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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? | |||
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"it may be due to your leather couch, assuming it is real leather and it is yours. People will leather couch are usually rich... well according to my friend Reggie who lost one of his leg in a roundabout. " I have a leather couch. I'm dead posh | |||
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"it may be due to your leather couch, assuming it is real leather and it is yours. People will leather couch are usually rich... well according to my friend Reggie who lost one of his leg in a roundabout. " Reggie the Stump? I know him! | |||
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"it may be due to your leather couch, assuming it is real leather and it is yours. People will leather couch are usually rich... well according to my friend Reggie who lost one of his leg in a roundabout. I have a leather couch. I'm dead posh " I've got a leather coat...so am I? | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " You sound like a woman who knows what she wants and won't compromise, nothing wrong with that, good on you girl x | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? You sound like a woman who knows what she wants and won't compromise, nothing wrong with that, good on you girl x" I may have to compromise my Loubs for Reeboks to settle the argument! | |||
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"Its the nice shoes and natural coloured stockings pics i think... you have a kind of posh looking mouth too " That will be the plum in my mouth | |||
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"it may be due to your leather couch, assuming it is real leather and it is yours. People will leather couch are usually rich... well according to my friend Reggie who lost one of his leg in a roundabout. I have a leather couch. I'm dead posh I've got a leather coat...so am I? " Me too, leather is good x | |||
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"I just think you look attractive " | |||
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"Oh I get it all the time. Seduced you're so posh. Posh bird Seduced. Drinks prosecco and sticks her little pinkie out. " Prosecco?? Dom Perignon darling!x | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! " A few lines on a school night lucky you Ant | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Nope.. | |||
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"Maybe I'll post a picture in tatty trainers then!" Stay with totty, not tatty! | |||
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"Profile is eloquently written and shows intelligence. I suspect to some on here that equates to posh" Cor blimey, duzzit? I'll av to do summat bout dat x | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! " I'd never wear those knickers! | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! I'd never wear those knickers!" Certainly not for long | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? " This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP | |||
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"Oh I get it all the time. Seduced you're so posh. Posh bird Seduced. Drinks prosecco and sticks her little pinkie out. " Ahahahaha | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! I'd never wear those knickers! Certainly not for long " How dare you! Don't forget I'm a posh lady x!! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP " £395, thanks to Groupon | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! I'd never wear those knickers! Certainly not for long How dare you! Don't forget I'm a posh lady x!!" It’s you who told me that, from my experience posh woman take them off as well. | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! I'd never wear those knickers! Certainly not for long How dare you! Don't forget I'm a posh lady x!! It’s you who told me that, from my experience posh woman take them off as well. " Only to add starch! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Nope. | |||
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"After a few lines I began to read your entire profile narrated in my head by the character Bridget Jones! I'd never wear those knickers! Certainly not for long How dare you! Don't forget I'm a posh lady x!! It’s you who told me that, from my experience posh woman take them off as well. Only to add starch!" Maybe, or some air x | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Nah, not that I can see. I’ll need to see your pussy to make a final decision | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon " Groupon!!! No way....well who’d have thought hmmm | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon Groupon!!! No way....well who’d have thought hmmm " Not really.That was posh irony | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon " Even £395 For shoes i would faint. Im so not a shoe woman | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? Nah, not that I can see. I’ll need to see your pussy to make a final decision " I'm sorry its got a crack in it, waiting for a new one x | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon Even £395 For shoes i would faint. Im so not a shoe woman " I got them cheap because an old woman had been living in them with dozens of children x | |||
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"Question - tea bags or, tea leaves? " Tea bags unless Earl Grey, then it has to be leaves x | |||
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"Question - tea bags or, tea leaves? Tea bags unless Earl Grey, then it has to be leaves x" Hmmm, half right I guess lol | |||
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"I didn't see a shooting jacket or pair of Le Chamaux anywhere so; no. On the other hand, I definitely both looked and liked your profile. " My gamekeeper Mellors carries them for me x | |||
