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Reading Profiles

By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

There has been many a complaint about not reading profiles........yes there really has. Also there has been many a thread where we are asked to give profile advice. I was wondering what you think about how your own profile reads

Do you think your profile is conducive to being read and why?

Is your profile working for you?

Do you change your profile frequently?

* Is there an aspect of your profile you’d like a second opinion on?

What do you think makes a good profile?

*No I’m not offering any opinions on profiles but maybe you can buddy up with someone on the thread if you’re looking to improve yours. Also please remember the forum rules, no profile advice unless requested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I change my profile every couple of months... they work for me .... chaps that catch my eye usually have read them and get a feeling of what I desire and enjoy so their messages are engaging.....

Profiles are shop windows.... they are great landing pages..... they are the smell of the bakery.....the first scent of her perfume... the first glance ..... they are important for me and I read the chaps profile before engaging ... add the pics and it creates a menu .....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Mine is quite long and I think could do with some tweaking... I'll take any advice you have to give OP xx.

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Hi

I change my profile every couple of months... they work for me .... chaps that catch my eye usually have read them and get a feeling of what I desire and enjoy so their messages are engaging.....

Sounds like you’ve got it right and you’re getting the results you want. Not always easy, it’s amazing what happens if your profile is right

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Mine is quite long and I think could do with some tweaking... I'll take any advice you have to give OP xx."

Oh thanks, so you want advice off the person who isn’t meeting, doesn’t do pics and thinks Fab is a social club? Do you ever want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort.

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort. "

You have a few unique selling points that bring ppl to your door so why change a winning formula?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort. "

I like yours it's part of the reason you're in my hotlist, that and hat envy

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know my profile is long. really long, like super crazy long,

But it works for me and I've had many compliments about it.

Do I change it frequently? Yes. The story part changes every 2 to 3 months.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"Mine is quite long and I think could do with some tweaking... I'll take any advice you have to give OP xx.

Oh thanks, so you want advice off the person who isn’t meeting, doesn’t do pics and thinks Fab is a social club? Do you ever want to meet?

Ah.... but I know you and trust your opinion...

that counts more to me than the opinion of someone who doesn't know me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort.

I like yours it's part of the reason you're in my hotlist, that and hat envy

thank you.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort. "

I love your profile... Like you, it always makes me smile!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only been back just over 2 weeks but ive changed my profile twice already...

I think i have everything on there that should be there so im happy with it for now...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

You sure?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

You sure?

Very sure

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

Can you sort the cake then as you’re here?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Oops Sorry I thought you Were looking for profiles of people from Reading . My bad .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort.

I love your profile... Like you, it always makes me smile! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I seem to keep changing mine every time I’m on seems what I’ve not found the formula that works

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

Can you sort the cake then as you’re here?

No you cheeky mare I'm not feeding you greedy lot either...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

Can you sort the cake then as you’re here?

No you cheeky mare I'm not feeding you greedy lot either...

I'm bloody starving Marvin

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I know my profile is long. really long, like super crazy long,

But it works for me and I've had many compliments about it.

Do I change it frequently? Yes. The story part changes every 2 to 3 months.

So you have a profile type that has been mentioned around the forum on many occasions, it’s interesting that you are attracting what you want from it. This is something that ppl need to think about when writing a profile. All the advice there is on the forum is great but is that going to produce a profile that attracts what you want. Equally will it put off those you don’t want to message. Just goes to show be yourself and you will attract what you want, I’m glad you’re making your profile work for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I recently chopped mine down in size and content quite considerably. It now briefly and concisely says what I want it to without folks having to scroll through too much. And I don't think I feel like I'm inclined to jump through hoops (stop that sniggering!) for folk as much anymore either, so I guess I'm comfortable with it

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

Can you sort the cake then as you’re here?

No you cheeky mare I'm not feeding you greedy lot either...

Did you just flounce off the thread?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I recently chopped mine down in size and content quite considerably. It now briefly and concisely says what I want it to without folks having to scroll through too much. And I don't think I feel like I'm inclined to jump through hoops (stop that sniggering!) for folk as much anymore either, so I guess I'm comfortable with it

Sorry I’m giggling, can’t get past ‘chopped mine down in size’

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

Ours does yes as its to connect with people we've met or seen us in clubs. We do get the odd want to meet now etc but overall doing its job we feel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry I’m giggling, can’t get past ‘chopped mine down in size’

Dammit! I missed that

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Mine is quite long and I think could do with some tweaking... I'll take any advice you have to give OP xx.

