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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone, I think my girlfriends friend wants me to make a move on her. To be honest her friend is really hot and id be lying if I said I didn't think about her that way but if I misjudge the situation it could be messy. I know it would be a shitty thing to do and I don't think I would make a move anyway but any advice would be appreciated. Cus if she made a move on me I don't think I could say no! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You actually have to ask?
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Yes but if I've misread the signs then it could be disastrous. Tho I think I need to know so will prob do something. Great profile BTW! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you want a one off thing or more with the friend x"
With the friend it would just be a one off thing. Its just physical attraction plus I think she could be a lot of fun! The way she was looking at me the other night has really got my head in a spin |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just say something to her and make it sound innocent.like FANCY A FUCK."
Very subtle ha ha. Tho I think I can get to the bottom of it. She's looking for a fling and has asked me to help her find someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe subtly say it your gf as a proposal for a threesome.
I don't think thats an option unfortunately. My gf wouldn't go for that"
Do you really want that coming out in an argument? Lasses love to bring shit like that up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just say something to her and make it sound innocent.like FANCY A FUCK.
Very subtle ha ha. Tho I think I can get to the bottom of it. She's looking for a fling and has asked me to help her find someone "
Make a joke of it.laugh and say I've found someone for you and your looking at him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you want a one off thing or more with the friend x
With the friend it would just be a one off thing. Its just physical attraction plus I think she could be a lot of fun! The way she was looking at me the other night has really got my head in a spin"
Well if you want to maybe sabotage your relationship with your girlfriend then batter in. She obviously hasn't got any respect for her either x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't shit where you eat
That's why I think I'll hold myself back. But if she tries it I'm gone! "
Go watch 1 man 1 screwdriver...& think of it every time you see her.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you obviously don’t respect your gf if you even consider her friend... I had ex who mate would always come on to me she d*unk my ex didn’t mind and became a fantasy chat thing... but I knew if I did anything would been bad
Plus your on here as single guy so again if looking for meets you don’t care for gf
Sorry seem ranting but if with someone respect em if I’m with someone I stop meets on fab
Hope have fun either way but if you play both it will get messy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what your personal morals, values and standards tell you is right.
If there are consequences, deal with them like the adult male you are.
Are you sure you have the right age on your profile by the way OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone, I think my girlfriends friend wants me to make a move on her. To be honest her friend is really hot and id be lying if I said I didn't think about her that way but if I misjudge the situation it could be messy. I know it would be a shitty thing to do and I don't think I would make a move anyway but any advice would be appreciated. Cus if she made a move on me I don't think I could say no! "
you don’t think you would make a move but would if she made a move on you?
your current girlfriend, not exclusive then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can’t be much of a boyfriend if your on here without your girlfriend, and if you did try it on with her friend and she went along with it she wouldn’t be much of a friend maybe go for it maybe you two deserve eqchother if that’s the case |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Hi everyone, I think my girlfriends friend wants me to make a move on her. To be honest her friend is really hot and id be lying if I said I didn't think about her that way but if I misjudge the situation it could be messy. I know it would be a shitty thing to do and I don't think I would make a move anyway but any advice would be appreciated. Cus if she made a move on me I don't think I could say no! "
The fact you are here, presumably without your gf knowledge is one thing. The fact you are considering fucking her friend is something totally different.
Do you have no respect for your gf at all? Why stay in a relationship if you are so prepared to do this? Not only will you be messing up your relationship with your gf should it ever be found out but you are also interfering with her relationship with her friend.
Theres a lot to be said for shitting on your own doorstep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe subtly say it your gf as a proposal for a threesome.
I don't think thats an option unfortunately. My gf wouldn't go for that"
Go for it looks like you are anyway on your profile and having a gf not into 3 sums with your inclinations is only going to lead to frustration and you looking around for other women as you obviously are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you should just make the move and see if the friend goes for it. You clearly want to. It's only you not being sure how far her friend will take it with you, that holds you back and whether she will tell your girlfriend you tried it on, if she doesn't reciprocate. If she does, that way your girlfriend will hopefully find out and see she has some house cleaning to do. Allowing her to stick with the friends who will have her back and get a boyfriend who will respect her enough to not shag her mates  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This actually isn't serious is it?!
Deadly serious. He's looking for some to give him another excuse to cheat as he already does it on here.
Nar I can't believe he's that stupid or shitty."
I've been here since he started it. It really is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well that was interesting morning reading. Just because it will have the most interesting out come, I'd say take the bait and see what happens and then come back and tell us how bad it went. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
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Lasses do that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that? "
Yep, some do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do."
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship? "
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is."
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Clearly you don't give a shit about your gf then and her friend is definately not a decent one. Go for it OP, sounds like you are well suited. Hopefully your gf will meet someone who really deserves her and some decent new friends into the bargain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is.
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall. "
True. Or, she just may appear to be blind to it. She may be biding her time and waiting to get proof to confront him with it. Maybe at a family gathering or somewhere that will cause him to look like a louse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is.
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall.
True. Or, she just may appear to be blind to it. She may be biding her time and waiting to get proof to confront him with it. Maybe at a family gathering or somewhere that will cause him to look like a louse.
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Seems a bit over the top. If my gf cheated on me or I suspected, I'd ask her outright and if she denied it and I could tell she was lying, she would have an hour to get her shit out. If not its out the door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is.