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"Question - tea bags or, tea leaves? Tea bags unless Earl Grey, then it has to be leaves x Hmmm, half right I guess lol" But I only dunk rich tea biscuits, and I put butter on them too x | |||
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"Oh I get it all the time. Seduced you're so posh. Posh bird Seduced. Drinks prosecco and sticks her little pinkie out. Prosecco?? Dom Perignon darling!x" I'm a pint mug ha | |||
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"it may be due to your leather couch, assuming it is real leather and it is yours. People will leather couch are usually rich... well according to my friend Reggie who lost one of his leg in a roundabout. I have a leather couch. I'm dead posh I've got a leather coat...so am I? " Now you are posh! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Nope...not seeing it.... | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP " Gosh...does that make you posh? Must get a couple of pairs | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP Gosh...does that make you posh? Must get a couple of pairs " No, it just makes you poor! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP Gosh...does that make you posh? Must get a couple of pairs No, it just makes you poor!" Not if you're rich | |||
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"Well, those heels are rather M&S. Nothing wrong with that, I've bought great suits from M&S, and on occasion some really sexy lingerie for ex gf from their too. But it has a restrained, classy sexiness about it." So not posh then? | |||
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"Well, those heels are rather M&S. Nothing wrong with that, I've bought great suits from M&S, and on occasion some really sexy lingerie for ex gf from their too. But it has a restrained, classy sexiness about it. So not posh then? " Lol. In my part of the world M&S is definatly considered quite posh! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP Gosh...does that make you posh? Must get a couple of pairs No, it just makes you poor! Not if you're rich" Aah, but is rich the same as posh? For want of a better example, Liam Gallagher? | |||
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"Well, those heels are rather M&S. Nothing wrong with that, I've bought great suits from M&S, and on occasion some really sexy lingerie for ex gf from their too. But it has a restrained, classy sexiness about it. So not posh then? Lol. In my part of the world M&S is definatly considered quite posh!" Everyone I know in Bristol shops in Primarni! But then everyone on Bristol fits in there its so big x | |||
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"Well, those heels are rather M&S. Nothing wrong with that, I've bought great suits from M&S, and on occasion some really sexy lingerie for ex gf from their too. But it has a restrained, classy sexiness about it. So not posh then? Lol. In my part of the world M&S is definatly considered quite posh!" | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP Gosh...does that make you posh? Must get a couple of pairs No, it just makes you poor! Not if you're rich Aah, but is rich the same as posh? For want of a better example, Liam Gallagher?" No you can be posh and poor or rich and common | |||
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"You can always tell a lot about the person if they always follow the words "rich" or "posh" with the word "wankers"" Yes..... | |||
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"This is not a criticism in any way but as youve asked, your profile does read very matter of fact and succinct and a little distant. This might give the air of aloofness to someone else reading it. It reads well and covers most things though but I'd say it needs loosening up a bit with some humour thrown it." Maybe my profile is a bit aloof, its not intentional, but as succinct as a long profile can be.I think anybody who's met me or chatted with me, will know there's a fair bit of humour thrown into the mix x | |||
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"That's actually true. It is called Primarni, and everyone does shop there. I got lost in there once looking for pyjamas, nightmare! There's totally a difference between rich and classy. Harvey Nick's is the perfect example. Mostly M&S is overpriced and boring, but, they have a few elegant and quality things. There is some great lingerie in there, and some really well cut, classic suits." I like Primarnie Posh is maybe an old-fashioned word now, it means different things to different people, so it's subjective. | |||
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"This is not a criticism in any way but as youve asked, your profile does read very matter of fact and succinct and a little distant. This might give the air of aloofness to someone else reading it. It reads well and covers most things though but I'd say it needs loosening up a bit with some humour thrown it. Maybe my profile is a bit aloof, its not intentional, but as succinct as a long profile can be.I think anybody who's met me or chatted with me, will know there's a fair bit of humour thrown into the mix x" It's whatever works for you | |||
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" I like Primarnie Posh is maybe an old-fashioned word now, it means different things to different people, so it's subjective. " That's my point. What exactly quantifies Posh? An eloquent profile? Expensive shoes? Leather sofa? I may talk like Eliza Doolittle... but before or after Prof Higgins endeavours!? | |||
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"This is not a criticism in any way but as youve asked, your profile does read very matter of fact and succinct and a little distant. This might give the air of aloofness to someone else reading it. It reads well and covers most things though but I'd say it needs loosening up a bit with some humour thrown it. Maybe my profile is a bit aloof, its not intentional, but as succinct as a long profile can be.I think anybody who's met me or chatted with me, will know there's a fair bit of humour thrown into the mix x" Some say the same about me. Those who have met me tell a very different story. Just goes to show we shouldnt dismiss too quickly as there are some lovely diamonds unwittingly being disgarded. Always worth while getting to know someone. They can confirm our first impressions or throw them out the window for us. | |||
