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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it 
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a different sensation to a normal BJ and to be regarded as a special bonus & not the norm.
It had almost become a thing to achieve like squirting has and to feel inadequate if you cant do it.
I get more pleasure when looking deep into their eyes as I'm being sucked, that's intensely sexy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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Learn to enjoy gagging, hubby loves it and a lot of men do  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Makes no odds to me whether someone can or can't do it, or any other activity really - what's key is that both people enjoy whatever experience is shared between them and discovering which particular buttons to press to make that happen in each individual case.
Sex is about a journey of mutual pleasure more than a series of tick boxes that have to be chalked off for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve tried, I can’t, I have the world’s most efficient gag reflex. I also can’t squirt (apart from once with a very surprising lady who has sadly since left Fab).
And, as an earlier poster said, this can and does make me feel inadequate and in some way deficient at times.
However; I am reliably informed that, despite the inability to deepthroat, my BJs are more than satisfactory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't care less aslong as you're enjoying what you're doing.
It's like squirting it not really relevant but Seems to much porn has made people expect this to be the norm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love gagging on cock but that's just me. I do have to come for a breather every so often mind you.
I think guys aren't too fussed as long as it's in your mouth lol.
~mia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had blowjobs where the ladies gag reflex was non existent, swallowed the entire thing with no effort.
Being honest, it took me by surprise and was one of those holy fuck moments  but it was pretty intense, slightly uncomfortable, I couldn’t relax.
Personally i much prefer it slowed down a bit where I can lay back, relax and enjoy it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a different sensation to a normal BJ and to be regarded as a special bonus & not the norm.
It had almost become a thing to achieve like squirting has and to feel inadequate if you cant do it.
I get more pleasure when looking deep into their eyes as I'm being sucked, that's intensely sexy.
Just my opinion "
I agree its more sensual looking into someone's eyes when performing oral then having your head down trying to get as much cock down your throat as possible gagging in the process I don't think that's sexy at all! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
Learn to enjoy gagging, hubby loves it and a lot of men do "
I really can't when I gag it's not sexy and I feel Im going to throw up ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
Learn to enjoy gagging, hubby loves it and a lot of men do "
Sorry - have to disagree here
I love giving head and deepthroating, but I would never learn to enjoy (read- put up with it) for the sole sexual enjoyment of another. A balance has to be struck and compromises meant. If a relationship - sexual or otherwise, falls on that then so be it.
Certainly most guys are surprised that I can, do and enjoy deepthroating so it is not a norm (though I had assumed it more popular than it is).
We have more about us than gag reflexes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Makes no odds to me whether someone can or can't do it, or any other activity really - what's key is that both people enjoy whatever experience is shared between them and discovering which particular buttons to press to make that happen in each individual case.
Sex is about a journey of mutual pleasure more than a series of tick boxes that have to be chalked off for me "
I agree with you totally sex is much better learning/sharing experiences together rather than being told the last girl I met gave such great deep throat ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter. If you've got your lips round their cock they should be eternally grateful or at least cum where you want it. "
To be fair most men are extremely grateful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve tried, I can’t, I have the world’s most efficient gag reflex. I also can’t squirt (apart from once with a very surprising lady who has sadly since left Fab).
And, as an earlier poster said, this can and does make me feel inadequate and in some way deficient at times.
However; I am reliably informed that, despite the inability to deepthroat, my BJs are more than satisfactory. "
We sound very similar I'm glad I'm not the only one thank you |
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I much prefer for lips and tongue to work on the more sensitive part (head) while gripping the shaft and playing with my balls.
I’ve suffered a hernia from the most intense BJ sucking a few years back. A girl in Barnet would open the door wearing next to nothing. Greet me with a kiss while undoing my trousers, push me on the stairs and suck me hard. It was so intense and erotic that me thrusting in tandem gave me a hernia.
I miss her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Far too much emphasis is placed upon size, ability, stamina, age, shape...I could go on.
What many are truly missing is the connection that could have been and hense something very special. It's all about the enjoyment that is happening between the people whatever their activity, ability or inability with some things.
