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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
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Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx 
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh? |
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a read, what part are ppl finding difficult to comprehend?  "
Still getting messages saying how bloody stunning I am  and can we meet tonight, from couples and single men.
Im nice i reply and point them in the direction of our profile if they question why we wont meet.
Honestly the couples seem to be worse than the blokes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the same way about mine
I read it out loud, slowly, and it took me a minute and a half. If men* think a minute and a half is too long, god forbid what they would be like on a meet 
*couples and women don’t bother to read my profile either, but I’m not meeting them |
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It’s perfectly understandable, explains what people need to know. Yes, it’s a tad long but takes less than a minute to read. What you could do is copy it and keep it and just put a few lines up saying ‘not meeting’ then add lots more when you are. It’s a shame there are no public pics but if you’re not meeting then they’re unnecessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was very clear on what you don’t want and what’s happening at the moment. It read a little hostile but I can feel the frustration coming through.
Unfortunately as clear as it is, for many people it’s very long and they won’t read it all. That’s just the way Fab is xx |
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"I’ve had a read, what part are ppl finding difficult to comprehend?
Still getting messages saying how bloody stunning I am and can we meet tonight, from couples and single men.
Im nice i reply and point them in the direction of our profile if they question why we wont meet.
Honestly the couples seem to be worse than the blokes!"
Unfortunately most get messages like that including me, read my profile couldn’t be any clearer. You just have to ignore you can’t let it bother you. Personally I find the messages amusing. They want sex, they want it now so send copy and paste messages by the 100 hoping one profile will reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Taking off your looking for men etc takes you off any searches local newsfeed and limits people from seeing your profile or you could put all message filters on if you do not wish to be messaged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it acceptable to attention seek if you declare you are?
People don't seem to like attention seekers on here.
 Im not here to be liked "
You should stop seeking attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I get it now.
You don't want to meet anyone but you want the unwanted attention, so you can open an attention seeking thread on the forums, to attract more attention.
Genius!
(now stop attention seeking, or put some dirty pics up at least). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id love to know how they know im a stunner.... we have even hidden our pics!
They don’t they send copy and paste messages, I’m stunning too apparently, have you seen my pics?  "
She loves the attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh? "
Might I suggest if you want people to read it through then delete "taking a break from meeting for a while" at the beginning because that's where I stopped reading! |
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought"
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile. |
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"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh?
Might I suggest if you want people to read it through then delete "taking a break from meeting for a while" at the beginning because that's where I stopped reading! "
In theory others should stop reading there and not bother messaging if looking for a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile."
I haven’t met anyone since November, and I’m still here, not hiding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile."
Try Just here to chat, instead.
They might assume it's sex talk you want though. |
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"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile."
The problem is ppl aren’t always honest in their profile and therefore you will get ppl pushing their luck. I do see this from both sides but when they push and it’s met with a resounding no they should back off |
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile.
Try Just here to chat, instead.
They might assume it's sex talk you want though. "
No, I made that clear too.
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh?
Might I suggest if you want people to read it through then delete "taking a break from meeting for a while" at the beginning because that's where I stopped reading!
In theory others should stop reading there and not bother messaging if looking for a meet? "
Thats the theory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile.
Try Just here to chat, instead.
They might assume it's sex talk you want though.
No, I made that clear too.
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Try using capitals for the important bits. |
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The world isn’t a perfect place and neither is Fab. Therefore you have to take the rough with the smooth. When the rough is outweighing the smooth you have to ask yourselves do you stay or go. Fab won’t change, the threads that appear daily along these lines are proof of that. It may not be right but unfortunately Fab isn’t perfect as I said, so accept the imperfections or move on. Getting frustrated won’t change anything |
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
No angst or frustration here.
I was just attention seeking
No, really I just wanted to check our profile read clearly for those who do bother reading them.
I cant be the only one that does.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No angst or frustration here.
I was just attention seeking
No, really I just wanted to check our profile read clearly for those who do bother reading them.
I cant be the only one that does.
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Not everyone bothers reading profiles. Nothing you can do about them. |
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"No angst or frustration here.
I was just attention seeking
No, really I just wanted to check our profile read clearly for those who do bother reading them.
I cant be the only one that does.
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You are a dying breed and of those that do read it can be selective reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not meeting why don't you just hide the profile?