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall.
True. Or, she just may appear to be blind to it. She may be biding her time and waiting to get proof to confront him with it. Maybe at a family gathering or somewhere that will cause him to look like a louse.
Seems a bit over the top. If my gf cheated on me or I suspected, I'd ask her outright and if she denied it and I could tell she was lying, she would have an hour to get her shit out. If not its out the door. "
That’s because you’re a bloke. Men are rational.
Some women would do that too. But some women are irrational and go for The Godfather type approach where you’re in deep shit and you’ll be lucky to get away with your wedding tackle still attached to your body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is.
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall.
True. Or, she just may appear to be blind to it. She may be biding her time and waiting to get proof to confront him with it. Maybe at a family gathering or somewhere that will cause him to look like a louse.
Seems a bit over the top. If my gf cheated on me or I suspected, I'd ask her outright and if she denied it and I could tell she was lying, she would have an hour to get her shit out. If not its out the door.
That’s because you’re a bloke. Men are rational.
Some women would do that too. But some women are irrational and go for The Godfather type approach where you’re in deep shit and you’ll be lucky to get away with your wedding tackle still attached to your body."
And thats why you don't dip it in crazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is.
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall.
True. Or, she just may appear to be blind to it. She may be biding her time and waiting to get proof to confront him with it. Maybe at a family gathering or somewhere that will cause him to look like a louse.
Seems a bit over the top. If my gf cheated on me or I suspected, I'd ask her outright and if she denied it and I could tell she was lying, she would have an hour to get her shit out. If not its out the door.
That’s because you’re a bloke. Men are rational.
Some women would do that too. But some women are irrational and go for The Godfather type approach where you’re in deep shit and you’ll be lucky to get away with your wedding tackle still attached to your body.
And thats why you don't dip it in crazy. "
Some men love a bit of cray cray.
But i’m sure the OP’s girlfriend is the rational kind of lass and everything will be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your girlfriend can sense you’re up to no good and has roped in her friend to actually see how loyal you are.
Or maybe your girlfriends friend really is a skanky bitch who’d shit on her friend. In that case, you two would be a match made in heaven.
Lasses do that?
Yep, some do.
Doesn't that bring trust issues into the relationship?
That’s the reason they do it. Because they get a sixth sense that something is up. So they test their theory.
Thing is, if a partner is cheating, their behaviour towards partner changes. Some pick up on this (and so they go theough phones etc) and some don’t realise.
Just depends how intuitive his lass is.
Seems like she's pretty blind to it. He's on here afterall.
True. Or, she just may appear to be blind to it. She may be biding her time and waiting to get proof to confront him with it. Maybe at a family gathering or somewhere that will cause him to look like a louse.
Seems a bit over the top. If my gf cheated on me or I suspected, I'd ask her outright and if she denied it and I could tell she was lying, she would have an hour to get her shit out. If not its out the door.
That’s because you’re a bloke. Men are rational.
Some women would do that too. But some women are irrational and go for The Godfather type approach where you’re in deep shit and you’ll be lucky to get away with your wedding tackle still attached to your body.
And thats why you don't dip it in crazy.
Some men love a bit of cray cray.
But i’m sure the OP’s girlfriend is the rational kind of lass and everything will be fine."
She's irish. Thats as crazy as you can get when you piss them off. |
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You're on a sex site op and I presume she doesn't know,so do her a favour and let her find someone who will treat her better.
Having it away with her best mate would make you the lowest of the low.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you obviously don’t respect your gf if you even consider her friend... I had ex who mate would always come on to me she d*unk my ex didn’t mind and became a fantasy chat thing... but I knew if I did anything would been bad
Plus your on here as single guy so again if looking for meets you don’t care for gf
Sorry seem ranting but if with someone respect em if I’m with someone I stop meets on fab
Hope have fun either way but if you play both it will get messy"
Totally agree. I think I needed to hear that. I maybe got caught up with the thrill of it all. For the record tho I have never met anyone off fab and not sure if I ever will. Thanks for you reply |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do what your personal morals, values and standards tell you is right.
If there are consequences, deal with them like the adult male you are.
Are you sure you have the right age on your profile by the way OP? "
I'm feeling a little sheepish this morning I must say. I've been put in my place. I'm going to stay well clear of the whole thing. Thanks for your honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do what your personal morals, values and standards tell you is right.
If there are consequences, deal with them like the adult male you are.
Are you sure you have the right age on your profile by the way OP?
I'm feeling a little sheepish this morning I must say. I've been put in my place. I'm going to stay well clear of the whole thing. Thanks for your honesty"
Thats what happens when you mix alcohol with a keyboard = UNLOS |
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"Do what your personal morals, values and standards tell you is right.
If there are consequences, deal with them like the adult male you are.
Are you sure you have the right age on your profile by the way OP?
I'm feeling a little sheepish this morning I must say. I've been put in my place. I'm going to stay well clear of the whole thing. Thanks for your honesty
Thats what happens when you mix alcohol with a keyboard = UNLOS"
Wonder what his new user name will be. |
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Three possibilities that I can see:
1. She genuinely fancies you.
2. She's one of those women that likes flirting with her mates' fellas.
3. Your girlfriend has set her up to test you.
66% chance of disappointment. |
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