When someone plays severe mind games with you but it takes a good while to figure that out, how do you get over it,what is your own personal techniques to alleviate stress hurt or even anger and frustration.  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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First of all acknowledge that it is neither your doing or you fault that it happened.
Secondly, look at the reasons why you allowed yourself to trust that person. What was it about them that allowed you to drop your guard?
Finally, try and identify all factors that contributed and trust your instincts in future when they tell you somebody is not quite what they seem to be.
Hope that helps a bit and sorry to hear you were used in that way.xx |
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over a year ago
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if its from here, sorry what do u expect from the majority?- I cant blame either party.I dont like mindgamers and avoid those who are easily mindgamed....
as for getting over 'it'- ur still here arent ya?- move on and find some more , who might not be promising whatever uve been led to believe
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My sympathies, I recently found out I had been on the receiving end of mind games from someone I trusted.
My way of dealing with it is that I am greatful I found out. I had my suspicions but didn't want to think the worst. Now I can move on.
Hope you are able to move on too
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Get out there and have heaps of sex  xx
what she said above.
ok if it wasnt from here, i do apologise...fancy a shag and some wedding vows?"
Now then you are playing mind games if you are promising matrimony!!! |
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Are you sure they're playing mind games and not wrestling with their own feelings?
I tend to back off and "if it is meant to happen it will and if it's not then c'est la vie"
Forrest Gump knew how to handle things like this
hope this helps you put things in perspective
next get yourself a bottle of whisky and get pissed (;-) |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Are you sure they're playing mind games and not wrestling with their own feelings?
I tend to back off and "if it is meant to happen it will and if it's not then c'est la vie"
Forrest Gump knew how to handle things like this
hope this helps you put things in perspective
next get yourself a bottle of whisky and get pissed (;-)"
Thats also a good point... life being that big box of chocolates ...;-) |
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"When someone plays severe mind games with you but it takes a good while to figure that out, how do you get over it,what is your own personal techniques to alleviate stress hurt or even anger and frustration. "
Buy a crossbow......  |
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"Get out there and have heaps of sex xx
what she said above.
ok if it wasnt from here, i do apologise...fancy a shag and some wedding vows?Now then you are playing mind games if you are promising matrimony!!!"
I can exchange wedding vows with who I please OK?-doesnt mean I'll marry....just an empty gesture ffs
hehehehe anyway...ur the bridesmaid...I'm allowed to shag b4 the fake ceremony aphro...wear something slutty...but not white x |
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haha if i drank id be pissed by now lol, and im on a diet so no choccies, it was defo malicious mind games but you are right i am better than that so i saloute that person my middle finger and walk away with my held held high, and hope time will heal |
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"Get out there and have heaps of sex xx
what she said above.
ok if it wasnt from here, i do apologise...fancy a shag and some wedding vows?"
Paddy have you got me a mould of your cock yet ffs....Fuck the vows xx |
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By *phroditeWoman
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"Get out there and have heaps of sex xx
what she said above.
ok if it wasnt from here, i do apologise...fancy a shag and some wedding vows?Now then you are playing mind games if you are promising matrimony!!!
I can exchange wedding vows with who I please OK?-doesnt mean I'll marry....just an empty gesture ffs
hehehehe anyway...ur the bridesmaid...I'm allowed to shag b4 the fake ceremony aphro...wear something slutty...but not white x"
I promise not to polish my halo for a couple of weeks before so you should nt get blinded by that - in addition I ll get one of teh "other" outfits out....;-) |
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"haha if i drank id be pissed by now lol, and im on a diet so no choccies, it was defo malicious mind games but you are right i am better than that so i saloute that person my middle finger and walk away with my held held high, and hope time will heal"
Been there chick.....Pick yourself up. walk away and enjoy life. No one is worth getting upset over. xxxx |
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"haha if i drank id be pissed by now lol, and im on a diet so no choccies, it was defo malicious mind but you are right i am better than that so i saloute that person my middle finger and walk away with my held held high, and hope time will heal
Been there chick.....Pick yourself up. walk away and enjoy life. No one is worth getting upset over. xxxx"
Same here,im quite a trusting soul,what i have learnt is to make sure people are worthy of my trust. |
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"I never notice whether they are playing mind games with me or not, don't know if that makes me daft or mindless? All water off a ducks back really.  "
he he love it! way to go ..... |
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"I never notice whether they are playing mind games with me or not, don't know if that makes me daft or mindless? All water off a ducks back really.
he he love it! way to go ....."
Fucked if I know and fucked if I care! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sleep with their best friend or mother, that always cheers me up.
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Just me then? .....bugger
Na i tend ta end up wi the Fathers thou xx  "
Nothing wrong with that, saying she is a crap shag down the pub, doesn't hurt half as much as saying her dad is a crap shag |
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"I sleep with their best friend or mother, that always cheers me up.
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Just me then? .....bugger
Na i tend ta end up wi the Fathers thou xx
Nothing wrong with that, saying she is a crap shag down the pub, doesn't hurt half as much as saying her dad is a crap shag"
Lol yep xx |
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