We all can easily feel inadequate no matter who we are.
There are many I've never messaged simply because one look at their photos and I think... Too gorgeous and too many chasing them to actually even get a reply let alone a chance to meet. |
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I was deepthroated once by a girl without her gagging, it was intensly sexy, until she started going at 100mph which always kills it for me. I like slooow with surprise sprints and then back to slow.
My ex, bless her, tried to deepthroat me so many times, but always gagged, and I'd have to stop her. I don't think that many women enjoy gagging (but I could be wrong). For me, nothing kills the mood quicker than my partner not enjoying it. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Makes no odds to me whether someone can or can't do it, or any other activity really - what's key is that both people enjoy whatever experience is shared between them and discovering which particular buttons to press to make that happen in each individual case.
Sex is about a journey of mutual pleasure more than a series of tick boxes that have to be chalked off for me
I agree with you totally sex is much better learning/sharing experiences together rather than being told the last girl I met gave such great deep throat !"
Frankly anyone that tells a partner that a previous partner did something better or could do something sexually you can't is somewhat lacking in the respect department!!
We're all different and have different ways of doing things and that's part of the joy of swinging, having the freedom to experience and enjoy those differences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I much prefer a lady enjoying a blow job than feeling sick at gagging
Besides most of the sensation for me is around the tip and shaft x "
I watched YouTube and learnt the tip is very sensitive so I love to lick and suck seductively while looking in a guys eyes it's much more sexy than head down and gagging lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Couldn't care less aslong as you're enjoying what you're doing.
It's like squirting it not really relevant but Seems to much porn has made people expect this to be the norm"
I love pleasing but just feel inadequate when being compared to others.
I can't squirt either lol.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love gagging on cock but that's just me. I do have to come for a breather every so often mind you.
I think guys aren't too fussed as long as it's in your mouth lol.
~mia"
I've never had any complaints about my performance just the last 2 guys kept going on about how good deep throat is which I can't do! |
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Wow this post is very interesting! An awful lot of you fella's aren't bothered about deepthroat, its been a big shock to see the amount of guys say deepthroat doesnt matter, makes me quite happy, I wont work my throat as hard from now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I mostly enjoy any blowjobs, whatever the technique (luckily, only ever had 1 bad one, in my life). Deepthroat is just a bonus.
I definitely appreciate the effort, when someone really wants to, and gives it the old college try - even if she can't quite take it all.
When it comes to watching deepthroat videos, it only turns me on, if the girl makes it look effortless... balls deep, with a smile.
Porn-style gagging, puking and messed up mascara, is not my cup of tea. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had one lady do this spontaneously. She assured me she likes it but I'm not that keen, so I never ask for it."
I know some men don't enjoy
I wonder if she really liked it or just felt pressurised! |
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There is a danger... Once you get good at deepthroating its all the guy wants as it does feel really good...
I hate mess though so as soon as i hit my limit and mess may follow the deepthroating has to stop.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve had blowjobs where the ladies gag reflex was non existent, swallowed the entire thing with no effort.
Being honest, it took me by surprise and was one of those holy fuck moments but it was pretty intense, slightly uncomfortable, I couldn’t relax.
Personally i much prefer it slowed down a bit where I can lay back, relax and enjoy it. "
I think the majority of men are like you thankfully! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are other ways to give a good blow job, gagging is great if you’re bragging to mates down the pub but otherwise it’s not important if you’re both having a good time"
A good time is what it's all about! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I much prefer for lips and tongue to work on the more sensitive part (head) while gripping the shaft and playing with my balls.
I’ve suffered a hernia from the most intense BJ sucking a few years back. A girl in Barnet would open the door wearing next to nothing. Greet me with a kiss while undoing my trousers, push me on the stairs and suck me hard. It was so intense and erotic that me thrusting in tandem gave me a hernia.
I miss her"
A hernia ! And you miss her bloody hell she must of been good ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Far too much emphasis is placed upon size, ability, stamina, age, shape...I could go on.
