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I don't get these messaging threads
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway."
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you"
This! We met on one such thread and in 4 days we're getting married
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
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I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww congratulations guys
"Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you
This! We met on one such thread and in 4 days we're getting married
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww congratulations guys
Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you
This! We met on one such thread and in 4 days we're getting married
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Thank you |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills"
In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!
Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.
Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.
Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills
In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!
Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.
Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.
Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills
In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!
Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.
Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.
Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability. "
Ok. I'll give it a try. I think posted in one earlier but then chose to back out |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills
In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!
Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.
Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.
Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability.
Ok. I'll give it a try. I think posted in one earlier but then chose to back out"
Go on... be brave... put you pulling pants on, smile and get in there x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.
I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.
You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.
Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail
Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.
I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills
In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!
Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.
Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.
Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability.
Ok. I'll give it a try. I think posted in one earlier but then chose to back out
Go on... be brave... put you pulling pants on, smile and get in there x"
Ok I'll give it a shot. |
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