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Why do people ask for Their pictures to be fabbed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reverse psychology !
Well done I fabbed ! "
Trust me it’s not reverse psychology !!!!! If I wanted my pictures fabbed I would ask for em to be fabbed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reverse psychology !
Well done I fabbed !
Trust me it’s not reverse psychology !!!!! If I wanted my pictures fabbed I would ask for em to be fabbed "
You may be afraid of asking, but embrace the darkness and go for it my love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
Each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reverse psychology !
Well done I fabbed !
Trust me it’s not reverse psychology !!!!! If I wanted my pictures fabbed I would ask for em to be fabbed
You may be afraid of asking, but embrace the darkness and go for it my love "
Lol x |
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"Reverse psychology !
Well done I fabbed !
Trust me it’s not reverse psychology !!!!! If I wanted my pictures fabbed I would ask for em to be fabbed
You may be afraid of asking, but embrace the darkness and go for it my love "
You are funny. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol "
We've read between the line love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oops I actually have it on my profile.
I don't think I'm desperate.
To be fair some of us make a bit of effort with our photos so it's nice to have that acknowledged. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love "
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oops I actually have it on my profile.
I don't think I'm desperate.
To be fair some of us make a bit of effort with our photos so it's nice to have that acknowledged. "
I agree 100% your photos are lovely but shouldn’t someone acknowledge them anyway without having to ask for it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be a way to find out if they have secret admirers. Some people won't mail but would Fab.
I don't see the issue. Everyone that has pics wants attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx"
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx"
I thought it was quite clear he was taking the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx
I thought it was quite clear he was taking the piss "
I would never do that  |
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People will ask because they want to it's as simple as that
The reason for then asking will be different for each person
A fab is a compliment, wether it’s asked for or not doesn’t change that as even if asked people won’t fab it unless they like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx"
Do verifications show everyone how popular they are? Do some people show off their veris as a confidence boost? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol "
Erm does that mean I have to take the fabs I fabed on your pictures off ? |
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx
I thought it was quite clear he was taking the piss
I would never do that "
Naughty boy. |
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"Reverse psychology !
Well done I fabbed !
Trust me it’s not reverse psychology !!!!! If I wanted my pictures fabbed I would ask for em to be fabbed "
Quick, unfab it.........
I dont mind having my pics Fabbed.
*No reverse pschycology......
**or is there..........?????????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oops I actually have it on my profile.
I don't think I'm desperate.
To be fair some of us make a bit of effort with our photos so it's nice to have that acknowledged. "
Me too but I don't need strangers to approve them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx
Do verifications show everyone how popular they are? Do some people show off their veris as a confidence boost?
But verifications is to show your genuine and about your meet ?? Your not asking random people to verify you or starting a post to say verify me? But like a few have said each to their own
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx
Do verifications show everyone how popular they are? Do some people show off their veris as a confidence boost?
But verifications is to show your genuine and about your meet ?? Your not asking random people to verify you or starting a post to say verify me? But like a few have said each to their own
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Fair point.
People do ask for attention in different ways though. Like an advert. Asking for Fabs is also asking people to look at their profile. More views more chance of a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol
We've read between the line love
What a hero u r !!!! Can’t even say anything without it being taken out of context, but it’s ok I’m sure u get plenty of meets by all your verifications so carry on fabbing all weekend xx
Do verifications show everyone how popular they are? Do some people show off their veris as a confidence boost?
But verifications is to show your genuine and about your meet ?? Your not asking random people to verify you or starting a post to say verify me? But like a few have said each to their own
Fair point.
People do ask for attention in different ways though. Like an advert. Asking for Fabs is also asking people to look at their profile. More views more chance of a meet. "
Agree xxxx |
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"Ffs I don’t want any fabs I wouldn’t know how to do reverse whatever it is even if I tried !!! I’m having trouble spelling it forget about doing it lol "
You can stop people being able to fab your pics if you don't want them.
I agree people should like them without being ask to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see fabs as compliments and everyone likes a compliment now and then.
I suppose people who ask for fabs just want a bit of an ego boost on one end of the scale to complete narcissists on the other.
There's lots of other reasons in between but without fabs I'd say there would be less pictures to have the odd perve on occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
Agreed it's shallow and pathetic. Btw, if you're not too busy could you just f... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not here to "perve" and don't like the idea of strangers perving (or worse) over my pictures. Along with my profile they are there to express my looks/personality/taste, with a view to attracting the types of men I would like to meet in person. Everyone operates in a different way on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
attention seeking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reverse psychology !
Well done I fabbed !
Trust me it’s not reverse psychology !!!!! If I wanted my pictures fabbed I would ask for em to be fabbed "
There, you answered your own question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people should give up with pictures as some are terrible quality blurred etc .My local updates are a disgrace and its men on fab who have lost their dignity .What is it with northern men .Not all the same but most are .(rant over and breath) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people should give up with pictures as some are terrible quality blurred etc .My local updates are a disgrace and its men on fab who have lost their dignity .What is it with northern men .Not all the same but most are .(rant over and breath) "
Lol x |
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If someone fabbed my pics I'd be chuffed. Just as I am when the other half looks at me and says, unsolicited, you look lovely.
