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Bi Couples......whats the prob with the guy being Bi?
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Had many a discussion on this and canny find out why men have a problem with being sexually comfortable "meating" a couple "advertising" as Bi?
Its generally expected and accepted that ladies can, and will play together, but wots the prob with entertaining the girls?
Us ladies find watching men (whoops, I speak for myself here) together a real turn on.  But so few couples state in their profiles the men enjoy soft play (bi comfortable).
What is the probs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wish more would admit to being bi as i get lots of messages from straight guys and it confuses me and i dont tend to have the trust in them if there hiding something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see the problem if you are secure within your own sexuality. Surprising how many guys say they are straight but actually bi. Still stigma attached I think. |
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personally i could not care less if the guy is bi or not even though im straight i would meet a totally bi couple it dont mean i have to do ought with him does it, so long as you set rules then great. there is a stigma unfortunately but we all here for a reason, and if men are expected to respect others rules on meets then so should others respect straight guys meets. But also some men are not comfy with their own sexuality and are scared feckless when a bi guy is near them but thats there problem same as some women who are straight are the same if near bi women for that matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had many a discussion on this and canny find out why men have a problem with being sexually comfortable "meating" a couple "advertising" as Bi?
Its generally expected and accepted that ladies can, and will play together, but wots the prob with entertaining the girls?
Us ladies find watching men (whoops, I speak for myself here) together a real turn on. But so few couples state in their profiles the men enjoy soft play (bi comfortable).
What is the probs?"
dont get me started on this subject lol
I never get the 'bi' nights
women can go to any club any night and play in open rooms but men have to have a special night?!! hows that right
Bi night should be just that and nights men cant play in open rooms nor should women
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By (user no longer on site)
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women can go to any club any night and play in open rooms but men have to have a special night?!! hows that right
Bi night should be just that and nights men cant play in open rooms nor should women
would agree with you have accidentally made this mistake on a straight night at a club whilst being with a couple where the male was bi i lent over and sucked his cock to the horror of all watching didn't bother me but bothered others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what I am, and I know what I like. If I see a profile that excludes me, guess what? I move onto the next one! I know...radical move isn't it.
These forums amuse me no end. It's always the "good looking"...to themselves, supermodel type forumites who cannot believe people are not beating a path to their doorstep to shag them so start these type of threads.
Get...over...yourselves! People do not have to justify to others who they choose to meet, just as I wouldn't expect the OP to justify why they have the preferences they have on their profile.
The hot couple you want to play with don't want bi men and you're peeved. There are many others that probably would...assuming they're not put off by your arrogance that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I am, and I know what I like. If I see a profile that excludes me, guess what? I move onto the next one! I know...radical move isn't it.
These forums amuse me no end. It's always the "good looking"...to themselves, supermodel type forumites who cannot believe people are not beating a path to their doorstep to shag them so start these type of threads.
Get...over...yourselves! People do not have to justify to others who they choose to meet, just as I wouldn't expect the OP to justify why they have the preferences they have on their profile.
The hot couple you want to play with don't want bi men and you're peeved. There are many others that probably would...assuming they're not put off by your arrogance that is. "
Ouch Sassy!
Been up all night? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I am, and I know what I like. If I see a profile that excludes me, guess what? I move onto the next one! I know...radical move isn't it.
These forums amuse me no end. It's always the "good looking"...to themselves, supermodel type forumites who cannot believe people are not beating a path to their doorstep to shag them so start these type of threads.
Get...over...yourselves! People do not have to justify to others who they choose to meet, just as I wouldn't expect the OP to justify why they have the preferences they have on their profile.
The hot couple you want to play with don't want bi men and you're peeved. There are many others that probably would...assuming they're not put off by your arrogance that is.
Ouch Sassy!
Been up all night?"
Does it show?!! 
Well, some of us accept we'll never appeal to everyone and don't feel the need to flounce on threads about it.
I was just saying! |
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Its not always the man that wouldn't meet bi males.
I am straight and It wouldn't bother me, if we met a couple with a bi male, because he would no in no uncertain terms that I wasnt bi or bi curious.
The same as when we meet couples with a bi female, Simone aint bi or bi curious so they know where they stand.
However its Simones preference not to meet couples with a bi male for play.
At the end of the day its her preference and we all have those.
Same as we don't meet single men for play straight or bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well....every cunt knows they bi guys just stick their cocks into anyone and anything... they have no personal preferences or any standards what so ever!!  Haha! that's why straight guys a scared of them....they're more fun!! "
Really?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had many a discussion on this and canny find out why men have a problem with being sexually comfortable "meating" a couple "advertising" as Bi?
Its generally expected and accepted that ladies can, and will play together, but wots the prob with entertaining the girls?
Us ladies find watching men (whoops, I speak for myself here) together a real turn on. But so few couples state in their profiles the men enjoy soft play (bi comfortable).
