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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just had a woman and her husband come into my work to buy a car and i thought i reckonised her and guess what i should do as about two months ago she met me for sex! and was apparantly single anyone else had this ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else  "
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong |
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong "
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle. |
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong "
in fairness, i did mis read it as thought he'd said - what should i do about it - we've bumped into people we've played with and just haven't let on, discretion is paramount! Z |
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good friend of ours went to their childs 'progress' meeting with the teachers and bumped into a lady with whom they had enjoyed an enjoyable time a week or two previously
he said it was hard not to giggle as both his other half and the lady went bright red |
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Yes I bumped into a young woman in M&S coffee shop in Exeter the morning after I had been dragging her around half naked on a dog lead in a fetish club.....
She was with a woman I took to be her mother, we glanced at each other, smiled and carried on with our business.
It's a completely seperate world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle. "
Lets Eat Grandma or Lets Eat, Grandma
Punctuation saves lives |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle. "
sorry did not realise i was being tested on my writing skills  |
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle.
sorry did not realise i was being tested on my writing skills "
You're not. I understood you perfectly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle.
sorry did not realise i was being tested on my writing skills
You're not. I understood you perfectly. "
ok i just type too quickly to put it in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle.
Lets Eat Grandma or Lets Eat, Grandma
Punctuation saves lives"
Stop trying to eat Granny dirty boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle.
Lets Eat Grandma or Lets Eat, Grandma
Punctuation saves lives
Stop trying to eat Granny dirty boy "
Don't hear Granny complaining do you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should you do about what? I don't understand your dilema! Z
? there is no dilemma just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else
You missed a comma matey, so it could've been read wrong
Missed a comma ? He missed the whole fuggin' kit n kaboodle.
Lets Eat Grandma or Lets Eat, Grandma
Punctuation saves lives
Stop trying to eat Granny dirty boy
Don't hear Granny complaining do you? "
Thats only because her mouth is full with the huge big purple chocolate (dirty minded buggers) that was suppose to be for me that Granny is now teasing me with |
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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago
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Walking into Tesco's I saw a lady I had recently played with coming out with, I presume, her husband.
Maybe she didn't realise that I would just keep walking because she put a finger to her lips as if to say "Don't speak"!
It kind of links to an earlier thread about descretion. It would have been very indescreet to have spoken..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i bumped into a married guy who had been having sex with me for months ,then i saw his wife, i thought what the fk is he having sex with me for she was a stunner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain. |
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"Walking into Tesco's I saw a lady I had recently played with coming out with, I presume, her husband.
Maybe she didn't realise that I would just keep walking because she put a finger to her lips as if to say "Don't speak"!
It kind of links to an earlier thread about descretion. It would have been very indescreet to have spoken..
_rummps x"
I bumped into Harry coming out of ASDA... we both screamed at eachother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain."
I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people ! |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people ! "
Bollox to his life, he's a (potentially)scumbag.... I just don't see how anyone would want to be smug about the potential pain they have just caused his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people ! "
I am quite happy with what i did. He lied to me and all i did was repeat what he had told me. There are consequences and if you are swinging honesty is very important. Lie about one thing and what else could he have lied about. As a friend always says, Karma is a bitch but you only have yourself to blame. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people ! "
oooh... red flags.....
if they told you they were playing away before you met them... absolutely agree... you were as complicit as them (not that I agree with it)
if they lied to you... whole different can of worms! why should you cover for someone elses deceit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people !
oooh... red flags.....
if they told you they were playing away before you met them... absolutely agree... you were as complicit as them (not that I agree with it)
if they lied to you... whole different can of worms! why should you cover for someone elses deceit?"
I have been caught out a couple of times by guys who said they were single and then I have had the call from the wife , yes i admitted to the wife I had met them but that was it didnt go into details of who what why or when, which now I see is what katie did as well so I apologies now for my own jumping to conclusions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people !
oooh... red flags.....
if they told you they were playing away before you met them... absolutely agree... you were as complicit as them (not that I agree with it)
if they lied to you... whole different can of worms! why should you cover for someone elses deceit?"
