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No manners, rant

By *illian OP Man over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Why is it, that you see a profile that you think deserves a message, so you read the profile, yes you qualify in their search so you compose a nice message, send a face piccy as requested in their profile, and wait. And wait, and then, yes they’ve read your message, so you wait, and wait...........nothing.

I was brought up to be polite and reply to people, why is it most people on here are so pig ignorant and rude, and so far up their own arse they cannot see daylight!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Imagine you're in a market. You're there to buy something nice.

Every single stall seller thinks they're selling something "nice".

So each of them are shouting at you to buy something from their stall.

Do you stop at every single one and reply to them?

This is what it's like for ladies on this site.

It literally says in the site rules that no reply means they're not interested.

Women can get over 100 messages every day. Do you really expect them to spend 2 mins replying to each one? That's nearly three hours of their day.

Please stop being so entitled, and try to think of this from other people's point of view.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Sometimes actually a lot of the time many people here get so many messages that’s its pretty difficult to reply to each and everyone. I try to but it’s not always easy. And sometimes I’ve replied to a message with Just thank you and then I get a I abused from a height.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

OP please take a look at the site FAQ's, this issue is covered in there.

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By *lla_maiWoman over a year ago

staffordshire

Maybe they decided that you didnt "qualify" for what they wanted

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Send email...delete.

Noone owes you a response mucka.. no matter how much you throw manners or respect in.

Good luck fella.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP please take a look at the site FAQ's, this issue is covered in there."

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Imagine you're in a market. You're there to buy something nice.

Every single stall seller thinks they're selling something "nice".

So each of them are shouting at you to buy something from their stall.

Do you stop at every single one and reply to them?

This is what it's like for ladies on this site.

It literally says in the site rules that no reply means they're not interested.

Women can get over 100 messages every day. Do you really expect them to spend 2 mins replying to each one? That's nearly three hours of their day.

Please stop being so entitled, and try to think of this from other people's point of view. "

great analogy x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is it, that you see a profile that you think deserves a message, so you read the profile, yes you qualify in their search so you compose a nice message, send a face piccy as requested in their profile, and wait. And wait, and then, yes they’ve read your message, so you wait, and wait...........nothing.

I was brought up to be polite and reply to people, why is it most people on here are so pig ignorant and rude, and so far up their own arse they cannot see daylight!"

Different rules apply on fab..

No reply usually means no interest so once you realise youre not going to a response just move on, or block and move on so you dont try it again at some point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Imagine you're in a market. You're there to buy something nice.

Every single stall seller thinks they're selling something "nice".

So each of them are shouting at you to buy something from their stall.

Do you stop at every single one and reply to them?

This is what it's like for ladies on this site.

It literally says in the site rules that no reply means they're not interested.

Women can get over 100 messages every day. Do you really expect them to spend 2 mins replying to each one? That's nearly three hours of their day.

Please stop being so entitled, and try to think of this from other people's point of view. "

Oh there's plenty of entitlement on this site from right across the sexual spectrum, just a glimpse at some of the laughable profile rants is enough evidence.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"OP please take a look at the site FAQ's, this issue is covered in there."

I'll post them for you here OP.

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP your far from the first to ask this and you won't be the last....but one things for certain! You'll get the same answers as the rest have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, would you have time to reply to 100s of messages each day?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I was brought up to be polite and reply to people, why is it most people on here are so pig ignorant and rude, and so far up their own arse they cannot see daylight!"

ok op

I've sent a memo to all the ladies of fab

they will all now politely reply with the following polite reply

hi thanks for your message

sadly I find you unattractive and think cock pics are utterly repulsive , please may I ask you never to clutter my over full inbox again , in fact I'm going to block you now xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why should they "have" to answer you

just because you send a message its not a contractural aggreement they have to reply .

Take it as a no thanks i/we are not interested.

its nothing to do with manners ,it means there not interested.

bit like all those missed ppi callson your phone ,im sure you dont answer every call and say no thanks ..if your not interested in something be it phone call,junk mail, etc etc you dont answer/reply right .

it dosent mean you have no manners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly OP, if it gets you as cross as it appears perhaps Fab just isn’t the vessel for you. Why not go to a club or organised social, it’s a lot easier to connect with people face-to-face than via the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies like to have hundreds of messages in their inbox. They get so many that they don't have the time (or can't be bothered) to reply.

Don't let it get you down.