What is the probs?
dont get me started on this subject lol
I never get the 'bi' nights
women can go to any club any night and play in open rooms but men have to have a special night?!! hows that right
Bi night should be just that and nights men cant play in open rooms nor should women
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This drives me insane too I'm no and should be allowed to play with other bi guys anytime if we want to! It's wrong girls are allowed and guys aren't |
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"Had many a discussion on this and canny find out why men have a problem with being sexually comfortable "meating" a couple "advertising" as Bi?
Its generally expected and accepted that ladies can, and will play together, but wots the prob with entertaining the girls?
Us ladies find watching men (whoops, I speak for myself here) together a real turn on. But so few couples state in their profiles the men enjoy soft play (bi comfortable).
What is the probs?"
We are rather confused by this too - but if you figure it out we would appreciate knowing ...
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Why not arrange meets where the male half is happy to play with your male half?
And never assume that because a man is Bi or Bi-Curious that he will play with any man!!!!
Maybe he just doesnt fancy yours 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe people won't put bi on their profiles because that type of sex is not what they are looking for on every meet they attend. It may be something that doesn't frighten them off but they don't wish to be categorised as a bi couple and expected to play that way from here to eternity.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe people won't put bi on their profiles because that type of sex is not what they are looking for on every meet they attend. It may be something that doesn't frighten them off but they don't wish to be categorised as a bi couple and expected to play that way from here to eternity.
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Our thoughts exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people never cease to amaze me with there ignorance, most bi males dont just stick there cocks into anything, most are just oral bi. and would never stick any thing up the bums (not even there OWN fingers, you know who you are LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had many a discussion on this and canny find out why men have a problem with being sexually comfortable "meating" a couple "advertising" as Bi?
Its generally expected and accepted that ladies can, and will play together, but wots the prob with entertaining the girls?
Us ladies find watching men (whoops, I speak for myself here) together a real turn on. But so few couples state in their profiles the men enjoy soft play (bi comfortable).
What is the probs?"
Personally I like a man to be a man and don't really get of on male feminisation but we are all different in what we like so why worry just enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women are more fluid about their sexuality than men, so approaching straight men and asking them to play is never going to get a good reaction.
However i have noticed lots of bicurious men on this site so maybe it would be best sticking to them if thats what interests you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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alot of men seem to secretly fantasise about playing with another guy, but are scared to try, as they would then be gay wouldnt they?
shame more arent more open |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there is more of a stigma attatched to men playing together. The girl on girl thing is seen as hot whereas many are turned off by guy on guy. Plus half the "bi" women aren't actually bi....they will only do it for the putting on a show aspect.
Anyway I like it all....men touching is hot, women touching is hot, a man and a women touching is hot....a whole room full of naked people touching....Hmmmm yep hot. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i wish more would admit to being bi as i get lots of messages from straight guys and it confuses me and i dont tend to have the trust in them if there hiding something "
+1 absolutly
We get messages from the guy half of the couple proclaiming to be bi, but hasn't told his wife. (we never go there btw) You get this so much. Would be nice to see a little more honesty from guys, especially to their partners. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I think there is more of a stigma attatched to men playing together. The girl on girl thing is seen as hot whereas many are turned off by guy on guy. Plus half the "bi" women aren't actually bi....they will only do it for the putting on a show aspect.
Anyway I like it all....men touching is hot, women touching is hot, a man and a women touching is hot....a whole room full of naked people touching....Hmmmm yep hot. xxx"
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I (Kaz) don't like or get turned on by Bi play between men. My other half is A1 straight and totally comfortable with that.
It would bother me more playing with a Bi male couple than Paul though.
There are plently of couples to play with who are Bi and we would give them to give us a swerve, as we would expect them to give us a swerve. No problem
Kazxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Stigma, simple mindedness, fear.
Plenty of guys on here are curious or way, way more. However, admitting it seems to be more of a big deal for men.
We see female bisexuality all over the media these days - primarily because it sells. It is seen as titilating and has even become something of a fashion.
On the other hand, there are few comparable images of male bisexuality. Can you envisage a song called ' I kissed a boy and I liked it' doing well?
Homophobic rhetoric is deeply engrained in parts of male culture. Even though I am bisexual, I find myself using these tropes all the time. I do something stupid I find myself calling myself a 'total gaylord,' 'cock addict' or similar (!).
Further to this, some men seem to see bisexuality as a threat to their status as not just heterosexual man, but even man.
A comment earlier in this thread sums it up where the poster equates same sex contact between men as involving 'feminisation.' This is actually total crap. It's 19th century thinking at best.
If the very cornerstone of your identity depends on the fact you put your penis somewhere - you need to get out more.
There is plenty more to say, but my dinner is burning. If anybody is remotely interested or wants to discuss more, feel free to pm... |
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