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Swingers & Swingers... Advice and input would be very much appreciated..
THE Opening line on a message...
Anyone got any tried and tested openers... they would care to share... that gets you a genuine response..
Also... GENUINE feedback on my bio would be also appreciated..
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over a year ago
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"Thing is on POF I did stupidly well with my random convo openers... On here seems to be a different story... I get the views, fabs, winks, hotlist.... but the reply ZILCH "
I just think it’s the woman are holding the cards, you have to like the chsllenge just don’t take it personally. You will be fine, as long as your looking for a good time, otherwise back to Pof, they always want to meet again. on here they don’t care. |
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over a year ago
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"You are verified by a bi man and verified him but state you are most definitely straight on your profile, I expect that puts people off. "
Maybe that’s why he’s on asking advise as he’s not met anyone yet x |
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"You are verified by a bi man and verified him but state you are most definitely straight on your profile, I expect that puts people off.
Maybe that’s why he’s on asking advise as he’s not met anyone yet x"
I met that guy with his female friend.. had drinks and banter... (laying the groundworks for possible future MfM fun) |
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"Swingers & Swingers... Advice and input would be very much appreciated..
THE Opening line on a message...
Anyone got any tried and tested openers... they would care to share... that gets you a genuine response..
Also... GENUINE feedback on my bio would be also appreciated..
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Interesting. Bi male. Are you sure you are straight OP. The wording on your veri doesn't quite say it for me. You should be honest. No shsme in it if you are but honesty is good. People msy be a bit wary to meet |
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"Swingers & Swingers... Advice and input would be very much appreciated..
THE Opening line on a message...
Anyone got any tried and tested openers... they would care to share... that gets you a genuine response..
Also... GENUINE feedback on my bio would be also appreciated..
Interesting. Bi male. Are you sure you are straight OP. The wording on your veri doesn't quite say it for me. You should be honest. No shsme in it if you are but honesty is good. People msy be a bit wary to meet"
Very much straight thank you...
As we seem to getting off topic... which was opening lines not my sexuality..
Genuine feedback on making my bio is appreciated and obviously opening lines...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swingers & Swingers... Advice and input would be very much appreciated..
THE Opening line on a message...
Anyone got any tried and tested openers... they would care to share... that gets you a genuine response..
Also... GENUINE feedback on my bio would be also appreciated..
Interesting. Bi male. Are you sure you are straight OP. The wording on your veri doesn't quite say it for me. You should be honest. No shsme in it if you are but honesty is good. People msy be a bit wary to meet
Very much straight thank you...
As we seem to getting off topic... which was opening lines not my sexuality..
Genuine feedback on making my bio is appreciated and obviously opening lines...
You say you done well on Pof and in pubs? Don’t change your tact it’s just a woman controlled environment on here a lot of men, so have confidence I’ve been knocked back a good bit but I just laugh.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?"
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try reading their profile/status and reference something from there for your opening line? It may help show you’ve read their profile and get noticed so they open it x |
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call "
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the kink.
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the kink.
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And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the kink.
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here? "
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case  |
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the kink.
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case "
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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OP. The "Opening Line" is subjective with everyone. What is suitable for one person may well mean the opposite to others or put them off entirely.
What you have to do is read the Profiles and pick up on signals or links on Profiles you like and create your approach from that.
There's rarely any ONE line which will appeal to all.
But I see you've only been on for 2 weeks. Had you thought it would be easy to source meets on here?
It doesn't work that way. In the West Midlands, there are 100's of guys just like you seeking the same thing!
You have to set your Profile above the rest to make it stand out.
You have to put in the effort to appeal to those you are trying to appeal. I change my profile on a regular basis and it works for me.
It does work but it could take a while. For some guys it can usually take months!
Good Luck. |
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There’s only one way to get a response; your target audience likes your message and thinks your profile offers what they’re looking for. It’s not magic or one size fits all.
Many folk read profiles and verifications prior to reading a message and many will make an instant decision based on what they read. It’s already been mentioned you have a veri from a bi man - it WILL put some folk off. Just the way it is here.
You might want to read some of the very many threads on profile and picture advice - are you selling yourself in the best possible light? Are you clear about what you can offer?
Good luck. |
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over a year ago
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the kink.
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter "
You suggested I struggle to get a man off here. An you guys wonder why their is a shortage of women on here. It was a debate till you started throwing insults about!  |
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over a year ago
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter
You suggested I struggle to get a man off here. An you guys wonder why their is a shortage of women on here. It was a debate till you started throwing insults about! "
That’s your opinion woman are only here because they can’t get men off here. Like I said WOW  |
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter
You suggested I struggle to get a man off here. An you guys wonder why their is a shortage of women on here. It was a debate till you started throwing insults about!
That’s your opinion woman are only here because they can’t get men off here. Like I said WOW "
That’s not what I meant, I meant you obviously can get men anywhere but you chose to come on here. Same as the OP, and me. Crossed wires not here to argue was just trying to give advise |
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over a year ago
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter
You suggested I struggle to get a man off here. An you guys wonder why their is a shortage of women on here. It was a debate till you started throwing insults about!
That’s your opinion woman are only here because they can’t get men off here. Like I said WOW
That’s not what I meant, I meant you obviously can get men anywhere but you chose to come on here. Same as the OP, and me. Crossed wires not here to argue was just trying to give advise "
You clearly are. As I asked op a question, not you. An if I need advice I’ll open my own forum up an ask for it  |
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over a year ago
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter
You suggested I struggle to get a man off here. An you guys wonder why their is a shortage of women on here. It was a debate till you started throwing insults about!
That’s your opinion woman are only here because they can’t get men off here. Like I said WOW
That’s not what I meant, I meant you obviously can get men anywhere but you chose to come on here. Same as the OP, and me. Crossed wires not here to argue was just trying to give advise
You clearly are. As I asked op a question, not you. An if I need advice I’ll open my own forum up an ask for it "
The OP advise not you. if I annoyed you I apologise not my intention. Good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP. It isn’t just the opening line; profiles tell a lot about people and the wording and content may influence whether or not to reply far more than the opening message. |
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"Thing is on POF I did stupidly well with my random convo openers... On here seems to be a different story... I get the views, fabs, winks, hotlist.... but the reply ZILCH "
Which begs the question
Why not just stay on Pof? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you do so well on pof why come here?
Is that the point? Do you struggle to get men outside of here? I’m sure not but not my business why your here, it’s our own call
Wow you’re one of those men.
Is that your reply when a woman on here doesn’t want to meet you.
I do just fine off here thanks. I’m here for the kink.
And so is the op but he isnt questioning why your here?
He said he does stupidly well on pof
What is your problem? He’s the one asking for advice an when people give it or ask questions, you jump on the case
I thought we where having a debate you said one of those men I’m just giving my opinion. Your on here for kink and so is he, me too for that matter
You suggested I struggle to get a man off here. An you guys wonder why their is a shortage of women on here. It was a debate till you started throwing insults about! "
He didn’t suggest you struggle to get a man off here. |
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