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Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences. |
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over a year ago
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences."
Annoying isn’t it |
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How does that even happen, attractive women (social or not) and get stitched up?! Bizzare! any of the lads in the thread have it happen to them much as well? |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it "
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off. |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off."
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply |
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Yeah I’ve been stood up a few times. Years ago I was going to the places and the other person didn’t turn up. From this site I’ve had a few where arrangements have been made but they messaged last minute with an excuse. Could have been genuine but I’m sceptical when things happen like that |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply "
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after |
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Yup I had it last week it was the first time I was looking to meet in months and I thought suns shining would be nice to spend it in the sunshine with someone. Didn't let it ruin my day, spent it in my garden catching the rays |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after "
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you  |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you "
Yeah, which is what I said if you actually read what I wrote  |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off."
There s a word for that...Cunt. |
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"Jusy for a social this morning but still 
Ffs, his or hers loss.  "
How can you say this ?
Without knowing the other person.....
Not picking a fight with you.... but words and statements still mean something to me..
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you
Yeah, which is what I said if you actually read what I wrote "
May be a bit difficult for him though.
It is easier to write a stupid comment with a smiley face ! |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you
Yeah, which is what I said if you actually read what I wrote "
Haha I said it in one and a half sentence |
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I was stood up on a social a couple of weeks ago..
Luckily i chose a place where i could just get on and go shopping anyway, but its annoying nonetheless |
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"How does that even happen, attractive women (social or not) and get stitched up?! Bizzare! any of the lads in the thread have it happen to them much as well?"
happens all the time, you get used to it
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"How does that even happen, attractive women (social or not) and get stitched up?! Bizzare! any of the lads in the thread have it happen to them much as well? happens all the time, you get used to it"
Bit harsh really, I get some people genuinely have something come up but from the amount it appears to happen. A good few if not majority must just be standing people up. Definitely think the review system would be a good idea |
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"This is why I just meet to fuck it’s far easier
Never once been stood up doing that "
Arent you in a relationship anyway? I find people who are are more likely to do that as they arent looking for the chemistry side of fucking |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"How does that even happen, attractive women (social or not) and get stitched up?! Bizzare! any of the lads in the thread have it happen to them much as well? happens all the time, you get used to it
Bit harsh really, I get some people genuinely have something come up but from the amount it appears to happen. A good few if not majority must just be standing people up. Definitely think the review system would be a good idea"
I don't agree that the majority are standing people up, I've not been stood up once in three years. A review system would just be abused. I could say you stood me up, it doesn't make it true! |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
There s a word for that...Cunt. "
2 words. Muggy cunt |
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"This is why I just meet to fuck it’s far easier
Never once been stood up doing that
Arent you in a relationship anyway? I find people who are are more likely to do that as they arent looking for the chemistry side of fucking "
Only for about 8 weeks now but I was single 3 yrs previous to that and I always did it the same way
Never ever had an issue if I ever did come across a wanker it’s nothing a swift kick in bollocks doesn’t solve |
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"How does that even happen, attractive women (social or not) and get stitched up?! Bizzare! any of the lads in the thread have it happen to them much as well? happens all the time, you get used to it
Bit harsh really, I get some people genuinely have something come up but from the amount it appears to happen. A good few if not majority must just be standing people up. Definitely think the review system would be a good idea
I don't agree that the majority are standing people up, I've not been stood up once in three years. A review system would just be abused. I could say you stood me up, it doesn't make it true! "
That's a fair point, maybe I need to go away and reassess how I could make an unabusive review system haha. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"How does that even happen, attractive women (social or not) and get stitched up?! Bizzare! any of the lads in the thread have it happen to them much as well? happens all the time, you get used to it
Bit harsh really, I get some people genuinely have something come up but from the amount it appears to happen. A good few if not majority must just be standing people up. Definitely think the review system would be a good idea
I don't agree that the majority are standing people up, I've not been stood up once in three years. A review system would just be abused. I could say you stood me up, it doesn't make it true!
That's a fair point, maybe I need to go away and reassess how I could make an unabusive review system haha."
Good luck with that |
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"This is why I just meet to fuck it’s far easier
Never once been stood up doing that
Arent you in a relationship anyway? I find people who are are more likely to do that as they arent looking for the chemistry side of fucking
Only for about 8 weeks now but I was single 3 yrs previous to that and I always did it the same way
Never ever had an issue if I ever did come across a wanker it’s nothing a swift kick in bollocks doesn’t solve "
Will add that I had a good chemistry with everyone I met too ask the right questions through a few messages and you soon get measure of who someone is |
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"This is why I just meet to fuck it’s far easier
Never once been stood up doing that
Arent you in a relationship anyway? I find people who are are more likely to do that as they arent looking for the chemistry side of fucking
Only for about 8 weeks now but I was single 3 yrs previous to that and I always did it the same way
Never ever had an issue if I ever did come across a wanker it’s nothing a swift kick in bollocks doesn’t solve
Will add that I had a good chemistry with everyone I met too ask the right questions through a few messages and you soon get measure of who someone is "
Im pretty careful.. I always think I’ve got a good measure of someone but clearly not haha |
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"This is why I just meet to fuck it’s far easier
Never once been stood up doing that
Arent you in a relationship anyway? I find people who are are more likely to do that as they arent looking for the chemistry side of fucking
Only for about 8 weeks now but I was single 3 yrs previous to that and I always did it the same way
Never ever had an issue if I ever did come across a wanker it’s nothing a swift kick in bollocks doesn’t solve
Will add that I had a good chemistry with everyone I met too ask the right questions through a few messages and you soon get measure of who someone is
Im pretty careful.. I always think I’ve got a good measure of someone but clearly not haha "
Same here. |
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You're gorgeous OP, they must be idiots.