Precisely if a man or a woman for that matter will lie to you about that he may have any number of infections and other things he is deceiving you about. |
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I should add… that is assuming it is his wife and not a relative or the ex he’s trying to make a fresh start with or a whole load of other scenarios which have supposedly been assessed and eliminated in a minute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I should add… that is assuming it is his wife and not a relative or the ex he’s trying to make a fresh start with or a whole load of other scenarios which have supposedly been assessed and eliminated in a minute."
Nothing like jumping to the wrong conclusion is there which I admit to having done |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?"
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter... |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter... "
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch."
See I was totally confused by your first answer and have had to go back and read and re read the thread . My first response and the hope it hasnt ruined his life was a very bad attempt at saying what you have managed to say so well , the jumping to conlusions about being his wife and how it would feel who ever it may have been Oh I just cant make this sound how I feel but basically thats why I would never have said anything in the first place but have walked away because of jumping to conclusions and judging . Sorry if thats sounds like rambling but I really am not good with words . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch."
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know? |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?"
I have strong _iews about cheats… really strong _iews and I don’t think I have ever hidden that fact. But do I think it’s my place to out a cheat to his wife… in a fucking supermarket of all places.
In your posts you have only ever indicated your motivation was he lied to you. Nothing about the wife needing to know until now.
I doubt you had one ounce of empathy as to the hurricane of emotions that woman was about to be hit with… whilst standing in a supermarket. The only impression you give is that you wanted to hit back at him for lying to you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I "bump" into people everynow & again (Cornwall's a small place, you know).
Sometimes it's fine to chat, others its just a knowing nod of the head. Others its as if we don't know each other.
But what's funny if that every now & again I'll see someone who I know is on here & think to myself "I've seen pictures of you naked".
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain."
how do you know it was his wife? might of been a sister, cousin or even just a friend, his going red may purely indicate that he felt awkward bumping into a previous fuck in a vanilla situation
also had it been his wife did you not stop to think how she would feel being told in such a public place, did you not try and pop yourself in her position before you revealed her husband to be a rat?
i do not condone cheats in fact i abhore them and have no sympathy for them when they get caught out my sympathies lie purely with the victim in the scenario which is why i would never embarass them in the way you did i feel it would be quite a thoughtless way to inform the wounded party |
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By (user no longer on site)
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in reply to the op yes we have bumped into previous meets while out in the vanilla world, if they are with someone i don't know i will just smile subtly if alone i will say hi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people ! "
I agree with you there...wrong, wrong, wrong!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look very different when I play to what I do in the week, so I'd be a bit surprised if anyone who wasn't in the know did recognise me."
You don't wear your glasses  then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people !
oooh... red flags.....
if they told you they were playing away before you met them... absolutely agree... you were as complicit as them (not that I agree with it)
if they lied to you... whole different can of worms! why should you cover for someone elses deceit?
I have been caught out a couple of times by guys who said they were single and then I have had the call from the wife , yes i admitted to the wife I had met them but that was it didnt go into details of who what why or when, which now I see is what katie did as well so I apologies now for my own jumping to conclusions "
If I saw someone who told me they were single who I'd played with I personally would not have said anything: there must have been a clue...only phone him at certain times, asked not to wear perfume, can't accommodate, cancelled meets.
I'd chalk it up to experience - he will eventually come a cropper, but I wouldn't be ruining someone's day just for a casual shag that's for sure.
If I'd been dating and expecting something more... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The last time it happened I did start to wonder after i had met him a few times but not once did he ever tell me not to call him text him or even say he couldnt make a meet . Its funny now as it was a stupid text about cheesy chips and coleslaw that caught him out but hey lots of lessons learnt and wont get caught like that again |
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"I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?"