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" I like Primarnie Posh is maybe an old-fashioned word now, it means different things to different people, so it's subjective. That's my point. What exactly quantifies Posh? An eloquent profile? Expensive shoes? Leather sofa? I may talk like Eliza Doolittle... but before or after Prof Higgins endeavours!? " Who knows. We all bleed if you stick a pin in us. | |||
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" I like Primarnie Posh is maybe an old-fashioned word now, it means different things to different people, so it's subjective. That's my point. What exactly quantifies Posh? An eloquent profile? Expensive shoes? Leather sofa? I may talk like Eliza Doolittle... but before or after Prof Higgins endeavours!? " None of the above IMO it used to be a word that would indicate wealth, but you can be 'posh' and poor. It's more to do with class and background | |||
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" I like Primarnie Posh is maybe an old-fashioned word now, it means different things to different people, so it's subjective. That's my point. What exactly quantifies Posh? An eloquent profile? Expensive shoes? Leather sofa? I may talk like Eliza Doolittle... but before or after Prof Higgins endeavours!? Who knows. We all bleed if you stick a pin in us." Ouch! | |||
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"Apparently, according to my colleagues I'm posh. They base this on the fact that I use a linen napkin with my packed lunch and take cutlery. I don't think I'm posh, I just like things to be nice. " You is posh | |||
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"Apparently, according to my colleagues I'm posh. They base this on the fact that I use a linen napkin with my packed lunch and take cutlery. I don't think I'm posh, I just like things to be nice. You is posh " I’m particular that makes me secure rather than posh | |||
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"I wouldn't say posh.. classy yes " Yes. This. | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP Gosh...does that make you posh? Must get a couple of pairs No, it just makes you poor! Not if you're rich Aah, but is rich the same as posh? For want of a better example, Liam Gallagher? No you can be posh and poor or rich and common " That's usually how it goes....unless your name is Goldsmith! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Telford and posh! | |||
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"Wouldn’t say posh, you have a look of intelligence and class" You know me so well. | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Look at meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee | |||
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"Upper middle class and certainly the upper class usually know they're posh." I know many people who consider themselves posh. They are welcome to their illusion. Genuinely posh people usually aren't even aware of it. If you have to affect it, you're not.... | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon Even £395 For shoes i would faint. Im so not a shoe woman " Nothing wrong with a nice pair of riding boots and matching crop...... | |||
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"Posh? Hard to say. Selective certainly but that's a good thing so don't worry about it. I would think you will stand out more in the Forest than on here my Babber. Definitely posh for the Forest because you can use punctuation and everything. You do know they are talking about building another bridge across the Severn so you won't have to go and mingle with those Janners in Brizzle. You can socialise in Cheltenham and Gloucester...the Cotswolds, don't you know...." I can walk upright, that's posh for parts of the FOD !But I much prefer Brizzle to the Cotswolds so maybe I'm not posh enough for the green wellies brigade | |||
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"Posh annoys me a bit as a label in the same way sexuality labels annoy me. But what defines posh in people’s minds interests me. Traits of posh for me would include being well spoken (unaccented / queen’s English), private or public school educated, often from “old” lines of money but agree with a lot of posts you can be posh and poor! OP back to your question I’d say your profile gives the impression of sophistication and knowing what you want vs being “posh” " This is an interesting reply because, yes I'm well spoken, public school educated, my parents are well off ( although not old money) Im just curious as to how and if this is unwittingly apparent in my profile For the benefit of the poster who dismissed this as a 'look at me' thread, you couldn't be further than the truth.I'm trying to understand peoples perceived preconceptions from the written word | |||
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"Apparently, according to my colleagues I'm posh. They base this on the fact that I use a linen napkin with my packed lunch and take cutlery. I don't think I'm posh, I just like things to be nice. " If you're taking cutlery for your butties you're posh! | |||
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"Posh annoys me a bit as a label in the same way sexuality labels annoy me. But what defines posh in people’s minds interests me. Traits of posh for me would include being well spoken (unaccented / queen’s English), private or public school educated, often from “old” lines of money but agree with a lot of posts you can be posh and poor! OP back to your question I’d say your profile gives the impression of sophistication and knowing what you want vs being “posh” This is an interesting reply because, yes I'm well spoken, public school educated, my parents are well off ( although not old money) Im just curious as to how and if this is unwittingly apparent in my profile For the benefit of the poster who dismissed this as a 'look at me' thread, you couldn't be further than the truth.I'm trying to understand peoples perceived preconceptions from the written word " It’s probably because you have used 1000 words when 100 would suffice. People perceive things in different ways. I don’t care what people think unless I care about them. | |||