Oh thanks, so you want advice off the person who isn’t meeting, doesn’t do pics and thinks Fab is a social club? Do you ever want to meet?

Ah.... but I know you and trust your opinion...

that counts more to me than the opinion of someone who doesn't know me

I feel under pressure and I’ve now got to read a profile, yep I don’t read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends what your looking for ours is quite basic and was spur of the moment.. Definitely needs work but why rush..

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Apart from a few minor tweaks (aside from adding pics which is a continual thing) mine is pretty much the same as when I set the profile up about 18 months ago.

I'm mostly happy with the way it is and the way it flows, although do sometimes think it's a touch on the long side, but struggle to find a way to condense it without losing any of the content and flow.

I've been told by others that it's anything from very good, to too long and boring, so accept that it's not for everyone and just focus on am I happy with it and does it sell a good picture of me the person and what I'm looking for/can offer (as a profile is supposed to do) which I think mostly it does.

Of course I'm always open to constructive criticism so if anyone has any, feel free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My profile reads as it is.. I am a bitch. Don't feck me off!

Works for me. Get little hassle this end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did exactly the same a couple of months back as mine was getting added to too often.

So I scrapped it all and started again.

Most read very little on here so I kept it down to a few lines....feckers still don't read it

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I've only been back just over 2 weeks but ive changed my profile twice already...

I think i have everything on there that should be there so im happy with it for now...

Omg I’ve just realised who you are, hello there

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Oops Sorry I thought you Were looking for profiles of people from Reading . My bad ."

Someone on the threat might be

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By *pice of life 79Man over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

I'd be happy to know more how everyone else perceives my profile

I myself think it's written well and explains everything needed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tried to make it as simple and concise as possible, but single guys still fail to see I'm not interested

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"Mine is quite long and I think could do with some tweaking... I'll take any advice you have to give OP xx.

Oh thanks, so you want advice off the person who isn’t meeting, doesn’t do pics and thinks Fab is a social club? Do you ever want to meet?

Ah.... but I know you and trust your opinion...

that counts more to me than the opinion of someone who doesn't know me

I feel under pressure and I’ve now got to read a profile, yep I don’t read profiles

Don't worry about it xx. Maybe someone else will help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don’t need non of you lot to give me profile advice ta very much

Can you sort the cake then as you’re here?

No you cheeky mare I'm not feeding you greedy lot either...

I'm bloody starving Marvin

Well I can't be bothered getting out of bed so I will be soon.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'd be happy to know more how everyone else perceives my profile

I myself think it's written well and explains everything needed "

It's a pain keep having to move my phone around to see your pic's properly. I would use an emoji to state I'm only jesting but I'm not in the mood for emojis today.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort.

I love your profile... Like you, it always makes me smile!

Never mind the profile blurb! That hat is pure awesome sauce!

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Ours does yes as its to connect with people we've met or seen us in clubs. We do get the odd want to meet now etc but overall doing its job we feel

A great way to keep in touch with those you’ve met etc and to contact you if they didn’t get an opportunity to say hi at the club. More potential play mates for your next club visit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

mine suck as i am no good at writing due to bad writing skills

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be happy to know more how everyone else perceives my profile

I myself think it's written well and explains everything needed

It's a pain keep having to move my phone around to see your pic's properly. I would use an emoji to state I'm only jesting but I'm not in the mood for emojis today."

Is dash there with you?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

Sorry I’m giggling, can’t get past ‘chopped mine down in size’

Dammit! I missed that

I didn’t I’m still chuckling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've kind of changed my mind about this. I think many people *do* read profiles. I change my profile text quite often and I've noticed that one kind of text gets lots of replies and other text gets none.

It's amusing me no end.

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"It depends what your looking for ours is quite basic and was spur of the moment.. Definitely needs work but why rush.. "

Are you attracting what you want from it as it is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine is the best, you can see this from the amount of verifications I have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile should be read, it's awesome. I haven't changed it in ages, I do keep meaning to get around to updating it but you know... Effort. Seems to work fairly well as it is.

I do keep thinking I should add some more pictures with a bit more variety but again... Effort.

I love your profile... Like you, it always makes me smile!

Never mind the profile blurb! That hat is pure awesome sauce!

