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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone feel upset if instead of a wham bam meet you experienced a loving connection but not with someone who wanted to be in love with you. I love slow sensuous meets with massage and love making but I'm not sure if that's a threatening combination to a couple. Are you as a couple threatened by love making?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm not threatened no. But it’s not what we look for, yes we want a connection and to like the other couple but we want it to be a four way thing not just two couples swapping. So we like the intensity and passion and yes in that respect the love making x |
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we’d only ever be interested in passionate sex as neither of us get any pleasure from “wham bam”! We have both overstepped the mark whilst in the height of passion and upset each other on a couple of occasions! It’s a very fine balance! :-/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It wouldn't be possible for me to feel a loving connection with someone I don't know. Eroticism and sensuality are what we look for and that doesn't threaten us."
Couldn't have put it better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It wouldn't be possible for me to feel a loving connection with someone I don't know. Eroticism and sensuality are what we look for and that doesn't threaten us."
Agreed, however as for someone wanting to be "in love" with one of us, we try to steer clear of needy types. |
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"It wouldn't be possible for me to feel a loving connection with someone I don't know. Eroticism and sensuality are what we look for and that doesn't threaten us.
Agreed, however as for someone wanting to be "in love" with one of us, we try to steer clear of needy types."
Yep. If we want drama we go to the theatre. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It wouldn't be possible for me to feel a loving connection with someone I don't know. Eroticism and sensuality are what we look for and that doesn't threaten us."
Exactly that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It wouldn't be possible for me to feel a loving connection with someone I don't know. Eroticism and sensuality are what we look for and that doesn't threaten us."
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmm not threatened no. But it’s not what we look for, yes we want a connection and to like the other couple but we want it to be a four way thing not just two couples swapping. So we like the intensity and passion and yes in that respect the love making x "
That is what I am wondering and thank you for that honesty. For us it's much more than just sex but not being in love but connecting as you say with intensity and passion. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is love the right word? Do you mean sensuous sex? "
Yes that would be a better terminology we do love sensuous sex and that was the quandary as to how other people would view that. Thanx |
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"It wouldn't be possible for me to feel a loving connection with someone I don't know. Eroticism and sensuality are what we look for and that doesn't threaten us."
Thanx you've clarified something for me as above. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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We enjoy others joining us for sex but it is just sex. Yes we need an attraction but a connection? Nah not really, its just sex. As long as all get along and have fun thats enough for us. We keep the sensual love making for each other. |
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