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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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4 weeks tonight until it happens, yes it's a long way in advance but I enjoy the anticipation and build up, so why the hell not start it early.
Anyone else counting down? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me. |
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"4 weeks tonight until it happens, yes it's a long way in advance but I enjoy the anticipation and build up, so why the hell not start it early.
Anyone else counting down?"
Yes and even longer, top couple we clicked with in minutes of meeting and could have been friends for years. Had a bit/got some real life things that prevented us meeting up before then on both sides. Well worth the wait though and really looking forward to it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!"
Wow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm trying to synchronise free time to have a drink with a lovely Mexican bar owner. This is a very busy time for me with childminding and it's difficult to get time for a train ride into London. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!"
What you on about? |
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1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!
Wow! "
They're not word's I would never say something like that,I'm wayyyyy to nice. |
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1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!
Wow!
They're not word's I would never say something like that,I'm wayyyyy to nice."
Oops missing word's again. Stick a 'my' in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me. "
I’ll be needing a picture of his beautiful face |
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me. "
Hope no one else from here seeing this knows where you live otherwise you might be waking up to the wrong guy. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!
Wow!
They're not word's I would never say something like that,I'm wayyyyy to nice."
Ah, that explains it (kind of) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me.
I’ll be needing a picture of his beautiful face "
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"4 weeks tonight until it happens, yes it's a long way in advance but I enjoy the anticipation and build up, so why the hell not start it early.
Anyone else counting down?"
Hope all goes well for you OP
Me, still working on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me.
Hope no one else from here seeing this knows where you live otherwise you might be waking up to the wrong guy. Lol "
Also they'd get a pleasant surprise of a lighter and hairspray to the face in the form of a homemade blow torch. |
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me.
Hope no one else from here seeing this knows where you live otherwise you might be waking up to the wrong guy. Lol
Also they'd get a pleasant surprise of a lighter and hairspray to the face in the form of a homemade blow torch. "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me.
Hope no one else from here seeing this knows where you live otherwise you might be waking up to the wrong guy. Lol
Also they'd get a pleasant surprise of a lighter and hairspray to the face in the form of a homemade blow torch. "
McGyver is that u |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!"
Jeez woman, calm yourself down and take a chill pill. Just having a bit of fun in the forums. Some women are being weird today with themselves. |
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1) totally overthinking it
2) bragging that you've been asked out
3) being a bit of a drama llama and looking for attention
Word's to that effect eh!
Jeez woman, calm yourself down and take a chill pill. Just having a bit of fun in the forums. Some women are being weird today with themselves."
I know right,same old same on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes me to tomorrow! It's with my first ever meet from here 7 years ago! He won't get here till late so doing the whole leave my door open where I'll be hopefully asleep (or at least pretending to be) when he comes in and finds me. "
Very jealous of the lucky guy |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"im going out tomorrow, first time since November. hope everyone has a lovely time with their meets xx
Suzy!! Hello!!!!!! Xx"
oh my is that a wedding pic???? thats amazing xxxx love you guys are you ok? (stupid question)xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im going out tomorrow, first time since November. hope everyone has a lovely time with their meets xx
Suzy!! Hello!!!!!! Xxoh my is that a wedding pic???? thats amazing xxxx love you guys are you ok? (stupid question)xx"
Yes it is! Two weeks yesterday!! Insanely happy!! You? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have one tomorrow..
literally terrified, he’s way outta my league etc..
How do people get through this shit  "
Don't ever think that people are 'outta your league'. You're gorgeous girl, go and get him! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"im going out tomorrow, first time since November. hope everyone has a lovely time with their meets xx
Suzy!! Hello!!!!!! Xxoh my is that a wedding pic???? thats amazing xxxx love you guys are you ok? (stupid question)xx
Yes it is! Two weeks yesterday!! Insanely happy!! You? X"
im so happy for your both congratulations xxxxxx me im fine, emerged from winter hibernation...to the best of news ,,brilliant xxx |
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"I'm on a date now.
He's on his phone so I'm here telling you guys about it
I'm going to get fucked up on San Pellegrino and raspberry ripple ice cream "
Hope it's going the direction you want it to
Although, on a call whilst on a date with a seriously sexy woman...
Leave the phone down lad..
San Pellegrino, love the stuff.. with ripple ice cream, oh er missus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have one tomorrow..
literally terrified, he’s way outta my league etc..
How do people get through this shit
Don't ever think that people are 'outta your league'. You're gorgeous girl, go and get him!"
Thank you babe 
This is why I find meets so hard lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially. 
You need do change that then and get something sorted."
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so."
Only you are the one who can sort this. Get out and find new friends, and why be defeated? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so.
Only you are the one who can sort this. Get out and find new friends, and why be defeated?"
Because after 10 years it's clear that I don't have it in me to be "successful" here. As for making new friends, at the moment I just don't have the psychogical or emotional energy to put myself out there again. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so.
Only you are the one who can sort this. Get out and find new friends, and why be defeated?
Because after 10 years it's clear that I don't have it in me to be "successful" here. As for making new friends, at the moment I just don't have the psychogical or emotional energy to put myself out there again."
This makes me sad. Too much negativity... really not good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have one tomorrow..
literally terrified, he’s way outta my league etc..
How do people get through this shit "
Don't be silly, he wouldn't want to meet if he was "out of your league" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so.
Only you are the one who can sort this. Get out and find new friends, and why be defeated?
Because after 10 years it's clear that I don't have it in me to be "successful" here. As for making new friends, at the moment I just don't have the psychogical or emotional energy to put myself out there again.
This makes me sad. Too much negativity... really not good."
No, it's not. I'm working on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so."
That's very defeatist, cheer up |
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so."
maybe if you wernt so negative all the while you would get further |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so.maybe if you wernt so negative all the while you would get further"
Why does everyone assume that ny negativity is the cause of my problems, not the result if them. You're simply jumping to a conclusion without knowing anything. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so.
Only you are the one who can sort this. Get out and find new friends, and why be defeated?
Because after 10 years it's clear that I don't have it in me to be "successful" here. As for making new friends, at the moment I just don't have the psychogical or emotional energy to put myself out there again.
This makes me sad. Too much negativity... really not good.
No, it's not. I'm working on it. "
Thats positive. Im liking that more. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Absolutely nothing on the horizon, sexually or socially.
You need do change that then and get something sorted.
Not really something I have a choice in, sad to say. I've conceded defeat when it comes to Fab and my vanilla social life has disintegrated since I realised nearly all of my social circle don't actually want me around but don't have the stones to say so.maybe if you wernt so negative all the while you would get further
Why does everyone assume that ny negativity is the cause of my problems, not the result if them. You're simply jumping to a conclusion without knowing anything."
Its really hard when a social group drifts, I understand that, I lost a lot of my friends when I became unwell... But it made me appreciate the ones that hung around more. I rarely actually see those friends either because life and geography get in the way most of the time.
The most important lessen I learnt was to turn every negative thought into a positive one. And believe me thats super hard to begin with! Especially when you are mentally unwell as I was. But day by day, thought by thought, I taught my brain to think differently and eventually it started doing it on its own.
The laws of physics tell you that for every action there is an opposite and equal reaction... use that law. Turn your head around and be positive.
I wish you lots of love and luck x |
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You down that Pellegrino girl. 