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By *ryme101 OP Man
over a year ago
wiltshire |
Hi all, wasn't sure if I should post this on one of the other message boards.
Long story short, I've come into a wee bit of money (we aren't talking squillions) from the sale of a house I had with my ex. After 6 years of being careful and never really having a super holiday abroad I thought it time to treat myself but lo and behold I'm single!!
I don't want to go away by myself and don't fancy trawling around pof to get "in a relationship" just to go on holiday with someone
What would your advice be on maybe finding someone on here for a week away? It doesn't actually have to be sexual, as long as we got on so a week in the sun is fun rather than stressful! Of course if anything did happen then brill but that's not my complete goal
I haven't booked anything yet as want to keep it flexible but to be brutally honest a room for 2 isn't much more than a room for one, so whoever comes could have their travel and accommodation paid for so they only need spending money
Just figured it's time for a treat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in, where are we off to champ. 
Lol
Unfortunately I have plenty of bloke mates who would come....i maybe should have been more specific
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Yeah maybe |
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By *ryme101 OP Man
over a year ago
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"also if it's not sexual why not go with one of your mates?"
It doesn't have to be sexual but if that happened then great. To be honest my mates would either want a piss up for a week or wouldn't be allowed to come! I'm thinking more of a couples holiday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you thought about the likelihood that halfway through the holiday you will find out you irritate the sh*t out of each other. Sharing a room and an 'artificial' relationship for a week rarely ends well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your best bet would be to find a regular nsa partner or 2 and mention it to them?
I'd go on holiday with one if my fbs but only because I know and trust them, I don't know about other women but I would never ever go on holiday with a complete stranger regardless if they were paying or not. |
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"Your best bet would be to find a regular nsa partner or 2 and mention it to them?
I'd go on holiday with one if my fbs but only because I know and trust them, I don't know about other women but I would never ever go on holiday with a complete stranger regardless if they were paying or not."
Agree! Would never skip off to a foreign country with a stranger! Or anywhere in the Uk for that matter |
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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago
Manchester City Centre |
I came into a bit of money 2 years ago...
Totally unexpected...
Bought a Brand New Car,
And then drove it across Europe a few times...
Never asked any friends, as I knew if I did, it would give me an excuse not to go...
i.e. “I never went in the end, ‘cause no one wanted to go with me”
I just booked the ferry, and left 2 days later
I knew I would talk myself out if it if I didn’t just go for it... and I actually made loads of friends out there, on both trips...
Trip #1
Ferry from Hull to Rotterdam - Amsterdam - Antwerp - Home via Channel Tunnel
Trip #2
Channel Tunnel to Ghent - Brussels - Cologne - Hannover - Berlin - Hamburg - Antwerp - Home via Channel Tunnel
Well worth it, great adventure
- Planned nothing (except meeting a friend in Berlin for a few days on my second trip)
- Booked nothing (except last minute hotels via booking.com)
- Did minimal research
My advice...
If no one wants to go... go on your own.
Trust me... you’ll love it
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Go on your own...that way you get to do all the things you want to do, when you want to do them.
I've done it twice and would highly recommend it "
I rarely have anyone to go away with so go on my own. It's much better than being on best behaviour for a total stranger
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with all the comments above . I looked at going abroad alone. An I can’t even goto a bar alone. I found some nice fitness boot camps in Ibiza. If I’m busy doing something time flys. An it’s shared rooms like dorms. Not everyone s cup of tea.
Just saying there’s more out there than your standard beach holiday  |
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"Go on your own...that way you get to do all the things you want to do, when you want to do them.
I've done it twice and would highly recommend it "
This! I’ve done it too and it really is quite liberating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"also what if she meets someone on day 3 and starts showing interest in them? this could turn into a very long and difficult week, I'd think very hard about it  "
Good question!  |
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"also what if she meets someone on day 3 and starts showing interest in them? this could turn into a very long and difficult week, I'd think very hard about it "
That would be a dream for me, get to be a cuckold holiday slave for the remainder of the holiday |
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A female that you don't know well who puts herself in a hotel room with a man a very long way from home is vulnerable and at risk. It is a potentially highly dangerous position to be in op. The fact that a man would have paid for her holiday also adds unspoken pressure.
Fab often has such free holiday offers.
Have sex anywhere. Get a fb and travel or date and then travel. Or if it's companionship, arrange a holiday with any gender that you know and go and find your sex somewhere else.
A holiday should be mutually chosen and come without silent forces of pressure or risks. I think a woman should have a separate lockable room for security and that you should take a friend along.
There's also the closure of the sale of your old home and ensuring that this money is spent wisely and with a positive outcome for you. Holidays stress all relationships, so ensure your next dating experience has ideal foundations and not unduly stressed. |
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By *ryme101 OP Man
over a year ago
wiltshire |
"I came into a bit of money 2 years ago...
Totally unexpected...
Bought a Brand New Car,
And then drove it across Europe a few times...
Never asked any friends, as I knew if I did, it would give me an excuse not to go...
i.e. “I never went in the end, ‘cause no one wanted to go with me”
I just booked the ferry, and left 2 days later
I knew I would talk myself out if it if I didn’t just go for it... and I actually made loads of friends out there, on both trips...
Trip #1
Ferry from Hull to Rotterdam - Amsterdam - Antwerp - Home via Channel Tunnel
Trip #2
Channel Tunnel to Ghent - Brussels - Cologne - Hannover - Berlin - Hamburg - Antwerp - Home via Channel Tunnel
Well worth it, great adventure
- Planned nothing (except meeting a friend in Berlin for a few days on my second trip)
- Booked nothing (except last minute hotels via booking.com)
- Did minimal research
My advice...
If no one wants to go... go on your own.
Trust me... you’ll love it
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Lots of ideas there, thanks alot! |
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