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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Do you look for the solution to your vexation, or simply rant and never think of changing things?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being solution driven - I argue to resolve rather than to win

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I shout a lot, blame everyone else then make a cup of tea, drink that sulking then come back, apologise and find a solution. Only at home. At work I problem solve calmly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ranting for me is a stress release. Little things build up and get me agitated until it all suddenly comes out at some poor unsuspecting friend or work colleague. Or at nobody in particular... I'll sometimes just stomp around cursing at the world in general After that, I can then be calm and think about solutions etc.

I'm very lucky, I have some lovely friends and colleagues who understand and tolerate this. A lot of them think it's funny and just let me get on with it. And I'm at an age where I've learned to tolerate my own foibles too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A deep breathe in - exhale - and then tackle the issues behind the rant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just gave a rant the 5 mins to myself. Then all's good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do it here too. Successive daft messages irritate me until some poor guy sends the last straw and receives a hundred-word rant in reply

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't really rant. I tend to internalise and just think things through.

Think it annoys people more as they think I'm not affected by things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I rant at work because we're in the same boat and can all sympathise. It helps to share the horror of our captors.

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