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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wondering why that on the majority of couples profiles there are no pics of the male half?
Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men find it difficult having personal pics taken whether single or couple. In a single profile if they only have one or two pics, apart from the quality, it isn't noted as an issue. In a couple profile the ratio of male to female pics is tricky to achieve as females generally don't mind pics taken but males still do! Fuzz doesn't get a lot of choice as I'll take them anyway but most of the time we manage to get a good mix on 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x"
I am so offended ! How dare you asking that to ppl !
I bet you are proud of yourself ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only do club meets, usually off the cuff so don't really plan to meet up with people at clubs from fab. We've only 1 pic I think of Fred in public and maybe one or two in private? He doesn't use fab or interact with it so don't see the need to add more pics of him, if we change the way we play we'll add more.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of men find it difficult having personal pics taken whether single or couple. In a single profile if they only have one or two pics, apart from the quality, it isn't noted as an issue. In a couple profile the ratio of male to female pics is tricky to achieve as females generally don't mind pics taken but males still do! Fuzz doesn't get a lot of choice as I'll take them anyway but most of the time we manage to get a good mix on
Peach x"
I understand that...x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We only do club meets, usually off the cuff so don't really plan to meet up with people at clubs from fab. We've only 1 pic I think of Fred in public and maybe one or two in private? He doesn't use fab or interact with it so don't see the need to add more pics of him, if we change the way we play we'll add more.
Ginger "
If you never meet through fab I guess that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our ratio of pics are fair - 1 of each of us to give people an idea of what our bodies look like.
In our friends pics there is also a good ratio I would say a 3rd of them are hubby. Hes not so keen on having photos taken but always got a camera on me.
Though we only have the 1 pic each public we are more than happy to show our other pics and face pics so as not to waste others time, were not for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of messages from couples but if there’s no pics of the guy I don’t entertain them. I find it weird when the profile says specifically looking for women and moan about single guys messaging yet there are 30 pics of just the woman, usually quite graphic. Surely they understand that they would attract more men than women with those kinds of photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past we always tried to have plenty of pics of Marc. But the truth is that he got off on having pics of me on here. As did I. So there would inevitably be more pics of me than of him. It was a turn on for him in a way that pics of himself on the internet weren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondering why that on the majority of couples profiles there are no pics of the male half?
Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x"
To be honest we think the same way. Hence why both of us are on our profile. It's pointless in our eyes not to do that.
We rather be upfront |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get lots of messages from couples but if there’s no pics of the guy I don’t entertain them. I find it weird when the profile says specifically looking for women and moan about single guys messaging yet there are 30 pics of just the woman, usually quite graphic. Surely they understand that they would attract more men than women with those kinds of photos."
This was kinda my thinking and why I posed the question. It's probably a bit wrong of me because if I was going to meet it would be MM, but it's something I have been curious about since I joined the site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wondering why that on the majority of couples profiles there are no pics of the male half?
Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x"
Because they're mingers  |
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I have no idea why couples looking for other couples don't display the male on pics. Even 1 would be preferable to the zero on many ,just so it gives people an idea.
We don't waste time with profiles that have tonnes of the lady only,unless they attach pics of Mr in a message.
We have plenty of Jack on show.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We do on ours as we think both parties need to be able to see both people, its only window dressing no faces but gives an idea of shape size etc"
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have no idea why couples looking for other couples don't display the male on pics. Even 1 would be preferable to the zero on many ,just so it gives people an idea.
We don't waste time with profiles that have tonnes of the lady only,unless they attach pics of Mr in a message.
We have plenty of Jack on show.
Miss"
It's reassuring to read that you, and other couples, think this way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve a few pics of mr but he really doesn’t like his pics taken. Most of the time as long as we’ve got one of his body, cock and face that’s all we’ve been asked for. I would have more if he let me just because I think it’s good to have a mix. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wondering why that on the majority of couples profiles there are no pics of the male half?
Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x
Because they're mingers "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve a few pics of mr but he really doesn’t like his pics taken. Most of the time as long as we’ve got one of his body, cock and face that’s all we’ve been asked for. I would have more if he let me just because I think it’s good to have a mix. X "
But you don't have public pics of P do you, this is what I was getting at? Again, NOT a criticism at all Angie, just an observation and genuine curiosity x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet single men so we don't show as much of hubby in our public photos as he only plays with me. I will send out face photos of us both. If we were looking for couples then we would put some of him up. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
This has been covered many times before and the reasons are various, and mostly in line with the answers given here.
One other reason coming at it from a male perspective, is that getting "different" pics of a guy is not as easy as you'd think, a lady just has to change lingerie to make a pic look different, given the limited underwear options (that look appealing rather than practical) for men, the same doesn't apply the other way round.
I also think women are (usually) more visually appealing than men generally.
