A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? |
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"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "
People say things designed to dismay when they don’t get what they want. Ignore him - your interpretation of ‘hardened’ might be different to his, and indeed, you may decide that adjective isn’t accurate anyway. It boils down to: who cares? |
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"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "
He said it to save face because you dared to refuse his invite! He needs to build a bridge and get over himself  |
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Maybe, maybe not.
It might just mean everyone else is just starting out and might for whatever reason feel intimidated by anyone more experienced.
Similar to going to a club for the first time kind of thing. |
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"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult?
He said it to save face because you dared to refuse his invite! He needs to build a bridge and get over himself "
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"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "
It was meant as one but I’m a firm believer in if the person doesn’t matter to you then it’s irrelevant anyway! |
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"Maybe, maybe not.
It might just mean everyone else is just starting out and might for whatever reason feel intimidated by anyone more experienced.
Similar to going to a club for the first time kind of thing."
Valid point if it was written in that context. However, he has no idea what experience we have aside from our veri's which he should of. Checked out before sending us a message  |
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"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult?
It was meant as one but I’m a firm believer in if the person doesn’t matter to you then it’s irrelevant anyway!"
I did respond to his intended insult with 'thanks for providing some entertainment for what was a dull night'  |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.
We asked who else was going.
He said people who were not on fabs.
We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.
To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'
One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "
A single bloke looking to get you round and lo and behold all the other couples who are not on fab dont turn up
Ahh that old chestnut  |
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"Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet.
And the other people cancelled at the last minute.
Does this actually happen? "
more than you would think |
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"Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet.
And the other people cancelled at the last minute.
Does this actually happen? "
So I've been told.
It happens to men too. They pay to attend a party and only one woman turns up, but the others are on their way. |
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"By default isn’t anyone on here with a few veris hardened? You’re either in the lifestyle or not, tell him to bore off
I'm a concrete post then. "
Now that's something to be proud of
I will use that line in the future |
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