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Is it time to stop flirting?
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over a year ago
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Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever? |
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ? |
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ?"
If I dress up I do it for me, unless someone has specifically asked me to wear lingerie when I meet them.
I only have to wear a summer top, that shows a little cleavage, to be told I look nice.
No one ever says I look nice in trousers and blouse done up to my neck. |
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I never wear bras ever, sometimes on a cold day or if I'm wearing a t shirt or something tight, my nipples will show. If there's a guy walking towards me that I think is attractive I'll let them be free, if there's someone approaching me whom I'm not attracted to, I'll fold my arms to hide my nipples.
I'm not doing it for attention, I've been braless for 11 years because I'm trying to get my pert enhanced boobs to have a bit of sag to them like natural boobs. |
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ?
If I dress up I do it for me, unless someone has specifically asked me to wear lingerie when I meet them.
I only have to wear a summer top, that shows a little cleavage, to be told I look nice.
No one ever says I look nice in trousers and blouse done up to my neck. "
Ultimately people dress for themselves, yes but when people choose to sexily dress up or dress up according to what they thing is sexy, may be to get a reaction of some sort, a compliment or a smile? Otherwise why would be the point of dressing sexy.
Sexy clothes have the purpose of making you feel sexy but if no one pay attention to you in sexy clothes, would it have the effect intended? |
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?"
No, certainly not. How dull would life be. |
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When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention. "
Exactly my point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point "
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse. "
I'll gadly eat it up entirely ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ?
If I dress up I do it for me, unless someone has specifically asked me to wear lingerie when I meet them.
I only have to wear a summer top, that shows a little cleavage, to be told I look nice.
No one ever says I look nice in trousers and blouse done up to my neck.
Ultimately people dress for themselves, yes but when people choose to sexily dress up or dress up according to what they thing is sexy, may be to get a reaction of some sort, a compliment or a smile? Otherwise why would be the point of dressing sexy.
Sexy clothes have the purpose of making you feel sexy but if no one pay attention to you in sexy clothes, would it have the effect intended?"
It also depends on a person's idea of dressing sexy. I don't consider a summer top, with cleavage showing, and shorts to be sexy, but someone else will.
Some men think women wearing an above the knee skirt, stockings and a blouse to be sexy, some women see it as work wear (they could actually be tights but the man won't know).
I may dress in something that I feel sexy in, but don't look sexy to anyone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention. "
People's purpose and intentions will differ though.
When I go out with a man I dress for either myself, or him. It has to be something comfortable too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse.
I'll gadly eat it up entirely ! "
I may smear some Nutella over my boobs too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse.
I'll gadly eat it up entirely !
I may smear some Nutella over my boobs too!"
Now we are talking !!! 
My two favourite thing combined in one ! Boobs and Nutella! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?"
If I got dressed for a night out and I thought I looked "sexy" I would change. I never wear anything short or too low. I don't like seeing it on teenagers and people my age even worse
As for the flirting I find it really cringy so would stop that immediately x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?"
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse.
I'll gadly eat it up entirely ! "
I'd make sure it's DEFINITELY a Bueno! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse.
I'll gadly eat it up entirely !
I'd make sure it's DEFINITELY a Bueno!"
 oopsie, did a poopsie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse.
I'll gadly eat it up entirely !
I'd make sure it's DEFINITELY a Bueno!
oopsie, did a poopsie"
Hahah I am out !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?"
Nothing you've said here justifies any form of abuse. It might make me a SJW snowflake cuk, but the argument that a woman can dress how she wants and approach men was won back in the 1920s.
Don't stop flirting love, It's one of life's great pleasures.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse.
I'll gadly eat it up entirely !
I'd make sure it's DEFINITELY a Bueno!
oopsie, did a poopsie
Hahah I am out !!! "
I'm in!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are. "
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x"
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not. "
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not.
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x"
That's a rare occurance I would think and I still believe some men would look and not say anything or think it's ok to touch.
I have a feeling that intelligence may make a difference here, if It was in public. |
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"When out and about in my daily life I dress for the weather.
When I go shopping I dress for convenience and comfort (easy changing and comfortable walking)
When I go to a bar or club I dress to look better than other women.