Either way, guess it's up to the individual profile owners how they choose to run their profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do on ours as we think both parties need to be able to see both people, its only window dressing no faces but gives an idea of shape size etc
Exactly "
Good answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This has been covered many times before and the reasons are various, and mostly in line with the answers given here.
One other reason coming at it from a male perspective, is that getting "different" pics of a guy is not as easy as you'd think, a lady just has to change lingerie to make a pic look different, given the limited underwear options (that look appealing rather than practical) for men, the same doesn't apply the other way round.
I also think women are (usually) more visually appealing than men generally.
Either way, guess it's up to the individual profile owners how they choose to run their profiles "
Sorry  I haven't seen this covered before... And I know it's up to individuals... I was just curious.
No offence was meant... I keep saying that |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"This has been covered many times before and the reasons are various, and mostly in line with the answers given here.
One other reason coming at it from a male perspective, is that getting "different" pics of a guy is not as easy as you'd think, a lady just has to change lingerie to make a pic look different, given the limited underwear options (that look appealing rather than practical) for men, the same doesn't apply the other way round.
I also think women are (usually) more visually appealing than men generally.
Either way, guess it's up to the individual profile owners how they choose to run their profiles
Sorry I haven't seen this covered before... And I know it's up to individuals... I was just curious.
No offence was meant... I keep saying that "
Not sure why you feel the need to keep saying no offence was meant OP - don't think anyone has taken offence, or even indicated the slightest bit of offendedness 
Either way the answers still the same - there are many reasons as this thread has shown |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve a few pics of mr but he really doesn’t like his pics taken. Most of the time as long as we’ve got one of his body, cock and face that’s all we’ve been asked for. I would have more if he let me just because I think it’s good to have a mix. X
But you don't have public pics of P do you, this is what I was getting at? Again, NOT a criticism at all Angie, just an observation and genuine curiosity x"
No, because he has guys who work for him on here. So out of respect of his privacy I’ve got them in friends and private pics. It’s a fine line go get the balance right. X |
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"This has been covered many times before and the reasons are various, and mostly in line with the answers given here.
One other reason coming at it from a male perspective, is that getting "different" pics of a guy is not as easy as you'd think, a lady just has to change lingerie to make a pic look different, given the limited underwear options (that look appealing rather than practical) for men, the same doesn't apply the other way round.
I also think women are (usually) more visually appealing than men generally.
Either way, guess it's up to the individual profile owners how they choose to run their profiles "
Totally respect that,it's when they moan that they only get messages from single men or can't get couple meets ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if they are looking for a couple it enhances their chances if there is a shot of both of them and especially if they are together. "
Definitely this. I find it more weird when a couple don't have any pics of them together. More likely to be just fakes. |
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"Wondering why that on the majority of couples profiles there are no pics of the male half?
Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x"
Simple answer in our case... at the moment we are only looking for men for her pleasure, so not really much point in advertising the aesthetic of hubby (me), though we do share pics of the both of us with prospective meets and in our friends gallery. |
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"I think if they are looking for a couple it enhances their chances if there is a shot of both of them and especially if they are together.
Definitely this. I find it more weird when a couple don't have any pics of them together. More likely to be just fakes. "
We think exactly the same about people who only have one public pic that doesn't give any idea what that person looks like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if they are looking for a couple it enhances their chances if there is a shot of both of them and especially if they are together.
Definitely this. I find it more weird when a couple don't have any pics of them together. More likely to be just fakes.
We think exactly the same about people who only have one public pic that doesn't give any idea what that person looks like"
Those types are the most weird.  |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
We feel that most of the people we chose to meet would much rather look at the female half of the couple, hence why our pics are biased that way. But there are still pics of Mr & Mrs together, mostly in private that we send when chatting with new people.
All our face pics are of both of us together which we think is really important.
It's whatever works for the couple. |
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When on here previously as a couple looking for another couple, then it was important to see pics of each person to ascertain if mutual attractiveness existed. It was noticeable the number of profiles with just the female half. |
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"Wondering why that on the majority of couples profiles there are no pics of the male half?
Not a criticism in any way shape or form but I'm genuinely interested as to why.
Hope no one is offended by the question, it's just genuine curiosity x"
We hate this as a couple, you can’t window shop if, half the display is covered up. X |
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Try again...
I think men are generally happier behind the camera and there's a certain amount of assumption that the lady is the main attraction.
Unless you are meeting single guys only and the male half is straight, having no photos of the male half does seem a bit odd.
We want to see what they both look like and expect others will too. So, we have photos of us both... admittedly mostly me
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to have an good ratio of both of us on our profile. It seems only fair that a person can see what we both look like before they choose to message or not
C |
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We aren't meeting but i (female) am here just to browse the forums mostly, although there's a couple photos of us together in friends only but as we aren't looking for anyone so don't feel the need to have public pics |
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