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Bi, curiosity. where does it end.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hiya, I like to play with a cock if its part of 3sum. I only do this as part of the experience of joining both sexes in a intimate meeting,however I am not attracted to men,don't fuck don't let spunk near my face but that's playful pleasure. Don't fuck cd,tv or any men but the straight guys do... Mmm confused about bi,curious, bi,sexual and should I state that I am straight? Mmmm conundrum. Darren x |
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You are what you feel you are. If you like to play in couples and play with both partners I would consider you are bi like myself. Thiers no shame in it after all it’s a swinging site and I would imagine many of the couples ( not all) would share similar experiences with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Labels are for jam. The labels on here are very general and don’t describe the nuances of our sexuality, nor the fluid nature of it for some people.
Although I label myself as bisexual on here, I describe my orientation as pansexual as gender does not affect whether I find someone sexually attractive. However I haven’t had any sexual contact with a man for 6 years, a TS for 17 years and to all intents and purposes behave as a monogamous heterosexual in actual sexual practice, but my fantasies are pansexual. I’m not as easy to label as a jar of strawberry jam, or is it a conserve, or a jelly?
However I choose to use bisexual on here, as it is the closest to my orientation. What you choose is completely up to you. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I think it's up to each of us as individuals to decide what label we apply to ourselves - on here as the Doc says the labels are fairly generic and don't cover the various nuances (but your profile text allows you to expand on them if you wish).
Some guys will lie and say straight when they're actually bi in the mistaken belief it increases their chances of meeting the minority that say they won't meet bi men, without realising that by doing so they close the door on people that actively seek them.
Whether you agree with labels or not you have to choose one on here, so this is my take on which applies where (unless you are going to lie) for the purposes of the site:
Straight - Not interested in playing with someone of the same gender in any way at all (or have done so and decided it's not something you want to repeat).
Bi-curious - Curious about playing with someone of the same gender but have never actually done so.
Bisexual - Have played with someone of the same gender (in any way) and would do so again.
Fairly clear cut albeit at a generic level  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's up to each of us as individuals to decide what label we apply to ourselves - on here as the Doc says the labels are fairly generic and don't cover the various nuances (but your profile text allows you to expand on them if you wish).
Some guys will lie and say straight when they're actually bi in the mistaken belief it increases their chances of meeting the minority that say they won't meet bi men, without realising that by doing so they close the door on people that actively seek them.
Whether you agree with labels or not you have to choose one on here, so this is my take on which applies where (unless you are going to lie) for the purposes of the site:
Straight - Not interested in playing with someone of the same gender in any way at all (or have done so and decided it's not something you want to repeat).
Bi-curious - Curious about playing with someone of the same gender but have never actually done so.
Bisexual - Have played with someone of the same gender (in any way) and would do so again.
Fairly clear cut albeit at a generic level "
Bi- curious could also be I’m experimenting to see if I really like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's up to each of us as individuals to decide what label we apply to ourselves - on here as the Doc says the labels are fairly generic and don't cover the various nuances (but your profile text allows you to expand on them if you wish).
Some guys will lie and say straight when they're actually bi in the mistaken belief it increases their chances of meeting the minority that say they won't meet bi men, without realising that by doing so they close the door on people that actively seek them.
Whether you agree with labels or not you have to choose one on here, so this is my take on which applies where (unless you are going to lie) for the purposes of the site:
Straight - Not interested in playing with someone of the same gender in any way at all (or have done so and decided it's not something you want to repeat).
Bi-curious - Curious about playing with someone of the same gender but have never actually done so.
Bisexual - Have played with someone of the same gender (in any way) and would do so again.
Fairly clear cut albeit at a generic level
Bi- curious could also be I’m experimenting to see if I really like it."
The reason I say that is because if I based my orientation on my real experiences I would be straight, because with the exception of one they weren’t great for me, for a variety of reasons. Ironically I only became clear on my sexual orientation once I stopped meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's up to each of us as individuals to decide what label we apply to ourselves - on here as the Doc says the labels are fairly generic and don't cover the various nuances (but your profile text allows you to expand on them if you wish).
Some guys will lie and say straight when they're actually bi in the mistaken belief it increases their chances of meeting the minority that say they won't meet bi men, without realising that by doing so they close the door on people that actively seek them.
Whether you agree with labels or not you have to choose one on here, so this is my take on which applies where (unless you are going to lie) for the purposes of the site:
Straight - Not interested in playing with someone of the same gender in any way at all (or have done so and decided it's not something you want to repeat).
Bi-curious - Curious about playing with someone of the same gender but have never actually done so.
Bisexual - Have played with someone of the same gender (in any way) and would do so again.
Fairly clear cut albeit at a generic level
Bi- curious could also be I’m experimenting to see if I really like it.
The reason I say that is because if I based my orientation on my real experiences I would be straight, because with the exception of one they weren’t great for me, for a variety of reasons. Ironically I only became clear on my sexual orientation once I stopped meeting "
During my actual experimentation I was bi-curious. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
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Bi- curious could also be I’m experimenting to see if I really like it.
The reason I say that is because if I based my orientation on my real experiences I would be straight, because with the exception of one they weren’t great for me, for a variety of reasons. Ironically I only became clear on my sexual orientation once I stopped meeting
During my actual experimentation I was bi-curious."
All fair points (as ever) bro and ultimately comes back to individual interpretation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very interesting replies from all of you wonderful peeps. Clearing up my dilemma and happily not going to label myself in a strict way. Thankyou guys Darren x |
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