgasm without penetration or genital stimulation?
I’ve always enjoyed very vigorous sex but lately I’ve been meeting a guy who has a totally different approach. He had me orgasming for two hours just by touching and kissing me and sometimes even just looking at where he was going to touch made me orgasm.... it was like some bloody Jedi mind control, absolutely amazing though.
Anyone else had similar experiences? "
Can I have his number please lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Women can you, do you often orgasm without penetration or genital stimulation?
I’ve always enjoyed very vigorous sex but lately I’ve been meeting a guy who has a totally different approach. He had me orgasming for two hours just by touching and kissing me and sometimes even just looking at where he was going to touch made me orgasm.... it was like some bloody Jedi mind control, absolutely amazing though.
Anyone else had similar experiences?
Can I have his number please lol! "
 no chance I’m keeping him all to myself for as long as possible |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
‘On his clock’  "
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"Women can you, do you often orgasm without penetration or genital stimulation?
I’ve always enjoyed very vigorous sex but lately I’ve been meeting a guy who has a totally different approach. He had me orgasming for two hours just by touching and kissing me and sometimes even just looking at where he was going to touch made me orgasm.... it was like some bloody Jedi mind control, absolutely amazing though.
Anyone else had similar experiences?
Can I have his number please lol! "
Me too please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
‘On his clock’ "
Think it was the ticking motion that made me cum! (bloody predictive text!!) |
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
‘On his clock’
How else would she know it took less than a minute "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
‘On his clock’
How else would she know it took less than a minute "
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Very rare I orgasm from penetrative sex, usually it's only when my clit is involved. However, It has been known for some intensity from me if my neck/ear/back have brisk soft movements on. Unfortunately not all men I've been with can do and I can't pin point why to guide them, but it's not be all and end all because they can't.
Nipples on the other hand, I have no feeling in those things whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My foof does somersaults at the thought of being touched or goes into receptive mode but I’ve never had an orgasm without stimulation "
I had that a lot in the past but never an actual orgasm  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He sounds like a tantra maestro!
If only more men were more interested in trying something more cerebral and intense than the usual jiggery pokery"
It certainly was a new, exciting, experience for me. Thought I preferred it hard and fast but this was definitely an eye opener  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else had similar experiences?
Never 
It's selfish to keep him to yourself- sharing is caring remember "
I’m away for 2 weeks I might have to loan him out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My god I wish I could cum like that! I can only cum from penetration if my clit is stimulated too. I prefer oral, but orgasms from that too are few and far between these days!
Very jealous! |
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"My god I wish I could cum like that! I can only cum from penetration if my clit is stimulated too. I prefer oral, but orgasms from that too are few and far between these days!
Very jealous! "
I’m not saying it’s better I love penetration too but it was something new and exciting that I really enjoyed xx |
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"That sounds amazing
I've *very* occasionally orgasmed through having my nipples played with but only after a lot of stimulation previously."
This for me too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That sounds amazing
I've *very* occasionally orgasmed through having my nipples played with but only after a lot of stimulation previously.
This for me too! "
My nipples aren’t usually sensitive until I am cumming then I like them sucked. The nice this about this experience was he was touching place that aren’t associated with being sexual plus places like my inner thigh, stomach, neck and ears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never experienced an orgasm without been touched although with my ex I did experience the most mind blowing intense orgasms that seemed to take me to a different place.... but I was madly and passionately in love with him.. so don’t know if that made the difference???
Hope not or it’s gonna be a sad life hahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
‘On his clock’ "
Was the clock ticking? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
‘On his clock’
Was the clock ticking? Lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you are really into that person on a mental level and just the sound of them behind you whispering in you're ear what they are going to do to you then it's possible
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over a year ago
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"Sounds Tantric to me. This is my preferred holistic full-body approach but very difficult to find... Lucky you, OP! "
Isn’t tantric supposed to hold off your orgasms until the end for one big explosive orgasm, not orgasming ever few mins xx |
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"Sounds Tantric to me. This is my preferred holistic full-body approach but very difficult to find... Lucky you, OP!
