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over a year ago
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"Subjective that ain't it. Younger or older than what or who?
Than me?
Than you?
To be fair a lot will be younger than you  
It's on beeeyatch  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I generally connect better with older guys but age is just a number.
The first half of that sentence rather disproves the second half."
Yes if you take it out of context. He asked if we had a preference. I dont prefer older guys I just seem to connectwith more older men. It's not a choice or a rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similar in age ideally. A little older or younger is fine, but nothing extreme on either spectrum  "
Could imagine the keyboard keys could be uncomfortable, |
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"I generally connect better with older guys but age is just a number.
The first half of that sentence rather disproves the second half.
Yes if you take it out of context. He asked if we had a preference. I dont prefer older guys I just seem to connectwith more older men. It's not a choice or a rule. "
You seem to misunderstand. I’m not disputing whether you have a preference. The fact that you ‘seem to connect with older men’ is evidence that age is not ‘just a number’. If she was ‘just a number’ then there would be no reportable statistic for the age of men you seem to connect with.
Age may not be a hard, fast, unwavering guarantee of what someone I’d going to be like, but it is more than ‘just a number’, no matter how often people unthinkingingly spew it up on these pages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I generally connect better with older guys but age is just a number.
The first half of that sentence rather disproves the second half.
Yes if you take it out of context. He asked if we had a preference. I dont prefer older guys I just seem to connectwith more older men. It's not a choice or a rule.
You seem to misunderstand. I’m not disputing whether you have a preference. The fact that you ‘seem to connect with older men’ is evidence that age is not ‘just a number’. If she was ‘just a number’ then there would be no reportable statistic for the age of men you seem to connect with.
Age may not be a hard, fast, unwavering guarantee of what someone I’d going to be like, but it is more than ‘just a number’, no matter how often people unthinkingingly spew it up on these pages."
Some people thinkingly spewed it up, even if some people unthinkingly liked to assume they didn’t.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similar in age ideally. A little older or younger is fine, but nothing extreme on either spectrum "
There you are i escaped your cupbourd and changed my name to hide from the horrors lol |
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"Some people thinkingly spewed it up, even if some people unthinkingly liked to assume they didn’t. "
Were any of those people thinking when they posted it, despite their profile saying they don’t want to meet people under 28? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similar in age ideally. A little older or younger is fine, but nothing extreme on either spectrum
There you are i escaped your cupbourd and changed my name to hide from the horrors lol"
You're back! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similar in age ideally. A little older or younger is fine, but nothing extreme on either spectrum
There you are i escaped your cupbourd and changed my name to hide from the horrors lol
You're back! "
Back and raring to gooooooo the hotcocksock was killed by a russian assasin and re encarnated as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people thinkingly spewed it up, even if some people unthinkingly liked to assume they didn’t.
Were any of those people thinking when they posted it, despite their profile saying they don’t want to meet people under 28?"
Yes, they were. Problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Age is but a number.
So it's a date when I'm 99 then? 
Anytime, baby x
Don't Call Me Baby - Madison Avenue 
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tn-qE-h7s84"
You love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Similar in age ideally. A little older or younger is fine, but nothing extreme on either spectrum
There you are i escaped your cupbourd and changed my name to hide from the horrors lol
You're back!
Back and raring to gooooooo the hotcocksock was killed by a russian assasin and re encarnated as me"
Good thing you remember your past life, eh?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer a man who hasn't joined a swingers site then are put off by the women that have had lots of partners. The hypocrisy is laughable. "
I get amused by the hoity toity mansplainy pass-agg ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem?
None. It’s a little worrying that you can’t see the basic flaw in your argument, but I’m sure that holding on to trite platitudes makes it all worthwhile."
What you don’t know though, is that I didn’t set the age limit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you don’t know though, is that I didn’t set the age limit.
And it’s been outwith your power to change it?"
I don’t need to, I’m fine as I am at the moment with my guy. Thanks for worrying, it’s cute.
Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. |
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"I prefer a man who hasn't joined a swingers site then are put off by the women that have had lots of partners. The hypocrisy is laughable. "
I tried virginsrus.com, but all I matched with was seeside 
Sorry Mr Seeside, I think you are brilliant |
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"What you don’t know though, is that I didn’t set the age limit.
And it’s been outwith your power to change it?
I don’t need to, I’m fine as I am at the moment with my guy. Thanks for worrying, it’s cute.
Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. "
how condescending do you sound |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer a man who hasn't joined a swingers site then are put off by the women that have had lots of partners. The hypocrisy is laughable.
I get amused by the hoity toity mansplainy pass-agg ones. "
And the excuses, once I tell them I've fucked a lot of men from here. Why do they join a fucking swingers site when they want a virgin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you don’t know though, is that I didn’t set the age limit.
And it’s been outwith your power to change it?
I don’t need to, I’m fine as I am at the moment with my guy. Thanks for worrying, it’s cute.
Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. how condescending do you sound "
I was challenging the guy who said that anyone who posted “age is but a number” was spewing it unthinkingly - you posted that phrase, were you spewing unthinkingly?
I was being condescending to condescending. And I’m good with that. |
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"Thanks for worrying, it’s cute."
Yes, that’s what this is.
"Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. "
Bully for you. However, if ‘age is but a number’ was anything other than facile banality, nobody would have any use for the age parameters on here.
Yes, there will always be exceptions. But they are exceptions. |
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"No. Age is but a number.
So it's a date when I'm 99 then?
Anytime, baby x
Don't Call Me Baby - Madison Avenue
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tn-qE-h7s84
You love it "
You have a "special" way of saying it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer a man who hasn't joined a swingers site then are put off by the women that have had lots of partners. The hypocrisy is laughable.
I get amused by the hoity toity mansplainy pass-agg ones.
And the excuses, once I tell them I've fucked a lot of men from here. Why do they join a fucking swingers site when they want a virgin? "
I know! |
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"What you don’t know though, is that I didn’t set the age limit.
And it’s been outwith your power to change it?
I don’t need to, I’m fine as I am at the moment with my guy. Thanks for worrying, it’s cute.
Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. how condescending do you sound
I was challenging the guy who said that anyone who posted “age is but a number” was spewing it unthinkingly - you posted that phrase, were you spewing unthinkingly?
I was being condescending to condescending. And I’m good with that. "
i will disagree |
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"I prefer a man who hasn't joined a swingers site then are put off by the women that have had lots of partners. The hypocrisy is laughable.
I get amused by the hoity toity mansplainy pass-agg ones.
And the excuses, once I tell them I've fucked a lot of men from here. Why do they join a fucking swingers site when they want a virgin? "
do you discuss how many guys youve met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for worrying, it’s cute.Yes, that’s what this is.
Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. Bully for you. However, if ‘age is but a number’ was anything other than facile banality, nobody would have any use for the age parameters on here.
Yes, there will always be exceptions. But they are exceptions."
You’re missing the point I’m making, you’re assuming anyone using the phrase did so unthinkingly. I disputed that to can say that, I didn’t say it unthinkingly. That doesn’t mean I’m negating that age means something to some people, hell no! But where do you get to decide who it matters to or not based on their use of a phrase? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you don’t know though, is that I didn’t set the age limit.
And it’s been outwith your power to change it?
I don’t need to, I’m fine as I am at the moment with my guy. Thanks for worrying, it’s cute.
Age is but a number. It’s the attitude I go for and how they speak to others, that’s the stuff that makes and breaks. how condescending do you sound
I was challenging the guy who said that anyone who posted “age is but a number” was spewing it unthinkingly - you posted that phrase, were you spewing unthinkingly?
I was being condescending to condescending. And I’m good with that. i will disagree"
With what point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Problem?
None. It’s a little worrying that you can’t see the basic flaw in your argument, but I’m sure that holding on to trite platitudes makes it all worthwhile."