When out with a guy I dress sexily so other guys around will look at me and the guy I'm with holds my hand a bit tighter.
When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
Every thing we wear has a purpose and an intention.
Exactly my point
If you were coming over I'd wear nothing but a bueno up my arse. "
I’m crying with laughter!! |
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not.
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x"
If I was talking to a man and his penis was showing I'd tell him, in case he wasn't aware. It all depends on circumstances though. If it were in a club or bar I'd find it very unusual for a man to have his penis showing, but a short skirt could possibly show Every thing. |
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"Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x"
Is it! If I was strolling the promenade of the Costa Geriatrica and I saw an old lady, legs akimbo, the last thing I'm going to do Is shout "Oi, love, your vag is showing."
Also if I'm in a bar and a women Basic Instincts me I'm liable to  silently. |
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"Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
Is it! If I was strolling the promenade of the Costa Geriatrica and I saw an old lady, legs akimbo, the last thing I'm going to do Is shout "Oi, love, your vag is showing."
Also if I'm in a bar and a women Basic Instincts me I'm liable to silently."
Your lovely vag is showing would be more appropriate |
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not.
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
If I was talking to a man and his penis was showing I'd tell him, in case he wasn't aware. It all depends on circumstances though. If it were in a club or bar I'd find it very unusual for a man to have his penis showing, but a short skirt could possibly show Every thing. "
I should have said focus instead of comment sorry x |
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"Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
Is it! If I was strolling the promenade of the Costa Geriatrica and I saw an old lady, legs akimbo, the last thing I'm going to do Is shout "Oi, love, your vag is showing."
Also if I'm in a bar and a women Basic Instincts me I'm liable to silently.
Your lovely vag is showing would be more appropriate "
She's a 90 year old widower. Just enjoying a warm tea and a natter with Glynys. She doesn't want that type of comment from the virtual likes of you or me. That time of her imaginary life has past.
What's wrong with you? |
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"Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
Is it! If I was strolling the promenade of the Costa Geriatrica and I saw an old lady, legs akimbo, the last thing I'm going to do Is shout "Oi, love, your vag is showing."
Also if I'm in a bar and a women Basic Instincts me I'm liable to silently.
Your lovely vag is showing would be more appropriate
She's a 90 year old widower. Just enjoying a warm tea and a natter with Glynys. She doesn't want that type of comment from the virtual likes of you or me. That time of her imaginary life has past.
What's wrong with you?"
I am a lovely twat 
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not.
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
If I was talking to a man and his penis was showing I'd tell him, in case he wasn't aware. It all depends on circumstances though. If it were in a club or bar I'd find it very unusual for a man to have his penis showing, but a short skirt could possibly show Every thing.
I should have said focus instead of comment sorry x"
Anyone would look, it's a pussy on show. I'd look, but I wouldn't think it was appropriate to touch or make lewd comments. Some women might call her disgusting or a tramp etc. It all depends on the individual. |
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not.
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
If I was talking to a man and his penis was showing I'd tell him, in case he wasn't aware. It all depends on circumstances though. If it were in a club or bar I'd find it very unusual for a man to have his penis showing, but a short skirt could possibly show Every thing.
I should have said focus instead of comment sorry x
Anyone would look, it's a pussy on show. I'd look, but I wouldn't think it was appropriate to touch or make lewd comments. Some women might call her disgusting or a tramp etc. It all depends on the individual. "
Yeah I agree x |
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"Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
Is it! If I was strolling the promenade of the Costa Geriatrica and I saw an old lady, legs akimbo, the last thing I'm going to do Is shout "Oi, love, your vag is showing."
Also if I'm in a bar and a women Basic Instincts me I'm liable to silently.
Your lovely vag is showing would be more appropriate
She's a 90 year old widower. Just enjoying a warm tea and a natter with Glynys. She doesn't want that type of comment from the virtual likes of you or me. That time of her imaginary life has past.
What's wrong with you?
I am a lovely twat
But it was a joke not a dick, don't take it too hard "
LOL. Yeah I knew it was a joke. It wasn't a serious question x |
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?"