Not sure how you can assume he was / is having unprotected sex with others and placing his 'partner' at risk if as has allready been said the person with him was his partner at all?
Going by your profile you had safe sex with him, so why assume he is also seeing others and not using protection.
Clearly the guy lied to you as he told you he was single, which is wrong but your actions were not right.
The other woman could be a long term friend with whom he may not wish his private life aired in a shop. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain."
Wow, that's just nasty! I can't bear cheats but you seemed to be more like a woman scorned! Z |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain."
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
I have strong _iews about cheats… really strong _iews and I don’t think I have ever hidden that fact. But do I think it’s my place to out a cheat to his wife… in a fucking supermarket of all places.
In your posts you have only ever indicated your motivation was he lied to you. Nothing about the wife needing to know until now.
I doubt you had one ounce of empathy as to the hurricane of emotions that woman was about to be hit with… whilst standing in a supermarket. The only impression you give is that you wanted to hit back at him for lying to you.
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Just because i didn’t write a war and peace epic in previous posts doesn’t mean i can’t have a multi faceted _iew in the situation. There is more to the whole situation that isn’t really appropriate to post up here so to make assumptions about motivation are simply that assumptions way off the mark. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
I can understand you being cross but to do that IMO was just so wrong I only hope you didnt completely ruin his life ! and yes I know he was cheating but who are we to jump to conclusions or judge people !
I am quite happy with what i did. He lied to me and all i did was repeat what he had told me. There are consequences and if you are swinging honesty is very important. Lie about one thing and what else could he have lied about. As a friend always says, Karma is a bitch but you only have yourself to blame."
How can you be sure it was his wife and not someone he'd just met?
I do believe in honesty and I can't stand cheaters but even if this guy was married and was seeking sex elsewhere you don't know the reason for him doing that. Either way it's not your place to upset her, whoever she may be. If she had approached you then I don't think it would have been fair of you to lie but to come straight out and drop him in it IMO is a bit low. |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
I have strong _iews about cheats… really strong _iews and I don’t think I have ever hidden that fact. But do I think it’s my place to out a cheat to his wife… in a fucking supermarket of all places.
In your posts you have only ever indicated your motivation was he lied to you. Nothing about the wife needing to know until now.
I doubt you had one ounce of empathy as to the hurricane of emotions that woman was about to be hit with… whilst standing in a supermarket. The only impression you give is that you wanted to hit back at him for lying to you.
Just because i didn’t write a war and peace epic in previous posts doesn’t mean i can’t have a multi faceted _iew in the situation. There is more to the whole situation that isn’t really appropriate to post up here so to make assumptions about motivation are simply that assumptions way off the mark."
lol - i love irony - you're telling us off for making assumptions - didn't you make a massive one when you said what you did? Z |
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"I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
Not sure how you can assume he was / is having unprotected sex with others and placing his 'partner' at risk if as has allready been said the person with him was his partner at all?
Going by your profile you had safe sex with him, so why assume he is also seeing others and not using protection.
Clearly the guy lied to you as he told you he was single, which is wrong but your actions were not right.
The other woman could be a long term friend with whom he may not wish his private life aired in a shop. "
Who do i know he is having unprotected sex? Well that isn’t for me to go into details but let’s just say it wasn’t lying about being married. And my actions are quite clearly mine and impossible for you to truly judge without having all the facts and information which you clearly do not.
As for his wife and it was his wife and really its not appropriate to have to prove this but there are others on here who can confirm this.
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
I have strong _iews about cheats… really strong _iews and I don’t think I have ever hidden that fact. But do I think it’s my place to out a cheat to his wife… in a fucking supermarket of all places.
In your posts you have only ever indicated your motivation was he lied to you. Nothing about the wife needing to know until now.
I doubt you had one ounce of empathy as to the hurricane of emotions that woman was about to be hit with… whilst standing in a supermarket. The only impression you give is that you wanted to hit back at him for lying to you.