Fairly sure you just come to the forums to either A) try to come across as really intelligent, or B) to argue with people, you was on my thread the other doing the same shit, just an observation, don't want to argue about it cause I'll receive another ban, |
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"You’re missing the point I’m making, you’re assuming anyone using the phrase did so unthinkingly. I disputed that to can say that, I didn’t say it unthinkingly. That doesn’t mean I’m negating that age means something to some people, hell no! But where do you get to decide who it matters to or not based on their use of a phrase? "
I’m not deciding for anyone whether age matters to them. You say age doesn’t matter to you, that’s fine. But that doesn’t suddenly make ‘age is but a number’ anything other than meaningless nonsense. There’s a whole world of over seven billion people out there, who collectively prove that it’s meaningless nonsense.
By all means, continue to dribble it onto your keyboard to your heart’s content. It is, as I have learned is the choice phrase here, a really good filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’re missing the point I’m making, you’re assuming anyone using the phrase did so unthinkingly. I disputed that to can say that, I didn’t say it unthinkingly. That doesn’t mean I’m negating that age means something to some people, hell no! But where do you get to decide who it matters to or not based on their use of a phrase?
I’m not deciding for anyone whether age matters to them. You say age doesn’t matter to you, that’s fine. But that doesn’t suddenly make ‘age is but a number’ anything other than meaningless nonsense. There’s a whole world of over seven billion people out there, who collectively prove that it’s meaningless nonsense.
By all means, continue to dribble it onto your keyboard to your heart’s content. It is, as I have learned is the choice phrase here, a really good filter."
But you’re suggesting that the phrase means I’m applying it to everyone, I’m not - im applying it to me and as my opinion. So it’s capturing perfectly my point of view.
Why are you having such a problem with someone using a phrase you don’t like, that you have to twist their meaning to suit you?
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"Fairly sure you just come to the forums to either A) try to come across as really intelligent, or B) to argue with people, you was on my thread the other doing the same shit, just an observation, don't want to argue about it cause I'll receive another ban, "
There’s not really an argument to be had. I don’t come here for either of those reasons. I’m not going to apologise for sharing my opinions, or pointing out bullshit when I see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer a man who hasn't joined a swingers site then are put off by the women that have had lots of partners. The hypocrisy is laughable.
I get amused by the hoity toity mansplainy pass-agg ones.
And the excuses, once I tell them I've fucked a lot of men from here. Why do they join a fucking swingers site when they want a virgin? do you discuss how many guys youve met?"
They ask if I've met many men from here and I say quite a few. It's no secret and I'd rather they knew and fucked off than fucked me feeling secure that I wasn't a slag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are you having such a problem with someone using a phrase you don’t like, that you have to twist their meaning to suit you?
You don’t see the irony with that response, do you? Fucking hell."
I can see you try and posit that as a point, but you’d be wrong again. |
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"I can see you try and posit that as a point, but you’d be wrong again. "
I’m not. I’m not the one twisting the phrase for my personal needs. I’m taking it at face value.
But, hey, I’m not going to convince you, you’re not going to convince me. And it appears to be upsetting the children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can see you try and posit that as a point, but you’d be wrong again.
I’m not. I’m not the one twisting the phrase for my personal needs. I’m taking it at face value.
But, hey, I’m not going to convince you, you’re not going to convince me. And it appears to be upsetting the children."
My disagreement was with the “spewing unthinkingly” assumption. But yes, let’s agree to disagree. I don’t want a disagreement to attract personal insults, however much I’m not particularly enamoured by your phrasing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is but a number. Other things are the reason I wouldn’t meet someone though. Being an argumentative arsehole? Noted..."
Are trying to you ask if I’d meet you? You’re correct, it would be a no. For many reasons. |
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"Age is but a number. Other things are the reason I wouldn’t meet someone though. Being an argumentative arsehole? Noted...
Are trying to you ask if I’d meet you? You’re correct, it would be a no. For many reasons. "
Are you* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are trying to you ask if I’d meet you? You’re correct, it would be a no. For many reasons.
Are you*
No, it just seemed like the obvious gag."
It made me gag.  |
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"Age is a number. I'm 52. 52 is a number. I don't behave like a lot of 52 year olds. Inside I'm 18.
You’ve an 18year old inside you?