Ask a tranny? |
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"Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
Is it! If I was strolling the promenade of the Costa Geriatrica and I saw an old lady, legs akimbo, the last thing I'm going to do Is shout "Oi, love, your vag is showing."
Also if I'm in a bar and a women Basic Instincts me I'm liable to silently.
Your lovely vag is showing would be more appropriate
She's a 90 year old widower. Just enjoying a warm tea and a natter with Glynys. She doesn't want that type of comment from the virtual likes of you or me. That time of her imaginary life has past.
What's wrong with you?
I am a lovely twat
But it was a joke not a dick, don't take it too hard
LOL. Yeah I knew it was a joke. It wasn't a serious question x"
I knew it wasn't but wanted to wind you up a bit handsome  |
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are.
It's only natural. You look at someone and your brain makes you think a certain way. Within a certain range you wouldn't bat an eyelid. Out with that it stands out for one reason or another x
The brain also tells you to keep your remarks-and hands-to yourself; or not.
Can't really blame them tho if you are chatting to a female and you can see her vag. It's only natural to comment on it x
If I was talking to a man and his penis was showing I'd tell him, in case he wasn't aware. It all depends on circumstances though. If it were in a club or bar I'd find it very unusual for a man to have his penis showing, but a short skirt could possibly show Every thing.
I should have said focus instead of comment sorry x
Anyone would look, it's a pussy on show. I'd look, but I wouldn't think it was appropriate to touch or make lewd comments. Some women might call her disgusting or a tramp etc. It all depends on the individual. "
Yes I agree lewd comments would be extreme but further up on the thread....My tits are on show so I'll cover up or stick them out further depends who's looking. You must know how you dress (out with a certain range) will get a reaction and thinking a certain way. I wouldn't blame any guy for making comments x |
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What's wrong with you?
I am a lovely twat
But it was a joke not a dick, don't take it too hard
LOL. Yeah I knew it was a joke. It wasn't a serious question x
I knew it wasn't but wanted to wind you up a bit handsome "
Yeah?
Well I knew you knew and I knew you knew I knew.
So suck on that big pants.  |
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What's wrong with you?
I am a lovely twat
But it was a joke not a dick, don't take it too hard
LOL. Yeah I knew it was a joke. It wasn't a serious question x
I knew it wasn't but wanted to wind you up a bit handsome
Yeah?
Well I knew you knew that I love you and I knew you knew I knew.
So I'd love to suck on your big penis. "
Bit did you know that I knew that you knew that I knew that you love me and wanted to suck on bearded penis ? |
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What's wrong with you?
I am a lovely twat
But it was a joke not a dick, don't take it too hard
LOL. Yeah I knew it was a joke. It wasn't a serious question x
I knew it wasn't but wanted to wind you up a bit handsome
Yeah?
Well I knew you knew that I love you and I knew you knew I knew.
So I'd love to suck on your big penis.
Bit did you know that I knew that you knew that I knew that you love me and wanted to suck on bearded penis ?"
This is largely new information.
PS bearded Penis? Is that like breaded Scampi? |
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What's wrong with you?
I am a lovely twat
But it was a joke not a dick, don't take it too hard
LOL. Yeah I knew it was a joke. It wasn't a serious question x
I knew it wasn't but wanted to wind you up a bit handsome
Yeah?
Well I knew you knew that I love you and I knew you knew I knew.
So I'd love to suck on your big penis.
Bit did you know that I knew that you knew that I knew that you love me and wanted to suck on bearded penis ?
This is largely new information.
PS bearded Penis? Is that like breaded Scampi?"
Yes bit little bit smaller bae |
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ?
If I dress up I do it for me, unless someone has specifically asked me to wear lingerie when I meet them.
I only have to wear a summer top, that shows a little cleavage, to be told I look nice.
No one ever says I look nice in trousers and blouse done up to my neck.
Ultimately people dress for themselves, yes but when people choose to sexily dress up or dress up according to what they thing is sexy, may be to get a reaction of some sort, a compliment or a smile? Otherwise why would be the point of dressing sexy.
Sexy clothes have the purpose of making you feel sexy but if no one pay attention to you in sexy clothes, would it have the effect intended?"
Interesting question, Shrodingers cleavage. I say not.