Aww thanks. Twas a gift, I bloody love it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've only been back just over 2 weeks but ive changed my profile twice already...

I think i have everything on there that should be there so im happy with it for now...

Omg I’ve just realised who you are, hello there

Hi!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

I update mine every so often and add pictures as and when, but even though I get messages saying they have read my profile, they clearly haven't as there will be cock pics attached! but hey ho.

Anyway my profile seems to work for me lol

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Apart from a few minor tweaks (aside from adding pics which is a continual thing) mine is pretty much the same as when I set the profile up about 18 months ago.

Of course I'm always open to constructive criticism so if anyone has any, feel free

That’s very brave

Are you achieving what you want from your profile?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"My profile reads as it is.. I am a bitch. Don't feck me off!

Works for me. Get little hassle this end.

No hassle, sounds like a winner to me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'd be happy to know more how everyone else perceives my profile

I myself think it's written well and explains everything needed

It's a pain keep having to move my phone around to see your pic's properly. I would use an emoji to state I'm only jesting but I'm not in the mood for emojis today.

Is dash there with you?

Unfortunately not

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I'd be happy to know more how everyone else perceives my profile

I myself think it's written well and explains everything needed "

Hopefully you’ll get some helpful advice

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Tried to make it as simple and concise as possible, but single guys still fail to see I'm not interested

Unfortunately, that’s life and as not everyone is 100% honest on their profile so ppl do try their luck and message anyway

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Apart from a few minor tweaks (aside from adding pics which is a continual thing) mine is pretty much the same as when I set the profile up about 18 months ago.

Of course I'm always open to constructive criticism so if anyone has any, feel free

That’s very brave

Are you achieving what you want from your profile?

Not brave at all - realistic and open to suggestion

It mostly works for me, which is why I've not seen need to change it a great deal

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Mine is quite long and I think could do with some tweaking... I'll take any advice you have to give OP xx.

Oh thanks, so you want advice off the person who isn’t meeting, doesn’t do pics and thinks Fab is a social club? Do you ever want to meet?

Ah.... but I know you and trust your opinion...

that counts more to me than the opinion of someone who doesn't know me

I feel under pressure and I’ve now got to read a profile, yep I don’t read profiles

Don't worry about it xx. Maybe someone else will help

I’ll have a look later but don’t blame me if you never get a meet again

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol"

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

Not even Faf?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"mine suck as i am no good at writing due to bad writing skills

Do you achieve what you want from it?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I've kind of changed my mind about this. I think many people *do* read profiles. I change my profile text quite often and I've noticed that one kind of text gets lots of replies and other text gets none.

It's amusing me no end."

Now I’m intrigued

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By *blasiansCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

Our profile has evolved over time to reflect our journey , experience and evolving wants. Not sure how its perceived by the fab community although we tend to get winks and pics fabbed but not many messages. So any feedback would be welcome.

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Mine is the best, you can see this from the amount of verifications I have.

Are you asking for advice?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I've only been back just over 2 weeks but ive changed my profile twice already...

I think i have everything on there that should be there so im happy with it for now...

Omg I’ve just realised who you are, hello there

Hi!

Good to see you back

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I update mine every so often and add pictures as and when, but even though I get messages saying they have read my profile, they clearly haven't as there will be cock pics attached! but hey ho.

Anyway my profile seems to work for me lol"

Ah the unsolicited ‘cock pic’ they do keep me amused

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

Not even Faf?

Haven't had a FAF in my inbox in aaaaages.... I do miss MisterBee

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Apart from a few minor tweaks (aside from adding pics which is a continual thing) mine is pretty much the same as when I set the profile up about 18 months ago.

Of course I'm always open to constructive criticism so if anyone has any, feel free

That’s very brave

Are you achieving what you want from your profile?

Not brave at all - realistic and open to suggestion

It mostly works for me, which is why I've not seen need to change it a great deal"

Then you should keep it the same and go with your instincts surely? If you’re happy with how it works for you?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

Not even Faf?

You haven’t?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Our profile has evolved over time to reflect our journey , experience and evolving wants. Not sure how its perceived by the fab community although we tend to get winks and pics fabbed but not many messages. So any feedback would be welcome.

I’m sure the folk on the thread will be happy to help

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By *lackfunderMan over a year ago

Trafford

I re-wrote mine a few time over now its a case I don't mind if you do or do not.I cant talk for everybody on here I assume most folks look for pictures first then read any txt because nobody reads a message from a profile with no pictures ??