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"Apparently, according to my colleagues I'm posh. They base this on the fact that I use a linen napkin with my packed lunch and take cutlery. I don't think I'm posh, I just like things to be nice. If you're taking cutlery for your butties you're posh!" *Nods* Posh noshing. | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " I think some people mistake articulate for posh. | |||
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"Your profile reads a bit made in Chelsea to me so yes I'd say it comes across as posh but as long as it's working for you then why should you care " Made In Chelsea, oh dear, I best go UNLOS! | |||
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"Posh annoys me a bit as a label in the same way sexuality labels annoy me. But what defines posh in people’s minds interests me. Traits of posh for me would include being well spoken (unaccented / queen’s English), private or public school educated, often from “old” lines of money but agree with a lot of posts you can be posh and poor! OP back to your question I’d say your profile gives the impression of sophistication and knowing what you want vs being “posh” This is an interesting reply because, yes I'm well spoken, public school educated, my parents are well off ( although not old money) Im just curious as to how and if this is unwittingly apparent in my profile For the benefit of the poster who dismissed this as a 'look at me' thread, you couldn't be further than the truth.I'm trying to understand peoples perceived preconceptions from the written word " I dont think your words make you appear posh. I think being posh on here just means you havnt got your bum or your bits out | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon Even £395 For shoes i would faint. Im so not a shoe woman Nothing wrong with a nice pair of riding boots and matching crop...... " | |||
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" It’s probably because you have used 1000 words when 100 would suffice. People perceive things in different ways. I don’t care what people think unless I care about them. " I don't so much CARE what people think, the sociologist in me is just intrigued by what makes people think in certain ways. I'll respond with :Why use 100 words when 1000 can put a point across 10 times more effectively? x | |||
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" It’s probably because you have used 1000 words when 100 would suffice. People perceive things in different ways. I don’t care what people think unless I care about them. I don't so much CARE what people think, the sociologist in me is just intrigued by what makes people think in certain ways. I'll respond with :Why use 100 words when 1000 can put a point across 10 times more effectively? x" I agree but just trying to think why someone else may call you posh. | |||
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"Upper middle class and certainly the upper class usually know they're posh. I know many people who consider themselves posh. They are welcome to their illusion. Genuinely posh people usually aren't even aware of it. If you have to affect it, you're not...." Yes this, true posh and or rich, don't normally talk about it | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? The court shoes maybe, they look quite an expensive pair? This I’ll go with the £500 pair of Lou Bous! We share the same taste OP £395, thanks to Groupon Groupon!!! No way....well who’d have thought hmmm Not really.That was posh irony " Yes I got the irony... | |||
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"Apparently, according to my colleagues I'm posh. They base this on the fact that I use a linen napkin with my packed lunch and take cutlery. I don't think I'm posh, I just like things to be nice. You is posh " Is I? | |||
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"Your profile reads a bit made in Chelsea to me so yes I'd say it comes across as posh but as long as it's working for you then why should you care Made In Chelsea, oh dear, I best go UNLOS!" A bit of an over reaction....definitely a made in Chelsea type | |||
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"Your profile reads a bit made in Chelsea to me so yes I'd say it comes across as posh but as long as it's working for you then why should you care Made In Chelsea, oh dear, I best go UNLOS! A bit of an over reaction....definitely a made in Chelsea type " Binky and Rollo said exactly the same thing to me | |||
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"It very much comes down to people's perception of what posh means. I think some people will believe you are posh by what is in your profile and how it is written. The line stating what you don't want IE "builder types" would perhaps be one of the triggers, this would be more pompous than posh though really; excluding this, the fact you have classy looking pictures and a few words in your profile that people don't necessarily use every day, I think that's possibly the reason." I think most people know what I mean by builder types. It wasn't intended as pompous or derogatory. I don't believe myself to be ' above' meeting those types of men.I know a lot of women love them and that's absolutely how it should be. Everybody is allowed to have their own type. I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea either | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way." I think this too and you is a classy lady... | |||