Just because i didn’t write a war and peace epic in previous posts doesn’t mean i can’t have a multi faceted _iew in the situation. There is more to the whole situation that isn’t really appropriate to post up here so to make assumptions about motivation are simply that assumptions way off the mark.
lol - i love irony - you're telling us off for making assumptions - didn't you make a massive one when you said what you did? Z"
Not at all as i had put this guy out of my mind and was avoiding after finding out things that would count him out from meeting again. Really do you think i should have to post full chapter and verse to satisfy curiosity and justify actions. Personally i don't think i should have to. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
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Also, you're lucky you didn't end up in the freezer with the french bread pizza's and the crispy pancakes !
You didn't know the woman and some can be prone to losing the plot when faced with 'other women'
They will fight to the end for their man - whether he was in the right or the wrong !
You shagged 'their man' and therefore they could potentially see you as the problem not him - OR moreover, get you while they can - they can sort him out once they get him home !
Do let me know where and when you do your shopping.
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
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Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief. "
the more you are saying the more IMO it sounds like you already knew he was married otherwise how would you have really known it was his wife and how did you really know there was no kids ?? |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Also, you're lucky you didn't end up in the freezer with the french bread pizza's and the crispy pancakes !
You didn't know the woman and some can be prone to losing the plot when faced with 'other women'
They will fight to the end for their man - whether he was in the right or the wrong !
You shagged 'their man' and therefore they could potentially see you as the problem not him - OR moreover, get you while they can - they can sort him out once they get him home !
Do let me know where and when you do your shopping.
There's nothing to break the monotony of the tinned fruit and veg aisle like witnessing a good cat fight "
Now clearly you are making assumptions about me and assuming i am a weak woman who is unable to look after herself. You are assuming i was on my own, and if you know 10% of the situation you would know i was far from interested in this man. Far too many make assumptions on here with little or no information on the situation. I did actually say more than the comment about being not single but that wasn’t relevant in relation to the OP’s post. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief.
the more you are saying the more IMO it sounds like you already knew he was married otherwise how would you have really known it was his wife and how did you really know there was no kids ?? "
If you care to read back what i have posted i stated i became aware of other factors after meeting. Do you really think is appropriate to give full details on here? |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Also, you're lucky you didn't end up in the freezer with the french bread pizza's and the crispy pancakes !
You didn't know the woman and some can be prone to losing the plot when faced with 'other women'
They will fight to the end for their man - whether he was in the right or the wrong !
You shagged 'their man' and therefore they could potentially see you as the problem not him - OR moreover, get you while they can - they can sort him out once they get him home !
Do let me know where and when you do your shopping.
There's nothing to break the monotony of the tinned fruit and veg aisle like witnessing a good cat fight
Now clearly you are making assumptions about me and assuming i am a weak woman who is unable to look after herself. You are assuming i was on my own, and if you know 10% of the situation you would know i was far from interested in this man. Far too many make assumptions on here with little or no information on the situation. I did actually say more than the comment about being not single but that wasn’t relevant in relation to the OP’s post."
I wasn't assuming anything
It was an obtuse attempt at injecting some humour into a thread that was spiralling into directed negativity.
Sorry if you felt it was any different.
And after all there are some loony bastards out there and irregardless of whether you are weak or whether you were alone, you do genuinely have to be careful who you rub up the wrong way in public !
That stands for men as much as for women.
I'll shall now take a polite curtsy and remove myself from this forum. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief.
the more you are saying the more IMO it sounds like you already knew he was married otherwise how would you have really known it was his wife and how did you really know there was no kids ??
If you care to read back what i have posted i stated i became aware of other factors after meeting. Do you really think is appropriate to give full details on here?"
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief.
the more you are saying the more IMO it sounds like you already knew he was married otherwise how would you have really known it was his wife and how did you really know there was no kids ??