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

Not even Faf?

Haven't had a FAF in my inbox in aaaaages.... I do miss MisterBee

Oh god I’d forgotten about that

. I do miss him, I’m not convinced he misses us despite what he says

(He doesn’t miss that emoji)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of you have some great profiles and say exactly what you want in a clear way and some funny which is good ....great pics too

I think ours reads ok and shows people what we want but please feel free to take a look and suggest anything that we are missing, it would be much appreciated

We don't seem to have too much problem been contacted by people who we arnt compatible so guessing it can't be too bad .

I always feel awful having filters on for guys but we do open them up when looking for one , we just got so many silly messages and genuine ones were getting lost in them all . Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think your reads great .... very clear on what you want and expect but in a fun way too . Xx

Mrs xx

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I re-wrote mine a few time over now its a case I don't mind if you do or do not.I cant talk for everybody on here I assume most folks look for pictures first then read any txt because nobody reads a message from a profile with no pictures ??"

Some do some don’t

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Of course I'm always open to constructive criticism so if anyone has any, feel free

That’s very brave

Are you achieving what you want from your profile?

Not brave at all - realistic and open to suggestion

It mostly works for me, which is why I've not seen need to change it a great deal

Then you should keep it the same and go with your instincts surely? If you’re happy with how it works for you?

I intend to BUT am also realistic enough to know that nothing is ever perfect and therefore am open to constructive criticism - doesn't necessarily mean I'll change anything but will certainly listen.

As I said to someone else "sometimes it takes others to see what you can't"

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

I've tweaked my profile several times over the years, and I do give it a bit of a 'springclean' now and then, to keep it up to date, but overall, what I have, works well for me

I do like to change my home location every once in a while, to see the effect on my profile views though

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Of course I'm always open to constructive criticism so if anyone has any, feel free

That’s very brave

Are you achieving what you want from your profile?

Not brave at all - realistic and open to suggestion

It mostly works for me, which is why I've not seen need to change it a great deal

Then you should keep it the same and go with your instincts surely? If you’re happy with how it works for you?

As I said to someone else "sometimes it takes others to see what you can't"

Now that is very true in most situations

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

I’m normally super happy with our profile, I feel it describes us to a tee

we don’t go into to much detail because we only meet at our favourite club and even then it’s never arranged meets, we have a kind of if it happens it happens attitude to swinging you see, we are happy for people to message and chat if they wish, and we do love a good chat

but it’s not our road to swinging

Now when I say normally, that’s because we normally have a great mix of pics up, but someone said something to me in our club recently and it made me take most of them down

it wasn’t about our profile it was a not to nice comment about the lifestyle, now all though it was very pot and kettle, it’ll take me a while to feel happy with sharing pics of our lifestyle, so I’ll leave it as it is for a bit

When normal service is resumed then yep we love it

Mrs blue eyes

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple over a year ago

Seaford

We change ours about and it certainly has changed a lot since we first joined

I need to change the pics up and get some more together with my husband it’s a work in progress

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you think our profiles not good enough your not the type of person I want to meet. It tells people all we want them to know. Once we get chatting it won't be the profile that makes a meet happen x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve just updated ours yesterday, it’s still a work in progress as I want more pics of us together. It does work for us to a degree but always happy to receive constructive criticism. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It depends what your looking for ours is quite basic and was spur of the moment.. Definitely needs work but why rush..

Are you attracting what you want from it as it is?

Well we are quite confident about our looks I don't think profile pics matter to much much and can be deceiving.. Ultimately it comes down to face pics and then a connection after that.. Luckily for us we get very positive feedback and the answer to your question is yes.. It progressing nicely but real life gets in the way a bit too much for our liking

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

My profile works perfectly for me currently. When what I'm wanting changes (if it does!) I'll change it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you think our profiles not good enough your not the type of person I want to meet. It tells people all we want them to know. Once we get chatting it won't be the profile that makes a meet happen x"

I quite agree as our profile needs tlc and even for it was updated every two minutes it could never tell you what we are like in real life and the same goes for all profiles I believe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tweak mine daily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We change ours about and it certainly has changed a lot since we first joined

I need to change the pics up and get some more together with my husband it’s a work in progress"

Yours is perfect I love the pictures

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dosent seem to matter what i write in mine.majority never read it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dosent seem to matter what i write in mine.majority never read it"

Probably wondering what ‘vertified’ is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dosent seem to matter what i write in mine.majority never read it

Probably wondering what ‘vertified’ is

Doubt thats hard to undersatand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have recently changed mine. It's so hard to keep it concise when all I want to do is rant at people who don't read.

