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over a year ago
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My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat |
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
It depends on how you still feel about her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
Personally, I’d ignore it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea. I don't know you, your ex, anything about your relationship, how you feel, what you want.
If it was my ex would say that's a shame but I've moved on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like it’s “game playing” and wants some “sunshine blown up her arse”.
Clearly, her grass wasn’t greener elsewhere.
Don’t let it mess with your head. |
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
I would discuss it like an adult - that's never the wrong thing to do IMO. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like it’s “game playing” and wants some “sunshine blown up her arse”.
Clearly, her grass wasn’t greener elsewhere.
Don’t let it mess with your head. "
Thats what everyone at work said that shes messing with my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
If you were that disposable in the first place then why would you go back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
I'd say yeh your mum told me last night when I was fucking her like a Jack hammer.
No mate depends on how you feel. If you miss her aswell then talk about it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep am going with nonchalant and not giving a fuck reply.
She says she wants us to be friends. I will ignore it for a day
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She wants to be friend  . That is even more than an insult !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex of mine did similar
I replied to her saying lol did the next guy stand u up or did you text wrong person bye
She then sent more msgs saying it was a mistake etc againreplied lol cos if she split with me obviously she didn’t care |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Wouldn't give her the time of day, no way! Dumping me then using me as a booty call or a shoulder to cry on to get over someone else (perhaps) as and when, nah! Not having any of it, I know my value.
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You split from a reason.
Has that reason been resolved? Or are you both prepared to put the work in to resolve your issues? If so you may have a chance of sucessfully getting back together.
However if nowts changed except she's feeling needy or lonely then sorry it ain't gonna work this time round either so my advice is to ignore her, otherwise prepare to have your heart broken by her again.
Good luck Chuck |
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"Yep am going with nonchalant and not giving a fuck reply.
She says she wants us to be friends. I will ignore it for a day
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Good plan.
I would lock your phone away for the evening to make sure you aren't tempted in responding to her too soon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep am going with nonchalant and not giving a fuck reply.
She says she wants us to be friends. I will ignore it for a day
She wants to be friend . That is even more than an insult !! "
Probably y am annoyed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just feel pissed off, especially as it was a long term relationship feels like i wasted years with her."
You haven't wasted anything as obviously there's been good times. You've also learnt alot and won't make same mistakes you previously may have. |
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"I just feel pissed off, especially as it was a long term relationship feels like i wasted years with her."
ah, now that’s a point of view I’d never have unless ALL the time you had with her was bad. There must have been some good times and good memories. Never think what is past was a waste.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep am going with nonchalant and not giving a fuck reply.
She says she wants us to be friends. I will ignore it for a day
She wants to be friend . That is even more than an insult !!
Probably y am annoyed"
Watch noctural animals tonight dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your life your choice and your decision OP.
No one here can advise you with any degree of objectivity as they know too little of your circumstances.
Do what we all have to do. Make your own decisions and follow your heart head gut or whatever....And whatever you decide remember that communication is the key.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
It's a conversation for you to have with your ex. Do you love her? Are you still in love with her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just fuck her
Hell no, i had to retrain my dick not to even look her way. Not putting my mini me through that boot camp again"
Ah, well think that answers your question! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
"Who is this"? That would be my response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on how you feel about your ex, or if you want to get involved again
You either need to find out her motivation for contacting you, or ignore the text, only.you can decide.
As my ex is my business partner, I have to communicate with her, and it's difficult, but I am man enough to work through it, you have to make that same choice |
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Not a snow balls chance in hell I'd be even responding to her .She made her thoughts on your relationship clear when she ended it .
As the song goes
One: Don't pick up the phone
You know she's only callin' 'cause he's d*unk and alone
Two: Don't let her in
You'll have to kick her out again
Three: Don't be her friend
You know you're gonna wake up in her bed in the morning
And if you're under her, you ain't gettin' over her
Ohh as as for wanting to be friends ... PMSL!!!Tell her you have already got good friends who actually stand by you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the input guys and dolls. My head is focused on whats needs doing
Do not forget to watch the movie tonight
Is it on netflix"
Not sure but pretty sure you can find it online.
