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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Life has its ups and downs and things go wrong sometimes or dont work out how you wish them to.
This happens in all parts of life so why are people so surprised when it happens on fab.
You have individuals who will cancel meets because they have had a better offer
You will have people who don't even turn up on a arranged meet
Some people will drop off the face of the earth (user nolonger on fab) or simply stop messaging.
You will meet some people and the play will not work if you even play with them
And sometimes you hit that special formula which means a great time is had by all.
There are many reasons why the above happen, it may just be fantasy for some and they chicken out before the meet.
They may think that it's fun to keep someone haning on for a meet and they like that power.
It could be some people have busy lives and as such generally do struggle meeting up.
Some simply put just don't have any manners at all.
There are many reasons most of which are out of control. The one thing we do have is control on how we respond to the situation.
It's amazing the amount of passive aggressive status posted on fab. Or forum posts bad mouthing or naming and shaming etc.
Non of this looks good on the individual and I think can put people off messaging you.
I think on the long run simply remove them/end conversation and move on to people who actually want to play and get to know you.
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