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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well after an accident in Thailand the condom split.. I came back and got tested and got the all clear for all.
I have been speaking to a lady on Fab who went eeewww I wouldn't fuck you. You have been tested for diseases. I thought I was being fair and telling her that it was all clear.. I could have said nothing but then if it ever came out.. so did I do right or SHUT MY GOB. Answers on a postcard pse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well after an accident in Thailand the condom split.. I came back and got tested and got the all clear for all.
I have been speaking to a lady on Fab who went eeewww I wouldn't fuck you. You have been tested for diseases. I thought I was being fair and telling her that it was all clear.. I could have said nothing but then if it ever came out.. so did I do right or SHUT MY GOB. Answers on a postcard pse."
Sure it wasn't a ladyboy?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't shag anyone who thought that having an STD test was "Ewwww", god knows what she's carrying....."
Kind.of need to agree with you there, it's just part of being responsible! Which is why I go regularly! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Absolutely the right thing - I get tested regularly and will usually mention it to people I am potentially meeting - it's the responsible thing to do and I don't understand the reaction of this "lady" at all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thank you all..
There was me thinking I must have made a mistake and buried my head in the sand.. and everything would be alright.. Not a chance test everytime. |
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I agree getting tested is the responsible thing to do.
However, it's never crossed my mind to let someone, I've never met, know that I have had the all clear. If your last one wasn't all clear but you now have the all clear would you inform that.
I just don't see the need to let someone know, unless you have something. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
We dont feel the need to share our 'all clear'... Ive noticed a few profiles stating the date of their last test... makes me cringe a tiny bit, a little like those who feel the need to share that they are always freshly showered... surely some things go without saying?
We ARE tested regularly and DO ALWAYS play entirely safe.
I think sometimes people put the details on profiles or messages in the hope of getting bareback fun? Maybe im overthinking it? |
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Anyone who reacts that way to testing, IMO, obviously doesn't get tested.
I can't understand, people in this lifestyle who don't get tested.
It's a free service, takes a few minutes & could save your, and others, lives |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"We dont feel the need to share our 'all clear'... Ive noticed a few profiles stating the date of their last test... makes me cringe a tiny bit, a little like those who feel the need to share that they are always freshly showered... surely some things go without saying?
We ARE tested regularly and DO ALWAYS play entirely safe.
I think sometimes people put the details on profiles or messages in the hope of getting bareback fun? Maybe im overthinking it?"
Sometimes assuming it goes without saying leads to misunderstandings and worse. I don't see anything wrong in making it clear that you do get checked. The conversation that follows can be enlightening, as in the OP's case.
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