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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So ladies, you are in the early stages of chatting to a guy and he starts with 'the lines'
Out of all these regularly used 'terms of endearment / familiarity', which (if any) are acceptable (to you) and which make you cringe ?
Let's see if there is any consensus !
The usuals are :
Love / Lover
Darling
Honey / Honeybunch
Baby / Babes
Sweets / Sweetheart
Sexy
Sexbomb
Sugar Plum
Angel / Angel Cakes
This is an off the cuff posting, so feel free to add any that I have omitted !
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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I think alot of people use these as it's easier than trying to remember people's names.
I wouldn't say they bug me as such but if I'm honest I'm not that keen.
Tend to get babes or hun used the most with me and those are the ones I like the least.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love to be called pet.. Irish and geordie accents and the use of that word and I melt..  "
I think an Irish or Geordie accent can get you away with most things ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love all of them..saves having to remember the right names too!
my bf calls me hotbot, my ex calls me wee cunt..my hubby calls me spiteful bitch! haha! i call guys ..trouble,babe,sweetheart,fud,wee man,big man...they dont seem to mind..and if they do?  ...So!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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someone called me sweetcheeks in a first message and that got my goat but not really sure why it annoyed me any more than the afore mentioned!! dont mind hun or babe so much as think most people who message me call me either of those and im used to it now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hm...is said guy young fit and gorgeous....you know where I'm going with this I'm sure...  "
haha - i did think of adding the term 'or does it depend who it is coming from ?' to the original post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ladies, you are in the early stages of chatting to a guy and he starts with 'the lines'
Out of all these regularly used 'terms of endearment / familiarity', which (if any) are acceptable (to you) and which make you cringe ?
Let's see if there is any consensus !
The usuals are :
Love / Lover
Darling
Honey / Honeybunch
Baby / Babes
Sweets / Sweetheart
Sexy
Sexbomb
Sugar Plum
Angel / Angel Cakes
This is an off the cuff posting, so feel free to add any that I have omitted !
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Im someones "lover"
I dont mind the title at all |
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"Hm...is said guy young fit and gorgeous....you know where I'm going with this I'm sure...
haha - i did think of adding the term 'or does it depend who it is coming from ?' to the original post "
For me it does,some people clearly use endearments with everyone,so it would be natral to use them with me.
i also quite like older and seem to bring out their paternalistic side,which i quite like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually use the ladies' name but without thinking about all the other ways to start a friendly banter.
The more I stick around this site the more complex it seems; or am I learning that really I am absolutely clueless? I think the latter
Have a nice day Babes !!! (;-)
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