If I had to beg for fabs or ask himself if I looked nice to get a response it would mean jack shit to me and I'd feel needy and pathetic, but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because to some it is an ego boost to get fabs and it is like a competition to get to page 1. Nothing wrong with that and they aren't harming anyone. But it's not my style  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just think if someone has taken the time and effort to maybe get dressed take a few shots and are happy with the results....surely they are going to get a buzz from seeing it get some fabs.
Are they hurting anyone by asking for a few...I think not!
I don't get people's hangup on this.
Just my opinion  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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People are on here for all sorts of reasons, swinging, camming, picture posting or a combination of them which the site facilitates. Inevitably you're going to get some very interested in their pics being fabbed and asking for them to be for whatever reasons, my main thought is that it makes them feel good, good for them.
Now OP, can you make your profile pic available to be fabbed.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
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Lol snap chat filters make me laugh but i dont think should be allowed as these filters make all people look cute but maybe horrors in real life . |
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
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Filter? What's a filter? Doesn't everyone live in a black & white world?
*whistles innocently*
FAB ME MUG SHOT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Lol snap chat filters make me laugh but i dont think should be allowed as these filters make all people look cute but maybe horrors in real life . "
Hey! Us uglies deserve a chance to be beautiful too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
If you fab my picture I will explain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Lol snap chat filters make me laugh but i dont think should be allowed as these filters make all people look cute but maybe horrors in real life .
Hey! Us uglies deserve a chance to be beautiful too..."
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's human nature to be wanted, appreciated and be sought after. Having your pictures fabbed is the same principle as getting likes on facebook. If we're being given positive attention we feel good about ourselves; conversely if we're not recieving it (or recieving negative attention) we feel bad about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
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Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are "
People might prefere tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are
People might prefere tea "
Pffft tea drinkers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Facebook mentality.
I want to be "liked" or "fabbed"
Never been on Facebook. Sounds rather sad and pathetic
It is "
Not to mention how they use personal data! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a number of possible reasons to this. A couple being vanity, self confidence, but away from emotions, lots of dabs means high on the hot pics list. This can mean. Lots of profile attention which an lead to meets that would never have been considered as other profiles are then noticed. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
Get enough fabs and it gets you seen which in turn can lead to meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one has time to search thousands of profiles and due to locations might miss some prime eye candy. I know many a person added to my hotlist because of this "
I have just become one of those |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
Who? Anyone in particular that stood out when you typed this?
As a whole, aren’t everyone allowed to do this? It’s not against site rules is it? Or does it just piss you off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it's an additional little bit of fun offered by the site.
Though here is predominantly about swinging, there are other elements to it.
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That's exactly it isn't it? x
Just a bit of fun ... And an ego boost to if we are honest x |
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are
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Ffs I though it was worth at least
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are
Ffs I though it was worth at least
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17 now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are
Ffs I though it was worth at least
17 now "
Aw now I'll be accused of begging for fabs ffs |
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are "
Oh well I would fab it but...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's human nature to be wanted, appreciated and be sought after. Having your pictures fabbed is the same principle as getting likes on facebook. If we're being given positive attention we feel good about ourselves; conversely if we're not recieving it (or recieving negative attention) we feel bad about it."
Not everyone is human though....... |
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"I’m not saying it’s right or wrong ? But surely if someone likes your pictures they will fab it anyway ?? Status’s even full forums people getting excited to start fabbing pictures ? I’d prefer a good meet than someone fab my pic lol xx"
Yet you are still happy to have your photos fabbed this past 5 years and have the link turned on. Now of course you will get a flurry of Fabs because of your post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
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yup love a wee filter and don't forget good angles, breathing in and anything to avoid actually looking like me.
That all takes effort you know!
The fingering euphemism is a bit of an ice breaker too I find.
However, I just don't understand why these things annoy people. Ignore it and move on.
Meantime this fugly likes an ego boost so fill your boots! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their photos are filtered to fuck and the only way they get any attention?
Oi my fecking profile picture is not filtered in any way whatsoever!
That picture took over a full bag of coffee beans and a six pint bottle of milk to get it right...that's without all the time spent doing so!
And what has it got?
A miserable 16 fabs ffs...what a bunch of miserable tw@ts you all are
Ffs I though it was worth at least
17 now
Aw now I'll be accused of begging for fabs ffs "
Well let's face it, some folks apparently have nowt better to do with their time that throw that sort of shit around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 5 fabs away from getting enough to claim a free toaster! "
Ohhh is it a Dualit? Bloody amazing toasters they are, which one of your pics needs fingering and I'll help you towards your goal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 5 fabs away from getting enough to claim a free toaster!
Ohhh is it a Dualit? Bloody amazing toasters they are, which one of your pics needs fingering and I'll help you towards your goal? "
It's a Duealyt, which I suspect to be a cheap Far Eastern rip off. Bugger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 5 fabs away from getting enough to claim a free toaster!
Ohhh is it a Dualit? Bloody amazing toasters they are, which one of your pics needs fingering and I'll help you towards your goal?
It's a Duealyt, which I suspect to be a cheap Far Eastern rip off. Bugger. "
You never know til you try |
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