I've only been stood up once, thank god, but it's damn frustrating.
Everything in life happens for a reason though OP, they probably had the personality of a plank of wood anyway.
Onwards and upwards, get messaging some hot people and get another date set. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply "
It’s very annoying. I’ve moved things around recently to accommodate them, then to be blanked and then come back at a later date with a rubbish excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You're gorgeous OP, they must be idiots.
I've only been stood up once, thank god, but it's damn frustrating.
Everything in life happens for a reason though OP, they probably had the personality of a plank of wood anyway.
Onwards and upwards, get messaging some hot people and get another date set. "
Thank you Ruby you too   |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you
Yeah, which is what I said if you actually read what I wrote
May be a bit difficult for him though.
It is easier to write a stupid comment with a smiley face !"
Yep.
It's extremely annoying having your time wasted,I just don't understand people who do it. Is it because they dont have the guts to meet or genuinely enjoy messing people about. |
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"This is why I just meet to fuck it’s far easier
Never once been stood up doing that
Arent you in a relationship anyway? I find people who are are more likely to do that as they arent looking for the chemistry side of fucking
Only for about 8 weeks now but I was single 3 yrs previous to that and I always did it the same way
Never ever had an issue if I ever did come across a wanker it’s nothing a swift kick in bollocks doesn’t solve
Will add that I had a good chemistry with everyone I met too ask the right questions through a few messages and you soon get measure of who someone is
Im pretty careful.. I always think I’ve got a good measure of someone but clearly not haha "
Yup same here, mine was a forum user too and I could call him out on it but not worth the 48hour ban |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you
Yeah, which is what I said if you actually read what I wrote
May be a bit difficult for him though.
It is easier to write a stupid comment with a smiley face !
Yep.
It's extremely annoying having your time wasted,I just don't understand people who do it. Is it because they dont have the guts to meet or genuinely enjoy messing people about. "
All sort of different reasons I imagine, I have up trying to understand people a long time ago, hell, I do even understand myself some days  |
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"Happens to me more and more.
I've come to the conclusion they think that by the time the social happens they'll have talked you into dropping your undies. When they realise you aren't budging as far letting them in your vag right away they decide against it but don't have the balls to admit it.
That's my take on it anyway going on recent experiences.
Annoying isn’t it
Very. My most recent was Thursday. Grrrr. Waste of a beautiful day off.
You move stuff around, get up early on a Sunday... and then no reply
From reading your profile I’m certain I wouldn’t be what you’re after but I’d be more than happy to jump on the bike and come over to Bristol and meet you for a coffee and a chat, so at least it’s not a complete wasted day. But I bet you’ll have a lot more offers from guys that do fit what you’re after
From reading her profile.. I don’t think she wants the like of you
Yeah, which is what I said if you actually read what I wrote
May be a bit difficult for him though.
It is easier to write a stupid comment with a smiley face !
Yep.
It's extremely annoying having your time wasted,I just don't understand people who do it. Is it because they dont have the guts to meet or genuinely enjoy messing people about.
All sort of different reasons I imagine, I have up trying to understand people a long time ago, hell, I do even understand myself some days "
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"I have a suspicion that my meet tonight won't bother. Gone awfully quiet.
Sigh..."
It’s annoying isn’t it?? Why can’t they just have the balls to say they’ve changed their mind, or admit they’re scared and nervous. It can be scary meeting someone new, but push through it or let the other person you can’t do it. Leaving them hanging just makes it worse |
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"Jusy for a social this morning but still
How strange.
And surprising....
You're surprised that people get stood up on here?"
I think it’s more the surprise of someone of the OP’s appearance being stood up. |
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Crazy people.
My boyfriend and I posted a meet up, a barrage of "hey fancy a chat" "cam now" messages ensued.
Chat!?? Cam, We doth indeed think not. Having a bubble I think. |
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"Jusy for a social this morning but still
How strange.
And surprising....
You're surprised that people get stood up on here?
I think it’s more the surprise of someone of the OP’s appearance being stood up. "
so if it was someone unattractive it would be ok  |
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"Jusy for a social this morning but still
How strange.
And surprising....
You're surprised that people get stood up on here?
I think it’s more the surprise of someone of the OP’s appearance being stood up. so if it was someone unattractive it would be ok "
No, it’s never ok. I was trying to explain why I think some people are surprised the OP was stood up. I’m not particularly attractive to the moajority of people myself and it’s still annoying as hell when stood up |
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"Jusy for a social this morning but still
How strange.
And surprising....
You're surprised that people get stood up on here?
I think it’s more the surprise of someone of the OP’s appearance being stood up. so if it was someone unattractive it would be ok "
so it would seem |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"Jusy for a social this morning but still "
That sounds so annoying, I've only been let down once so have been lucky. It's really frustrating to be all excited about the prospect of meeting someone new only to be stood up.
I'm close to Bristol and I'm super reliable... just saying |
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"I think a lot of people hedge their bets... make plans but happy to look for a better offer. "
Very true ...... if someone sets a coffee social and a let’s meet now in my hotel sex offer comes along... most people would go for the sex offer. Conversely if a couple sets up a date with a single guy but a hot couple offer comes along most couples would take the Couples offer.
I’m not saying it’s right but these things happen |
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