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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The request you don’t want.
You have never spoken to them, they have never spoken to you.
Yet they demand to be your friend.
So they can see your private pics.
This includes males, females and couples.
Worst offenders are people who have no private pics.Then expect you to add them.
Do you believe in like for like?
What do you do, how do you deal with this menace.
Your thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand why people do it..
I also don't understand why people who receive them bulk delete them....
keep them, it stops the feckers reoffending  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm starting to think that people get no replies to messages and then think maybe they need to be 'friends' before they'll get a reply. So it's just a way of asking to be friends and not sinister at all.
I've asked a few people why they've sent me a friend request when we've never chatted and that's the kind of answer they gave. |
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"The request you don’t want.
You have never spoken to them, they have never spoken to you.
Yet they demand to be your friend.
So they can see your private pics.
This includes males, females and couples.
Worst offenders are people who have no private pics.Then expect you to add them.
Do you believe in like for like?
What do you do, how do you deal with this menace.
Your thoughts?
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Ignore them.... Pretty simple really. I leave their request pending so they can't send another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that people get no replies to messages and then think maybe they need to be 'friends' before they'll get a reply. So it's just a way of asking to be friends and not sinister at all.
I've asked a few people why they've sent me a friend request when we've never chatted and that's the kind of answer they gave. "
I agree with this, people just not quite getting the way others use friends function on here. I have no reason to be offended by it in the slightest. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
It annoys me. I have people on my friends list who I have chatted to and I want to stay friends with.
Being sent a friend request by people I have never spoken to, suggests to me that they want to nose at my photos or try to get round my filters.
I usually delete unsolicited ones, and if their name keeps reappearing, then they get blocked.
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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago
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If they have pics in their friends we may sometimes wait untill they ate offline then have a quick nosey before unfriending single males that just send an invite get an instant block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they have pics in their friends we may sometimes wait untill they ate offline then have a quick nosey before unfriending single males that just send an invite get an instant block"
Nothing like double standards is there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't worry me that much, I just go through them, delete anyone too far away. Then look at the profiles of the others to make my decision of whether to accept or not.
It's not a big problem
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The request you don’t want.
You have never spoken to them, they have never spoken to you.
Yet they demand to be your friend.
So they can see your private pics.
This includes males, females and couples.
Worst offenders are people who have no private pics.Then expect you to add them.
Do you believe in like for like?
What do you do, how do you deal with this menace.
Your thoughts?
I just delete
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I bulk delete, other times I accept have a nose at their private pics then remove them as a friend "
This! I wait til they're offline just in case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see it as them wanting to see your friend pics, there's no other benefit to being 'friends' on here, if it's updates and ease of finding you they can put you on their hotlist.
I only accept people I've met and just leave all others sat there as they can't request again then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t regard it as a demand, or that they are expecting to be added. I see a friend request for what it is - a request. Which we are all within our rights to refuse. People run their profiles differently, so unless someone specifically states on their profile what their friend accepting policy is, I don’t see how it’s possible to know what someone would regard as unacceptable.
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"I sometimes accept the request but don't mail them, just to see what they do. They'll be pissed off when they see my friends pics are utter shite!  "
 that's a good idea actually I may change mine to a pic of my ten toes. Ten pic's ten different toes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might just have a friends pics of Van Gogh and the likes.
Like a mini trip to the Gallery whilst you’re here. Lol"
Can you stick some abstract stuff in there please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to accept them but quickly found out that they were pic collectors and had no intention of meeting. We also now look for how many friends they have if over 20 we are likely to reject with all the good will in the world 20 new meets may be hard to fit in unless a bulk club meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes accept the request but don't mail them, just to see what they do. They'll be pissed off when they see my friends pics are utter shite!
that's a good idea actually I may change mine to a pic of my ten toes. Ten pic's ten different toes."
Do it!
Needs to be a few pics so it entices them in. |
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"I sometimes accept the request but don't mail them, just to see what they do. They'll be pissed off when they see my friends pics are utter shite!
that's a good idea actually I may change mine to a pic of my ten toes. Ten pic's ten different toes.
Do it!
Needs to be a few pics so it entices them in. "
I will do I just need to knit some little hat's for my toes first,make it a little more interesting |
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"I sometimes accept the request but don't mail them, just to see what they do. They'll be pissed off when they see my friends pics are utter shite!
that's a good idea actually I may change mine to a pic of my ten toes. Ten pic's ten different toes.
Do it!
Needs to be a few pics so it entices them in.
I will do I just need to knit some little hat's for my toes first,make it a little more interesting "
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I sometimes accept the request but don't mail them, just to see what they do. They'll be pissed off when they see my friends pics are utter shite!
that's a good idea actually I may change mine to a pic of my ten toes. Ten pic's ten different toes.
Do it!
Needs to be a few pics so it entices them in.
I will do I just need to knit some little hat's for my toes first,make it a little more interesting "
Love this idea. I am going to do similar with my friend photos. Make them silly and not sexy |
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I dont have any pictures in my friends file so this helps, they are all in private.. 