I want to add the following but I'm not sure?

"I find it extremely disrespectful, if your very first message is to say "you're in a hotel now, want to meet?" No I fucking don't! Phone a prostitute and pay for it and stop looking at me as if I am an item from the Argos catalogue that you can just order."

I probably won't, but it's how I feel.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Trimmed mine down a bit. Was too war and peace.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im always surprised when its obvious people have read it as its a bit long.

But it seems to do the job at the moment (at boring most people away)

so it can stay.

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By *blasiansCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

I think your reads great .... very clear on what you want and expect but in a fun way too . Xx

Mrs xx "

Thank you much appreciated.

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

You’d be surprised, I was on here nearly a year before a pic appeared on my profile and they aren’t exactly what you’d find on hot pics

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Some of you have some great profiles and say exactly what you want in a clear way and some funny which is good ....great pics too

I think ours reads ok and shows people what we want but please feel free to take a look and suggest anything that we are missing, it would be much appreciated

We don't seem to have too much problem been contacted by people who we arnt compatible so guessing it can't be too bad .

I always feel awful having filters on for guys but we do open them up when looking for one , we just got so many silly messages and genuine ones were getting lost in them all . Xx "

I hope you’ve had some helpful comments

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I've tweaked my profile several times over the years, and I do give it a bit of a 'springclean' now and then, to keep it up to date, but overall, what I have, works well for me

I do like to change my home location every once in a while, to see the effect on my profile views though

Geography bites

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've recently rewrote mine but nobody bothers to read it anyway they just see the pics and send fancy a fuck messages

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I’m normally super happy with our profile, I feel it describes us to a tee

but it’s not our road to swinging

Now when I say normally, that’s because we normally have a great mix of pics up, but someone said something to me in our club recently and it made me take most of them down

When normal service is resumed then yep we love it

Mrs blue eyes

Swinging means different things to different ppl, that doesn’t mean one way is wrong the other right. If you’re happy with your profile and how you swing then I wouldn’t change a thing. Don’t let these ppl get you down

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"We change ours about and it certainly has changed a lot since we first joined

I need to change the pics up and get some more together with my husband it’s a work in progress"

Sounds like you’re having fun with it

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

That’s exactly right your profile is there to attract what you want and need. It should also deter those that aren’t what you’re looking for

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I’ve just updated ours yesterday, it’s still a work in progress as I want more pics of us together. It does work for us to a degree but always happy to receive constructive criticism. X "

Oh there is usually no shortage of criticism whether it’s constructive is a different matter

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"My profile works perfectly for me currently. When what I'm wanting changes (if it does!) I'll change it. "

Perfect

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I have recently changed mine. It's so hard to keep it concise when all I want to do is rant at people who don't read.

I want to add the following but I'm not sure?

I probably won't, but it's how I feel. "

Are you asking for advice?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

"Ours does yes as its to connect with people we've met or seen us in clubs. We do get the odd want to meet now etc but overall doing its job we feel

A great way to keep in touch with those you’ve met etc and to contact you if they didn’t get an opportunity to say hi at the club. More potential play mates for your next club visit

Exactly - little social hub

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Trimmed mine down a bit. Was too war and peace.

Is it now more ‘Look at Me’?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Im always surprised when its obvious people have read it as its a bit long.

But it seems to do the job at the moment (at boring most people away)

so it can stay.

Clearly not boring ppl if it works

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I've recently rewrote mine but nobody bothers to read it anyway they just see the pics and send fancy a fuck messages

So it isn’t working for you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can barely remember what's on mine. I don't think I have much on it at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My profile is rubbsih but it works somehow. Just like a classic car.

Sometimes you need to change the oil or tyres but don't try to change the car

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I can barely remember what's on mine. I don't think I have much on it at the moment. "

Would you like a reminder?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"My profile is rubbsih but it works somehow. Just like a classic car.

Sometimes you need to change the oil or tyres but don't try to change the car

A classic car? Good lord man you’re 25, what does that make me I’m 46?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile is rubbsih but it works somehow. Just like a classic car.

