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Verifications do you tell the truth.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chating to this man about feed-back he had given a person thinking it must have been a lovely meet he said he cant always tell the real truth as he would end up getting back bad feed-back himself. So is there alot of this about. Why some dont go on verifictions.? I do always read if meeting myself . |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
leicester |
"Was chating to this man about feed-back he had given a person thinking it must have been a lovely meet he said he cant always tell the real truth as he would end up getting back bad feed-back himself. So is there alot of this about. Why some dont go on verifictions.? I do always read if meeting myself . "
I haven't given any yet but i think i'd have to tell the truth, or not say anything instead of lying... With that in mind, now if i knew the person was 100% genuine for a fact but i hadn't met up... i'd have no problem verifying them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would always tell the truth if i were to verify someone 
if it really was a bad one, like if the person was not a nice person at all, i wouldn't even make a verification  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would always tell the truth if i were to verify someone
if it really was a bad one, like if the person was not a nice person at all, i wouldn't even make a verification "
If he was a miserable sod, who just wanted a bj, then i wouldnt leave him one either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am good at leaving feedback that is true... but perhaps doesnt mention the short comings..
And actually if I read.
"he was great with his fingers and tongue." I read that as "but he is a crap fuck" lol sorry but I do..
Cali |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I tend to be circumspect on mine.
I meet a lot of peeps, not all of whom are 'officially' bi, so I don't like to put, he did me repeatedly and with great enthusiasm whilst his wife cheered him on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am good at leaving feedback that is true... but perhaps doesnt mention the short comings..
And actually if I read.
"he was great with his fingers and tongue." I read that as "but he is a crap fuck" lol sorry but I do..
I supose you could do, not all men are good with their fingers and tongue though are they.
Cali "
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Was chating to this man about feed-back he had given a person thinking it must have been a lovely meet he said he cant always tell the real truth as he would end up getting back bad feed-back himself. So is there alot of this about. Why some dont go on verifictions.? I do always read if meeting myself . "
Think you can often read between the lines with some verifications.
We are of the opinion with verifications, if we have nothing nice to say, then we don't say anything at all.
I always read them too but then I am a nosey buggar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to read verifications to see if any of my friends have been there. If they have I will ask them what they think of that person. Not in a sexual way but more out of safety.
I am personally not interested in being verified and tend to only display them for a short while to be polite and then they are taken off.
But if I meet someone and dont particularly rate that person for whatever reason I simply do not verify them and also do not display theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to read verifications to see if any of my friends have been there. If they have I will ask them what they think of that person. Not in a sexual way but more out of safety.
I am personally not interested in being verified and tend to only display them for a short while to be polite and then they are taken off.
But if I meet someone and dont particularly rate that person for whatever reason I simply do not verify them and also do not display theirs. "
i can fully understand this |
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"I tend to read verifications to see if any of my friends have been there. If they have I will ask them what they think of that person. Not in a sexual way but more out of safety.
I am personally not interested in being verified and tend to only display them for a short while to be polite and then they are taken off.
But if I meet someone and dont particularly rate that person for whatever reason I simply do not verify them and also do not display theirs. "
Yes you're a crap............. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, since you have to send the verification to the person that you have met, they choose whether or not to have negative feedback added to their profile. Now, who's going to put a bad comment on their own profile?
No-one....end of.
Now there are loads of other discussions on the forum that can actually end in some kind of resolution, so lets move on to one of those! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they may not display a bad verification but they have to look at it every time they get a new one and for that reason I have been know to leave the odd bad one  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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For me verifications are just a snapshot of an experience with another person, or a couple of a particular moment/ evening or whatever. I would not praise an experience if it was not good, then again if it was great I would certainly say so. If in doubt, I would probably not give a verification |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes...if i had a bad meet,and i havnt yet, i would just not leave feedback."
I am the same as you ... and i would not make things up just to keep people happy here i see no point .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no point in not telling the truth
You can't really show bad feedback as if it was bad you wouldn't show it"
your right and some of the men here who dont have it or not alot .. love getting some as feel it helps them get a swing-date . |
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