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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure"
You obviously weren't what she was looking for |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure
You obviously weren't what she was looking for"
Or she wasn't actually a lady   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure
You obviously weren't what she was looking for"
guess not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure
You obviously weren't what she was looking for
Or she wasn't actually a lady "
More than likely  |
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Maybe look back at the messages you were sending her perhaps the clue is there.
The content of messages,the frequency and volume.
You may have thought that things were going ok but in fact you may have been unintentionally pestering her or becoming too needy or pushy before you have even met.
I have blocked load's of guy's who have started chatting with Mrs start off well even get to talk about meeting then suddenly turn into control freaks and inundate us with messages.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe look back at the messages you were sending her perhaps the clue is there.
The content of messages,the frequency and volume.
You may have thought that things were going ok but in fact you may have been unintentionally pestering her or becoming too needy or pushy before you have even met.
I have blocked load's of guy's who have started chatting with Mrs start off well even get to talk about meeting then suddenly turn into control freaks and inundate us with messages.
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I have just deleted them, but the content was nothing untowards, just general day to day chat, and as a rule, she would instigate the daily chat, so as I said go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I blocked someone today......we were never going to meet, which I explained.
Then got a rant from the same person on a different profile  "
I block people I know I am never going to meet too XXX |
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"Is the problem the word 'block'? It sounds so aggresive.
'Make invisible' sounds better and is more suitable for us as we use that function to make people we're not interested in invisible."
I’ve said it before, there should be two block buttons. A ‘thanks but no thanks’ button and a ‘you’re a dick’ button. No extra effort required by the blocker, and at least the blockee knows where they stand.
Having the exact same function for arseholes and those who simply aren’t what someone is looking for is where the offence is taken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I blocked someone today......we were never going to meet, which I explained.
Then got a rant from the same person on a different profile "
I get this a lot. Some go through the effort to set up a new profile just to abuse you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure
You obviously weren't what she was looking for
Or she wasn't actually a lady "
Yep! I'm always suspicious if a woman replies to my messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been speaking to a lady for a while, things were going great, we were planning a meet after Easter,then this afternoon she blocked me, go figure"
Ahh sorry to hear that. It sucks. |
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"Is the problem the word 'block'? It sounds so aggresive.
'Make invisible' sounds better and is more suitable for us as we use that function to make people we're not interested in invisible.
I’ve said it before, there should be two block buttons. A ‘thanks but no thanks’ button and a ‘you’re a dick’ button. No extra effort required by the blocker, and at least the blockee knows where they stand.
Having the exact same function for arseholes and those who simply aren’t what someone is looking for is where the offence is taken."
It's a fact that people are too easily offended and struggle handling rejection on here and in life in general.
Swinging is generally built around no strings attached fun and why people can't accept that not everyone is for everyone is beyond me. If more people realised its just sex and pleasure and not a relationship then this place would be a heap better and there'd be a lot less cranks and fake profiles too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is the problem the word 'block'? It sounds so aggresive.
'Make invisible' sounds better and is more suitable for us as we use that function to make people we're not interested in invisible.
I’ve said it before, there should be two block buttons. A ‘thanks but no thanks’ button and a ‘you’re a dick’ button. No extra effort required by the blocker, and at least the blockee knows where they stand.
Having the exact same function for arseholes and those who simply aren’t what someone is looking for is where the offence is taken."
don't think that would make any difference, there are dating sites with that option, and theyre full of men whining about how ignorant it is to be so impersonal.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is the problem the word 'block'? It sounds so aggresive.
'Make invisible' sounds better and is more suitable for us as we use that function to make people we're not interested in invisible.
I’ve said it before, there should be two block buttons. A ‘thanks but no thanks’ button and a ‘you’re a dick’ button. No extra effort required by the blocker, and at least the blockee knows where they stand.
Having the exact same function for arseholes and those who simply aren’t what someone is looking for is where the offence is taken.
It's a fact that people are too easily offended and struggle handling rejection on here and in life in general.
Swinging is generally built around no strings attached fun and why people can't accept that not everyone is for everyone is beyond me. If more people realised its just sex and pleasure and not a relationship then this place would be a heap better and there'd be a lot less cranks and fake profiles too. "
In this case though, they’d been speaking and had arranged to meet. Is it not common courtesy to just shoot a message and say she’s changed her mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe look back at the messages you were sending her perhaps the clue is there.
The content of messages,the frequency and volume.
You may have thought that things were going ok but in fact you may have been unintentionally pestering her or becoming too needy or pushy before you have even met.
I have blocked load's of guy's who have started chatting with Mrs start off well even get to talk about meeting then suddenly turn into control freaks and inundate us with messages.
I have just deleted them, but the content was nothing untowards, just general day to day chat, and as a rule, she would instigate the daily chat, so as I said go figure"
It's incredibly childish for her to just block you with no explanation, see it as a lucky escape.
Many forumites always say it's ok for women to treat men like pieces of meat in this way. People say "just move on to the next one". Like a piece of meat train, it's just a shag, don't think of her as a person.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is the problem the word 'block'? It sounds so aggresive.
'Make invisible' sounds better and is more suitable for us as we use that function to make people we're not interested in invisible.
I’ve said it before, there should be two block buttons. A ‘thanks but no thanks’ button and a ‘you’re a dick’ button. No extra effort required by the blocker, and at least the blockee knows where they stand.
Having the exact same function for arseholes and those who simply aren’t what someone is looking for is where the offence is taken.
It's a fact that people are too easily offended and struggle handling rejection on here and in life in general.
Swinging is generally built around no strings attached fun and why people can't accept that not everyone is for everyone is beyond me. If more people realised its just sex and pleasure and not a relationship then this place would be a heap better and there'd be a lot less cranks and fake profiles too.
In this case though, they’d been speaking and had arranged to meet. Is it not common courtesy to just shoot a message and say she’s changed her mind. "
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"Is the problem the word 'block'? It sounds so aggresive.
'Make invisible' sounds better and is more suitable for us as we use that function to make people we're not interested in invisible."
That explains it all. I thought it was something I said on here. Still could be I guess though. |
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"I blocked someone today......we were never going to meet, which I explained.
Then got a rant from the same person on a different profile "
Yes I had that weeks after I said no to a second meet lol, made the lamest playground accusation and then blocked me before I could reply!
Btw, that's some serious body sculpting you got going on there! ! |
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