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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
My dating selective is actually the same as my meet selective, attracted to them & them to me, plus on the same wave length, unless you are a couple I don't really understand how they would differ tbh but after all the other threads I think I must be on a weird thought process compared to everyone else  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.
Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.
If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x |
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over a year ago
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"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.
Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.
If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x"
Getting bike out of shed right now.  |
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"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.
Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.
If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x"
I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooh, I haven't really thought about that. I've only had one long term relationship and that wasn't plain sailing.
He would have to have a strong character to be able to withstand my huge family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must like dogs, gardening and decorating.
Must be able to leave me alone, when I need my own time.
Must love sex and kissing.
Must be calm and peaceful.
Must love me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone non judgmental, someone who is open minded, doesn't stereotype people, kind and caring but won't allow people to walk over him, someone ambitious but not so much that it becomes detrimental to the relationship and most importantly someone who gives me there attention if we are conversing. Hate it when guys are distracted when you are talking to them as it just makes you think that you are not worth their time.
Physically- tall, well built, strong arms, nice eyes and smile and thick thighs are a bonus but above all in a relationship the other stuff is more important than the looks |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.
Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.
If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x
I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T "
If only......that place we call real life.
Really wow, maybe I could just happen to be in the same place at the same time if you know what I mean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would have to be someone who made me laugh, and me them, could tell me interesting stories of their life. Share things, without being needy. Attractive to me, a little bit kinky and adventurous but also happy to be lazy. A bit of a gentleman and outdoorsy. Intelligent without being arrogant...
...Good job im not looking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who knows how to ride, without even falling off.
Gotta be compatible, takes me to my limits. "
Just once if I had the chance, the things I would do to you |
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"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.
Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.
If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x
I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T
If only......that place we call real life.
Really wow, maybe I could just happen to be in the same place at the same time if you know what I mean "
He would love you |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.
Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.
If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x
I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T
If only......that place we call real life.
Really wow, maybe I could just happen to be in the same place at the same time if you know what I mean
He would love you "
Blind date come on Cilla |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who knows how to ride, without even falling off.
Gotta be compatible, takes me to my limits.
Just once if I had the chance, the things I would do to you "
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
Buckley North Wales |
This sounds weird but I have a thing for women with a chemistry qualification even if its just an HND.
Appart from that I love well educated women with crisp english accent. Economists and social scientists are just hot. Age 40+ the rest is less important. |
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There’s too many to list everything but - Intelligent, independent, non-needy, thoughtful, passionate, loyal, decisive. Someone who would push me to be the best I can be and who wants to share new experiences. Someone who makes me laugh and I feel like I can be myself (i.e. a lil bit crazy) around!
Not asking for much am I |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No difference in what I look for either here or in a "dating" situation - good-looking, intelligent, witty, charming and an intuitive lover...same high standards anywhere |
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential. "
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny, intelligent and imaginative 
Oh and loves oral 
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That's me except for the imagination... And intelligence... And funny!.
But I do like having my knob sucked .
Back of the net  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ambitious, self assertive, kind.
Oh and sexy!.
That's me... Except for the ambitious... And self assertive and sexy..
Wait no kinds out as well.
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Funny too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ambitious, self assertive, kind.
Oh and sexy!.
That's me... Except for the ambitious... And self assertive and sexy..
Wait no kinds out as well.
Funny too! "
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I could be here all day waiting for somebody to say
Grumpy, lanky and wanky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?"
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys. "
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before anything else. Someone who makes me laugh to the point of needing to pee.
Loyalty, respect and trust. Medium build, taller, and happy to stay in as much as go out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me. "
But, I want to have your babies  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.
But, I want to have your babies "
Who doesn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.
But, I want to have your babies
Who doesn't "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.
But, I want to have your babies
Who doesn't "
Lmfao, and so modest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.
But, I want to have your babies
Who doesn't
Lmfao, and so modest "
Well they will have my genes so I expect them to be lawyers, doctors, engineers or athletes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a meet but dating situation
So you wouldn't date someone you meet.
What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.
I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?
Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?
Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.
For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.
But, I want to have your babies
Who doesn't
Lmfao, and so modest
Well they will have my genes so I expect them to be lawyers, doctors, engineers or athletes "
That's it lad, dream big |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A sense of fun that we make each other laugh, think, dream, and can be as content talking throughout the night as just sitting somewhere and feeling peace in each other...
Creative with a love of the outdoors enough of a spirit of adventure to just go and chase their dreams a wild spirit wrapped in a gentle heart eyes alive with hope fire and that mutual need to make each other happy every minute of every day.
Able to stand up and argue their own corner resilient but still a dreamer as happy in jeans and boots as a ball gown...
And they must love animals dogs and maybe even collect waifs and strays..
Oh and every breath they take is more important than mine...
Wonder if I'm just aiming too high for a man in a cave who can barely communicate by grunts...
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is an interesting thread... it’s funny cause when actually confronted with this question most people would flounder... I would have before I knew it too...
It’s actually quite easy. To meet someone who you connect with on every level. Not agree with because that’s devoid of personality - but really ‘connect.’
To have someone who looks at you with ‘those’ eyes and when you touch, however insigignificantly, it feels like electricity running across you.
That one person who makes you feel alive just by being there... and not necessarily physically together or even in the same room but just knowing they are there. That person who allows... no NOT allows, but encourages and desires you to be who you are... And loves you for who you are even when you fuck up. But most importantly make you feel like the person YOU always dreamt of being... that’s who.
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