You'll love the end ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proberbly realising the grass aint always greener but only you can make the decision pal
Whey up why u split the reasons how happy you were and are before you deside to talk or not she gave up the right to choose what happens next so its all on you mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing unsexier than a man still hung up on his ex.
Either get back with her or move on.
She contacted him"
He’s asking what to do. If he was over her he wouldn’t ask. He’d know. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"There is nothing unsexier than a man still hung up on his ex.
Either get back with her or move on.
She contacted him
He’s asking what to do. If he was over her he wouldn’t ask. He’d know.
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If he was that hung up on her he probably wouldn't be asking at all as he would know the answer |
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Ex's can be friends, im still friends with most of my ex's, I still attend some clubs and party's with my ex.
It all depends on the way you parted and how you both dealt with the split and how you both feel towards each other
But the main fact is there is only you who can make the decision of were the ground lays for how to treat your contact with your ex and were you go from here |
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"My ex text me that she misses me which makes me confused and annoyed because shes the one that broke up with me.
How would you respond and this was a long term relationship. Ps no i didn't cheat"
I wouldn’t reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it’s all depends on your situation. Mine told me to leave and take the kids with me. I never cheeted eather. She only wanted me back when I was happy. And moving on. Do the pros and cons and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m going to give you the advice... I give to all my friends when this situation comes up.....
Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting on the same dirty underwear....
I have not been wrong yet. |
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"I’m going to give you the advice... I give to all my friends when this situation comes up.....
Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting on the same dirty underwear....
I have not been wrong yet."
The flip-side to that coin is my best mate and his wife. They split up for a few months, then got back together. Fourteen years of marriage and two kids later, they prove that ‘never go back’ is a daft rule. |
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"I’m going to give you the advice... I give to all my friends when this situation comes up.....
Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting on the same dirty underwear....
I have not been wrong yet.
The flip-side to that coin is my best mate and his wife. They split up for a few months, then got back together. Fourteen years of marriage and two kids later, they prove that ‘never go back’ is a daft rule."
Yes I've done it a couple of times for genuine reasons. I'm saddened by the amount of vitriol and immaturity on this thread.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m going to give you the advice... I give to all my friends when this situation comes up.....
Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting on the same dirty underwear....
I have not been wrong yet.
The flip-side to that coin is my best mate and his wife. They split up for a few months, then got back together. Fourteen years of marriage and two kids later, they prove that ‘never go back’ is a daft rule."
Your friend is the exception not the rule...
Quick story about my friend and going back to his ex girlfriend....
He dated this beautiful girl that was very materialistic. Not well educated but still a decent and polite person... she dumped him because he was a workaholic and didn’t spend enough time kissing her ass.
I spent a whole summer going out with him , giving him advice, and making sure he was constantly busy so he wouldn’t be depressed. Boom.... he starts dating a great girl, the ex sends him a message on Facebook...
I told him the shower and dirty underwear quote and he said she just wants to be friends.
Well I said “ There is no fuck , like a dumb fuck “
It’s your life do what you want...
This dumb ass hooks up with her late one night. She says she is pregnant, he takes responsibility, gets married , and buys a house.
The twin girls come and they both have flaming redhair and green eyes... he is black as coal... and the mother is blonde with blue eyes... he is now divorced and has to pay child support and alimony for children that are not his....
Moral of the story going back to ex’s is like the tax man review your old tax returns... nothing good will come of it |
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"Your friend is the exception not the rule...
Moral of the story going back to ex’s is like the tax man review your old tax returns... nothing good will come of it"
The point is that there is no ‘rule’. Your friend was stupid to get back with his ex. Mine wasn’t. Trying to take individual cases and then say that there is some kind of ‘rule’ is folly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your friend is the exception not the rule...
Moral of the story going back to ex’s is like the tax man review your old tax returns... nothing good will come of it
The point is that there is no ‘rule’. Your friend was stupid to get back with his ex. Mine wasn’t. Trying to take individual cases and then say that there is some kind of ‘rule’ is folly."
I won’t argue with you , but thank you for your contribution to this thread |
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