If you care to read back what i have posted i stated i became aware of other factors after meeting. Do you really think is appropriate to give full details on here?"
See that again IMO reads like you had found out he was married decided not to meet him again fair enough but seeing him out with said wife was too good to be true . Actually do you know what Ive said my bit and will leave you too it. If you need a ladder Im sure can find 1 somewhere . |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Also, you're lucky you didn't end up in the freezer with the french bread pizza's and the crispy pancakes !
You didn't know the woman and some can be prone to losing the plot when faced with 'other women'
They will fight to the end for their man - whether he was in the right or the wrong !
You shagged 'their man' and therefore they could potentially see you as the problem not him - OR moreover, get you while they can - they can sort him out once they get him home !
Do let me know where and when you do your shopping.
There's nothing to break the monotony of the tinned fruit and veg aisle like witnessing a good cat fight
Now clearly you are making assumptions about me and assuming i am a weak woman who is unable to look after herself. You are assuming i was on my own, and if you know 10% of the situation you would know i was far from interested in this man. Far too many make assumptions on here with little or no information on the situation. I did actually say more than the comment about being not single but that wasn’t relevant in relation to the OP’s post.
I wasn't assuming anything
It was an obtuse attempt at injecting some humour into a thread that was spiralling into directed negativity.
Sorry if you felt it was any different.
And after all there are some loony bastards out there and irregardless of whether you are weak or whether you were alone, you do genuinely have to be careful who you rub up the wrong way in public !
That stands for men as much as for women.
I'll shall now take a polite curtsy and remove myself from this forum."
Hun you do not use to indicate humour it just looks like you are back peddling now but that's me making an assumption i guess. |
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"I did meet one guy with his wife while shopping. He went bright read and tried to avoid so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain.
Regardless of the pain and anguish you may well have caused to the innocent wife?....
Maybe the children as well if there were any in the marriage?
As long as you felt better for it.....that's ok
Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief.
the more you are saying the more IMO it sounds like you already knew he was married otherwise how would you have really known it was his wife and how did you really know there was no kids ??
If you care to read back what i have posted i stated i became aware of other factors after meeting. Do you really think is appropriate to give full details on here?
See that again IMO reads like you had found out he was married decided not to meet him again fair enough but seeing him out with said wife was too good to be true . Actually do you know what Ive said my bit and will leave you too it. If you need a ladder Im sure can find 1 somewhere . "
Actually you have made another assumption well wide of the mark as i didn’t know he was married when i bumped into him but had found out other things that had made me avoid. |
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"just had a woman and her husband come into my work to buy a car and i thought i reckonised her and guess what i should do as about two months ago she met me for sex! and was apparantly single anyone else had this ? "
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Maybe? Well you can make as my assumptions as you like but when you have facts you are in a far better position to make a judgement call. For the facts though no children although your motivation for brining children into it that do not exit beggars belief. "
Because many married men do have children?
Pretty obvious really, and if you check my post I did say children if there are any.....
So why would that beggar belief?
Children DO often get badly hurt in marriage break ups.....that's a fact.
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".... so i just said I thought you were single and walked off leaving him to try and explain."
and then...
" I did actually say more than the comment about being not single... "
"So I just said" generally means 'this is all I said'
You can't blame people for getting the wrong end of the stick when you keep snapping off new branches to wave a round.
I am sure you wouldn't be happy if a guy said "it's just me who lives here" but really meant "actually it's just me and my wife, the kids and our dog" |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?"
How did you know it was his wife? I have been shopping with my brother before now. |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
How did you know it was his wife? I have been shopping with my brother before now."
Another one jumping to conclusions! Whats with you women on this thread! |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
How did you know it was his wife? I have been shopping with my brother before now.
Another one jumping to conclusions! Whats with you women on this thread! "
Did I? |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
How did you know it was his wife? I have been shopping with my brother before now.
Another one jumping to conclusions! Whats with you women on this thread!
Did I?"