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"It very much comes down to people's perception of what posh means. I think some people will believe you are posh by what is in your profile and how it is written. The line stating what you don't want IE "builder types" would perhaps be one of the triggers, this would be more pompous than posh though really; excluding this, the fact you have classy looking pictures and a few words in your profile that people don't necessarily use every day, I think that's possibly the reason. I think most people know what I mean by builder types. It wasn't intended as pompous or derogatory. I don't believe myself to be ' above' meeting those types of men.I know a lot of women love them and that's absolutely how it should be. Everybody is allowed to have their own type. I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea either" I'm far from posh and I shy away from certain characters. I don't enjoy the company of bolshy, larger than life characters or cheeky chappy types. Some builders can be very intelligent, well read, calm and peaceful to be around. | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... " Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win | |||
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"You definitely look like a classy lady " ..which, I think is different from posh.. | |||
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"It very much comes down to people's perception of what posh means. I think some people will believe you are posh by what is in your profile and how it is written. The line stating what you don't want IE "builder types" would perhaps be one of the triggers, this would be more pompous than posh though really; excluding this, the fact you have classy looking pictures and a few words in your profile that people don't necessarily use every day, I think that's possibly the reason. I think most people know what I mean by builder types. It wasn't intended as pompous or derogatory. I don't believe myself to be ' above' meeting those types of men.I know a lot of women love them and that's absolutely how it should be. Everybody is allowed to have their own type. I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea either I'm far from posh and I shy away from certain characters. I don't enjoy the company of bolshy, larger than life characters or cheeky chappy types. Some builders can be very intelligent, well read, calm and peaceful to be around. " Yes, I agree, my husband was a builder and he is all of those things that you mention | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win " | |||
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"It very much comes down to people's perception of what posh means. I think some people will believe you are posh by what is in your profile and how it is written. The line stating what you don't want IE "builder types" would perhaps be one of the triggers, this would be more pompous than posh though really; excluding this, the fact you have classy looking pictures and a few words in your profile that people don't necessarily use every day, I think that's possibly the reason. I think most people know what I mean by builder types. It wasn't intended as pompous or derogatory. I don't believe myself to be ' above' meeting those types of men.I know a lot of women love them and that's absolutely how it should be. Everybody is allowed to have their own type. I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea either" I think you are right, most people will know what you mean by what you have said, there will be some who may see this as posh, maybe for excluding working class type folk in the first place. You don't have to justify it, I personally agree that anyone can be specific in who they would like to meet. I think there will be some that would view this quite differently, hence the posh label! Your request for meeting a guy who is metrosexual would prompt this too, in those that are less posh of course. Some would see this as you being a footballers wife type who just wants to shop and look the part. Personally, I don't see footballers wives as post, there will be those that will use that label though. My view is your profile is fine, it's specific. I personally see no issues with it at all; I can see why some may use the word posh though. | |||
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"It very much comes down to people's perception of what posh means. I think some people will believe you are posh by what is in your profile and how it is written. The line stating what you don't want IE "builder types" would perhaps be one of the triggers, this would be more pompous than posh though really; excluding this, the fact you have classy looking pictures and a few words in your profile that people don't necessarily use every day, I think that's possibly the reason. I think most people know what I mean by builder types. It wasn't intended as pompous or derogatory. I don't believe myself to be ' above' meeting those types of men.I know a lot of women love them and that's absolutely how it should be. Everybody is allowed to have their own type. I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea either I'm far from posh and I shy away from certain characters. I don't enjoy the company of bolshy, larger than life characters or cheeky chappy types. Some builders can be very intelligent, well read, calm and peaceful to be around. " Not all builders are necessarily 'builder types'!! I agree, I don't like the company of cheeky chappy types either.I get them messaging me and they just don't take no for an answer! | |||
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"You definitely look like a classy lady ..which, I think is different from posh.. " Classy definitely, I’d have to agree with that | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. " Now, where's the block button!!! | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win " I'm not even going to mention our wicker picnic hamper | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! " Yes, not a great compliment! | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win I'm not even going to mention our wicker picnic hamper " Now, that is classy | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win I'm not even going to mention our wicker picnic hamper Now, that is classy " . I love your coin belt | |||
