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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am by no means ashamed of our life stile but it is still our secret I would love to tell all because I am so proud of the trust in our relationship.But I don’t think I could except the opinions of people that don’t understand the life stile. Any couples on here that are open about it and what is people’s opinions like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you tell a few close friends... same as any relationship but out with that it's not really anyone's business and no one really wants to know about people's sex life. It's good that your comfortable with it but wouldn't really want to be sitting in work and someone telling me that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are the advantages of sharing what we do in our sex life with everyone?
We're not interested in knowing what family and friends (away from the scene) get upto between the sheets, why would they want to know our sexual preferences?
Why impose potential awkwardness on others? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I hear people that don’t understand talking about swingers/hot wife’s I feel like telling them that my wife and I do it and it has made us closer and we probably have more trust in our relationship than they do.thanks for the reply |
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It's completely up to you! I'm out to everyone and vocally sex positive. If people want to judge me, I really couldn't give a crap. People will always talk about something.
Alas the British are still incredibly Victorian about sex compared to the rest of Europe. We're all at it but don't talk about it. Which sucks. Probably why we still have terrible teen pregnancy and STD numbers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m openly out. my mum being the first I told  nothing surprises my friends and family about me, I don’t give a sh*t of others opinions, if you do good or bad in this world someone will always have a negative opinion regardless! I’m happy with who I am and what I do as long as I’m not hurting others who gives a sh*t?? I will not spend my life thinking I can’t/won’t do that what would people think of me!!!
It’s entirely up to you to speak out and get rid of any negative vibes in your life, but sometimes it’s nice to have a secret also  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your life or the people life's will not improve because you have confessed to being swingers to them.I would always worry they would try and track you down and look at your pictures and maybe pass them on or tell your family members including your children, if you have any about your swinging lifestyle ..be proud, but is there really a need to shout about it |
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"I’m openly out. my mum being the first I told nothing surprises my friends and family about me, I don’t give a sh*t of others opinions, if you do good or bad in this world someone will always have a negative opinion regardless! I’m happy with who I am and what I do as long as I’m not hurting others who gives a sh*t?? I will not spend my life thinking I can’t/won’t do that what would people think of me!!!
It’s entirely up to you to speak out and get rid of any negative vibes in your life, but sometimes it’s nice to have a secret also "
Nothing wrong with you or anybody being open and not caring what other people think but the op does care what others think about them. I don't think its a good idea for that reason. |
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