Just a little by your own admission and pretty funny with it. I thought you had joined group forum pmt |
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I wonder how many guys will worry about going shopping with a family member.... for fear an enraged female will pounce out from behind a stack of baked beans making a random comment and then scuttle off ushering their trolley down the bread isle. |
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"I wonder how many guys will worry about going shopping with a family member.... for fear an enraged female will pounce out from behind a stack of baked beans making a random comment and then scuttle off ushering their trolley down the bread isle."
I'll bet they avoid Primark |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
How did you know it was his wife? I have been shopping with my brother before now.
Another one jumping to conclusions! Whats with you women on this thread!
Did I?
Just a little by your own admission and pretty funny with it. I thought you had joined group forum pmt "
Ah but now you are assuming I assumed when in fact I asked a question so I didn't assume anything ....hhhmmm lots of assuming going oon in there with ot without PMT
Just had a thought though, imagine if the man wasn't really the man who had been fucked and was his twin brother ....poor man could be divorced by now |
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"I wonder how many guys will worry about going shopping with a family member.... for fear an enraged female will pounce out from behind a stack of baked beans making a random comment and then scuttle off ushering their trolley down the bread isle."
ooo I fancy beans on toast now. |
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"I'll ask you this Fabio.... 'he lied'... so is the beef with him or his wife?
I left it gender neutral for a reason..... my beef is always going to be with the person that lied!... but my sympathy will always be with the innocent party in the matter...
Well I can't see any sympathy being show to the ionnocent party in this instance... just a desire to get back at the guy.
Karma may not be the only bitch.
It may be showing some respect to the innocent party if not sympathy. I think a woman needs to know if her partner is having sex with other people and potentially having unprotected sex with her. It it right not to inform her and would any partner not want to know?
How did you know it was his wife? I have been shopping with my brother before now.
Another one jumping to conclusions! Whats with you women on this thread!
Did I?
Just a little by your own admission and pretty funny with it. I thought you had joined group forum pmt
Ah but now you are assuming I assumed when in fact I asked a question so I didn't assume anything ....hhhmmm lots of assuming going oon in there with ot without PMT
Just had a thought though, imagine if the man wasn't really the man who had been fucked and was his twin brother ....poor man could be divorced by now "
Well when you know who the guy is and about him doing bareback at chams without permission then you get the bigger picture. |
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"Oh gawd now we are getting into personal territory.
Ok lets get back to the OP...might be safer  "
Now you can see why Katie didn't expand but im a big mouth at times and unimpressed with some of the bitching on this thread. Those who need to eat humble pie take a spoon. |
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"Oh gawd now we are getting into personal territory.
Ok lets get back to the OP...might be safer
Now you can see why Katie didn't expand but im a big mouth at times and unimpressed with some of the bitching on this thread. Those who need to eat humble pie take a spoon. "
Actually I have to disagree there...no one knows how true any story is so they can only comment on what was written....and as I said, maybe best to be dropped. |
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I really don't see how it can seen as bitching for people not to agree with the public 'outing' of a cheating husband?
I don't agree with ANY woman being pulled up in a supermarket and told, or given the impression, that her husband is cheating on her.
There is a time and place for everything, and for me doing it to some poor woman in public isn't appropriate at all.
That's not bitching....that's my belief on the subject. |
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"Oh gawd now we are getting into personal territory.
Ok lets get back to the OP...might be safer
Now you can see why Katie didn't expand but im a big mouth at times and unimpressed with some of the bitching on this thread. Those who need to eat humble pie take a spoon. "
don't need the spoon ty i did no bitching jujst jumping in to point out that the point those you are suggesting should take a spoon were making is it was not his wifes fault that he can't keep it in his pants and did not need to be informed of it in the manner in which she was in the middle of the supermarket and if you can give a fair arguement as to why she should be humiliated in such a public way then i will appologise but not until |
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"Oh gawd now we are getting into personal territory.