I do try to reply to all mine-I currently have 15 waiting to be looked at-but I don't allow many people to message me in the first place.

When you do catch someone's eye, you know she is right for you.

The rest aren't.

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By *illian OP Man over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then"

Why would that change anything?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was brought up to be polite and reply to people, why is it most people on here are so pig ignorant and rude, and so far up their own arse they cannot see daylight!"

I can see my kidneys from here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to admit I am having a chuckle about the OP qualifying to meet certain members. I tend to reply these days with a reason why I don't want to meet members, I am quite sure some of them won't like it. I put things like

"Sorry there is only 1 line of text on your profile"

"You're too far away"

XXX

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then"

Not entirely sure where you think lying will get you - the best thing you can do if you want to get replies (and even then there are no guarantees) is make sure you have the best profile you can possibly write that shows you in a positive light and makes you stand out, telling people about you, what you're looking for and can offer - back it up with decent pics that show you off.

When you contact people do so with respect and consideration and not the slightest hint of entitlement, all without any expectation of a reply, so when you do get one it's a nice bonus.

Get along to organised socials and clubs, and consider getting more involved in the forums - which are all great ways to get to know people and get yourself known.

Ultimately your chances of "success" in this site are in your hands to a large extent so you have to look at how you can maximise those chances without having any expectations

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

OP. May I ask why you have not replied to every person who took the time and effort to respond to your post. Disgraceful behaviour. So rude. No manners ! Tut tut

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By *lla_maiWoman over a year ago

staffordshire

"OP. May I ask why you have not replied to every person who took the time and effort to respond to your post. Disgraceful behaviour. So rude. No manners ! Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP. May I ask why you have not replied to every person who took the time and effort to respond to your post. Disgraceful behaviour. So rude. No manners ! Tut tut

Boom, boom!!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"OP. May I ask why you have not replied to every person who took the time and effort to respond to your post. Disgraceful behaviour. So rude. No manners ! Tut tut

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Check mate above Op.

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By *he Silver FuxMan over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then"

Please don’t lie through your teeth and waste their time running from the social meet. Costa is getting fed up letting Fab ladies out the back way...

For fucks sake your profile pic looks evil and angry, and the other one is a pic of your cock with a pair of glasses on (‘that’s sooo funny, it’s such a classic cock pic, I want to have sex with him’). No woman has ever read your profile let alone read a message from you. Are you so socially illiterate that you think you have a right to complain here?

In the animal kingdom bright colours are often used to indicate danger and warn off other animals, insects might be poisonous for example; in your case your profile is useful because it dissuades Fab fems from approaching and running the risk that something unpleasant might happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then

Please don’t lie through your teeth and waste their time running from the social meet. Costa is getting fed up letting Fab ladies out the back way...

Nicely worded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then"

Just dont bother... simples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to admit I am having a chuckle about the OP qualifying to meet certain members. I tend to reply these days with a reason why I don't want to meet members, I am quite sure some of them won't like it. I put things like

"Sorry there is only 1 line of text on your profile"

"You're too far away"

XXX

Great, i have way more than one line in my profile and i'm about half a hour's drive away. Thanks for the heads up.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"Send email...delete."

^^^THIS

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By *ot40sCouple over a year ago

birmingham

"Imagine you're in a market. You're there to buy something nice.

Every single stall seller thinks they're selling something "nice".

So each of them are shouting at you to buy something from their stall.

Do you stop at every single one and reply to them?

This is what it's like for ladies on this site.

It literally says in the site rules that no reply means they're not interested.

Women can get over 100 messages every day. Do you really expect them to spend 2 mins replying to each one? That's nearly three hours of their day.

Please stop being so entitled, and try to think of this from other people's point of view. "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hmm slightly aggressive.

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By *ophleeCouple over a year ago

Fareham

We find that manners cost nothing so a simple return messages is deserved by anyone that makes the effort to read out profile and say Hi, whether it's a yes or no to conversation or more is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies

Perhaps I should just lie through my teeth, yes I do still have some, instead of being honest then"

Yeah that should do it.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"We find that manners cost nothing so a simple return messages is deserved by anyone that makes the effort to read out profile and say Hi, whether it's a yes or no to conversation or more is irrelevant"

Aren't you lucky to have that kind of time on your hands!

Imagine if you got over a hundred. Some people don't have that many hours in the day to reply to each one.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Some people reply, some don't, if you accept this your time on the site will probably be more enjoyable

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