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Not yet (20 being my youngest) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So hands.up all the ladies who like older men
Gonna get messyon here i go for guys younger than me. In real life my partners older than me. Go figure"
.Makes a nice change. |
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"Age is a number. I'm 52. 52 is a number. I don't behave like a lot of 52 year olds. Inside I'm 18.
You’ve an 18year old inside you?
Not yet (20 being my youngest) "
Bwahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Age is but a number.
Yet class is timeless
Awwww thanks "
 Thought you may appreciate a less adversarial response.
After all mental and emotional connections are not necessarily driven by age but by intellectual or emotional stimulation  |
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"Age is a number. I'm 52. 52 is a number. I don't behave like a lot of 52 year olds. Inside I'm 18.
You’ve an 18year old inside you?
Not yet (20 being my youngest)
Bwahahaha "
He was a natural too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Age is but a number.
Yet class is timeless
Awwww thanks
Thought you may appreciate a less adversarial response.
After all mental and emotional connections are not necessarily driven by age but by intellectual or emotional stimulation "
I do like someone with a brain, and who is kind to people. |
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"Age is a number. I'm 52. 52 is a number. I don't behave like a lot of 52 year olds. Inside I'm 18.
You’ve an 18year old inside you?
Not yet (20 being my youngest)
Bwahahaha
He was a natural too "
You’d adore my lovely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is a number. I'm 52. 52 is a number. I don't behave like a lot of 52 year olds. Inside I'm 18.
You’ve an 18year old inside you?
Not yet (20 being my youngest)
Bwahahaha
He was a natural too
You’d adore my lovely! "
We should swap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Age is but a number.
Yet class is timeless
Awwww thanks
Thought you may appreciate a less adversarial response.
After all mental and emotional connections are not necessarily driven by age but by intellectual or emotional stimulation
I do like someone with a brain, and who is kind to people. "
I'm kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is a number. I'm 52. 52 is a number. I don't behave like a lot of 52 year olds. Inside I'm 18.
You’ve an 18year old inside you?
Not yet (20 being my youngest)
Bwahahaha
He was a natural too
You’d adore my lovely!
We should swap "
Hee hee! |
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"I tend to be attracted to men in their 30s now. 8/10 years ago it was men in their 20s. "
Why the change?
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"No, ta. I’m all loved up  "
Thats really not what I was saying, although I suspect you knew that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Age is but a number.
Yet class is timeless
Awwww thanks
Thought you may appreciate a less adversarial response.
After all mental and emotional connections are not necessarily driven by age but by intellectual or emotional stimulation
I do like someone with a brain, and who is kind to people.
I'm kind "
Kind and a brain. Think you judt won the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Age is but a number.
Yet class is timeless
Awwww thanks
Thought you may appreciate a less adversarial response.
After all mental and emotional connections are not necessarily driven by age but by intellectual or emotional stimulation
I do like someone with a brain, and who is kind to people.
I'm kind "
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"Are trying to you ask if I’d meet you? You’re correct, it would be a no. For many reasons.
Are you*
No, it just seemed like the obvious gag.
It made me gag.
Ball? "
Always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Age is but a number.
Yet class is timeless
Awwww thanks
Thought you may appreciate a less adversarial response.
After all mental and emotional connections are not necessarily driven by age but by intellectual or emotional stimulation
I do like someone with a brain, and who is kind to people.
I'm kind
Kind and a brain. Think you judt won the thread "
And I love giving blow jobs (nailed it) |
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"I tend to be attracted to men in their 30s now. 8/10 years ago it was men in their 20s. Why the change?
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No, ta. I’m all loved up Thats really not what I was saying, although I suspect you knew that."
The age of them grew with my age. I met my long term partner when he was 28, he's now 36. |
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"Are trying to you ask if I’d meet you? You’re correct, it would be a no. For many reasons.
Are you*
No, it just seemed like the obvious gag.
It made me gag.
Ball?
Always."
I have been with a girl/lass/lady/female/woman or whatever, I'm sure you get the pic, that brought an inflatable one to a meet once
Kinda put my vibrating inflatable butt plug to shame actually  |
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