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over a year ago
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i have to be in the mood and can be totally dom then. once ive been asked to dom someone i go totally into character.
normally though im more submissive but i do enjoy being dom when i am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have to be in the mood and can be totally dom then. once ive been asked to dom someone i go totally into character.
normally though im more submissive but i do enjoy being dom when i am"
Well i can be verrrrry dom...or totally sub..depends who im with.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexually with meets etc.. I am confident and in control unless told otherwise by my Master.
With Master I am totally submissive.. 
it always shocks the poor guys thinking they are getting some submissive little bedroom slut to get a assertive, confident sexual predator who wants to take them in hand.
however, I couldnt be dom as in spanking or humiliation... perhaps with Master guiding me with a woman.. but 100% not with a guy..as to me guys should be the dominant ones ( even though I wont let them have control in the bedroom sexually lol )
Who ever said I was simple..
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was a time believe it or not when I was totally Dom
Then one day I completely lost control (it was not pretty)
Since that day I have totally stepped back
The problem now is no matter how hard I try I can't be dominant anymore
And that's actually a problem because some ladies like it and I can't give it anymore xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just depends..as long as theres a laugh involved at some stage.I'm dom during the fucking act, maybe some dom style suggestions in pre-chats...after that im a cute fuzzy bear to huggle with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just depends..as long as theres a laugh involved at some stage.I'm dom during the fucking act, maybe some dom style suggestions in pre-chats...after that im a cute fuzzy bear to huggle with"
thats how i do it works best i think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just depends..as long as theres a laugh involved at some stage.I'm dom during the fucking act, maybe some dom style suggestions in pre-chats...after that im a cute fuzzy bear to huggle with
thats how i do it works best i think."
I couldnt imagine it any other way.. I think people are always surprised that Master and I are loving and cuddly together.. but its just how it is.. as long as I remember my place.. there is no reason why a dominant can not be affectionate..
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of requests for younger blokes looking for a dom daddy figure.
It has been known, but unfortunately it isn't something I can switch on or off at will.
I have to meet the guy, get down to business and work out the dynamics before the dom bit kicks in.
So, if it's an outright request in advance, I will always refuse rather than potentially not provide what they seek.
And in my experience, many subs are so agressively sub that they almost become more assertive than the dom ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was a time believe it or not when I was totally Dom
Then one day I completely lost control (it was not pretty)
Since that day I have totally stepped back
The problem now is no matter how hard I try I can't be dominant anymore
And that's actually a problem because some ladies like it and I can't give it anymore xx "
At least you recognise that there is a danger that you may lose control and have stepped back,some can't see that in themselves and I find that scary xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm totally sub,
Being dom does not appeal to me in the slightest sexually.
I have to be dom in everyday life, doing everything all the time, so when it comes to me time, I want - need to just give in and enjoy myself :D |
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"Just depends..as long as theres a laugh involved at some stage.I'm dom during the fucking act, maybe some dom style suggestions in pre-chats...after that im a cute fuzzy bear to huggle with
thats how i do it works best i think."
shUttit and bend over for me....good girl...glad u took a pic too.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm sometimes passive and sometimes aggressive during sex, I don't see that as being sub or domme though.
Change the 'a' word for assertive and I totally get where you are coming from."
Thank you. Assertive, much better word aggressive. Unless I'm fucking angry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" meant.... than aggressive*
I liked aggressive...fancy stomping on ma bawsac laine?
.....with or without the thigh-high stiletto boots? "
one stiletto for the bawsac and the other bare foot for a bawsac fondle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" meant.... than aggressive*
I liked aggressive...fancy stomping on ma bawsac laine?
I'd gladly stomp on your nuts."
do my tagnuts 1st please, makes it more comfy for lying on my back. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She has her moments where she becomes very determined as to what she wants and will just take charge but wouldn't say she was dom.
Me wouldn't say I was dom (tried and just can't find it in me) though do have a sub side that maybe 1 day I'll get to explore further. |
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"i have to be in the mood and can be totally dom then. once ive been asked to dom someone i go totally into character.
normally though im more submissive but i do enjoy being dom when i am"
not at all,as Sir says i cant even Domme my cats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand either dom or sub. i like people to play with. If power is part of the mix then for me it would sour the experience as well as bore me. So, can't say much of use and will go back to being a silent wallflower (;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im not dom but i am very assertive when i want to be.
i love to take control and tie someone up etc and tease them but i always give in to my urges as quickly as them so no use as a dom lol
i like to be taken control of and have met some very passionate doms for me to be good little sub |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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totally submissive and love being told or led it so much sexier when your not in control and you can just enjoy it rather than have to lead . although i have had some good meets where i have had to be in control but i do enjoy a girl or guy who knows how to be on top |
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