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Lazy

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have met and enjoy the true friendship of a good number of fab members..but what gets me is you write to a member with advice or to ask if they are interested in chatting or meeting and they don't reply why cant a member who is not interested and have no intention of replying block the messenger that why the sender knows .

What are your views

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Sounds whiney.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Typo error..

Should read if not interested block messenger that way the sender knows and moves on..it dont take no effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Trust you are not glowing out under the spire..yes it is a wine but hey I try to answer most..

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nothing to say they're obliged to reply or take any action at all OP - in fact site FAQs state no reply is an acceptable way of saying no thanks.

It's really not worth worrying about - just accept that no reply means no interest

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Its a case of damned if you do and damned if you don't. For every person who prefers to be blocked there's another who will start a thread entitled "blocked for no reason". You just can't win.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why can't people just use the site how they want and not worry about what others do?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Why can't people just use the site how they want and not worry about what others do? "

I do. And i dont.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have met and enjoy the true friendship of a good number of fab members..but what gets me is you write to a member with advice or to ask if they are interested in chatting or meeting and they don't reply why cant a member who is not interested and have no intention of replying block the messenger that why the sender knows .

What are your views "

If you don't get a reply within say a week, you could block them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*shrugs*

I'm too lazy to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks but you see you are polite and reply but I take on your views. .good comment..

Guess I'm all school manors cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So dam olde don't read before I press send...old school thanks again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is the actual finishing school etiquette on replying to messages?

I don't think its rude to not reply to an unasked for message, it would be rude to tell you to fuck off.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

I hate the phrase "manners cost nothing".

As if monetary cost is the only thing preventing people from replying to messages.

Why should people spend 2 minutes answering a message when there could be upward of a hundred in a woman's mailbox a day?

Would you have 3hrs a day just writing "thanks for the message, but no thanks"??

I'd rather be shagging. Lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't understand why the thread title is 'Lazy' but the OP is a moan about a perceived lack of manners.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The lack of a reply is probably a good indication of the lack of interest... unless you are clicking refresh every 5 seconds to see if they have written back it shouldnt make a huge difference

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