Hey we have been on the site for awhile, we are finally braving our first club visit to xtasia on the 27th for greedy girls.
As its getting closer the nerves are creeping in!
Go with no expectations, just watch and maybe just play with each other to start with.
The club is well run. It's large so take the tour and just ease yourself in. Or, throw yourself into it and always stop if you feel uncomfortable.
Enjoy the experience, but if you don't just shrug it off.