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Mean thing said?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just tell them to eff off..

Then block them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just tell them to eff off..

Then block them

"
i know thanks sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just tell them to eff off..

Then block them

i know thanks sexy"

Well if you know you should do that rather than start another thread about it..

Dont give them more ammo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just tell them to eff off..

Then block them

i know thanks sexy

Well if you know you should do that rather than start another thread about it..

Dont give them more ammo

"
ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been very,very lucky on here. Not had any abuse. ( watches inbox for hate mail

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've also been quite lucky considering the knobhead comments I put but it's early days yet.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

People have said mean things to us on here but they had so little effect on us that neither of us can remember any of the things said.

The problem with the internet is that people can say things to others that they would never say to their face.

I once commented on a minor celebrities Twitter feed. They and their followers took a dislike to a fairly innocuous remark and the vitriol and bile that was aimed at me was incredible. I blocked the person but it opened my eyes to how many people will just follow what others do even when it's deeply unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People who insult others it speaks more about them than you buddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was called ugly the other day by a silhouette

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once a man messaged me and told me I should put my flabby belly away. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've also been quite lucky considering the knobhead comments I put but it's early days yet. "

Give it time silly bollocks

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

It’s just a sad reflection of modern day communication. Not exclusive to Fab of course. The combination of a keyboard and anonymity and I guess a target audience.

Block.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

God. Where do I start?! I get tons!!

The tranny comments and the ‘eugh what’s happened to your belly’ are my fave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've also been quite lucky considering the knobhead comments I put but it's early days yet.

Give it time silly bollocks

Silly bollocks... Yeh that's probably the meanest thing someone's said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't remember, I don't dwell on negative comments from strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loads of comments, but we move on and use the block button. Also don’t suffer fools gladly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Silly little bitchy comments on the forums...

Not going to loose sleep over it.

Says more about them then it does myself.

Block button is my friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"God. Where do I start?! I get tons!!

The tranny comments and the ‘eugh what’s happened to your belly’ are my fave"

Ffs. Some absolute pricks out there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman contacted me to tell me I'm too young to be in here and I have the body of a boy.Then she blocked me before I could reply.

I take no notice if idiots.

So mean words only come from mean bitter people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone called me a donut once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take no bloody notice, they are obviously a sad pathetic individual if they have to put others down.

I've been called all the names under the sun, but I never let it bother me.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

It’s the blocking that annoys me (cowardly) but also makes me laugh at how pathetic they are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s the blocking that annoys me (cowardly) but also makes me laugh at how pathetic they are"

That's the part that makes me laugh.They say something nasty then run away and block you hahahaha idiots lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Take no bloody notice, they are obviously a sad pathetic individual if they have to put others down.

I've been called all the names under the sun, but I never let it bother me."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s the blocking that annoys me (cowardly) but also makes me laugh at how pathetic they are"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice.

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By *ickyRoosterMan over a year ago

Uppendown

I was welcomed to Fab by someone who said it was great to see someone with a 'beautiful small willy'. It made me chortle. Didn't affect me at all.

Right.Just off to remove these weights from my nethers. They're murder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice."
i know now thanks

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I have been really lucky- nothing really nasty...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks"

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been called a fat ugly bastard on more than one occasion, oh well, never mind

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I'm surprised I haven't had more abuse considering some of the shit I post.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

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By *abmummy27Woman over a year ago

up north

The worst i been called is a prick haha not really had abusive things said other than that from what I can see here I've been very lucky.. However i did gain a very nasty stalker on my old profile who said some awful things

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

A few mean things, but not a lot considering. Either that I am fat and/or 'up myself' or words to that effect. The first doesn't really upset me since I know I am a lot less fat than I used to be and have always had the same face, which I happen to like, and people on here don't often see that anyway. The second doesn't really upset me either since it tells me I was right not be interested since their default reaction is butthurtedness at my lack of a favourable response.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been lucky easy letdowns

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Disgrace to your race, lost count of how many times 'I bet your Dad's proud of you' comments, latest one of them was yesterday. **Yawn.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman over a year ago

Somewhere

Oh yes there is so many sharks on here and nasty little worms .

I get abusive messages daily .

I am not part of any clique but I am blunt .

They call me fat old cow, they use very offensive language which I can’t even write on here, they accuse me for stealing other girls photos ( although all photos on my profile are of me ) .

But mainly abuse is from men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx"

Did I miss something? Why can't he enjoy the rest of it?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Ugly bloke in a dress

I'm disgusting

I need to seek professional help

I need to kill myself

Blah blah blah, unfortunately even on a swingers site there is still bigoted assholes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had lots of abuse, a lot referencing the fact I'm disabled. I hardly get any abuse in pm though, and only when I've deleted their message, with or without reading.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Had a few things, does tend to amuse me a tad, well until it becomes, “fishing in a barrel”.

