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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It probably me just being a drama queen but in a couple of relatively recent meets I have had a good chats with ladies from this site and they have said I am not a swinger.
So I suppose the question goes out to the ladies what makes a swinger in your eyes.
It may make for debate then again as I said at the outside it could be me being drama either way let me know thanks.
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i suppose it is the fact you are looking for one person...
Swinging has many different definitions.And i hate labels,but for me i would say it is a belief that sex is not monogamous,and that we can have many different levels of relationships from fucking namelessly in a club to "fuck buddies"tollover to husband/wife.
Whatever the relationship though there is a lack of possessiveness,and openness about sex for physical pleasure.
i suppose we are a good example of this,currently kev is on a break,but i am still meeting,even whilst we were both meeting i met my Master...this did not affect our relationship since we do not need exclusivity to prove our love for each other.
Perhaps these women sensed a desire for exclusivity? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i suppose it is the fact you are looking for one person...
Swinging has many different definitions.And i hate labels,but for me i would say it is a belief that sex is not monogamous,and that we can have many different levels of relationships from fucking namelessly in a club to "fuck buddies"tollover to husband/wife.
Whatever the relationship though there is a lack of possessiveness,and openness about sex for physical pleasure.
i suppose we are a good example of this,currently kev is on a break,but i am still meeting,even whilst we were both meeting i met my Master...this did not affect our relationship since we do not need exclusivity to prove our love for each other.
Perhaps these women sensed a desire for exclusivity? "
Hi Puddlefuck,
That's the first intelligent definition of swinger I've heard.
Just to poke fun, so do Mormons count as swingers then (;-)? ; they don’t have monogamous relationships
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"i suppose it is the fact you are looking for one person...
Swinging has many different definitions.And i hate labels,but for me i would say it is a belief that sex is not monogamous,and that we can have many different levels of relationships from fucking namelessly in a club to "fuck buddies"tollover to husband/wife.
Whatever the relationship though there is a lack of possessiveness,and openness about sex for physical pleasure.
i suppose we are a good example of this,currently kev is on a break,but i am still meeting,even whilst we were both meeting i met my Master...this did not affect our relationship since we do not need exclusivity to prove our love for each other.
Perhaps these women sensed a desire for exclusivity? "
A perfect description where we are concerned!!! Possesive no!!! open yes!! going home and living life with our partners yes!! having sex with others hell yes!! (well given the chance and in our case BOTH of us!)  |
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"i suppose it is the fact you are looking for one person...
Swinging has many different definitions.And i hate labels,but for me i would say it is a belief that sex is not monogamous,and that we can have many different levels of relationships from fucking namelessly in a club to "fuck buddies"to lover to husband/wife.
Whatever the relationship though there is a lack of possessiveness,and openness about sex for physical pleasure.
i suppose we are a good example of this,currently kev is on a break,but i am still meeting,even whilst we were both meeting i met my Master...this did not affect our relationship since we do not need exclusivity to prove our love for each other.
Perhaps these women sensed a desire for exclusivity?
Hi Puddlefuck,
That's the first intelligent definition of swinger I've heard.
Just to poke fun, so do Mormons count as swingers then (;-)? ; they don’t have monogamous relationships
Ray x"
Ty,though i seem to have said the wrong thing for the OP 
As for Mormons...no cos the hubby can have more but the wives must be monogomous...They are just jammy buggers!Though i bet there were a few where the joys of 3 somes were explored  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another one with the profile name user no longer on the site!! Sounds like those ladies were right... 
i think it was something i said  "
Oops!!
Seriously though, good for you for posting a definition of swinging. I think some people join this site and others like it with unrealistic expectations. Eg those that throw their toys out of the pram when they see that someone they have met or want to meet has -shock, horror -met other people. |
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