Sometimes you need to change the oil or tyres but don't try to change the car

A classic car? Good lord man you’re 25, what does that make me I’m 46?

A footmobile

Just kidding

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"My profile is rubbsih but it works somehow. Just like a classic car.

Sometimes you need to change the oil or tyres but don't try to change the car

A classic car? Good lord man you’re 25, what does that make me I’m 46?

A footmobile

Just kidding

Watch it you I’m old enough to be your mother, now that’s a scary thought

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I've tweaked my profile several times over the years, and I do give it a bit of a 'springclean' now and then, to keep it up to date, but overall, what I have, works well for me

I do like to change my home location every once in a while, to see the effect on my profile views though

Geography bites

It certainly does

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

Updated mine today and regularly review the contents. I'm the kinda person to read what someone has taken the time to write, not just jump to the pics

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Mines fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I wrote War and Peace on my first draft. I like to keep paring it down so it's punchy whilst remaining informative. Long profiles with lists of negatives bore the arse of me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure which is the biggest problem ....

My profile...or me.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

I started off with very little on my profile, but I've slowly added the things I am and am not looking for

Now, if only the guys would read it before contacting me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

Lol. How come? Not even 'I'm 30min away, would love to lick some pussy' from a complete stranger? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I change mine regularly depending on my mood. It works for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mines fucking awesome

Tinaaaaaa!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mine is the best, you can see this from the amount of verifications I have.

Are you asking for advice?

Haha no, it was tongue in cheek, I'm happy with my profile, the reason I don't have any verifications is because I don't actively seek meets anymore, just going with the flow, if it happens it happens

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Updated mine today and regularly review the contents. I'm the kinda person to read what someone has taken the time to write, not just jump to the pics

You’re such an

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Mines fucking awesome

Another

. Wow what’s happening to Fab

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Yeah I wrote War and Peace on my first draft. I like to keep paring it down so it's punchy whilst remaining informative. Long profiles with lists of negatives bore the arse of me. "

But they work for some

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Not sure which is the biggest problem ....

My profile...or me."

Or your man cave?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I started off with very little on my profile, but I've slowly added the things I am and am not looking for

Now, if only the guys would read it before contacting me..."

Now that’s the tricky bit

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan over a year ago

sheffield

I'm not ignorant to anyone's profile but when you have an essay to read on what you like an dislike.. I apologise if I do miss anything

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I tweak my profile regularly but the main bits stay. Seems to be working for me as haven't had 'fancy a fuck' message in ages lol

I’m about to say something I’m sure I’m going to regret, I don’t think I’ve ever had those 3 words in my inbox

Lol. How come? Not even 'I'm 30min away, would love to lick some pussy' from a complete stranger? Lol"

I used to get that or similar regularly until I changed my profile because I mentioned my liking for oral

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I change mine regularly depending on my mood. It works for me

Another happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think my profile says all it needs to and works just fine for me

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Mine is the best, you can see this from the amount of verifications I have.

Are you asking for advice?

I like going with the flow a great philosophy for a stress free Fab experience

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I'm not ignorant to anyone's profile but when you have an essay to read on what you like an dislike.. I apologise if I do miss anything "

Easily done and you’re clearly making the effort

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I think my profile says all it needs to and works just fine for me

Long story but I actually pointed someone in your direction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think mine is ok and it has served me well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel mine is good. Had help from people off of here, but I get no views or messages.

Would like a second opinion though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t read it

Push it

p push it real good

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"i think mine is ok and it has served me well

What’s with all the angels on this thread? I was lead to believe this site was full of deviants

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I have and do change the wording around sometimes but the core stays the same. Pictures change often. Does it word...yes I think so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think my profile says all it needs to and works just fine for me

Long story but I actually pointed someone in your direction

Oh really why?

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I feel mine is good. Had help from people off of here, but I get no views or messages.

Would like a second opinion though. "

My advice before you start changing a profile you’re happy with is get yourself to a social. It’s a good place to start your Fab journey and shows you’re genuine. Guys using the forum and attending socials have said it’s helped them so you never know. Going from posts I’ve seen on the forum your age may be an issue, however there are ladies that like the younger guy you just need to find them. One thing that might scare the ladies off is they’re assuming they’re not what you’re looking for. You’ve made it clear you’re looking for something, ppl easily jump to conclusions. Happy Fabbing

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I think my profile says all it needs to and works just fine for me

Long story but I actually pointed someone in your direction

Oh really why?"