I have a rather dry sense of humour, it does get slightly misinterpreted occasionally, well some of the time, well... mmm.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I used to get a lot more abuse in my first couple of years here but I don't see it as mean, just them being abusive for the sake of it.

I object to some of it and that will create some abuse.

The funniest one on here was that I write 'posh' so I must be telling porkies about my experience of childhood poverty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't say I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx"
i do love the forum but i also like to meet people but i keep putting my foot in it saying the wrong things

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Can't say I have."

Me neither,

They have either been subtle and gone right over my head or I have brushed their comments off as opinions rather then being mean

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By *attoo manMan over a year ago

Rhyl

"Once a man messaged me and told me I should put my flabby belly away. XXX"
Then he was a dickhead. Just seen your pics and fab them. Very hot x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx i do love the forum but i also like to meet people but i keep putting my foot in it saying the wrong things

Did you go to the Chester Social that you'd put your name down for OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx i do love the forum but i also like to meet people but i keep putting my foot in it saying the wrong things

Did you go to the Chester Social that you'd put your name down for OP?

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i could not go due to a death in the family that night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had a message directed to Fred telling me I had great tits but I should run my pig belly off, I guess he had a point but lacked tact

Ginger

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx

Did I miss something? Why can't he enjoy the rest of it?"

I didn’t mean that at all.

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx

Did I miss something? Why can't he enjoy the rest of it?

I didn’t mean that at all.

I read this and you meant the site is for the poster as he enjoys the forums

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx

Did I miss something? Why can't he enjoy the rest of it?

I didn’t mean that at all.

I read this and you meant the site is for the poster as he enjoys the forums

Yes!! I’m here for the forums mainly. I think I have a habit of assuming all regular forumites are. I enjoy OPs input.

Xxx

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx

Did I miss something? Why can't he enjoy the rest of it?

I didn’t mean that at all.

I read this and you meant the site is for the poster as he enjoys the forums

Yes!! I’m here for the forums mainly. I think I have a habit of assuming all regular forumites are. I enjoy OPs input.

Xxx"

I’ve only just discovered you in the forums and I’m already enjoying your posts x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone said I had terrible taste in tea, doesn’t get much worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What was the means thing someone told you on here. at the start of joining i was called fat now they telling me this is not for me?

I don't think that telling you that the site isnt for you is mean. That's just advice. i know now thanks

I disagree. Why’s the site not for you? You enjoy the forums don’t you? Xx

Did I miss something? Why can't he enjoy the rest of it?

I didn’t mean that at all.

I read this and you meant the site is for the poster as he enjoys the forums

Yes!! I’m here for the forums mainly. I think I have a habit of assuming all regular forumites are. I enjoy OPs input.

Xxx"
not everyone like my input on here

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Someone said I had terrible taste in tea, doesn’t get much worse.

Do you know about ambient tea?

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I can't say I've had many insults.

I was once referred to as "scrawny" on the forums, but that's about it.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Too many to list, some people don't handle rejection well.

The funniest has got to be 'stuck up frigid bitch'

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Too many to list, some people don't handle rejection well.

The funniest has got to be 'stuck up frigid bitch' "

It must be chilly up there in the clouds.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Too many to list, some people don't handle rejection well.

The funniest has got to be 'stuck up frigid bitch'

It must be chilly up there in the clouds.

It's OK... I don't feel the cold

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My worst insults have actually come from men I have never spoken to never mind rejected, the internet is a strange place indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They make me laugh more than anything . Hiding behind their keyboards , wouldn't have the balls to say it to my face .

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Some men have assumed I’m non English and. not white and have given me racial abuse.

Made me laugh really as I’ve hidden my profile a while ago....

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

At least most of you ladies ones are people taking rejection badly, mine are from people I've never even spoken to lol

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By *egs11ABCWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

"People who insult others it speaks more about them than you buddy

True and the abuse iv had is cos iv said no to meeting. We all like different things and if someone doesn't want to meet me I just move on, not give them abuse x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"At least most of you ladies ones are people taking rejection badly, mine are from people I've never even spoken to lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone said I had terrible taste in tea, doesn’t get much worse.

Do you know about ambient tea?

Yes, I’ve got all there albums!

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Years ago, one of my abusive messages of many I had received was from a supposed 'Doctor' being concerned about me being anorexic as my boobs were just 'air bags' that wasn't natural for a woman my age, and it went on for paragraph after paragraph, I think the internet was just a new toy for him to explore and be a pretend persona, who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Baie dankie vir al die antwoorde

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Out of the blue I was told that I’m “totally up myself” and I’m not all that and my husband only gets action because of me....

Firstly that’s a very contradictory statement and secondly hubby has his own profile and does perfectly well without me

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Out of the blue I was told that I’m “totally up myself” and I’m not all that and my husband only gets action because of me....

Firstly that’s a very contradictory statement and secondly hubby has his own profile and does perfectly well without me

MrsK x"
lucky man your hubby

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