It will stop folk looking and sending unwanted messages.
I hide mine when I haven't the time to meet.
Friends still know they can message and I will chat.
But it does stop others messaging
Just a thought
Because I really enjoy chatting with people and I am happy to get messages to chat.
Its the ones who want to meet, when we are not meeting, and even when we are we only do so at a club.
There are a few couples we chat to who feel because we chat here we will invite them over to play or go to them. We wont. Then they say "but when you are meeting we can geta hotel room?" No fuck off. We eet at clubs initially.If that doesnt suit you we are not comatable and you arewasting your time chatting with us.
Hell I will chat with anyone... but it doesnt change what we have said in our profile."
You sound delightful.
There's easier ways to sort it out but you won't get the attention so no point anyone trying to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same way about mine
I read it out loud, slowly, and it took me a minute and a half. If men* think a minute and a half is too long, god forbid what they would be like on a meet
*couples and women don’t bother to read my profile either, but I’m not meeting them "
My feelings too. If people can't spend 5 minutes reading and put some effort into writing an engaging message, then it hardly looks promising for a night to remember |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same way about mine
I read it out loud, slowly, and it took me a minute and a half. If men* think a minute and a half is too long, god forbid what they would be like on a meet
*couples and women don’t bother to read my profile either, but I’m not meeting them
My feelings too. If people can't spend 5 minutes reading and put some effort into writing an engaging message, then it hardly looks promising for a night to remember "
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"No angst or frustration here.
I was just attention seeking
No, really I just wanted to check our profile read clearly for those who do bother reading them.
I cant be the only one that does.
You are a dying breed and of those that do read it can be selective reading "
Im a bit OCD about it if im honest... their name changes to purple if you've looked at their profile so I like to have every forum post posted by a purple name
When we geyt any message i go to their profile 1st, read it, then look at any pics and at the sausage forests, then read their verifications... only then will I open the message, read it and answer it... every single one of them
I know, I should get out more
But Ive had some cracking random conversations from a "Hi" message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh? "
I started it with the intention of reading all of it but i couldn't..
Its very longwinded for people who arent meeting..
Why not just hide the profile... no fecker will bother you then but i suppose you will have nothing to complain about either  |
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"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh?
I started it with the intention of reading all of it but i couldn't..
Its very longwinded for people who arent meeting..
Why not just hide the profile... no fecker will bother you then but i suppose you will have nothing to complain about either "
Same thoughts here |
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By *tonMess OP Couple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh?
I started it with the intention of reading all of it but i couldn't..
Its very longwinded for people who arent meeting..
Why not just hide the profile... no fecker will bother you then but i suppose you will have nothing to complain about either "
No complaints here, just fncied a bit of attention
(And checking it makes sense)
As said before, happy to get messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can’t believe i made it to the bottom of this fucking boring post.
Congrats. You’re now qualified to read their profile.
Slow clap time..."
You get gold stars for good reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh? "
Tbh I got bored half way through aye gave up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey i winked! Mostly guys cutting n pasting i assume. To be honest i only normally meet couples at chams..i know couples and singles are swamped with messages but in a club its so much easier just to hello or even maybe wink!
Come up to chameleons for a visit  xx |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"No angst or frustration here.
I was just attention seeking
No, really I just wanted to check our profile read clearly for those who do bother reading them.
I cant be the only one that does.
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I wouldn't normally bother to read a long profile, but I did as you asked and I can see nothing wrong with it, perfectly clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah there's a lot of word's there isn't there.
Yeah when all it seems to need atm is
"Only here for the forums" but each to Thier own I suppose.
I don't know I didn't read any of the word's."
Well I've condensed it |
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"Yeah there's a lot of word's there isn't there.
Yeah when all it seems to need atm is
"Only here for the forums" but each to Thier own I suppose.
I don't know I didn't read any of the word's.
Well I've condensed it "
Thanks chuck! |
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"Could you take a few minutes and read our profile and tell me honestly where it is, in any way, ambiguous or difficult to comprehend.
Yes, I know its long... just read it though, you could have read it in the time you are moaning its too long
Thankyouplease xxx
Ps if you wink we'll fab you a pic... good deal huh? "
I read it. Outlined below are my HONEST responses.
It is not ambiguous.
It is not difficult to comprehend ( if comprehend means literally )
I winked. Can't wait for the reward.
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