I thought maybe you’d want to meet each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think my profile says all it needs to and works just fine for me

Long story but I actually pointed someone in your direction

Oh really why?

I thought maybe you’d want to meet each other

Oh now you've peaked my interest. In chatting a few guys but none said anything

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I have and do change the wording around sometimes but the core stays the same. Pictures change often. Does it word...yes I think so

Just keep doing what you’re doing because it’s working for you and don’t let others spoil your fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I did a decent job of redoing mine...but I'll listen to any tips

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By *uffnmuffCouple over a year ago

London

Need to add a bit more to mine.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Mines fucking awesome

Tinaaaaaa! "

She is the bomb

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Hi

I change my profile every couple of months... they work for me .... chaps that catch my eye usually have read them and get a feeling of what I desire and enjoy so their messages are engaging.....

Sounds like you’ve got it right and you’re getting the results you want. Not always easy, it’s amazing what happens if your profile is right

It's easy if you're a woman

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By *ikeB85Man over a year ago

Warrington

I think it’s about time I gave mine a little tweak. I’ve not changed it since I joined fab. Any advice would be great

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I think I did a decent job of redoing mine...but I'll listen to any tips

I’ve just had a read, I like it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I did a decent job of redoing mine...but I'll listen to any tips

I’ve just had a read, I like it

Could have fabbed a few pics while you were there

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I think I did a decent job of redoing mine...but I'll listen to any tips

I’ve just had a read, I like it

Could have fabbed a few pics while you were there

I didn’t look at the pics

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Need to add a bit more to mine."

Work in progress

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Hi

I change my profile every couple of months... they work for me .... chaps that catch my eye usually have read them and get a feeling of what I desire and enjoy so their messages are engaging.....

Sounds like you’ve got it right and you’re getting the results you want. Not always easy, it’s amazing what happens if your profile is right

It's easy if you're a woman

Cheeky as ever I see, but speaking as a woman I’d agree

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By *ink Panther. OP Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I think it’s about time I gave mine a little tweak. I’ve not changed it since I joined fab. Any advice would be great

I’m sure this lovely lot will give you a few pointers

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Hi

I change my profile every couple of months... they work for me .... chaps that catch my eye usually have read them and get a feeling of what I desire and enjoy so their messages are engaging.....

Sounds like you’ve got it right and you’re getting the results you want. Not always easy, it’s amazing what happens if your profile is right

It's easy if you're a woman

Cheeky as ever I see, but speaking as a woman I’d agree

Cheeky but correct

. Hope you've been okay

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I started off with very little on my profile, but I've slowly added the things I am and am not looking for

Now, if only the guys would read it before contacting me..."

Oh the irony; just now a woman I was chatting with asked me if I am married

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some constructive criticism of mine would be helpful, as no one really bothers to anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My profile needs a complete rewrite, it is 100% effective, but hasn't changed since I last wrote stuff on it.

Think I need a good night out, a listen to some surrealistic pillow then some inspired thoughts may flow through my keyboard....

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I keep tweaking bits especially about what I am especially after at the moment... but I kind of like it the way it is... or is there anything that needs changing? ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep tweaking bits especially about what I am especially after at the moment... but I kind of like it the way it is... or is there anything that needs changing? ?"

mmf's are high I my agenda

probably should be on not I....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a woman on here all you really need to type is "fill in later" - & you can't possibly fail, so I guess from that position giving advise is a piece of piss!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think my profile is conducive to being read. I saw no point in putting anything serious on it, because I know it rarely gets read. Now I just enjoy writing what I want on it, with no care what reaction I get.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think my profile is conducive to being read. I saw no point in putting anything serious on it, because I know it rarely gets read. Now I just enjoy writing what I want on it, with no care what reaction I get. "

Read your profile ! We sound the perfect match

Let’s play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll be brave and let you rate mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll be brave and let you rate mine. "

It’s a good profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll be brave and let you rate mine.

It’s a good profile

You don't think the status and joke is too much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my profile is open and honest exactly how I wanted it to be and I hope that it shows my sense of humour to others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I started off with very little on my profile, but I've slowly added the things I am and am not looking for

Now, if only the guys would read it before contacting me...

Oh the irony; just now a woman I was chatting with asked me if I am married

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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