Isn’t tantric supposed to hold off your orgasms until the end for one big explosive orgasm, not orgasming ever few mins xx"
Sorry I misunderstood... I read it as a long build-up. In that case it is an approach which needs to be more widely adopted in my opinion - perhaps he should run courses! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute "
I want to try this! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another time he asked me to just sit on his clock and neither of us move and then he just kissed me until I had the most intense orgasm, which took less than a minute
I want to try this! "
It was amazing, I don’t know why, but it was. It was really difficult not to move and kept finding myself thrusting and him just pulling my hips down so I couldn’t. The orgasm was really internalised, he even said to me that was a quiet one (I’m usually a screamer!) but it was like it just creep up through my body making every inch tingle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All sounds gorgeous! It's great to to hear about any alternative approach to the coarse, extreme scenarios peddled by porn and which truly takes account of connection, sensuality and what really works for the woman. Bravo that man! Does he have any like-minded friends? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All sounds gorgeous! It's great to to hear about any alternative approach to the coarse, extreme scenarios peddled by porn and which truly takes account of connection, sensuality and what really works for the woman. Bravo that man! Does he have any like-minded friends? "
That’s actually what I said to him, all other meets, although good, have thought themselves as wanna be porn stars. They flip you from position to position without a care if you are enjoying it or not (even had a couple spit at me!!). Left me feeling used and crap but he is really sensual and intimate. I’ve told him so and he genuinely doesn’t know what makes him so different, he’s very modest, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All sounds gorgeous! It's great to to hear about any alternative approach to the coarse, extreme scenarios peddled by porn and which truly takes account of connection, sensuality and what really works for the woman. Bravo that man! Does he have any like-minded friends?
That’s actually what I said to him, all other meets, although good, have thought themselves as wanna be porn stars. They flip you from position to position without a care if you are enjoying it or not (even had a couple spit at me!!). Left me feeling used and crap but he is really sensual and intimate. I’ve told him so and he genuinely doesn’t know what makes him so different, he’s very modest,"
Exactly. This is the way forward. Make way for the porn backlash! It sounds like you've found a rare gem, let's just hope there are more like him out there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well, if anyone else would like to try this, I would absolutely love to! I would offer my member to be used for this and anything else they might like to try   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive never cum from penetration alone.. really does my head in to be honest as i love it but always have to have cllitoral stimulation too for orgasm
Theres some bloody lucky ladies on here! |
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"Ive never cum from penetration alone.. really does my head in to be honest as i love it but always have to have cllitoral stimulation too for orgasm
Theres some bloody lucky ladies on here! "
I can cum from penetration alone but it’s rare. Usually it involves the clit and boobies too but I’ve never orgasmed from having my side or arm kissed before. My neck and ears have always been sensitive but my god when he kissed them I was a shivering wreck. The last meet I drove home afterwards and my legs wouldn’t stop shaking in the car! |
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"Ive never cum from penetration alone.. really does my head in to be honest as i love it but always have to have cllitoral stimulation too for orgasm
Theres some bloody lucky ladies on here!
I can cum from penetration alone but it’s rare. Usually it involves the clit and boobies too but I’ve never orgasmed from having my side or arm kissed before. My neck and ears have always been sensitive but my god when he kissed them I was a shivering wreck. The last meet I drove home afterwards and my legs wouldn’t stop shaking in the car! "
That sounds amazing! My kneck and ears are ultra sensitive too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope all the men are taking notes on this thread
Me too "
Oh I'm taking ALL the notes. I'd give my right arm to have the chance to do this. The whole experience spunds incredible
Congrats to you both OP |
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I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive "
Wow sound amazing.
I usually hate it when men talk during sex (especially as said before when they think they’re re-enacting a porno). But I was asking him to talk to me and it was making my orgasms more intense. His voice is so sexy!  |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive "
I’m going to ask him t try more things with me if he’s up for it |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive "
Yes, connection, connection, connection is my mantra but little accepted on here where there's so much of the "wham bam thank you ma'am" attitude. Always makes for mind blowing sex in my experience (and doesn't have to be a long-term partner either) |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive
Wow sound amazing.
I usually hate it when men talk during sex (especially as said before when they think they’re re-enacting a porno). But I was asking him to talk to me and it was making my orgasms more intense. His voice is so sexy! "
We role play all the time and filth talk... Its insanely hot and he's very very good at it! |
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"I hope all the men are taking notes on this thread "
You can take all of the notes you want but there are a lot of women who just are not into it taking too long |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive
Wow sound amazing.
I usually hate it when men talk during sex (especially as said before when they think they’re re-enacting a porno). But I was asking him to talk to me and it was making my orgasms more intense. His voice is so sexy!
We role play all the time and filth talk... Its insanely hot and he's very very good at it!"
I love filth talk during sex but many more women seem to think it's degrading to them |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive
Wow sound amazing.
I usually hate it when men talk during sex (especially as said before when they think they’re re-enacting a porno). But I was asking him to talk to me and it was making my orgasms more intense. His voice is so sexy!
We role play all the time and filth talk... Its insanely hot and he's very very good at it!
I love filth talk during sex but many more women seem to think it's degrading to them "
I’m the porno type talk does nothing for me ie. suck my bitch you dirty slut, and the like, but he was telling me how sexy I am, asking if I liked what he was doing, telling me how good it felt etc and that really turned me on. |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive
Wow sound amazing.
