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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so again (from the right profile lol) just wondered how many couples want to meet other couples ? it's our ultimate wish but find it hard to meet compatible others .
if so does it work for you? any rules? any tips ? ( other than losing a few stone immediately of course ) 
thanks in advance sorry for 2nd post ( post night shift brain)
k x |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"so again (from the right profile lol) just wondered how many couples want to meet other couples ? it's our ultimate wish but find it hard to meet compatible others .
if so does it work for you? any rules? any tips ? ( other than losing a few stone immediately of course )
thanks in advance sorry for 2nd post ( post night shift brain)
k x "
We always found it far easier to meet couples at socials or clubs. On here its a bit hit and miss as lots of couples are actually just single men... not all of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The dynamics for couples to meet other couples - it's easier to win the lottery... twice!
There's always the scenario... males like the females, but unfortunately mostly it's just that! For the females to like BOTH males is like finding a needle in a giant haystack.
Mrs marms and myself find it much easier to meet in our local club, if we don't see anyone we like, we can still have a great night out anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday  "
Have you tried mingles in Colchester |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester "
Think they're up north |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester
yes we are in Cheshire we are going to try Atlantis soon..#scared to death lol x
Think they're up north "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has to be some mutual attraction for all parties.
Maybe put a pic up of him on your profile aswell!
As for rules we have one key one.
Neither "takes one for the Team"
We have seen couples where one is hot and we both like them but the other really doesnt do anything for either of us
After one mistake early on we make sure both tick the right boxes for both of us.
When you chat be open about what your looking for and where both couples bounderies are.. but when it comes to in the middle be open about wanting to do something extra if it comes to you.
Some times it gets knocked back sometimes it gets a hell yeah!
We have expressed a wish to do things within the meet that just popped up that both couples would have veto'd before hand
But in the moment felt right and everyone was happy with it.
Just be careful to suggest
Not demand
Also
As with any meet
Remember there are other people in this situation.
We have blocked lots of hot couples because all their messages were about how we could help them have fun or what they are going to get out of it.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester "
Apologies, you meant us, sorry. No we haven't yet, only been to clubs abroad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester
Think they're up north "
I actually meant you both  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester
Think they're up north
I actually meant you both "
I know! Just apologised above, need my afternoon nap!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There has to be some mutual attraction for all parties.
Maybe put a pic up of him on your profile aswell!
As for rules we have one key one.
Neither "takes one for the Team"
We have seen couples where one is hot and we both like them but the other really doesnt do anything for either of us
After one mistake early on we make sure both tick the right boxes for both of us.
When you chat be open about what your looking for and where both couples bounderies are.. but when it comes to in the middle be open about wanting to do something extra if it comes to you.
Some times it gets knocked back sometimes it gets a hell yeah!
We have expressed a wish to do things within the meet that just popped up that both couples would have veto'd before hand
But in the moment felt right and everyone was happy with it.
Just be careful to suggest
Not demand
Also
As with any meet
Remember there are other people in this situation.
We have blocked lots of hot couples because all their messages were about how we could help them have fun or what they are going to get out of it.
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thankyou so much x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester
Think they're up north
I actually meant you both
I know! Just apologised above, need my afternoon nap! "
It gets like that when you reach out age I guess! Haha... 45.. going on 65 here recently.
You should try mingles... lovely people there and accept everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No problem
We were nervous as hell when we started and didnt have a clue what we were doing amd we havent forgotten how it felt
happy to share info or advise anytime |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester
Think they're up north
I actually meant you both
I know! Just apologised above, need my afternoon nap!
It gets like that when you reach out age I guess! Haha... 45.. going on 65 here recently.
You should try mingles... lovely people there and accept everyone "
Tell me about it! I've heard its good, have several friends who go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have struggled on here. It is difficult to get four compatible people, so social is always best, first time. We too have been more successful in club meets, whilst on holiday
Have you tried mingles in Colchester
Think they're up north
I actually meant you both
I know! Just apologised above, need my afternoon nap!
It gets like that when you reach out age I guess! Haha... 45.. going on 65 here recently.
You should try mingles... lovely people there and accept everyone
Tell me about it! I've heard its good, have several friends who go "
I would tell you... but can't message you  Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No problem
We were nervous as hell when we started and didnt have a clue what we were doing amd we havent forgotten how it felt
happy to share info or advise anytime"
much appreciated thankyou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we first joined we wanted to meet couples. I realised very quickly it wasn't for me. Chatting to them was hard work. I've still to this day to have a good conversation with one. Also when we were at a club playing I found it a bit stop start. Had an mmf after that and it blew the mfmf out the water. In my opinion couples aren't a patch on single guys so stick to that x |
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"When we first joined we wanted to meet couples. I realised very quickly it wasn't for me. Chatting to them was hard work. I've still to this day to have a good conversation with one. Also when we were at a club playing I found it a bit stop start. Had an mmf after that and it blew the mfmf out the water. In my opinion couples aren't a patch on single guys so stick to that x"
Mr would kill me lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When we first joined we wanted to meet couples. I realised very quickly it wasn't for me. Chatting to them was hard work. I've still to this day to have a good conversation with one. Also when we were at a club playing I found it a bit stop start. Had an mmf after that and it blew the mfmf out the water. In my opinion couples aren't a patch on single guys so stick to that x
Mr would kill me lol x "
Why? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When we first joined we wanted to meet couples. I realised very quickly it wasn't for me. Chatting to them was hard work. I've still to this day to have a good conversation with one. Also when we were at a club playing I found it a bit stop start. Had an mmf after that and it blew the mfmf out the water. In my opinion couples aren't a patch on single guys so stick to that x
Mr would kill me lol x
Why? X"
he wants to play with other women not just men x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When we first joined we wanted to meet couples. I realised very quickly it wasn't for me. Chatting to them was hard work. I've still to this day to have a good conversation with one. Also when we were at a club playing I found it a bit stop start. Had an mmf after that and it blew the mfmf out the water. In my opinion couples aren't a patch on single guys so stick to that x
Mr would kill me lol x
Why? X
he wants to play with other women not just men x"
I meant to say "in my opinion couples aren't a patch on single guys so I just stick to that" I wasn't suggesting you do that lol sorry for the confusion. Uch try both. It's not your fault if mmf happens first pmsl x |
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