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"I may have to compromise my Loubs for Reeboks to settle the argument! " Only ‘poshies’ say Loubs | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win I'm not even going to mention our wicker picnic hamper Now, that is classy . I love your coin belt " Ooh thank you They are gold sovereigns, you know..... | |||
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"I may have to compromise my Loubs for Reeboks to settle the argument! Only ‘poshies’ say Loubs " Is that the same as 'lubes' ? | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win I'm not even going to mention our wicker picnic hamper Now, that is classy . I love your coin belt Ooh thank you They are gold sovereigns, you know..... " Naturally | |||
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"I always think people say "you're posh" with a slight air of disdain. I never think it's meant in a complimentary way. I think this too and you is a classy lady... Thank you . Using cutlery and linen napkins is also ecologically good practice, so it's a win/win I'm not even going to mention our wicker picnic hamper Now, that is classy . I love your coin belt Ooh thank you They are gold sovereigns, you know..... Naturally " | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! " Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? " | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? " She isn't fishing for compliments in any way in my opinion. | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? She isn't fishing for compliments in any way in my opinion. " No, I don't think she is either | |||
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"I may have to compromise my Loubs for Reeboks to settle the argument! Only ‘poshies’ say Loubs " OK Guilty, I'm posh ! | |||
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"I may have to compromise my Loubs for Reeboks to settle the argument! Only ‘poshies’ say Loubs OK Guilty, I'm posh ! " Finally! | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? She isn't fishing for compliments in any way in my opinion. No, I don't think she is either " Not fishing for compliments at all, I was just intrigued by certain comments I was receiving , along the lines of 'posh totty' or 'too posh for fab' and wondered if I'd inadvertently given that impression. I'm sorry if I've come across as an attention seeker, wasn't my intention at all x | |||
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"Not fishing for compliments at all, I was just intrigued by certain comments I was receiving , along the lines of 'posh totty' or 'too posh for fab' and wondered if I'd inadvertently given that impression. I'm sorry if I've come across as an attention seeker, wasn't my intention at all x" Do you think it's that pic of you sucking off a tramp while wearing a top hat? | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? She isn't fishing for compliments in any way in my opinion. No, I don't think she is either Not fishing for compliments at all, I was just intrigued by certain comments I was receiving , along the lines of 'posh totty' or 'too posh for fab' and wondered if I'd inadvertently given that impression. I'm sorry if I've come across as an attention seeker, wasn't my intention at all x" That's another can of worms. We're on a site where some of us happily post semi-nude and nude pictures of themselves and advertise for casual sex meets. Then someone posts a topic that requires you to look at their profile and the phrase "attention seeker" is used in a derogatory manner. . It just goes to show that you can't please all the people all of the time. | |||
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"Oh I get it all the time. Seduced you're so posh. Posh bird Seduced. Drinks prosecco and sticks her little pinkie out. " | |||
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"Not fishing for compliments at all, I was just intrigued by certain comments I was receiving , along the lines of 'posh totty' or 'too posh for fab' and wondered if I'd inadvertently given that impression. I'm sorry if I've come across as an attention seeker, wasn't my intention at all x Do you think it's that pic of you sucking off a tramp while wearing a top hat?" You said you'd never mention that again! And I didn't hear you complain at the time | |||
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"Maybe it’s because you have a slight resemblance to that posh tart off the Apprentice, Katie Hopkins. Now, where's the block button!!! Yes, not a great compliment! Oh I didn’t realise she was simply fishing for compliments in a round about way. Here goes. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself, dressing well and being able to string a grammatically correct sentence or two together. You look fabulous, your shoe and hosiery choices are first class and you have a healthy scepticism toward builders. What’s not to like? She isn't fishing for compliments in any way in my opinion. No, I don't think she is either Not fishing for compliments at all, I was just intrigued by certain comments I was receiving , along the lines of 'posh totty' or 'too posh for fab' and wondered if I'd inadvertently given that impression. I'm sorry if I've come across as an attention seeker, wasn't my intention at all x" You come across as authentic - and as you are obviously articulate and educated, and likely middle class, to some people that makes you a bit posh - in comparison to their normal social group, there is a broad demographic on here. I was nicknamed Posh when I came here - that's fine, as long as it's affectionate and not an insult I would take it as a compliment. | |||