I usually hate it when men talk during sex (especially as said before when they think they’re re-enacting a porno). But I was asking him to talk to me and it was making my orgasms more intense. His voice is so sexy!
We role play all the time and filth talk... Its insanely hot and he's very very good at it!
I love filth talk during sex but many more women seem to think it's degrading to them
I’m the porno type talk does nothing for me ie. suck my bitch you dirty slut, and the like, but he was telling me how sexy I am, asking if I liked what he was doing, telling me how good it felt etc and that really turned me on."
I think the difference here is that it's tailored to the woman in question, rather than completely impersonal and unimaginative. |
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"I've started to have loads of different types of mind blowing orgasms with my fella the more psychologically connected we've become... With some stimulation but last night I was just sat really still on top and he's was holding me tight and whispering filth in my ear and I just started gushing and having multiple orgasms... We play with withholding,edging and orgasms on demand which makes things pretty explosive
Wow sound amazing.
I usually hate it when men talk during sex (especially as said before when they think they’re re-enacting a porno). But I was asking him to talk to me and it was making my orgasms more intense. His voice is so sexy!
We role play all the time and filth talk... Its insanely hot and he's very very good at it!
I love filth talk during sex but many more women seem to think it's degrading to them
I’m the porno type talk does nothing for me ie. suck my bitch you dirty slut, and the like, but he was telling me how sexy I am, asking if I liked what he was doing, telling me how good it felt etc and that really turned me on.
I think the difference here is that it's tailored to the woman in question, rather than completely impersonal and unimaginative."
Absolutely... Its all very personal and connected to our needs and desires. Takes huge amount of trust to go very dark x |
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I once woke up having an orgasm. In fact that's happened twice. Generally I need clit stimulation and can't just cum off a cick, although I am really good at faking it |
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"I once woke up having an orgasm. In fact that's happened twice. Generally I need clit stimulation and can't just cum off a cick, although I am really good at faking it "
love it xx |
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"I once woke up having an orgasm. In fact that's happened twice. Generally I need clit stimulation and can't just cum off a cick, although I am really good at faking it "
I never ever fake it - unfair to both myself and my partner. I have had orgasms during sleep and on waking too, without touch. The mind is very powerful! |
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"Sorry I misunderstood... I read it as a long build-up. In that case it is an approach which needs to be more widely adopted in my opinion - perhaps he should run courses! "
I agree! Though I myself have been lucky to find a few guys who go beyond just the usual 'stick it in' bit. I am very tactile, love being touched and kissed, have been known to cum from just my hand/arm being touched in a certain way.
Have you tried a pin wheel? Sounds like you might really enjoy it, even though it looks vicious, it can heighten the sensations all over your body. Most people are the most sensitive over their backs and bottoms |
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"He sounds like a tantra maestro!
If only more men were more interested in trying something more cerebral and intense than the usual jiggery pokery"
We aint all takers lady! Some of us get our kicks from making a girl cum in everyway possible.. or it it just mee |
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"My god I wish I could cum like that! I can only cum from penetration if my clit is stimulated too. I prefer oral, but orgasms from that too are few and far between these days!
Very jealous! "
Not being a women myself
But hearing a women say she cant come this way or that makes me think maybe she just isnt opening her mind and blocking things with the thought of i cant??? |
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"Sorry I misunderstood... I read it as a long build-up. In that case it is an approach which needs to be more widely adopted in my opinion - perhaps he should run courses!
I agree! Though I myself have been lucky to find a few guys who go beyond just the usual 'stick it in' bit. I am very tactile, love being touched and kissed, have been known to cum from just my hand/arm being touched in a certain way.
Have you tried a pin wheel? Sounds like you might really enjoy it, even though it looks vicious, it can heighten the sensations all over your body. Most people are the most sensitive over their backs and bottoms"
Hmm! Never tried a pinwheel no. It sounds like something you cut pastry with (or as my mum used to do, cut up freshly-made ravioli). Will definitely give it a go if I ever have the chance. |
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"Sorry I misunderstood... I read it as a long build-up. In that case it is an approach which needs to be more widely adopted in my opinion - perhaps he should run courses!
I agree! Though I myself have been lucky to find a few guys who go beyond just the usual 'stick it in' bit. I am very tactile, love being touched and kissed, have been known to cum from just my hand/arm being touched in a certain way.
Have you tried a pin wheel? Sounds like you might really enjoy it, even though it looks vicious, it can heighten the sensations all over your body. Most people are the most sensitive over their backs and bottoms
Hmm! Never tried a pinwheel no. It sounds like something you cut pastry with (or as my mum used to do, cut up freshly-made ravioli). Will definitely give it a go if I ever have the chance. "
Might have to try it too, I’ve had my friend do it up my arm in a bar that’s all, so wasn’t really sexual x |
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