If I dress sexily and feel good about it I reckon I am anticipating the reaction.
When I feel good about myself, I feel good just striding about in jods and boots - it's my own freedom and vitality I enjoy. |
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ?
If I dress up I do it for me, unless someone has specifically asked me to wear lingerie when I meet them.
I only have to wear a summer top, that shows a little cleavage, to be told I look nice.
No one ever says I look nice in trousers and blouse done up to my neck.
Ultimately people dress for themselves, yes but when people choose to sexily dress up or dress up according to what they thing is sexy, may be to get a reaction of some sort, a compliment or a smile? Otherwise why would be the point of dressing sexy.
Sexy clothes have the purpose of making you feel sexy but if no one pay attention to you in sexy clothes, would it have the effect intended?
It also depends on a person's idea of dressing sexy. I don't consider a summer top, with cleavage showing, and shorts to be sexy, but someone else will.
Some men think women wearing an above the knee skirt, stockings and a blouse to be sexy, some women see it as work wear (they could actually be tights but the man won't know).
I may dress in something that I feel sexy in, but don't look sexy to anyone else.
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I’m exactly the same, I don’t wear revealing clothes out and have my own quirky style. I dress for me and if I like what I’m wearing then I feel confident. The pic of mine that gets fabbed the most is one where I’m wearing a high neck blouse,showing a hint of fishnet tights with my long skirt with a slit. I’m not showing any cleavage or bare legs. |
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Dressing yourself in a sexy-ish way to cheer yourself up but not wanting to flirt at all, how does it work ?
You dressed yourself in a sexy way but do not want other to tell you that they find you sexy ?
If I dress up I do it for me, unless someone has specifically asked me to wear lingerie when I meet them.
I only have to wear a summer top, that shows a little cleavage, to be told I look nice.
No one ever says I look nice in trousers and blouse done up to my neck.
Ultimately people dress for themselves, yes but when people choose to sexily dress up or dress up according to what they thing is sexy, may be to get a reaction of some sort, a compliment or a smile? Otherwise why would be the point of dressing sexy.
Sexy clothes have the purpose of making you feel sexy but if no one pay attention to you in sexy clothes, would it have the effect intended?
It also depends on a person's idea of dressing sexy. I don't consider a summer top, with cleavage showing, and shorts to be sexy, but someone else will.
Some men think women wearing an above the knee skirt, stockings and a blouse to be sexy, some women see it as work wear (they could actually be tights but the man won't know).
I may dress in something that I feel sexy in, but don't look sexy to anyone else.
I’m exactly the same, I don’t wear revealing clothes out and have my own quirky style. I dress for me and if I like what I’m wearing then I feel confident. The pic of mine that gets fabbed the most is one where I’m wearing a high neck blouse,showing a hint of fishnet tights with my long skirt with a slit. I’m not showing any cleavage or bare legs. "
I honestly think woman are more sexy when they cover up. Your pictures are a perfect example x |
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When I go to the gym I wear my thickest leggings so you can't see my arse hole when I squat.
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You see, this why I love Fab forums, I learned something today and now I’m going to end up having surreptitious glances... every day Fab somehow takes me a little deeper.... 
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"Sometimes I get dressed up 'sexy-ish'. My intention is to flirt with someone, and entice us into fucking each other.
All consensual - I'm not asking to be attacked, or for me to jump them against their will.
However what if the signals are crossed?
What if they aren't interested in me.
What if I'm dressing sexy-ish to cheer myself up and not wanting to flirt at all.
Where is the line? Is it time to stop flirting ever?
I know what you're saying though. We should be able to dress for ourselves without people making assumptions that we're asking to be treated a certain way just because of how we're dressed. That won't ever happen though. If you turned up to court in flip flops and ripped jeans with an offensive slogan t shirt the judge would look at you and think you have no respect.and you'd be asked to leave.
If a guy wears some stone island jeans and timberlands then some bars and clubs wouldn't let him on cos they'd assume he was a football holligan!
A woman wears a mini skirt with a top that shows her boobs and some people will think that gives them the right to leer or make comments. It's just the way things are. "
Yep exactly this.
It was last night's "Heated debate" thread that made me think of the OP.
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