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" You come across as authentic - and as you are obviously articulate and educated, and likely middle class, to some people that makes you a bit posh - in comparison to their normal social group, there is a broad demographic on here. I was nicknamed Posh when I came here - that's fine, as long as it's affectionate and not an insult I would take it as a compliment." I don't mind Posh, but where's David in that case! | |||
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" You come across as authentic - and as you are obviously articulate and educated, and likely middle class, to some people that makes you a bit posh - in comparison to their normal social group, there is a broad demographic on here. I was nicknamed Posh when I came here - that's fine, as long as it's affectionate and not an insult I would take it as a compliment. I don't mind Posh, but where's David in that case! " Oh there's plenty of fit tattoed tottie on here, even some footballers....not so many multi-millionaires! | |||
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"Upper middle class and certainly the upper class usually know they're posh. I know many people who consider themselves posh. They are welcome to their illusion. Genuinely posh people usually aren't even aware of it. If you have to affect it, you're not.... Yes this, true posh and or rich, don't normally talk about it " Thats what I actually meant. They would never talk about it or ask for validation. They just know and it sits comfortably with them. I've been fortunate to be staff in the past to the wealthy and posh. There's just something about true posh (old money) that sets them apart. | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " No tattoos, tasteful underwear, spellings are correct, you appear to have your own teeth. Posh is a compliment Although I have heard people called posh if they have wine in the house they are not planning to drink that night! It's a sliding scale | |||
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"Upper middle class and certainly the upper class usually know they're posh. I know many people who consider themselves posh. They are welcome to their illusion. Genuinely posh people usually aren't even aware of it. If you have to affect it, you're not.... Yes this, true posh and or rich, don't normally talk about it Thats what I actually meant. They would never talk about it or ask for validation. They just know and it sits comfortably with them. I've been fortunate to be staff in the past to the wealthy and posh. There's just something about true posh (old money) that sets them apart. " Absolutely agree with this | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? No tattoos, tasteful underwear, spellings are correct, you appear to have your own teeth. Posh is a compliment Although I have heard people called posh if they have wine in the house they are not planning to drink that night! It's a sliding scale" In Telford, posh is using a glass to drink it from! | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? No tattoos, tasteful underwear, spellings are correct, you appear to have your own teeth. Posh is a compliment Although I have heard people called posh if they have wine in the house they are not planning to drink that night! It's a sliding scale In Telford, posh is using a glass to drink it from!" great thread op .btw you look classy not posh | |||
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"I am not saying you are posh but from your pics I can see where people are getting it from. " Off topic, and in no way meant as a slight on yourself, but I thought Welwyn Garden City sounded posh until I went there! So first impressions aren't always correct x | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? No tattoos, tasteful underwear, spellings are correct, you appear to have your own teeth. Posh is a compliment Although I have heard people called posh if they have wine in the house they are not planning to drink that night! It's a sliding scale In Telford, posh is using a glass to drink it from!" In the Forest it's sleeping with someone you're not related to isn't it?? | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Who cares you’re 1st picture is amazing | |||
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"I am not saying you are posh but from your pics I can see where people are getting it from. Off topic, and in no way meant as a slight on yourself, but I thought Welwyn Garden City sounded posh until I went there! So first impressions aren't always correct x" | |||
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"A few people have commented on my profile that I look 'posh'! I'm not offended at all but just wondered if there was anything about my profile that gives that impression? " Far from it... Telford isn't exactly posh is it! | |||
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"Having read the profile and perused the pics, I've not had an inclination to say there's any poshness evident there, OP. But I'm not qualified to make an assemnent of the shoes like Frisky though " Lol, I don't do expensive shows at all - £100 for the retro pink leopard print pony skin ones is the most I have ever spent (apart from riding boots of course lol)!! The OP's look very elegant though. I had some comfortable and stylish mules with about a 3" heel I used to love wear to commute and work in Mayfair. 'Oh but they're not elegant!!' squeaked Clarissa Fazakerley....... | |||
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"Having read the profile and perused the pics, I've not had an inclination to say there's any poshness evident there, OP. But I'm not qualified to make an assemnent of the shoes like Frisky though Lol, I don't do expensive shows at all - £100 for the retro pink leopard print pony skin ones is the most I have ever spent (apart from riding boots of course lol)!! The OP's look very elegant though. I had some comfortable and stylish mules with about a 3" heel I used to love wear to commute and work in Mayfair. 'Oh but they're not elegant!!' squeaked Clarissa Fazakerley....... " Surely you can't be posh if you have mules, racehorses perhaps but not mules. | |||
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