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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair us men get shit messages too from single women and they’re just as quick to get abusive when they get turned down. It’s just that there are a lot more men on here so they stand out more and us men don’t go on forums whinging about the shit messages we receive. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"To be fair us men get shit messages too from single women and they’re just as quick to get abusive when they get turned down. It’s just that there are a lot more men on here so they stand out more and us men don’t go on forums whinging about the shit messages we receive. "
Fair point, but plenty of forum posts why they don't get replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair us men get shit messages too from single women and they’re just as quick to get abusive when they get turned down. It’s just that there are a lot more men on here so they stand out more and us men don’t go on forums whinging about the shit messages we receive.
Fair point, but plenty of forum posts why they don't get replies. "
Yep, can’t argue with that one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must be Friday 
I'll just wander away quietly create another sonnet that will nevet be read finish this game of solo 3D chess and contemplate the philosophy of interpersonal relationships....
whilst wondering why single guys are lumped together as some amorphous blob who are all a blot on the landscape of fab...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair us men get shit messages too from single women and they’re just as quick to get abusive when they get turned down. It’s just that there are a lot more men on here so they stand out more and us men don’t go on forums whinging about the shit messages we receive. "
You just did |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"I've never had that one. At least they wrote more than a one word. The '?' are the funniest."
Your right, that's very irritating when they do that. I get that on WhatsApp usually about 3 at a time, guaranteed to block them. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"It must be Friday
I'll just wander away quietly create another sonnet that will nevet be read finish this game of solo 3D chess and contemplate the philosophy of interpersonal relationships....
whilst wondering why single guys are lumped together as some amorphous blob who are all a blot on the landscape of fab...
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Sorry, your right as some are truly wonderful but in the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair us men get shit messages too from single women and they’re just as quick to get abusive when they get turned down. It’s just that there are a lot more men on here so they stand out more and us men don’t go on forums whinging about the shit messages we receive.
You just did "
Pipe down you  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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There's some nice single guys here is just about being honest isnt it about wants and expectations.
There is a married lier on here also that follows the same pattern of behaviour its just a shame sometimes us girls are not a bit more open with each other and talk. 
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"There's some nice single guys here is just about being honest isnt it about wants and expectations.
There is a married lier on here also that follows the same pattern of behaviour its just a shame sometimes us girls are not a bit more open with each other and talk.
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely."
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely.
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time. "
We dont have that problem. Im happy to be nice to all who bother messaging. |
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"It must be Friday
I'll just wander away quietly create another sonnet that will nevet be read finish this game of solo 3D chess and contemplate the philosophy of interpersonal relationships....
whilst wondering why single guyare lumped together as some amorphous blob who are all a blot on the landscape of fab...
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Not all guys xx |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
PDI Gran Canaria |
"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely.
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time.
We dont have that problem. Im happy to be nice to all who bother messaging."
I can understand some may want to reply to that type of message, so good on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely.
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time.
We dont have that problem. Im happy to be nice to all who bother messaging."
That just isn't true. I tried that approach when I was first on here and many men immediately shifted to abuse, nagging or, frequently, attempts to get a pity shag. It's nasty as well as time consuming.
For the first few months I'd occasionally respond to a crap one line message and very very few respond decently. So now I don't bother. Over two sentences you get a reply, under that you get deleted. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely.
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time.
We dont have that problem. Im happy to be nice to all who bother messaging.
That just isn't true. I tried that approach when I was first on here and many men immediately shifted to abuse, nagging or, frequently, attempts to get a pity shag. It's nasty as well as time consuming.
For the first few months I'd occasionally respond to a crap one line message and very very few respond decently. So now I don't bother. Over two sentences you get a reply, under that you get deleted."
Its worked for us and indeed for me when i had a single females profile. No filters applied. Minimal people blocked. 12 years on here with very little abuse.
I guess its just the luck of the draw. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
PDI Gran Canaria |
"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely.
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time.
We dont have that problem. Im happy to be nice to all who bother messaging.
That just isn't true. I tried that approach when I was first on here and many men immediately shifted to abuse, nagging or, frequently, attempts to get a pity shag. It's nasty as well as time consuming.
For the first few months I'd occasionally respond to a crap one line message and very very few respond decently. So now I don't bother. Over two sentences you get a reply, under that you get deleted."
Wow, your even less tolerant than I am.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say the vast majority of single men on here are actually lovely. Even those with the "fancy a fuck" approach when replied to with manners and respect very quickly apologise and change their attitude and approach.
Simple: treat everyone how you expect to be treated. Reap what you sow. Rise above their rudeness.... its very difficult to remain rude and abrupt with somebody who treats you nicely.
Are you for real, when you get as many messages as I do. Why the hell should I be nice to a fool who makes no effort in reading my profile and sending stupid messages, life's too short for me to waste my time. "
Because you're not like them? |
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"It must be Friday
I'll just wander away quietly create another sonnet that will nevet be read finish this game of solo 3D chess and contemplate the philosophy of interpersonal relationships....
whilst wondering why single guys are lumped together as some amorphous blob who are all a blot on the landscape of fab...
"
And we are usually lumped together by people with often very few verifications and very little experience of real swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For the first few months I'd occasionally respond to a crap one line message and very very few respond decently. So now I don't bother. Over two sentences you get a reply, under that you get deleted.
Wow, your even less tolerant than I am. "
Well you don't strike me as a particularly intolerant person tbh, but yes, I guess I am. I'm worth two sentences or more. I think you are too.. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
PDI Gran Canaria |
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For the first few months I'd occasionally respond to a crap one line message and very very few respond decently. So now I don't bother. Over two sentences you get a reply, under that you get deleted.
Wow, your even less tolerant than I am.
Well you don't strike me as a particularly intolerant person tbh, but yes, I guess I am. I'm worth two sentences or more. I think you are too.. "
Thanks, your definitely worth at least that. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"It must be Friday
I'll just wander away quietly create another sonnet that will nevet be read finish this game of solo 3D chess and contemplate the philosophy of interpersonal relationships....
whilst wondering why single guys are lumped together as some amorphous blob who are all a blot on the landscape of fab...
And we are usually lumped together by people with often very few verifications and very little experience of real swinging "
Maybe, but not in this instance. |
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