Ok lets get back to the OP...might be safer
Now you can see why Katie didn't expand but im a big mouth at times and unimpressed with some of the bitching on this thread. Those who need to eat humble pie take a spoon.
Actually I have to disagree there...no one knows how true any story is so they can only comment on what was written....and as I said, maybe best to be dropped."
Well you have a point but when it gets bitchy I see no reason not to comment as long as names are not mentioned. Knowing how true? Believe me I know but best not go there. |
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Ladies calm down no need to be so defensive! It's almost as though you think you did something out of order the way you defend previous comments. I always assumed the innocent wouldn't feel the pie was for them and wouldn't need to comment. |
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"Oh gawd now we are getting into personal territory.
Ok lets get back to the OP...might be safer
Now you can see why Katie didn't expand but im a big mouth at times and unimpressed with some of the bitching on this thread. Those who need to eat humble pie take a spoon.
Actually I have to disagree there...no one knows how true any story is so they can only comment on what was written....and as I said, maybe best to be dropped.
Well you have a point but when it gets bitchy I see no reason not to comment as long as names are not mentioned. Knowing how true? Believe me I know but best not go there. "
I think because you seem involved in it you are looking at it a different way.
If someone posts and another disagrees...or even a few disagree, it doesn't mean it is bitching...
What you know about the man in question has nothing at all to do with what the post was about....if it was then the person would have elaborated...so all people can comment on was what was there...which they did.
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"just had a woman and her husband come into my work to buy a car and i thought i reckonised her and guess what i should do as about two months ago she met me for sex! and was apparantly single anyone else had this ? "
Bumping into them again ... Yes, a few times. Always accompanied by a shy smile and blush from the girl, which I find incredibly attractive and charming, as we pass (discretion is the better part of valour). I don't ever judge ... for those where I'd thought the girl was single, or where its a girl who's married but has told me that she's playing alone, I'm just flattered that we've been together. What is amusing are those times where 121s have then become MMF with the two of us never acknowledging that we've had 121 together previously. In essence, its charming, and incredibly romantic, and discretion is always assured. The more awkward situation is meeting the couples where we've had a MMF 3some ... and its the husbands who don't know what to do. The wives are always friendly, charming, and blush amazingly. May it never end. |
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"Ladies calm down no need to be so defensive! It's almost as though you think you did something out of order the way you defend previous comments. I always assumed the innocent wouldn't feel the pie was for them and wouldn't need to comment. "
not at all dear boy, purely your comment made me feel you had skipped through the thread rather than actually reading it so i just wanted to clarify for you quite simple really |
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"if there is ever a case for letting the wife do the shopping on her own, this forum is it "
It shouldn't make any different to honest upstanding swingers. You state on your profile you are attached and she knows......she does doesn't she? |
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"Ladies calm down no need to be so defensive! It's almost as though you think you did something out of order the way you defend previous comments. I always assumed the innocent wouldn't feel the pie was for them and wouldn't need to comment.
not at all dear boy, purely your comment made me feel you had skipped through the thread rather than actually reading it so i just wanted to clarify for you quite simple really "
I have read it lol what size spoon do you want |
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"Ladies calm down no need to be so defensive! It's almost as though you think you did something out of order the way you defend previous comments. I always assumed the innocent wouldn't feel the pie was for them and wouldn't need to comment.
not at all dear boy, purely your comment made me feel you had skipped through the thread rather than actually reading it so i just wanted to clarify for you quite simple really
I have read it lol what size spoon do you want "
a huge wooden one they make a fabulous spanking impliment |
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"Oh gawd now we are getting into personal territory.
Ok lets get back to the OP...might be safer
Now you can see why Katie didn't expand but im a big mouth at times and unimpressed with some of the bitching on this thread. Those who need to eat humble pie take a spoon. "
So you have been told all the details hey.
But so what if he did do whatever at chams? So what if he goes bareback at a gay sauna 6 days a week and goes to a cream pie orgy on the 7th? What has that got to do with outing someone to a another person (who is believed to be his wife - but not confirmed) in a public place?