What many are truly missing is the connection that could have been and hense something very special. It's all about the enjoyment that is happening between the people whatever their activity, ability or inability with some things.
We all can easily feel inadequate no matter who we are.
There are many I've never messaged simply because one look at their photos and I think... Too gorgeous and too many chasing them to actually even get a reply let alone a chance to meet. "
Very true words ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was deepthroated once by a girl without her gagging, it was intensly sexy, until she started going at 100mph which always kills it for me. I like slooow with surprise sprints and then back to slow.
My ex, bless her, tried to deepthroat me so many times, but
always gagged, and I'd have to stop her. I don't think that many women enjoy gagging (but I could be wrong). For me, nothing kills the mood quicker than my partner not enjoying it."
Exactly it's about you both enjoying the moment together ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Makes no odds to me whether someone can or can't do it, or any other activity really - what's key is that both people enjoy whatever experience is shared between them and discovering which particular buttons to press to make that happen in each individual case.
Sex is about a journey of mutual pleasure more than a series of tick boxes that have to be chalked off for me
I agree with you totally sex is much better learning/sharing experiences together rather than being told the last girl I met gave such great deep throat !
Frankly anyone that tells a partner that a previous partner did something better or could do something sexually you can't is somewhat lacking in the respect department!!
We're all different and have different ways of doing things and that's part of the joy of swinging, having the freedom to experience and enjoy those differences "
Exactly!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Makes no odds to me whether someone can or can't do it, or any other activity really - what's key is that both people enjoy whatever experience is shared between them and discovering which particular buttons to press to make that happen in each individual case.
Sex is about a journey of mutual pleasure more than a series of tick boxes that have to be chalked off for me
I agree with you totally sex is much better learning/sharing experiences together rather than being told the last girl I met gave such great deep throat !
Frankly anyone that tells a partner that a previous partner did something better or could do something sexually you can't is somewhat lacking in the respect department!!
We're all different and have different ways of doing things and that's part of the joy of swinging, having the freedom to experience and enjoy those differences "
Exactly!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wow this post is very interesting! An awful lot of you fella's aren't bothered about deepthroat, its been a big shock to see the amount of guys say deepthroat doesnt matter, makes me quite happy, I wont work my throat as hard from now "
I thought that too lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I mostly enjoy any blowjobs, whatever the technique (luckily, only ever had 1 bad one, in my life). Deepthroat is just a bonus.
I definitely appreciate the effort, when someone really wants to, and gives it the old college try - even if she can't quite take it all.
Yep if it looks sexy it's a turn on.
But make up down your face and eyes watering is not a good look!
When it comes to watching deepthroat videos, it only turns me on, if the girl makes it look effortless... balls deep, with a smile.
Porn-style gagging, puking and messed up mascara, is not my cup of tea."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There is a danger... Once you get good at deepthroating its all the guy wants as it does feel really good...
I hate mess though so as soon as i hit my limit and mess may follow the deepthroating has to stop.... "
Hmmm youre right some guys prefer their cock being sucked than having full sex ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep reading threads like this all about body parts and mechanics and some concept that there is a right way and a wrong way to fuck.
The only way that matters is what two or more do together to share mutual pleasure. There is no right way wrong way or scorecard that we have to complete or a range of physical manoeuvres that have to be completed when we meet.
There is only the way that satisfies the needs of those who do meet while they meet....
Maybe I'm just doing this wrong but I hope not.
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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I too love giving head and sometimes I can deep throat and other times I can't .
It all depends on the cock and your position. If I am on the bed head off the end then it's easier at times.
Lets face it some cocks are just too big to deep throat no matter how many odd positions you get in.
I don't particularly like gagging...has been known of course but I prefer just watching them enjoy getting a blowjob. No one has ever complained if not deep throat so I'll just continue doing what I'm doing when the occasion arises |
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Hi OP!!
