...my pics if I'm not meeting?
Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.
It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.
Do you agree? |
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"I'm sure its upto you, its your profile.
Why are you asking everything else what you should do? x"
I totally agree with you.
I'm simply curious as to what others think. I'll do as I please regardless of what people say on here  |
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"I'm sure its upto you, its your profile.
Why are you asking everything else what you should do? x
I totally agree with you.
I'm simply curious as to what others think. I'll do as I please regardless of what people say on here "
Excellent x |
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"By that reckoning every woman who's on the blob and not into blood play should hide their photos once a month. I'm pretty sure the fellas would moan about that!
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Actually that’s not a bad idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.
At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed. |
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"You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.
At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed."
I just delete and block any unwanted attention.
I just wondered if others thought it was odd to display pics if you're not meeting. |
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"By that reckoning every woman who's on the blob and not into blood play should hide their photos once a month. I'm pretty sure the fellas would moan about that!
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That nearly made me ch*ke!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you don't want others to see your pics,then yes,hide them.
If on the other hand,you have four fingers and a thumb,raise that hand and bitch slap the person who told you to take down your pics.  |
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"If you don't want others to see your pics,then yes,hide them.
If on the other hand,you have four fingers and a thumb,raise that hand and bitch slap the person who told you to take down your pics. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you change your "Looking For" preferences to 98-99, that should deflect a lot of unwanted attention "
Doesn't work, I tried that and still got quite a few. I now have no looking for so I don't come up in searches but still doesn't deflect totally |
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Its your profile and your choice. I do understand why you're asking the question as I've also had the "well why do you post pics if you're not meeting?" at times.
You can always use your filters if you want to reduce the amount of people who can contact you. I find that useful  |
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"...my pics if I'm not meeting?
Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.
It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.
Do you agree? "
Yes you should hide under my quilt until the thingy runs out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...my pics if I'm not meeting?
Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.
It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.
Do you agree? "
Nooo be proud that others like me appreciate them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...my pics if I'm not meeting?
Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.
It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.
Do you agree? "
No. |
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"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.
I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...
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Ego boost.  |
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"...my pics if I'm not meeting?
Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.
It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.
Do you agree? "
It’s your profile and they’re your photos. If you wanna keep them up then go for it  |
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"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.
I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...
Ego boost. "
What is?
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"You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.
At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed.
I just delete and block any unwanted attention.
I just wondered if others thought it was odd to display pics if you're not meeting."
Odd ? , no as nothing is odd anymore on here !
Pointless ? Yes , as why would you want to get the attention you’ll inevitably get by displaying them ? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Your profile is clear that you're not meeting, so if people mail you trying to meet simply because you have pictures they can't be surprised when you delete.
Having said that I personally hide my profile when I'm not looking to meet as I don't really see the point displaying it otherwise. No right or wrong way though, do what you want! |
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"You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.
At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed.
I just delete and block any unwanted attention.
I just wondered if others thought it was odd to display pics if you're not meeting.
Odd ? , no as nothing is odd anymore on here !
Pointless ? Yes , as why would you want to get the attention you’ll inevitably get by displaying them ? "
There are several people on site I have and will meet, they seem to appreciate my pics.
I don't mind a little positive attention, compliments are lovely to hear.
When I was meeting I didn't hide my pics from everyone I didn't fancy, what's the difference? |
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"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.
I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...
Ego boost.
What is?
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Getting positive comments is an ego boost. An ego boost is a good thing. Everyone wants to feel good. |
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