I'm unimpressed you needed to be told one side of what the guy does or doesn't do.
In fact, it leads me to more strongly believe the comment in the supermarket was an act of spite rather than a bad call in an 'omg that guy might be married and cheating' taken by surprise moment.
I recon you should be handing the spoon back to your mate and asking if they'd like cream or custard with it. |
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Why would you want to "out" someone in public? What do you get out of it? Sorry, but you have only fucked the person, you dont own them, you know next to nothing about them, and yet you would realistically go up to them in a supermarket, when they had a member of the opposite sex with them and call them out.
Bloody hell, morals from swingers, that has to be a fucking oxymoron if ever I heard one......
Next time I go shopping with my sister (3 years older than me), I dread to think what may happen |
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Bloody hell, morals from swingers, that has to be a fucking oxymoron if ever I heard one......
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Whoa...... so why shouldn't swingers have morals then???
just because people happen to like sex, does that mean any morals should be left aside??? wow....... |
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Bloody hell, morals from swingers, that has to be a fucking oxymoron if ever I heard one......
Whoa...... so why shouldn't swingers have morals then???
just because people happen to like sex, does that mean any morals should be left aside??? wow....... "
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"just had a woman and her husband come into my work to buy a car and i thought i reckonised her and guess what i should do as about two months ago she met me for sex! and was apparantly single anyone else had this ? "
you met this women for sex 2 months ago and you only thought you recognised her? lol |
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Bloody hell, morals from swingers, that has to be a fucking oxymoron if ever I heard one......
Whoa...... so why shouldn't swingers have morals then???
just because people happen to like sex, does that mean any morals should be left aside??? wow.......
When it comes to having extra marital sex, ,yes I think it smacks of duplicity....."
funny word that... duplicity... because it smacks of then having something to hide in the first place....
whole can of worms..... whole can of worms
I have my morals that I have with or without swinging, I am not going to bend them to get a leg over, so in effect its then the morals of the lowest person who reigns...
I have nothing to hide... what you see is what you get... and I would like that in the people I play with....
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Bloody hell, morals from swingers, that has to be a fucking oxymoron if ever I heard one......
Whoa...... so why shouldn't swingers have morals then???
just because people happen to like sex, does that mean any morals should be left aside??? wow.......
When it comes to having extra marital sex, ,yes I think it smacks of duplicity.....
funny word that... duplicity... because it smacks of then having something to hide in the first place....
whole can of worms..... whole can of worms
I have my morals that I have with or without swinging, I am not going to bend them to get a leg over, so in effect its then the morals of the lowest person who reigns...
I have nothing to hide... what you see is what you get... and I would like that in the people I play with....
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everyone has something to hide Fabio, and they choose to hide things for specific reasons, perfection in a human being is rare.
as for morals, trying to impose your moral conduct onto others is not a healthy attitude to a life that should be "live and let live", if I had sex with a "single" woman and then later saw her walking through sainsbury's with her husband, do I really have the "moral high ground" to call her out? afterall, I also have sex with strangers, some of these people are married, and in most cases their partner is present, so that makes it ok then?
To trash someones life that you barely know because of "principles" or your "high moral standards", is ridiculous.
and just because you have sex with people that have an "understanding" partner does not mean that the partner is complicit. In a relationship seldom is balance achieved, someone will always be the dominant person, and who is to say whether hubby, deep down, really and trully is comfortable with the swinging scene, but merely particpates to accommodate a woman he loves and doesnt wish to lose?
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to be honest i would be pissed off if i met someone who told me they was single and it turned out they was married
I never knowingly meet anyone whos playing away and i feel that saying your single to get a meet by someone who dont meet married people is totally disrespectful of your rules
So thoght people say keep your nose out if i found out i was lied to by someone i would have to say something and the out comes if their problem not mine |
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