Gorgeous profile. If ever you’d enjoy practicing deepthroat, I’d be a very willing recipient 
Particularly enjoyed your current status too re. Tv remote. My last photo oops! Show me those basketballs. |
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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Yes it makes a huge difference. It's like having champagne instead of lager. You know it's a rare skill & really appreciate the effort. If you're really lucky she's a natural & does it with ease slowly going down & down till she's at the root looking up at you all the time.
The orgasm is intense as you cum in her throat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love gagging on cock but that's just me. I do have to come for a breather every so often mind you.
I think guys aren't too fussed as long as it's in your mouth lol.
~mia
I've never had any complaints about my performance just the last 2 guys kept going on about how good deep throat is which I can't do!"
I would just ignore folk like that! If you've never had any complaints then they are obviously just expecting too much off you. Don't feel bad for not being able to do something that is quite frankly a rarity and for not enjoying gagging cause it's quite normal.
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's been an interesting read.
I've never had anyone able to do it to me and I sometimes wonder what it would feel like but it's not such a big deal for me.
I can't imaging making a fuss over it or making someone feel bad for not being able. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Never met a woman who could manage it to be honest. "
I have and it made my eyes expand when I felt it go down. Was smiling a long time afterwards. Still do when she does it. |
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Having only ever really had porn to compare to I always felt extremely inadequate “down there” and although I still know I’m not the biggest I also know I’m not too small either. Having said that, one of my ex’s actually tried to deepthroat me once and actually threw up in my lap. I didn’t know whether to be disgusted or happy that I was actually big enough to make someone throw up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
Noooo if your giving 100% and you get off on it how could anyone complain??
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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What matters most is the 100% you are giving! I know girls who have gag reflex like you do and yet couple of them are actually deepthroating just for that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I too love giving head and sometimes I can deep throat and other times I can't .
It all depends on the cock and your position. If I am on the bed head off the end then it's easier at times.
Lets face it some cocks are just too big to deep throat no matter how many odd positions you get in.
I don't particularly like gagging...has been known of course but I prefer just watching them enjoy getting a blowjob. No one has ever complained if not deep throat so I'll just continue doing what I'm doing when the occasion arises "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really enjoy the sensation and sight of being deepthroated but it's not the be all and end all of blowjobs. I've had great blowjobs without deepthroat, and terrible ones with it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Even though deepthoats are nice, nothing beats working just the tip "
I love the tip and love looking in a guys eyes when I'm circling the tip with my tongue ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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If I haven't replied to your post thanks for messaging
It seems the majority of men love a blow job and it's a bonus if the girl can deep throat I feel so much better thank you guys xx
Thanks to the ladies who gave some tips on deep throating I'll have to try them out xx
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For me a deep threat BJ does nothing for me, a throat is just a hole and people gagging or spitting on my cock is a total turn off. Keep doing what you do, I love the feel of a tongue on the sensitive part of my cock which is the head. Leave the porno wannabes to do what they want. |
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"It doesn't matter. If you've got your lips round their cock they should be eternally grateful or at least cum where you want it.
To be fair most men are extremely grateful "
They will be grateful for any oral action, right up to the point where they meet a deep throat queen. After that, well, the gag girls are just vanilla. That's why the tv's do so well, most of them can deep throat quite easily 6 or 7 inches & many can take even more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy giving blow jobs and guys have always enjoyed my skills I put in 100%
But I've never been able to deep throat I've tried and tried but a cock touching the back of my throat makes me gag!
I've read many articles about it and watched loads of videos but just can't do it
I just want to know from you guys does it really matter?
Or does it turn you on having a girl swallow your cock?
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It does not matter to me at all if a girl can deep throat. I sensual blow job blows my mind |
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"There is a danger... Once you get good at deepthroating its all the guy wants as it does feel really good...
I hate mess though so as soon as i hit my limit and mess may follow the deepthroating has to stop....
Hmmm youre right some guys prefer their cock being sucked than having full sex !"
Exactly right..... I find that especially annoying so i try to avoid the face fucking scenario unless that really is all i'm in the mood for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing better than a hot guy pushing your head down onto his hard cock making you gag as you try and take his length  "
There are many things better than this  |
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