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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely I can't be the only guy or female for that matter that is put off big time by people's negative status's, I can't imagine that a woman would ever send me a message if I had a negative status up, however I suspect that women with really negative status's still get plenty of messages from men that have no self respect,, thoughts please, also ,how cheeky and sad would I sound as a man if I was asking for a site pass in my status???? Just leaving work, will check people's comments when I get home  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on what do you mean by negative.
If it's like "I had a shite day!"
I'll still message if I'm interested.
If it's like "Can **** just f*** off!" then no, I won't message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what do you mean by negative.
If it's like "I had a shite day!"
I'll still message if I'm interested.
If it's like "Can **** just f*** off!" then no, I won't message."
" Been back on here 1 day and already being reminded about the freaks, I will not and do not meet right now for a fuck"! This is an example, I have changed the wording slightly, for two reasons, 1 I can't remember the exact wording, and 2 , to protect identities this is probably not the best example but you get the idea, alsorts bugs me to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag...
Maybe, but ranting won't help, self-inflicted catch 22 situation
They can't see that though..."
Because of the red mist brought on by bursting labido  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't mind negative as in shit day or crap weather but it really puts me off it it's sex / fab related for example moaning about not getting enough attention or replies or meets etc. It just makes me feel like they're on here thinking everyone is easy and when people aren't falling all over them they aren't happy. It also indicated they could be a downer and personally I'm on here for some stress free time. Having said that it's their profile so they can do as they wish. |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"Surely I can't be the only guy or female for that matter that is put off big time by people's negative status's, I can't imagine that a woman would ever send me a message if I had a negative status up, however I suspect that women with really negative status's still get plenty of messages from men that have no self respect,, thoughts please, also ,how cheeky and sad would I sound as a man if I was asking for a site pass in my status???? Just leaving work, will check people's comments when I get home "
A lot of Negativity in this post  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Surely I can't be the only guy or female for that matter that is put off big time by people's negative status's, I can't imagine that a woman would ever send me a message if I had a negative status up, however I suspect that women with really negative status's still get plenty of messages from men that have no self respect,, thoughts please, also ,how cheeky and sad would I sound as a man if I was asking for a site pass in my status???? Just leaving work, will check people's comments when I get home
A lot of Negativity in this post "
Ahhh but it's not my status |
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It depends.... If I see a friend post something that seems like they're feeling a bit down or frustrated by things I'll usually send them a 'what's up buttercup?' and talk to them...
If its a random moaning myrtle in my local updates I'll probably just ignore it though... or block them so I don't see their updates anymore if they're a serial moaner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine tend to change daily.
Always a quote from a favourite author.
Generally I just let the ones who waffle on with vulger comments waft over my head.
But if it's a friend's status, perhaps a low point, I'll message to see if they're ok.
You never know , you might just give them that smile that they've been needing.
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Some come across as plain desperate, they are offputting also.
ie "It's there on a plate for you and you don't show, what more can I do?"
Which reads to me that its targeted at a person, so why not message them? Ok so they've been blocked I hear you all say, then why bother saying anything? Comes across to me (mr) as an easy shag guaranteed, you don't need to work for it... For us the chase is a big part of fun  |
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"Mine tend to change daily.
Always a quote from a favourite author.
Generally I just let the ones who waffle on with vulger comments waft over my head.
But if it's a friend's status, perhaps a low point, I'll message to see if they're ok.
You never know , you might just give them that smile that they've been needing.
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Us too... Nice to know others think likewise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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obviously its totally up to the individual as to what they put on their status...but naming and shaming, saying 'thanks for a great nite, u no who u r' and people saying how shite the site is certainly put me off...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the 'bored','this place is shit' ones that make me
Cryptic ones always make me wonder what its about (for about 3 seconds)
I like quotes and song lyrics
To be honest i dont really notice them unless it comes up on a friends update, and my friends are always cheerful  |
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"The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag...
Maybe, but ranting won't help, self-inflicted catch 22 situation
They can't see that though..."
They're going for the sympathy replies... |
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I was shown one the other day where the guy was kicking off that even fat women won't reply to him because they have an inflated veiw of them self on fab but in everyday life fat women would be desperate for him (or words to that effect). |
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