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The term 'Chocolate Men'.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?"
But you're not black... and I love chocolate!!.those who are offended by the term wouldn't message in the first place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was thinking about nutella spread on a man and licked off . "
Oddly enough when I was about 10 my cousins and I were playing truth or dare or something similar with dares involved I had to cover myself in chocolate spread then go out of the caravan we were staying in and sing
“I am the chocolate man I come from chocolate lane”
The problem is me being a naive child did it and then got locked out of the caravan while stark naked covered in chocolate spread from head to toe 
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This reminds me of my bro when he was a toddler in the local post office and it was is first time really seeing a black gentleman and he’s shouted it at top of his little voice “look mummy it’s a chocolate man can. I eat him?” Safe to say my mum was mortified and wanted the world to swallow her, the gent was really lovely about it though, bought us all a chocolate bar and said “here have the real thing it’s tastes much nicer than I do ”  |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
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I'm not black therefore I won't speak for black people. If they offended then I trust their judgement and will back it up 100%.
Too many people are getting offended on other people's behalf these days, I would say leave this one to the black guys to judge.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was thinking about nutella spread on a man and licked off .
I’m now thinking of spreading Nutella over your avatar and licking it off  "
Mmmm yes please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not black therefore I won't speak for black people. If they offended then I trust their judgement and will back it up 100%.
Too many people are getting offended on other people's behalf these days, I would say leave this one to the black guys to judge. "
It's a shame not everyone shares your sentiment
I just asked a guy not to call me chocolate only to met with the response "Why not, it isn't offensive"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not black therefore I won't speak for black people. If they offended then I trust their judgement and will back it up 100%.
Too many people are getting offended on other people's behalf these days, I would say leave this one to the black guys to judge. "
This! |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?"
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not black therefore I won't speak for black people. If they offended then I trust their judgement and will back it up 100%.
Too many people are getting offended on other people's behalf these days, I would say leave this one to the black guys to judge.
It's a shame not everyone shares your sentiment
I just asked a guy not to call me chocolate only to met with the response "Why not, it isn't offensive" "
Urgh, so much eye rolling at this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site... "
I'm not being cheeky but your user name is milk tre, is that not a play on milk tray? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every black man I know loathes it and BBC.
They'd rather be considered for who they are than fetishised."
Same here, so quite strange that so many black guys use those terms n here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every black man I know loathes it and BBC.
They'd rather be considered for who they are than fetishised.
Same here, so quite strange that so many black guys use those terms n here "
I suppose it’s not too dissimilar to ‘BBW’. I personally hate the term, it makes me feel fetishised. However, others love it... it makes them feel empowered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site...
I'm not being cheeky but your user name is milk tre, is that not a play on milk tray? "
"All because the lady loves Milk Tray
You might be a little young remember the milk tray ads from the 80s
The milk tray man was cool as fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site... "
A tiny bit melodramatic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site...
I'm not being cheeky but your user name is milk tre, is that not a play on milk tray?
"All because the lady loves Milk Tray
You might be a little young remember the milk tray ads from the 80s
The milk tray man was cool as fuck"
I googled the guy just there haha but my point is if a woman sees the user name she might think he's ok with chocolate references which he isn't. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site...
A tiny bit melodramatic lol "
His tongue is firmly wedged in his cheek for sure
Personally I'm not a fan and do feel a sense of offence when referred to as such. Oversensitive? Maybe, but the chord definitely is struck.
Him
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site...
I'm not being cheeky but your user name is milk tre, is that not a play on milk tray? "
Hi there! You must be new here... |
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site...
I'm not being cheeky but your user name is milk tre, is that not a play on milk tray?
Hi there! You must be new here... "
Hahaha yeah racial role play is a thing. I have played the slave fucking the masters wife before real talk to. She got a was really turned when racial derogatory terms and names was getting said. He was chilling taking pictures and stuff I was a bit younger probably would be a touch sceptical now but hey your only 20 for ten years  |
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site... "
Yet your username could be seen as a play on a box of chocolates: milk tray!
Personally, I'm sick to the back teeth of white people being offended on my behalf: yes I said it!!! More problems created by the offended for us to deal with. We have enough crosses to bear thanks.
There are black people with user names playing to their skin colour, not something I'd do, but their choice. |
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"Every black man I know loathes it and BBC.
They'd rather be considered for who they are than fetishised.
Same here, so quite strange that so many black guys use those terms n here "
Could it be they like it? Like some big women use bbw? Highlighting my size/colour isn't how I role but my way of playing isn't the only way. |
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I think this is very subjective issuse. Like using the term BBW. To some demeaning to others an expression of their genes and heritage that they wish to promote or seek. I see very few desires/preferences as wrong per se. We all have different preferences should it size, age, smoker or race. No one should be slammed on a site like this for preference or terminology. If we want a liberated free and open playground? We may not all agree on what is appropriate or what terminogoly we like but we should all be able to coexist on FAB and be who we are and how we feel. |
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Hate this thing where people are saying 'people arent allowed to be offended on other's behalf'. Fuck that. I'm a member of society and if I don't agree with it, I'll say so.
And I'm not a sjw. I think most of them are morons. But chocolate men is a horrible term. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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I dont like any of these terms, chocolate men, bbc, bbw, hotwife, milf.... all make me quietly cringe. If somebody chooses to use a term to describe themself thats their business, others applying the label need to be sure it will be well received by the recipient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the term ,Chocolate Men' on a few lady's and couples profiles. Is this term a little demeaning? I think if I was a black guy I'd be offended by it. Not sure how other folks view it though?
Anyone using chocolate in reference to black people should be banned from this site...
I'm not being cheeky but your user name is milk tre, is that not a play on milk tray? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why does someone get offended when using colour to describe skin tone but not the same offence when describing eye or hair colour?
Will anyone bat an eyelid if someone says chocolate brown hair or eyes? I think not. So why offended if it used to describe skin colour? |
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